My Journal To Beat AA and Achieve other goals

The main purpose of this forum; tell us what goals you're working on.
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D4vidDG
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Name: David
Goal: Get Laid 10 times(2/10)
Age: 22

Tue Sep 28, 2021 7:44 pm

Hello everyone, my name is David. I'm 21.

This journal will register my progress in each of the 4 goals I've described in my introductory post (viewtopic.php?f=43&t=49&p=21777#p21777).

Every day I'll write what I've done to achieve my goals. My goals are pretty short-term but they will do for the next three months.

This is my current state in each goal:
- AA Program: Completed week 1. I got stuck in the first drill of week 2 and that put me off. I'm going to start again from day 6. Here's the previous journal I had on GLL site: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/forums ... 745-update
-Tinder: I don't have matches on a daily basis. I'll follow the guide on this site to increase my numbers.
-Videogame: I'm finishing the previous game I was working on. I'll officially start on October 1st.
-Exercise: Not sure where I am. I need to weigh myself and start from that point.
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D4vidDG
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Name: David
Goal: Get Laid 10 times(2/10)
Age: 22

Tue Oct 05, 2021 3:50 am

So let's start this journal officially.

- AA Program: I went out for 1 hour and did the first two exercises. It's been a long time since I kind of quit so it's more difficult to approach.
-Tinder: I read the Tinder guideline here in KYIL. I wrote my purpose: To have 30 successful dates and then get laid 30 times.. It seems I'll need to lose some fat instead of bulking. I'll make a decision in the following days.
Also, for some reason, I've got like 10 matches out of the blue. I had to jump to the third part, but for the sake of getting dates.
I texted a cute girl. I've got her number and I'm waiting if she agrees to go out on a date. It's surprising how fast you can set up a date with a girl online, I thought it was a whole long process of earning her respect first.
-Videogame: Almost finishing, we'll be done in 1 or 2 days.
-Exercise: So my current weight is 61.5 kg. I'm gonna post some photos here so u guys tell me if I need to lose fat (probably I'll have to)
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D4vidDG
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Name: David
Goal: Get Laid 10 times(2/10)
Age: 22

Wed Oct 06, 2021 1:46 am

- AA Program: I felt like not going out. I forced myself to do so, but I did nothing, not even asking for numbers. These made me feel terrible, I don't know what's my problem. I beat myself up really badly, I need to work on my mentality. I guess I'll need to start from the very beginning, I don't know. I'll decide tomorrow before going out.
-Tinder: I'll be going out on a date with a girl on Friday. I read the guide further until fashion. I'm still figuring out the plan to lose fat.
-Videogame: I work on some issues and I can say we're done. I'll be coming out with ideas for the next game in the following days
-Exercise: I searched for some tips and tricks to lose fat. I'll be creating my plan tomorrow hopefully
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D4vidDG
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Name: David
Goal: Get Laid 10 times(2/10)
Age: 22

Sat Oct 09, 2021 3:00 am

I'm struggling to create discipline around working for my goals.

- AA Program: I decided I'll start again on day 4 beginning tomorrow.
-Tinder: The girl I was supposed to see today said she thought I wouldn't go out because I didn't message her the whole week. Kind of an excuse, but we rescheduled for Monday. Still figuring out how to lose weight,
-Videogame: We'll be brainstorming tomorrow
-Exercise: I took some photos to post here.
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D4vidDG
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Name: David
Goal: Get Laid 10 times(2/10)
Age: 22

Mon Oct 11, 2021 3:44 am

- AA Program: I asked 5 girls for the time. I could feel that social momentum again as I stopped thinking of worst-case scenarios when approaching, it was awesome
-Tinder: Got some more matches. I followed the game plan with all of them. I already have a plan to lose fat.
-Videogame: We decided to take this week to think of ideas and decide on all the mechanics. I'll be thinking on some ideas
-Exercise: I decided on my plan to lose fat. I'll track my calories every day this week.
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D4vidDG
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Name: David
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Age: 22

Tue Oct 12, 2021 2:22 am

- AA Program: I asked 5 girls for the time again. It was 45 minutes. Tomorrow I'll try to cut it down to 30 minutes, and then to 10 minutes.
-Tinder: The girl I had a date with delayed again to this Friday. I just told her to message me when she is free. Dunno if she's down to go out, but oh well, at least I tried.
-Videogame: I completed a game dev tutorial series that gave me a bunch of knowledge. Didn't think of any ideas.
-Exercise: Started my plan. I achieved a calorie deficit.
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D4vidDG
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Name: David
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Wed Oct 13, 2021 3:37 am

- AA Program: I asked 5 girls for the time again. It was 30 minutes. I had a pretty busy day so I wasn't able to do two in a row. Tomorrow I'll try to cut it down to 20 minutes, and then to 10 minutes.
-Tinder: Not that much, still working on my fat loss. Chat with two girls
-Videogame: Share one idea and read the other's one
-Exercise: I think I achieved a calorie deficit, but not sure. Today I work out legs, and man was I exhausted. I spend about 30 minutes losing time on the phone because it became more difficult to continue with the next set. I was already tired when hitting the first half of the training.
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D4vidDG
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Thu Oct 14, 2021 1:35 am

- AA Program: I asked 5 girls for the time again. It was 15 minutes the first time. Then I tried to do it in 10 minutes, but I failed with just 3 girls. I'm happy anyway, I think I'll go on with the program.

