TimmyTurner - AA Log
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- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Thought it would be easier to split out my general log (where it's basically a dumping ground of all my thoughts/feelings etc.) from my current number 1 goal log (creating a new log as each goal is completed).
My current goal is to fucking finally complete the AA program & I can't have another "number 1" goal (as in to say, my main priority) until that's completed (hope that makes sense/doesn't put unnecessary pressure on me).
I plan to post in here daily (even if it's just to say I haven't done anything) whereas in my other log I post as & when I feel like it.
Anyways, yesterday (22/06/2020) was Day 1. Listened to the audio & walked around for about 45 mins to an hour. I've noticed I'm starting to struggle to hold eye-contact when walking past people which had improved in the past. I'm fine with shop attendants so I'm not 100% sure as to the reasoning.
I'm about to listen to Day 2 and I've already been outside for about 45 mins today. Moving on to day 3 (online dating) tomorrow.
My current goal is to fucking finally complete the AA program & I can't have another "number 1" goal (as in to say, my main priority) until that's completed (hope that makes sense/doesn't put unnecessary pressure on me).
I plan to post in here daily (even if it's just to say I haven't done anything) whereas in my other log I post as & when I feel like it.
Anyways, yesterday (22/06/2020) was Day 1. Listened to the audio & walked around for about 45 mins to an hour. I've noticed I'm starting to struggle to hold eye-contact when walking past people which had improved in the past. I'm fine with shop attendants so I'm not 100% sure as to the reasoning.
I'm about to listen to Day 2 and I've already been outside for about 45 mins today. Moving on to day 3 (online dating) tomorrow.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Day 3 started. I've listened to the audio from GLL. After work, I'll dive into Andys tinder guide and recreate my profiles. Stepping out now for a 30 min walk.
Edit 1: I've read stage 1 of the tinder guide (will write a couple of notes below). I still have a lot of work to do in relation to what was said in stage 1 but I'm moving on to stage 2 & 3 just to fulfil the message some girls part of day 3. I've either posted or linked all photos I have of myself on my phone in here so any feedback is much appreciated.
Stage 1 notes:
Lose Fat/Gain Muscle - Feel like I've overestimated the number of calories I need to actually put on weight so maybe that's why I'm feeling like I'm getting fat. It was near 3000 calories a day. MyFitnessPal estimates about 2690 so we'll see how that goes for about 2 weeks and reevaluate.
Fashion Style - I'm very much into street style but only really ever wear what would be considered fashionable when I'm going out with friends. Day-to-day I usually just wear comfy clothes like a Nike tracksuit (don't judge me, I'm from London). This week I've tried to start wearing better clothes when I go out. Here's some pics just to show the outfit. Instagram Inspiration - Don't even use my Instagram lol. Going to start looking for some fashion inspiration as well as just using it more in general. I always hear about people sliding in DMs but I thought they were all just capping.
Accessories - I've got earrings (need more), a few necklaces, one rotary watch (bought it a while but rarely wear), two bracelets & a couple of rings. Hair/Facial Hair - I've posted an upper-body pic in my general log (link) where you can see my current facial hair without me brushing/combing it. Definitely isn't a full beard & I don't shave at all so I'm contemplating whether I should go clean-shaven. Right now I have my dreadlocks out and down. I can tie it up in different styles but usually, I have it braided akin to this (c-19 shut down my hairdressers).
Teeth Whitening - Got some whitening strips at home but haven't used them in a while. Not sure as to the efficacy but I can't really tell as my teeth are badly stained after years of coffee/tea and poor oral hygiene. I've also been wearing some aligners to try and straighten my teeth a bit more as the front two were misaligned after years of sucking my thumb as a kid.
Tattoos & Piercings - Currently have two piercing on both ears (so 4 in total) need to go out and buy some new earring though as I usually just use the same 4 day-in-day-out. I currently have 5 tattoos, all on my forearms but cause I'm blessed with dark chocolate skin there not that visible. Photos - In the next post I have all the photos I have of myself on my phone. I never take/actively avoid taking photos but as of this week, I've started taking one photo a day initially starting with a picture in front of the mirror or without posing or anything just to get comfortable being in front of a camera. Next steps once I feel a little more comfortable will be to start posing.
