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Svadhishthana
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Joined: Mon May 31, 2021 5:28 pm
Goal: Be Free
Age: 30
Motto: Climb that goddamned mountain

Fri Nov 05, 2021 10:47 pm

Yesterday was *not* good for my goals. But oh well. It was my birthday. I'm now officially thirty, and my life is over. It was a good run, boys, but it looks like I'm never getting laid again.

A bunch of friends came over, and I got absolutely trashed and ate way too much. Still recovering from the hangover today, at 5pm.

Went on a coffee date this morning. Really annoying, because I spent a ton of time scheduling and rescheduling this date, and then she shows up and I'm totally unattracted to her. Plus I was super hungover, and she was kinda dumb and annoying. Oh well, just another rep. Day didn't get much better after that - trash diet to deal with the hangover, and just a lot of laying around not doing anything.

Now, pulling myself up to pack for the weekend. Then driving to Utah. Will be back Monday.

* Wake up on time
* Meditate
* Prep for day
* PT
* Crack machine
* Practice bondage
* Work out, if scheduled
* Eat prepped food, unless scheduled otherwise (eg, party)
X Don't drink, unless scheduled
X Go to sleep on time

Current goals summary:
1b) clean up finances and paperwork to be good to go to meet w/ my lender
1c) look into solar
1d) learn everything possible about STRs and explore options in my area
2) Send Rock Lobster
3) find at least one girl who wants to stick around.
4) fix bike or get it fixed.

Current calendar:
11/5 - leave for the creek. No drinking until I send or fail to send. Once I send, probably drink to excess.
11/8 - nose to the grindstone.
Previous goals:
- Retire in early 2022 with combo index funds / real estate. (Complete, late)
- Get fit (hotter, more athletic, more injury-resistant). (Ill defined, but improved)
- Get laid at least one more time before 30th birthday (Complete).
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Crisis_Overcomer
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Age: 33
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Sat Nov 06, 2021 7:19 pm

Svadhishthana wrote:
Fri Nov 05, 2021 10:47 pm
Yesterday was *not* good for my goals. But oh well. It was my birthday. I'm now officially thirty, and my life is over. It was a good run, boys, but it looks like I'm never getting laid again.
Can confirm. I'll be 33 tomorrow and haven't gotten laid in 2 years and 364 days.

Happy birthday man.
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Sat Nov 06, 2021 7:39 pm

HAPPY BIRTHDAY YOU SEXY STUD MUFFINS

MAC LOVES YA

@Svadhishthana @Crisis_Overcomer

ONWARDS TO VICTORY
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Dewm
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Name: Brady
Goal: Love Myself
Age: 35
Motto: Fuck Bitches Get Money
Location: New York, NY

Sun Nov 07, 2021 6:12 am

Svadhishthana wrote:
Thu Oct 28, 2021 5:39 pm
Also got back on reddit, which I know I have an addiction to
dude i feel yah, reddit is just a porn rabbit hole for me at this point. Sometimes I get dates out of r4r subreddits but it's the same i would get on tinder. Does feel classy though almost like an old school personal ad.
Svadhishthana wrote:
Tue Nov 02, 2021 3:51 am
no one gives head like a chubby girl.
10,000% agree I think it's cause they're so hungry so they love to eat cock!

Also welcome to your dirty 30's you stud.
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Love Myself
  • Finish my screenplay and make that movie.
  • Produce a comedy show that makes me money
  • Lose weight and gain muscle
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Svadhishthana
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Goal: Be Free
Age: 30
Motto: Climb that goddamned mountain

Tue Nov 09, 2021 3:37 am

Good weekend in the desert. Got spanked, didn't send. Didn't even try, since I got thrashed on the warm ups. My technique and strength were alright from work on my home crack machine, but I was lacking the endurance necessary to move for 80 feet and place gear. Also was lacking the finesse required by the ballbearing sandstone of Utah. Oh well - it was a good time with friends. Away from the world and out of cell range, with campfires and clear skies and fear sweat and no running water.

