To tell you the truth, i have similar negative assumptions about women in generalAdam wrote: ↑Sun May 16, 2021 4:31 pmSomething I've noticed: I tend to make negative assumptions about my interactions with women if they aren't super-friendly. When I talked to the woman who was engaged this week, she told me that "this is very sweet", but my automatic thought was "she's probably just being nice but is actually creeped out". There's nothing about the situation that justifies that assumption, but nonetheless that was my kneejerk response. Intellectually, I can accept that lots of women love being approached and get a little ego boost out of it, but deep down I find it hard to believe.
NOT because there's anything wrong with them; nah ..
yes maybe there are differences in sexual organs and psychology and how they choose their mates compared to how men choose theirs, but ..
they're just as much human as you and me and they're driven by the same mammalian urges ( sex , success etc ) as you and me
BUT the assumptions have their roots in the limiting beliefs we have within our brains, in my case .. as i am originally from a very conservative Muslim country in SEAsia , i fear they will just call other men to beat me up for approaching them and asking their number .. this is because i have had some very shitty expriences with girls back in my home country, but i need to realize that women are not all like that, they're not all the same AND they're much more open / playful than my conservative upbrining and social conditioning had previously led me to believe
see how deep that reasoning goes ?
in your case, it could be something else but the principle remains the same, the inner anxiety or some other challenge that is probably testing your inner game, is what's causing these assumptions
ofc, i am yet to approach women and yet to get desire sex from a woman through seducing her
but this is something i realized after analyzing game for some time
and believe me, for a long time, i have been an anxious and nervy guy around pretty girls
i'm just starting to take action on killing that anxiety and being bold and upfront with girls, even those who are total strangers !
summary : limiting beliefs, probably those that have deep roots inside your brain cause negative and unhealthy assumptions in gaming women, there are probably ways to get rid of them
just throwing my 2 cents here
have a nice day mate !