I've also saved the self-improvement picture to my desktop and my phone so I can refer back to it often.
Edit 1: I've read stage 1 of the tinder guide (will write a couple of notes below). I still have a lot of work to do in relation to what was said in stage 1 but I'm moving on to stage 2 & 3 just to fulfil the message some girls part of day 3. I've either posted or linked all photos I have of myself on my phone in here so any feedback is much appreciated.
Stage 1 notes:
Lose Fat/Gain Muscle - Feel like I've overestimated the number of calories I need to actually put on weight so maybe that's why I'm feeling like I'm getting fat. It was near 3000 calories a day. MyFitnessPal estimates about 2690 so we'll see how that goes for about 2 weeks and reevaluate.
Fashion Style - I'm very much into street style but only really ever wear what would be considered fashionable when I'm going out with friends. Day-to-day I usually just wear comfy clothes like a Nike tracksuit (don't judge me, I'm from London). This week I've tried to start wearing better clothes when I go out. Here's some pics just to show the outfit. Instagram Inspiration - Don't even use my Instagram lol. Going to start looking for some fashion inspiration as well as just using it more in general. I always hear about people sliding in DMs but I thought they were all just capping.
Accessories - I've got earrings (need more), a few necklaces, one rotary watch (bought it a while but rarely wear), two bracelets & a couple of rings. Hair/Facial Hair - I've posted an upper-body pic in my general log (link) where you can see my current facial hair without me brushing/combing it. Definitely isn't a full beard & I don't shave at all so I'm contemplating whether I should go clean-shaven. Right now I have my dreadlocks out and down. I can tie it up in different styles but usually, I have it braided akin to this (c-19 shut down my hairdressers).
Teeth Whitening - Got some whitening strips at home but haven't used them in a while. Not sure as to the efficacy but I can't really tell as my teeth are badly stained after years of coffee/tea and poor oral hygiene. I've also been wearing some aligners to try and straighten my teeth a bit more as the front two were misaligned after years of sucking my thumb as a kid.
Tattoos & Piercings - Currently have two piercing on both ears (so 4 in total) need to go out and buy some new earring though as I usually just use the same 4 day-in-day-out. I currently have 5 tattoos, all on my forearms but cause I'm blessed with dark chocolate skin there not that visible. Photos - In the next post I have all the photos I have of myself on my phone. I never take/actively avoid taking photos but as of this week, I've started taking one photo a day initially starting with a picture in front of the mirror or without posing or anything just to get comfortable being in front of a camera. Next steps once I feel a little more comfortable will be to start posing.
I've also saved the self-improvement picture to my desktop and my phone so I can refer back to it often.
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365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
@KillYourInnerLoser I don’t know how to rotate pics but ya’ll can use your imaginations. Also, I get a picture comment underneath (don’t know if that’s because they’re attachments).
Here’s all the pics I can find currently on my phone:
Here’s all the pics I can find currently on my phone:
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365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Haven't moved on to day 4 yet as I hadn't completed day 3 (was too tired to read part 2 of the guide day).
I've read it now, created my profiles on Tinder, Hinger, Bumble, OkCupid & Happn.
Onto day 4 tomorrow.
Oh & outfit of the day:
I've read it now, created my profiles on Tinder, Hinger, Bumble, OkCupid & Happn.
Onto day 4 tomorrow.
Oh & outfit of the day:
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2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Currently still on day 4. I’ve been making a ton of excuses while outside (e.g. no-one is going to stop and talk with all the social distancing, she looks busy, she’s got a resting bitch face etc.). Defo not giving up but need to put more effort into fighting against the excuses.
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2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Joined: Sun Jun 28, 2020 6:29 pm
- Name: Anon
- Goal: Fuck bitches. Get money
- Age: 26
@KillYourInnerLoser I can't see the pictures that people have uploaded. Is this by design?
Seeing the following message : "You do not have the required permissions to view the files attached to this post."
