Spider’s Progress Log 🕷 DAY 366: Continuation Log Link ⛓️

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Tue Jul 12, 2022 5:36 pm

Day 275: 12/07/2022 ✅

05:00 Wake Up Part 2 ⏰ and Paramedic Date Confirmation 🚑

05:00 Wake Up Part 2 ⏰

Woke up at 05:00 Hrs again today despite there being a national heatwave in this country and me not getting lots of sleep ☀️ Still got up fairly easily. Phone alarm and the sunrise alarm I have probably helped with this 🔔 Gonna try and keep up the streak and get back to how I was originally with these early wake-ups: A hell of a lot more productive and having lots more time to get things done 💯

Paramedic Date Confirmation 🚑

Spoke to the Paramedic I saw last week 🚑 Date is all confirmed for Friday in the City ✅ Looking like it's gonna be a Krispy Kreme and Milkshake date 🥤 Be good to see her again as I had a lotta fun with her last time. I'll let her know a time later and a place once I've had a look on Google Maps 🗺

Put a 10 hour shift in today at work which is why my updates don't have much substance lately 👎 Still counts towards my 365 Project as long as I make 1 post a day, so it is what it is sometimes 🤷‍♂️ Got Friday and Saturday off this week, so I'll try and put some more substance into the posts then 📝

Least I'm dating, working and starting to get up early again - I was a complete Fucking mess 5 months ago 🗓

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Wed Jul 13, 2022 6:01 pm

Day 276: 13/07/2021 ✅

Bulking and Gym Start Date: 17/07/2022 🗓

Literally been at work all day today, so thought I'd do a quick post on how the bulking plans are working out 📈

I now have a commencement date for both my diet and gym routine: 17/07/2022 (Sunday) 📅

Now I've actually started waking up early 🌅 and have found the high-calorie protein bars and ready mixed drinks that I actually like that won't make me puke my guts up, I have stocked up on them as we recently had a delivery in the health food shop where I work 💵
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These are highly sought after and sell quick as they are currently on promotion. On top of that, I get my 25% discount. With me working the delivery however, I get to cherry-pick the stuff I want and put them to one side where I purchase them on my lunch 🍒

Today I picked up:

1 x Box (10) Protein Bars 🍫
2 x Crates (12) of yfood Banana Shakes 🍌

I have now made a serious investment in my bulking diet and have the base that I want: Enough stocks to keep me replenished until each delivery day on the Tuesday 📦

I had a plan in place to help me get my ass back in the Gym and I'm pretty much ready to get on it now:

- Hire a P.T ✅
- Get a Workout plan from my P.T ✅
- Design an easy Diet Plan ✅
- Find supplements I can take ✅
- Fix my sleep pattern ✅
- Stock up on Supplements ✅

Looks like I'm ready to get off my ass and get into it 💯

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Thu Jul 14, 2022 5:22 pm

Day 277: 14/07/2022 ✅

No-Fap Helping my Sleep Pattern 💤 and the Fucked Back! 👎

No-Fap Day Helping my Sleep Pattern 💤

Haven't got much of an update for today 📝

I've recently started No-Fap again at the same time I decided to fix my sleep pattern. I'm on Day 4 of both of these and feel they go hand in hand. I'm no longer up late on Reddit watching Porn and ruining my sleep pattern as well as burning out my dopamine receptors 🤯

I'm a lot less tired and I'm continuing to get up early so think this is helping a hell of a lot ⬆️

I kept my mind map thing which I got to Day 11 on, so as soon as I hopefully get to day 11 on No-Fap, I'll get this out and continue it 💭 Was gonna throw it away 🗑 after I broke my streak, but decided it was a waste and kept it for when I next started again. So far so good ✅

The Fucked Back! 👎

I woke up this morning in absolute agony with my back. It's completely Fucked 👎 I struggled with it recently and it eased off, but now it feels like I've pulled a muscle or strained it 😖 I'm struggling to bend down. Today wasn't much fun at work as a result as I had to go and put another 10 hours in 🙃

I'm glad I'm off for 2 days now as I'm not back in work until Sunday morning. Need to give my back chance to heal. I've also got the date with the Paramedic tomorrow, so I hope I'm up to it. I should be okay in time for the Gym on Sunday, so fingers crossed 🤞

First COVID now this 🦠 You couldn't make this shit up! Trying to remain positive despite everything that's been thrown at me lately 🧘‍♂️

I did get laid twice recently, so there is that! 🛌 🛌

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Fri Jul 15, 2022 9:03 pm

Day 278: 15/07/2022 ✅

No-Fap Day 5 and Flights to Amsterdam Booked

Quick post as I'm shattered!

No-Fap Day 5

Day 5 and still in.

Flights to Amsterdam Booked

Caught up with the American chick I'm going to Amsterdam with this morning. She sent me videos of her dancing provocatively in lingerie... Gonna be glad to have my hands on her for a week!

Flights have now been booked so all good here!

