Ash's log - feeling lost

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Ashsrt
Posts: 55 | Thanks: 35
Joined: Fri May 07, 2021 4:09 pm
Name: Ash
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27
Motto: Do better
Location: NYC

Tue Aug 31, 2021 3:19 am

Alright it’s been a looong time since

Weight- 206. Tending in the right direction but not happy with the pace

All my physical goals are getting closer. I’ve also went apeshit at bjj/mma, I’m training around 8-10 hours a week on top of runs/weightlifting. I don’t know why, I have no Plans on being a fighter. I’ve even starting doing private lessons with ultra experienced guys just to progress faster.

Dating has been hit and miss. One week I had 4 dates, the next none. Went to a wedding in another state and got lucky on tinder in one day. Also it feels like out of every 10 girls I match with, 4 reply, and 2 actually end up going somewhere.

My sleeping is all fucked up, I work from home so I end up working whenever. I’ve cut too far back on work and have to get more hours in. I think I just hit sort a plateau mentally. I even ended up ruining one of my better contracts by not getting work done on time.

I really miss stability right now (not with dating - although that starts dragging too). I haven’t done any cold approach/day game in 4 weeks.

Honestly thinking about just buckling down at the gym for 3 months and just shut down all dating temporarily.

So that’s where I’m at, hopefully I can meet up with some other forum guys and get out of this state of mind.
Goal for 2024
Get down to 180lb. Started at 275, 240 currently
Get back out there and start socialising again.
1 single lay


Long term:
170lb with abs
250k net worth by 30
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jackBruh
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Joined: Tue Jun 23, 2020 9:21 am
Name: Jack
Goal: Slay demons
Age: 26

Tue Aug 31, 2021 9:56 am

Ashsrt wrote:
Tue Aug 31, 2021 3:19 am
Also it feels like out of every 10 girls I match with, 4 reply, and 2 actually end up going somewhere
That ratio is actually amazing bro, just smash out some more boosts and you'll be overwhelmed
Goals
- Get better photos (✔, formal, group)
- Get a tattoo (✔)
- Get back to the gym (aiming for 80kg 10%) (1/2/3/4 plates ✔/✔/✔/80%)
- Work on location independant income so I can move countries (said fuck it and moved countries before the income)
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Ashsrt
Posts: 55 | Thanks: 35
Joined: Fri May 07, 2021 4:09 pm
Name: Ash
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27
Motto: Do better
Location: NYC

Sat Sep 11, 2021 11:08 pm

Thanks man, I try and stick pretty close to Andy’s guide. It still sucks when you get ghosted out of nowhere.

Update for 9/11/21
The date has me reflecting a lot. I’m doing a lot better now and ready to get my head back in there. Still hitting the gym hard, still dieting. Knocking on being sub 200lbs. I really need to work on some new photos, I forgot how hard this is. I have the eos r, self photography is just hard , I’ve never been the creative type and can’t think of new ideas for photos.
Goal for 2024
Get down to 180lb. Started at 275, 240 currently
Get back out there and start socialising again.
1 single lay


Long term:
170lb with abs
250k net worth by 30
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Ashsrt
Posts: 55 | Thanks: 35
Joined: Fri May 07, 2021 4:09 pm
Name: Ash
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27
Motto: Do better
Location: NYC

Thu Sep 23, 2021 5:40 am

Life is going pretty well. I BROKE THE 200lb WALL! this morning weighed in at 199.4 haha. Feels great, I’m seeing more veins and cuts by the day.

I pretty much have three girls in a steady rotation, this is also new to me, it’s hard to keep up with everything but hell it’s fun. Still on all the apps. Hinge is really carrying the load right now. I get a good amount of likes and matched off of tinder, but I almost never get a reply off there. I’ve gotten laid twice from it, got ghosted by one girl the day after, and the other one went back to school in another state. Not sure what I’m doing wrong, or if it’s just too saturated.

Anyway, playing it by ear for now.
Goal for 2024
Get down to 180lb. Started at 275, 240 currently
Get back out there and start socialising again.
1 single lay


Long term:
170lb with abs
250k net worth by 30
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Ashsrt
Posts: 55 | Thanks: 35
Joined: Fri May 07, 2021 4:09 pm
Name: Ash
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27
Motto: Do better
Location: NYC

Sat Oct 30, 2021 4:29 pm

as of lately I feel like shit. my weights back up to 206, but I'm not natty and holding a ton of water right now. I think I'm having tinder burnout, its almost annoying to have to reply to girls now. I also feel like my social circle is moving away from me, I haven't been out with friends in weeks and my solution to this was train even harder. I'm up to 12 hours a week of hard mma training, which is a great mental distraction from my problems. part of me wants to say fuck it and go make a new circle. I'm worried about going down the path of the lonesome bodybuilder chris talks about on gll. after I write this I'm going for a run then hanging with some family to watch a fight.

Currently reading Tribe by Sebastion Junger and rereading 12 rules for life. For the first time in a while I feel genuinely lost.
Goal for 2024
Get down to 180lb. Started at 275, 240 currently
Get back out there and start socialising again.
1 single lay


Long term:
170lb with abs
250k net worth by 30
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