In one approach, the girl was really hot. I really wanted to ask for her number after the drill. However, I panicked in a matter of seconds and left after she gave me the time. That made me feel I needed a number today, so I walked another 30 minutes searching cute chicks but ended with nothing. Ironically, I met my mother and we started walking towards home. Shortly after that, a really hot girl appeared around the corner. I felt the urge to go but Idk, I didn't want to do it in front of my mom. I would have come across her if that hadn't happened. Bad luck I guess.

Finally, in my bedroom, I felt really impatient. I wanted to have success quickly and start getting laid. But oh well, I guess I should focus on AA first, as Chris says. Idk if I should go for getting a girl's number if I feel like doing so. Chris says it's not recommended. I would like to hear your opinions.

-Tinder: Got new matches on Badoo. I should mention that I have created an account on most of the apps Andy recommended. Badoo has been the most profitable by now.

Anyway, I feel I'm stuck in chatting with girls. I can't get them to set a date even if I follow the template. I'll try to focus on taking better photos these days to see if that improves something.

-Videogame: Share another idea. (We are in the idea phase if you didn't notice XD)
-Exercise: I achieved a calorie deficit, but struggled with hunger. I'll try to eat more salad to feel full more hours.
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D4vidDG
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Name: David
Goal: Get Laid 10 times(2/10)
Age: 22

Sat Oct 16, 2021 2:12 am

PLS READ NEED GUIDE

- AA Program and Tinder

Wow, guys, this has been literally the most unreal day of my life.
I still feel weird that everything lined up so fast.
I still have no words of what just happened today.


I'll go to the point. Yesterday I didn't post any progress cause I wasted the night watching The Office. I seriously need to organize my night schedule. It's very common that I'll stay late seeing stupid videos. This ruins the next day, which ruins the next day, and so on.

Anyway, today I schedule to see a girl at 2:00 pm. So there I was still seeing The Office when I decided I had to get my ass out of the bed and get ready, approximately at 1:00 pm.
The girl ended up rescheduling for 4:00 pm. I was already dressed so I thought I could use that time to do the drill of today.

Btw, I have to mention that yesterday I tried to do the drill in a mall near my university. However, I just walked around not doing anything. Then it started to rain pretty heavily, so got completely wet. it looked like I had just come out from a pool. In all my drama, I saw a cute girl.

As you might have seen, approaching girls is something really difficult for me. But Idk what happened, if it was the heavy rain (it had never rained like that in a long time), the fact that I was completely wet, or whatever. I just did it. I approached this cute girl and asked for her number. I got it. I was surprised this came out from me so naturally.

Back to today, apart from the drill, I did the same thing. I got 3 girls' numbers, which I asked after the questions. I just wanted to do it.
My mind was in a completely new state. Excuses almost disappear and my anxiety didn't disable me to approach.
I even dared to ask two girls that we're hanging out together their numbers at the same time.
As I say, I was really shocked. I couldn't believe that what I was doing was real. Something was born out of nowhere inside of me. I was so astonished that I even struggle to focus to complete the drill.

Here comes my first question: Should I keep trying to get numbers? Or should I focus only on completing the drills?

After these events, I went back home to rest a bit before the date, trying to absorb everything that happened.

It was 4:00 pm. She arrived 45 minutes late. I was angry but I decided not to take it further. After some coffee and conversation, we went to my place. And yep, we banged. She was a virgin.

And I have to say, I LOST MY VIRGINITY. WOW MAN LIKE WTF. The day was pretty regular (I'd say bad because of how it started), and then it becomes the day I lost my virginity. Something I thought was really really far away. I still can't believe this day is real.

Anyway, if I'm honest, I still don't know how to feel about today, I feel kind of proud, but I also feel so disconnected from reality. Like I'm high or smth. this is so unreal to me. Maybe I'm just feeling a mix of emotions and tomorrow I'll be more clear.

Also, something that has me thinking is that: I didn't feel any pleasure. Idk why man. I mean she was hot indeed. I thought that I'd cum in the first 30 seconds. But I didn't. Even though I lasted longer because of this, I didn't enjoy it. It felt like it was nothing. I hope you guys can give me some direction on this. I masturbated twice this week, on Tuesday and Wednesday, Maybe that's the reason. Are my expectations too high?. I'm not a porn addict btw, but from time to time I'll masturbate for one or two days.