Unfortunately, got back late last night. That was the start of my bad day today. I was hungover Friday, so didn't squeak my workout in, so I made it up this morning. Then work was on fire - no one knows what's going on, but everyone wants results. Had a meeting with my lender - he said my situation looks great, I just need to get him the paperwork, I should pull the trigger on solar, and I could actually start offering asap. On one hand, this is good - the sooner I can start offering, the more opportunity I have. On the other hand, it throws off my schedule and introduces more uncertainty in my life - should I offer sooner knowing less, or learn more first and offer later? It's a big decision that shouldn't be taken lightly, but it is also time-sensitive.

Then, just as the work day was coming to a close, I get pinged by IT. I need to run windows updates, and get it done today for some kind of audit. But windows is getting some bullshit error when it tries to update, so I spend an hour and a half troubleshooting. Fucking hell.

Throughout the day, I'm swiping and messaging on tinder and hinge, plus with the Asian girl from before, trying to set up dates. Dunno why I'm doing this. Actually, no, I do know - I'm bored and stressed and killing time and looking for validation. But unless I can emotionally detach from it, all it does is add more stress to my life - I'm matching and messaging with some stupidly hot girls. No idea why. But I'm getting numbers, trying to set up dates, and they go dark. Fair enough, I guess - they're under no obligation to continue interacting with me if they don't want to. But it leaves me on fucking edge... Plus I had to reschedule a date because a roommate is moving in on Tuesday.

And my elbows are a bit tweaky from all the pulling I've been doing lately.

And I ate a bunch of cupcakes today.

Any other sins I'm forgetting....? I'm sure I'll think of them later.

Right now, taking a break from the workout I was meant to do today. Then sleep. I can't wait to go to sleep. Then tomorrow, get back to surfing the chaos.

Current goals summary:
1b) clean up finances and paperwork to be good to go to meet w/ my lender (in progress)
1c) look into solar (in progress)
1d) learn everything possible about STRs and explore options in my area
3) find at least one girl who wants to stick around.
4) fix bike or get it fixed.
Previous goals:
- Retire in early 2022 with combo index funds / real estate. (Complete, late)
- Get fit (hotter, more athletic, more injury-resistant). (Ill defined, but improved)
- Get laid at least one more time before 30th birthday (Complete).
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Svadhishthana
Posts: 321 | Thanks: 280
Joined: Mon May 31, 2021 5:28 pm
Goal: Be Free
Age: 30
Motto: Climb that goddamned mountain

Wed Nov 10, 2021 1:44 pm

Yesterday, I was tired, didn't sleep well. But got most of my paperwork together, made some progress at work, ran some errands, and moved a new roommate in. Catching up on this treadmill called life.

Today I expect I'll finish getting paperwork together, and then I'm gonna start reading the books I have on STRs.

* Wake up on time
* Meditate
* Prep for day
* PT
X Practice bondage
* Work out, if scheduled
* Eat prepped food, unless scheduled otherwise
* Go to sleep on time

Current goals summary:
1b) submit existing leases to my lender (in progress)
1c) look into solar (in progress)
1d) learn everything possible about STRs and explore options in my area
3) find at least one girl who wants to stick around.
4) fix bike or get it fixed.
Previous goals:
- Retire in early 2022 with combo index funds / real estate. (Complete, late)
- Get fit (hotter, more athletic, more injury-resistant). (Ill defined, but improved)
- Get laid at least one more time before 30th birthday (Complete).
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Goal: Rotation
Age: 28

Wed Nov 10, 2021 2:23 pm

How close are you to retiring, if you don't mind me asking? (Referring to the goal in your signature)
Laycount: 100

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Primary goal:
- Rotation of three girls (DONE)
- Regular threesomes (DONE)
- A foursome
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Svadhishthana
Posts: 321 | Thanks: 280
Joined: Mon May 31, 2021 5:28 pm
Goal: Be Free
Age: 30
Motto: Climb that goddamned mountain

Wed Nov 10, 2021 3:47 pm

Pretty close. I have a good amount of money in index funds. Then my current place will bring in about 2k/mo gross after I move out. Hoping an AirBNB will gross about 3 or 4k /mo. That doesn't account for expenses to run the places, but it's enough of a buffer that after some figuring-things-out, I should be able to fully automate and still skim enough off the top for a subsistence income. Plan is to live purely off of RE income, and just let passive investments compound in the meantime.