Seeing the following message : "You do not have the required permissions to view the files attached to this post."
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Day 4 - 3 women asked for the time in 30 minutes before the heavens opened and I had to go home (it was forecasted to only be light and only 20% chance lol). I listened to Andy's (KYIL) old day 2 video on GLL about giving yourself permission to interrupt and stop making excuses as to why you can't do it which helped. Looking to finish up and move on tomorrow.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Day 4 done. Moving on to day 5.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Don’t know whether to say I’m struggling with day 5 or to accept what I’ve been able to do.
Technically I completed the task of asking 5 then asking another 5 faster last week (split it out into two days), but, I have it in my head that it needs to be done in one day and I want to try get it all done in under an hour.
I feel like the added pressure has caused a decline in performance instead of pushing me to work harder as it’s taking me longer than usual to get started talking to the first girl.
Technically I completed the task of asking 5 then asking another 5 faster last week (split it out into two days), but, I have it in my head that it needs to be done in one day and I want to try get it all done in under an hour.
I feel like the added pressure has caused a decline in performance instead of pushing me to work harder as it’s taking me longer than usual to get started talking to the first girl.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Either this shot has gotten harder or I’m regressing. I can get up to and past 5 but doing all 10 in a day is still a struggle.
Back at it again tomorrow taking that 0.01% step forward until I’m done. Going to update the goal once I’ve finished “the slight edge” and Andy’s companion article.
Back at it again tomorrow taking that 0.01% step forward until I’m done. Going to update the goal once I’ve finished “the slight edge” and Andy’s companion article.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKK MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.
Day 5 is finally done to my satisfaction. Got my hair did and it has done a world of good to my confidence after I stepped out. Was doubting myself this whole week about whether I'm made for this shit and maybe I should just quit.
Onto day 6.
Day 5 is finally done to my satisfaction. Got my hair did and it has done a world of good to my confidence after I stepped out. Was doubting myself this whole week about whether I'm made for this shit and maybe I should just quit.
Onto day 6.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Started day 6. Still on the first set but got the time & the time + directions sorted. Took me an age to start as I was wandering around as if I was out on a stroll. Need to focus up more and execute from the beginning. On track currently to meet the goal of completing week 1 by Sunday.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Today was a flop. I've got excuses in my head but I'm not even going to pay them any mind. One positive is that I still managed to get myself outside with the intention of trying. Kind of pumped for tomorrow as I know I'll need to go in hard if I want to stay on track for this weeks goal.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
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- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Asking for the time & directions is fine but I feel weird with the have you been there. It doesn’t feel natural (I know it doesn’t have to) but I keep bailing.
I’ve got ~3 hours today for drills so I hope to come back this evening with some good news.
I’ve got ~3 hours today for drills so I hope to come back this evening with some good news.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)
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- Posts: 221 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:01 pm
- Name: Timmy
- Goal: Lay Pipe & Make Mulla
- Age: 29
Work's been murder so I've hardly put in any time.
I've changed my minimum daily action from just getting outside to asking for the time which I've been keeping up. Today I was lacking motivation and just wanted to chill but I managed to get myself out and asked for the time to about 8 different girls. Now, just need to stay in the execution mindset and say the rest of the lines and day 6 is done.
I've changed my minimum daily action from just getting outside to asking for the time which I've been keeping up. Today I was lacking motivation and just wanted to chill but I managed to get myself out and asked for the time to about 8 different girls. Now, just need to stay in the execution mindset and say the rest of the lines and day 6 is done.
365 Project
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
Financial/Work
Fitness/Looks
- 1 post a day to my log: 0/365
2022 Goals
Dating/Social
- AA program (31st December)
- 10 lays w/ all new girls (31st December) (5/10)
Financial/Work
- Earn £500 p/m outside 9-5 (31st March)
- Earn £500 p/m online (31st December)
Fitness/Looks
- Bulk to 76kg w/ 2 mini-cuts (31st December)
- 2 new tattoos (31st December)
- Build a minimalist, fuck boy wardrobe (31st December)