Thebastard wrote: ↑Fri Jan 08, 2021 9:40 pm
When I was in Medellin, the guys I met there who were mass approaching got nothing. I was surprised but the flake culture lives up to its legendary reputation. Online dating is a far better ROI in Colombia for most guys.
Some of the sources I've been reading stated mass approach works. In my experience it doesn't really. I think the girls have to see you a couple times, develop a narrative about you, and then will let you know they're interested. That's a big reason why I signed up for gym membership days ago. We're under curfew because there's a national holiday tomorrow.
I'll still keep trying cold approach but developing warm conditions are better.
Oh and I ponied up and bought Tinder. I can only assume the girls are stuck at home on their phones and need dick. I've tried Tinder in the US and another international country and was probably 0/1000. Yes you saw that stat right my pictures sucked. That's not even including online dating which I'm slightly more successful in if you count #.
The great news is I matched up with 4 girls today. Yes, just by trying even though my pictures aren't that good, I got matches. 1 has a BF and is messaging me right now with stuff like what are you doing. She isn't hot but she's bangeable. I'm seriously proud of myself. It's a tiny victory but I'll take it.
I'm legit kind of scared because dudes down here get jealous for stealing their girls. I don't want to get stabbed or shot. The AirBnB I'm staying in the door's made of wood. Homeboy could kick it down and kill me. I might see if I can bang her near the days when my trip ends.
For future reference I might split time between Medellin and Bogota. Given my history I wasn't expecting to get results online. If all it takes is about 2 hours of swiping to get a girl with my current portfolio I could have banged her today or tomorrow. Then get out of Dodge.