Yeah it's a balancing act. I've tested both throughout my career and found that it's very context-dependent. Right now my heuristic is:
Younger girls: I tell them one or two options
Older girls: I ask them what their schedule is like
Yeah it's a balancing act. I've tested both throughout my career and found that it's very context-dependent. Right now my heuristic is:
Ever thought about starting your own company or going private? There's good money if you can get efficient at this kind of stuff and you've already got the experience to k ow what you'll need to set up in this area.
Good persistence. I think (hope) to acknowledge this but you got this lay in spite of your outburst, not because of this. It's good you created drama, but make sure not to go overboard and blow out the match.
Surely you were aware of the possibility of a flake and the position you're putting yourself in driving that long for a chick, apparently without question? If you're going to take risks like that, you need to physically and mentally prepare for the worst case scenario.
This is a dangerous message to send a girl, I hope she doesn't take this as a physical threat. You can get in deep shit if you send this to the wrong girl. You're lucky your last lash-out didn't end badly (you may have gotten laid IN SPITE OF it, not because of it).
[15/4, 9:42 p.m.] Momo: Heyy [15/4, 9:42 p.m.] Momo: Hello [16/4, 1:15 p.m.]