Is it really disrespect though? If I am getting the story right, it sounds like she wants to go sightseeing or hiking for a second date and he wants a lower effort date. I don’t think that’s disrespect. And she’s asking logistical questions and unwittingly stumbling into the lies he told, which is causing issues, but again not really her fault or even something she’s aware of. (not shaming the lying, but part of the cost is you have to keep you’re story straight. You accept that headache when you lie.)
I think @Thrice wants her to accept his proposition to do the same thing on the second date as the first and she wants to do tourist-y things unaware of some of the problems it is creating. I can see why that would be annoying, but not aggravating. Maybe @Thrice can clarify what is so aggravating about the situation? Is it a fear that she may use you as a tour guide and not do anything sexual with you? Or that even if she winds up having sex with you, you want her to follow your game plan and not try and do the tourist-y stuff with you? Or is it something else?