Haha sounds good man, positive learnings for ya.
I've had them decline pulls 3x, but agree to go on a post date walk, then I've built more connection, got more investment, opened up more and pitched again.
The gal I saw the day I left Budapest, rejected all pull attempts, but then at the end, when I told her I'm a content creator and we can go back to my studio, she lit up and agreed
Inside she made out more, and then insisted she had to go see a friend. I convinced her to come back to mine after seeing her friend, she agreed, but then changed her mind lul.
Point being, a guy who gets lots of pussy and gets laid, really isn't sweating these hoes, and you can kinda take it or leave it. Atleast that's the energy you want to give them. You can find new and alternative calibrated ways to pitch and keep grinding until the bitter end.
so let's finally put the nail in the coffin about how "brown guys have it bad". yeah maybe we don't have "autosex" and the JBW game on hand/chicks purely liking us for our looks, but that's really not an achilles' heel. and we can realistically make up for it. i think every time a brown dude (including myself) struggles hard, it's more like we have some really shitty inner world beliefs and perhaps even just a shitty lifestyle where we have nothing to be proud of. which are actually both whitepills and fixable things, but you must have self-awareness to even identify what exactly is making your inner world shitty, and then commitment to actually go and fix those.
I understand the sentiment.
But, rather than just dismissing the experience of all browns, who frankly have worked a lot harder than you, it may be more useful to focus on learnings gained from examples of success, rather than dismissing real, objective disadvantages and disparities.
You will be fine. You have a decent face and are in the right place to overcome all disadvantages. Yet, there are browns, who do not have a good face, not good height, and are f**king cucked. I've had many reach out to me, and it was rough. Yet, with persistence, they can create outcomes. You just have to be an absolute gangster and become steel inside. Cold, heart, relentless.
Yes, you CAN make up for it. I do, Dante does, others do.
However, it requires a specific approach, and for one to go f**king hard as shit to get the deeper insights required. You are doing good to recognise other groups (white, black, Asian) will have girls who will like them for their looks, get Yes girls, get autosex, and this, unfortunately, can mean these men can be the worst little blabbermouths and parrot things we both know would not work at low SMV. Its Just Exist mode for a reason and it is part of the game. Totally cool, also. No worries.
Low SMV is a superb forcing function, and for this, I am glad: you have to make attraction happen, you need good vibe, presence, energy, and charisma.
........These things can be a badge of honour.
And you also need a specific toolkit to deal with the actual nature of a low SMV sex life: most girls, will ghost. Some will feel shame that they slept with you, many will be judged by their friends, and it can be a precarious and difficult situation, unless you are able to deeply understand what is going on and work with it.
Putting the nail in the coffin, so to speak, does not serve us in being able to understand and find favourable ways to navigate the experience. I recognise you're not trying to deny, and are recognising that it's TOTALLY POSSIBLE TO OVERCOME. However, it will take one dropping their ego, and really getting a lot, lot smarter.
The correct inner world beliefs, are to not take it personally, at all. To believe deeply in yourself. And to find ways to compete favourably, and be willing to outgrind your competition.
BTW, it is possible to see objective reality, and not be destroyed by it. It's possible to understand you're dealt a hand that may not be ideal, and play it superbly well. It's possible to have adverse circumstances (hello?) and still win. It's possible to have every disadvantage in the book, and win.
It depends how you look at it.
Modelling effective practice, and seeing reality for what it is, and finding ways to win regardless, is what the best in the world do. They prepare for every eventually and find ways to win.
Some browns, do well. Traits they have in common: good face, racially ambiguous, and the ones who do really well, are activating the SMV of other races (white or black).
And yet, you can have none of these things, and still create outcomes. It is nightmare mode, yes, but it can be done. I did it with a bad/ugly face, brown-brown and no racial ambiguity, and just being cold, calloused, and steel to the absolute bone.
You will create outcomes, of this, I have no doubt. You're going to be fine.
-Ravi
. anyway in this area i decided to approach exclusively twosets so me and my wing could try to bounce the chicks to a bar or something. and WOW like every chick happened to be some kind of receptive??? like only got blown out *once* out of maybe 10 or fewer approaches. i think like 8 of the interactions were quite long, with my wing joining in (or the other way around when he opened), usually 5-15 minutes.