The other side of the equation is that I can live pretty cheap. Probably 1k or 500/mo if I'm really hurting. Not hard if I just park my van out in the desert or skip off to SE Asia. And if I want more money - say, I want to go to the Himalaya or try my luck banging girls on NYC - then I can always pick up something part time and more or less enjoyable, with the option to quit whenever I feel like it.

Right now the big obstacles are buying a second house - which will be the big lift this winter - and getting everything squared away at my current place. Once I buy the house and feel confident I can list it, I'm putting in my 2 weeks at my 9-5. Anticipating that will happen sometime in Jan/Feb.

Some guys on here might scoff at this level of passive income. Maybe saying living on less than 10k/mo is just scratching by and would be miserable, or that I'm "not really retired" if I might pick up some work occasionally. But whatever. The point is that I'll be financially free - if I work, it'll be because I choose to, doing something I actually give a shit about. And personally, knowing I don't have to answer to anyone on a Monday morning is worth more that having a private jet. Plus, every FI guru has noted it's stupid easy to make money when you don't need it. Once you dgaf about the actual job part of the job, employers are excited to hire you, and opportunities just land in your lap because you spend all your time meeting people and doing things you enjoy.
Previous goals:
- Retire in early 2022 with combo index funds / real estate. (Complete, late)
- Get fit (hotter, more athletic, more injury-resistant). (Ill defined, but improved)
- Get laid at least one more time before 30th birthday (Complete).
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Holden
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Goal: Rotation
Age: 28

Wed Nov 10, 2021 4:03 pm

Awesome man. I completely empathize with living on little. I want to lock in a nice place and have some time/funds left over for travel, and that's about it for me. Anything more would just be a bonus. It's the freedom I'm after.
Laycount: 100

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Primary goal:
- Rotation of three girls (DONE)
- Regular threesomes (DONE)
- A foursome
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Svadhishthana
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Joined: Mon May 31, 2021 5:28 pm
Goal: Be Free
Age: 30
Motto: Climb that goddamned mountain

Wed Nov 10, 2021 4:54 pm

Yep. I don't wanna be rich. I just wanna be free.
Previous goals:
- Retire in early 2022 with combo index funds / real estate. (Complete, late)
- Get fit (hotter, more athletic, more injury-resistant). (Ill defined, but improved)
- Get laid at least one more time before 30th birthday (Complete).
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Svadhishthana
Posts: 321 | Thanks: 280
Joined: Mon May 31, 2021 5:28 pm
Goal: Be Free
Age: 30
Motto: Climb that goddamned mountain

Thu Nov 11, 2021 2:31 am

Was just messaging with a match on Tinder. She said gen Z skips dates, and just facetime and then hooks up. Anyone here hear about this? Is it common? I guess I could give it a shot if it's the standard, but I hate video calls with a passion...
Previous goals:
- Retire in early 2022 with combo index funds / real estate. (Complete, late)
- Get fit (hotter, more athletic, more injury-resistant). (Ill defined, but improved)
- Get laid at least one more time before 30th birthday (Complete).
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Age: 33
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Thu Nov 11, 2021 7:10 am

Svadhishthana wrote:
Thu Nov 11, 2021 2:31 am
Was just messaging with a match on Tinder. She said gen Z skips dates, and just facetime and then hooks up. Anyone here hear about this? Is it common? I guess I could give it a shot if it's the standard, but I hate video calls with a passion...
Sounds like something a catfish would say.