I'm sure she enjoyed it, so I feel happy about that at least.
Things I excel at:
- I didn't wait to make my moves, and I was direct. I touched her, I kissed her, I asked her to come to my place.
- Foreplay. I think she really liked it.
- I tried to go slow and easy on her, she was a virgin after all.

Some mistakes I noticed:
- Regular post-sex conversation. I suddenly became shy. Maybe I was worried about my performance. I tried to ask her what she liked the most. She didn't want to answer, she said "everything". However, she showed me some phone pictures later, I noticed some confidence there.


Anyway, guys, I want to thank u and Andy for giving me this information that has allowed me to achieve something that seemed impossible. I know I should not stop here, there's still a lot to be done.

I'd love to hear ur feedback. I'm going to sleep for today.

































To sum up, I did 3 complete sets, I'll finish the rest tomorrow. What's interesting is that
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Radical
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Age: 29
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Sat Oct 16, 2021 1:49 pm

@D4vidDG big congrats dude

Yeah your first time isnt gonna feel that amazing imma be honest. It didnt for me either

It gets a lot better, especially when you find a girl to see regularly and you can explore more with
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Sat Oct 16, 2021 3:27 pm

Good job man.

I wouldn't worry any problems. It was your first time.
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Motto: Fuck Bitches Get Money
Location: New York, NY

Sat Oct 16, 2021 6:49 pm

Congrats man!

I recommend making the virgin girl a regular. Even if it's just a fuckbuddy relationship you'll have more sex than a single guy. Also to relate to you not feeling good or happy, a connection helps a lot. Sex is just a physical manifestation of an emotional connection. Read "Sex God Method" if you haven't already and there's great pointers in there to drive up the emotional aspect, but basically just be real, vulnerable and honest while communicating with your partner.

Also your first time always sucks. It's really like your 500th time or 1000th time that leaves memory burn cause they're so good. My technically "first time" I put it in my girlfriend at the time and she screamed how it hurt and I took my dick out. Tried to cuddle her and she said she felt "cold." Broke up shortly after and didn't have sex for 3 almost 4 years before i found a virgin girl as inexperienced and as enthusiastic as me. Our first time had a similar struggle but she wanted it so much she worked past it. We dated for 3 years with lots of sex.
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D4vidDG
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Name: David
Goal: Get Laid 10 times(2/10)
Age: 22

Tue Oct 19, 2021 12:57 am

Thanks guys for ur feedback.

I'll highly appreciate if you could give me some tips on how to be a good fuckbuddy.

I changed my goals btw. I have some skin and sleep problems so I'll be working on those.

Anyway, here's my today's log:
- AA Program: Well, I didn't quite finish day 6 on friday, so I tried to do 3 sets more today. However, it was a holiday and there was almost no people outside. I'll repeat the entire day again because I didn't go out for two days.
- Tinder : I read chapter 3 of part 1 of the Tinder guide. I'm currently unable to buy expensive cameras, but I'll try to take nicer photos this week for my profile.
- Videogame: We locked in a game idea about a potions farming game. We are now supposed to propose some ideas for that game.
- Lose Fat Day Streak : 1
-Not picking skin Day Streak : 1
-Sleep Routine Day Streak : 1
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D4vidDG
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Joined: Tue Sep 28, 2021 6:51 pm
Name: David
Goal: Get Laid 10 times(2/10)
Age: 22

Wed Oct 20, 2021 1:30 am

- AA Program: I finished day 6. Moving on with day 7.

Do I have to "get in there" in every rep or just the first rep?


- Tinder : Nothing.

- Videogame: I proposed some concepts to make the game. Hope they like them.
- Lose Fat Day Streak : 2
-Not picking skin Day Streak : 0
-Sleep Routine Day Streak : 2
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D4vidDG
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Joined: Tue Sep 28, 2021 6:51 pm
Name: David
Goal: Get Laid 10 times(2/10)
Age: 22

Sat Oct 23, 2021 1:02 am

Hey guys, sorry for disappearing for two days. I decided to play a stupid video game and I wasted time.

- AA Program: I did 3 sets. The last one missed the last rep. I didn't feel I was giving my best, so tomorrow I'll try to do 4 or 5 sets more.

I decided I won't ask for numbers if I haven' finished the drill. That seems to just distract me from completing it.

- Tinder: I chose some of the photos in the Tinder guide to replicate. I'll ask a relative to come with me.

- Videogame: We had a meeting today. We have a clearer direction on what the game is going to be.

- Lose Fat Day Streak : 3
-Not picking skin Day Streak : 0
-Sleep Routine Day Streak : 0
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