Lex' AA log
- lexluther_999
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- Name: Lexi
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Day 11
I continued straight onto driils of day 11.
asking for cell phones.
I approached in total 9 women in order to complete one cycle. The challenge was really a bit harder this time as you really expereince her realizing that you are trying to flirt with her....
Most of them would smile in a slightly ahamed way I guess.( or horny) Anyway getting more and more used to overcoming the rejections respectively not seeing them as a threat anymore.
Even though i wish had done the challneges as well of doing it five times it was honestly getting a bit too late an most stores are closed.
Yes I know it doesnt but i still dont feel comfy enough to make myself a fool. But i should get used to it.
I continued straight onto driils of day 11.
asking for cell phones.
I approached in total 9 women in order to complete one cycle. The challenge was really a bit harder this time as you really expereince her realizing that you are trying to flirt with her....
Most of them would smile in a slightly ahamed way I guess.( or horny) Anyway getting more and more used to overcoming the rejections respectively not seeing them as a threat anymore.
Even though i wish had done the challneges as well of doing it five times it was honestly getting a bit too late an most stores are closed.
Yes I know it doesnt but i still dont feel comfy enough to make myself a fool. But i should get used to it.
- lexluther_999
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Please message me in case you feel a concern for not doing systematically the challenges.
- Toast
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Do every challenge. They are there for a reason. Not everyone can complete all the challenges, but they do push your progress even farther.
Highly advocate for doing them
Highly advocate for doing them
- Manganiello
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lexluther_999 wrote: ↑Tue Jun 22, 2021 6:13 pmDo every challenge. They are there for a reason. Not everyone can complete all the challenges, but they do push your progress even farther.
Highly advocate for doing them
AGREE.
The challenges are extra growth points.
Honestly the days that felt the most gratifying were the ones where I did the challenge.
- lexluther_999
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Day 12 (failed)
Didn't manage to complete the challenge.
Today I was really not feeling in the mood.
At least I wanted to be honest.
I k ow that's not an excuse.
I approached 4 girls and 3 of them got really scarred because it was midnight.
In conclusion I did not complete the task of asking for a candle store while saying that I am a sweet guy...
Didn't manage to complete the challenge.
Today I was really not feeling in the mood.
At least I wanted to be honest.
I k ow that's not an excuse.
I approached 4 girls and 3 of them got really scarred because it was midnight.
In conclusion I did not complete the task of asking for a candle store while saying that I am a sweet guy...
- lexluther_999
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I misused the word.
I mean basic drills.
Did only the 3 of four drills.
I mean basic drills.
Did only the 3 of four drills.
- lexluther_999
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I Assumed that the thing written in red represented a challenge. Or was it a necessaary repetition of sets?
- lexluther_999
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Since I stopped doing it after day 9.
- lexluther_999
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Ok I see that the red text indicates the bare minimum number of sets.
- lexluther_999
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Repeated day 9 and 10 doing the drills 5 times each. It was really somehow disturbing at some points.
Way more confontation involved.
I approached for day 10 at the end 2 women outside the mentioned age range. That is in their fifties. But i will count it. Overall Tthe confidence gained that they was considerable.
Way more confontation involved.
I approached for day 10 at the end 2 women outside the mentioned age range. That is in their fifties. But i will count it. Overall Tthe confidence gained that they was considerable.
- lexluther_999
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Finished off day 11 and day 12.
I woke up initially totally not in the mood to do the tasks and then started out approaching a few,
Experimenting a bit.
After some time I got my day 11 sets closed.
In less than an hour.
That is 5 sets. I barely had to repeat as I approached them not in the order.
That is I would ask the worst question right at the start and then it was easier for the rest.
Right after I thought I would stop for that day, but then I decided to try it out and completed the day doing for sets of day 12.
It was weirder than the other questions retrospectively because saying I am the sweetest guy ever made no sense at points but I did it anyway.
I woke up initially totally not in the mood to do the tasks and then started out approaching a few,
Experimenting a bit.
After some time I got my day 11 sets closed.
In less than an hour.
That is 5 sets. I barely had to repeat as I approached them not in the order.
That is I would ask the worst question right at the start and then it was easier for the rest.
Right after I thought I would stop for that day, but then I decided to try it out and completed the day doing for sets of day 12.
It was weirder than the other questions retrospectively because saying I am the sweetest guy ever made no sense at points but I did it anyway.
- lexluther_999
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Since the previous tasks have been done using all the sets and repeating them multiple times I am back in track.
- Toast
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Even if it doesn't make sense still do it. just follow the program as intended.lexluther_999 wrote: ↑Tue Jun 29, 2021 2:41 pmIt was weirder than the other questions retrospectively because saying I am the sweetest guy ever made no sense at points but I did it anyway.
Good job so far
- lexluther_999
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Day 13.
At first i wanted to take a break today to focus on my tinder date.Sincece I moved for this week away to the beach I wanted to focus more on my work and the AA prgramm.
IN short I completed the day without any major challenge. I first said lets do one task and by the end I was commited to completing the entire day at least. I am starting to care less and less what people think about me. I also developed a stronger frame over the course of time as I am more present and less shy when asking these questions. I dont feel weird about the wuestions and so the girls dont feel weird about them.
The AA seems to help beyond basic approach anxiety. It really allows you to experiment with social awkwardness and quickly changes your previously assumed concepts.
At first i wanted to take a break today to focus on my tinder date.Sincece I moved for this week away to the beach I wanted to focus more on my work and the AA prgramm.
IN short I completed the day without any major challenge. I first said lets do one task and by the end I was commited to completing the entire day at least. I am starting to care less and less what people think about me. I also developed a stronger frame over the course of time as I am more present and less shy when asking these questions. I dont feel weird about the wuestions and so the girls dont feel weird about them.
The AA seems to help beyond basic approach anxiety. It really allows you to experiment with social awkwardness and quickly changes your previously assumed concepts.