Let's suppose it is common (it's not). Why do something you hate? Plus she's 99.99% likely to either ghost or find an excuse to not meet after the call.
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Svadhishthana
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Thu Nov 11, 2021 2:33 pm

Crisis_Overcomer wrote:
Thu Nov 11, 2021 7:10 am
Sounds like something a catfish would say.
That's the impression I got. Maybe it was a thing briefly during covid, but then everyone realized they loath video chats. Just a sanity check for me, since I've heard of this phenomenon from literally no one, but <insert out of touch meme>.

And yeah, probably a catfish. I realized she had no body shots and was about to pull Andy's move of asking for a pic before we meet to validate she's hot, because I honestly don't have the time or mental energy to get catfished right now, lol.

Log update:

Yesterday was trash. Super tired all day. Overate. Went grocery shopping, but caved in the dumbest way and bought a frozen pizza for dinner. It was cheap garbage, made my stomach feel trashy, didn't taste that good, and burned the roof of my mouth. Hopefully writing that down will remind me next time that it's a stupid idea.

Got almost all my documents ready for my lender - need to re-ping a couple tenants to get some paperwork from them. Started reading a book on STRs - need to ping my friend's aunt who does it already to see if she has any good advice. Still dragging my feet on solar stuff - will ping them back again today. Forced myself to make a few small steps on fixing my bikes carb. Need to meal prep today. Then a friend has invited me out to hang tonight - will go since I haven't seen him in forever, and apparently he's been recovering from a fractured scull after he endoed on his MTB.

Missed waking up on time today, which is bad, but I'm feeling much more rested. Strange how all my goals seem much more reasonable and achievable now.......

Yesterday:
* Wake up on time
* Meditate
* Prep for day
* PT
* Practice bondage
* Work out, if scheduled
X Eat prepped food, unless scheduled
* No drinking, unless scheduled
X Go to sleep on time

Current goals summary:
1b) submit existing leases to my lender (in progress)
1c) look into solar (in progress)
1d) learn everything possible about STRs and explore options in my area (in progress)
3) find at least one girl who wants to stick around.
4) fix bike or get it fixed.
Previous goals:
- Retire in early 2022 with combo index funds / real estate. (Complete, late)
- Get fit (hotter, more athletic, more injury-resistant). (Ill defined, but improved)
- Get laid at least one more time before 30th birthday (Complete).
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Svadhishthana
Posts: 321 | Thanks: 280
Joined: Mon May 31, 2021 5:28 pm
Goal: Be Free
Age: 30
Motto: Climb that goddamned mountain

Fri Nov 12, 2021 3:25 pm

Yesterday was much better because of sleep.

Today, goal is to meal prep, meet with my lender again to get pre-approved, and finish the first book I have on STRs. Then, Asian girl is coming over tonight.


Yesterday:
X Wake up on time
* Meditate
* Prep for day
* PT
* Practice bondage
* Work out, if scheduled
* Eat prepped food, unless scheduled
* No drinking, unless scheduled
X Go to sleep on time

Current goals summary:
1b) submit existing leases to my lender (in progress)
1c) look into solar (in progress)
1d) learn everything possible about STRs and explore options in my area (in progress)
3) find at least one girl who wants to stick around.
4) fix bike or get it fixed.
Previous goals:
- Retire in early 2022 with combo index funds / real estate. (Complete, late)
- Get fit (hotter, more athletic, more injury-resistant). (Ill defined, but improved)
- Get laid at least one more time before 30th birthday (Complete).
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Vega
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Name: Alex
Goal: Build 2nd Income Stream
Age: 31
Location: TX

Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:53 pm

Svadhishthana wrote:
Thu Nov 11, 2021 2:31 am
Was just messaging with a match on Tinder. She said gen Z skips dates, and just facetime and then hooks up. Anyone here hear about this? Is it common? I guess I could give it a shot if it's the standard, but I hate video calls with a passion...
Yeah I did this during lockdown last year: get them on Facetime for 30 minutes to an hour, chat and vibe with each other while you have a glass of wine or whatever then ask if they want to come over or if not some other time for drinks at yours.

I stopped once bars opened again because I like going out for nice cocktails but I don't see why it wouldn't work now.
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