The IronWill Project: Year 3 of MAC DADDY: Realising My Greatness (Moving On: Off To The Sun?!)

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Crisis_Overcomer
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Tue Jun 08, 2021 9:37 pm

I like 540 and 557.

Pumped to see you take your dating life seriously.

You will also start cold approaching? Damn it, I think I need to move my hairless ass and join the fun.
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MakingAComeback
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 7:48 am

Thanks brothers!! @Crisis_Overcomer @MattsCrib

Weight loss is key for me, it is legit something I am massively driven towards, it's on my mind 24/7 and I am excited about the results that are starting to happen. Update Monday 14th.

Here are the pics from yesterday:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/ ... sp=sharing

Overall, I have some that are useable, and I am putting together a draft profile today which I will be getting feedback on. I have a concept for which pics I will be using now the guys on the group have given a bit of a steer and I've had thoughts from you dudes. So yeah, let's fucking go.

MAC
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 3:11 pm

MADE MY DATING PROFILES

Set up Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and OKCupid as per Andy's guide. Got Tinder Gold and have paid for Hinge.
The following pics were used, in the order below.
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 3:27 pm

Just looked through your google drive pics. Your photography is pretty good! I serious photograph is a good way of showing the girls you are taking yourself seriously, imagine how good they're gonna be when you hit your weight loss target.

My one bit of advice for now, is you want to choose pictures in which are clearly centered on you. Most apps use take profile orientated pictures, and you want the picture to emphasis how confident you are.
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 3:36 pm

Profile says:

Looking for a cool girl to chill with. 6 ft 5.
Guitar, travel, art, photography, and learning languages.
Firm, but fair.

@Sin Silver thanks bro. First time doing online dating in 7 years I had to get the guys from the forum and Andy to coach me back into fighting for the life I want. It'll come together.
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 7:03 pm

So I have only been on online dating for a few hours, and I have got a few matches, and girls are actually responding to my messages. I am following Andy's guides. This is a major win because when I did online dating 7 years ago, I went a whole year without any girls messaging me at all LMAO. So I am stoked to be honest, one girl even agreed to go for a drink with me but she hasn't sent her number yet. At any rate, I am actually making legit progress and I am so happy.

It's gonna be OK.

MAC
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 9:14 pm

MakingAComeback wrote:
Wed Jun 09, 2021 7:03 pm
So I have only been on online dating for a few hours, and I have got a few matches, and girls are actually responding to my messages. I am following Andy's guides. This is a major win because when I did online dating 7 years ago, I went a whole year without any girls messaging me at all LMAO. So I am stoked to be honest, one girl even agreed to go for a drink with me but she hasn't sent her number yet. At any rate, I am actually making legit progress and I am so happy.

It's gonna be OK.

MAC
Good luck bro. I deleted freaking Tinder yesterday and I hope you're more lucky with it than the rest of us.
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Thu Jun 10, 2021 1:45 am

Nice! Yeah it's pretty normal they say yes, then they don't respond at the number question. It's like a marketing funnel; the herd thins the closer they are to your desired state.

For me, nothing trumps cold approach, but this is one of the few necessities for now to get laid.
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Fri Jun 11, 2021 10:52 am

Thanks bros, I am getting some matches on Tinder, nothing too exciting, but it's progress. Girls ARE replying so that's positive.

Hinge, however, is going well. A good number of girls on Hinge are inviting me to start the chat with them every day and some are really pretty.

All in all, it's good work, and I am stoked to get to 200lbs and really explore what possibilities I can create in life.

So I am set to depart on Tuesday and I am excited. I will arrive, get in my airport transfer, check into my AirBNB, unpack, and then explore the area for a few hours. I will then jump on a coaching call with Andy and get some direct coaching from him, time to start the process.

MAC
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Fri Jun 11, 2021 10:57 am

MattsCrib wrote:
Thu Jun 10, 2021 11:45 pm
Hey!

I wanted to also ask you some questions about the escort thingy, if you don't mind (you really don't have to answer if it's confidencial). I've been planning for a year or so now, since I'm moving to the Netherlands in a few months as an exchange student singer/musician and tbf, not planning on having a romantic/sex life, I think the last ditch effort would be an escort :D At least get that once in my life.

- What is the approximate cost?
- Is it legal? What's the process?
- How do you "vet" them?
- Did it "fix"/change your mentality about women/intimacy/love?
Sup Matt.

Sure, ask me whatever. However, as this is a public forum, I can only give you information, this is not advice or instruction:

-I saw a high class escort, so it was a cost of around £500 or 585 euros per hour.
-It's legally a grey area where I live, but it's fully legal in many parts of Europe. Do your own research, but if you're worried, don't do it at all. We respect the law and are law abiding citizens.
-I called her, told her my situation, and listened to her. She was articulate, well-spoken, really had a soothing energy and wholesome vibe. She works in the arts and does some high class escorting here and there.

-Yep. She treated me amazingly well, made me feel really whole and valued, told me I was a great person who deserves the best, stuff like that. The experience was so healing. I have literally 0% of the issues I had before now and I am endlessly fascinated by women and want to meet them, spend time with them, and enjoy mutually beneficial enriching experiences together, sex, love, all that.

Note: I had worked very hard on my inner issues and have become a far better and more well-rounded person by the time I invested in exploring sex and connection. Others may not get the experience they are looking for. I'm not a coach, nor am I well placed to advise. I pay Andy for that.

MAC
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Fri Jun 11, 2021 6:52 pm

Online dating is super slow. I didn't expect much, just a few matches was success, so I am there. All fat chicks, which is fine, I am still attracted to them of course and would be stoked to date one, but it's not likely that I will get a date this weekend lol. I am travelling Monday onwards. I still did my best. There was a pretty girl or two in the mix, but those leads fizzled out fast. I understand they get a shit tonne of attention. That's fine. I will keep getting better. Hope I have better luck when travelling.

I did match with 1 or 2 normal weight girls but they unmatched when I messaged, lol.

Weight loss is gonna be critical, it's blood sport out here.

Will do a boost Saturday night.

Not sure how I will get these 8 days in by July 31st, gonna be hard ass work, will get some coaching on this.
MAC
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Fri Jun 11, 2021 8:12 pm

MakingAComeback wrote:
Fri Jun 11, 2021 6:52 pm
Not sure how I will get these 8 days in by July 31st, gonna be hard ass work, will get some coaching on this.
Since you'll be approaching, account for insta dates as well. If you're vibing with a girl, tell her "Hey, I was on my way to check XYZ store, wanna cum along?". If she has nothing to do, she'll love the suggestion.
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Fri Jun 11, 2021 8:38 pm

Crisis_Overcomer wrote:
Fri Jun 11, 2021 8:12 pm
MakingAComeback wrote:
Fri Jun 11, 2021 6:52 pm
Not sure how I will get these 8 days in by July 31st, gonna be hard ass work, will get some coaching on this.
Since you'll be approaching, account for insta dates as well. If you're vibing with a girl, tell her "Hey, I was on my way to check XYZ store, wanna cum along?". If she has nothing to do, she'll love the suggestion.
That's it, I will try this and give it my best shot. I am going for minimum 10 approaches a day :-)

MAC
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