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Sat Jul 16, 2022 5:37 pm

Day 279: 16/07/2022 ✅

Lingerie Shopping and Video Call Striptease 👀

Lingerie Shopping 👙

Forgot to mention yesterday on my date with the Paramedic chick 🚑 we ended up going into a couple of lingerie stores in the city centre 🏬 I thought she was just looking for herself, but she was asking my opinions on a lot of things. When I saw one I liked, she went and bought it 💵

She ended up sending me photos when she got home of her wearing the set which was a Fucking tease to see 📷

Video Call Striptease 👀

Shortly after sending me the photos, she video-called me. And she was naked... 👀

She did a little striptease for me which ultimately lead to me breaking my no-fap streak (Fuck.) 😂

Was pretty damn hot not gonna lie 🔥

On another note, gonna have to push back the gym 👎

Was hoping to go tomorrow and start my diet, but my back is still strained 😖

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Sun Jul 17, 2022 6:25 pm

Day 280: 17/07/2022 ✅

The Heatwave 🔥

Anyone in the U.K now will understand that it is currently hot as balls in this country!

I'm trying to keep myself cool and drink plenty etc. but it sure as hell is making work 10 times harder and zapping my motivation.

Put in a 7 hour shift today and it was a struggle. I'm pretty lethargic and don't have much else to say today, so this is a bit of a shit one.

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Mon Jul 18, 2022 7:21 pm

Day 281: 18/07/2022 ✅

Started my Diet and Graduation Prep

Started my Diet

Started my diet today. Bit of a struggle in the heat, but I'm up to about 3000 calories right now.

Considering I don't really eat? Massive achievement.

The heat has been making this difficult, but I'm doing my best with it.

Graduation Prep

Kept this quiet, but I'm graduating University tomorrow, so got my suit etc. ready today.

Looking forward to closing the chapter on this one. Don't wanna do it, but my folks want to be there to see it, so it's more for them.

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Tue Jul 19, 2022 7:07 pm

Day 282: 19/07/2022 ✅

Graduation! 🎓

Had my graduation ceremony today for my law enforcement degree 📜

Hottest day of the year ☀️ and in full robes, but a good day nonetheless despite my parents bickering and annoying me a little 🤦‍♂️

Turns out I graduated top of my class and was presented with an award to reflect this 🏆 as well as a certificate 📜

Was a nice surprise I wasn’t expecting
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Wed Jul 20, 2022 8:51 pm

Day 283: 20/07/2022 ✅

Some Crazy Bitch Tries to Start a Fight with Spider! 🖕and A flake returns to Spider's Web 🕷

Some Crazy Bitch Tries to Start a Fight with Spider! 🖕

Talk about a crappy start to the day! 👎

So I was on my way to work this morning just minding my own business. I pass by this bakery takeout style place - it's a Greggs which is a chain store all of the guys on here from the U.K will know about 🏬

These spots are everywhere in small towns etc. and are unfortunately notorious hangouts for the local 'ne'er do wells' and low-lifes who congregate outside and think they're tough - think chavs, eshays, townies etc. in knock-off tracksuits and shitty jewellery 😒

Just passing by and this girl says to me 'What the Fuck are you looking at?'

Me: 'Excuse me?'

Her: 'I said what are you looking at?'

Me: 'Well I was looking up the street...'

Her: 'Yeah I Fucking thought so'.

Me: 'Whatever.'

And que the shouting, swearing and screaming. I just walked off. I reckon she just wanted to fight someone. Probably a Crackwhore 😕

I could've gone over and kicked off, but I'm in work uniform, she could have had a boyfriend round the corner or anything etc. 🤔

Sometimes it's best just to walk away. Fucking hate this town 👎

A flake returns to Spider's Web 🕷

So I hit up some of my previous flakes etc. Brief Report:

- Latina Milf - 'You're not my type.'
- Italian Pole Dancer - 'You're too nice'.

😒

Sexologist who bailed on me a while back got back in contact and she's apologised for messing me around. Wants to meet tomorrow. Sent nudes and seems down to Fuck. Told her 'okay, I'll come round after work…’ 🛌

Could be getting laid tomorrow. Here's hoping! 💦

I'll keep you all posted on this one 📝

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Thu Jul 21, 2022 7:36 am

Spider Jerusalem wrote:
Wed Jul 20, 2022 8:51 pm
Her: 'I said what are you looking at?'
Just smirk and ignore and keep walking. never worth your time
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Thu Jul 21, 2022 4:43 pm

Day 284: 21/07/2022 ✅

The Sexologist Part 2 Electric Boogaloo! 🛌

Currently typing this one out on the train - headed to the City 🏙

Meeting the Sexologist who flaked on me last time. Was a bit sceptical about meeting because of that, but she sent nudes which shows she’s keen and explained she hadn’t long been through a breakup, so fair enough I’ll give her another chance. 🕊

Sent a confirmation text which she’s replied positively to, so looks like we’re a go ✅

Asked her to meet me by train station 🚉 and we’ll head back to hers after a coffee ☕️

She can do the travelling as she bailed on me last time 😎

I’ll keep you all posted tomorrow - hopefully this is Lay 13 in the bag 🛌

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Fri Jul 22, 2022 8:38 am

Day 285: 22/07/2022 ✅

⭐️LAY 13⭐️ Spider Fucks a Sexologist and Stands His Ground 🛡

⭐️LAY 13⭐️ Spider Fucks a Sexologist

Got laid again last night.

Took the train 🚂 into the city straight after I finished work to meet this Sexologist chick who previously flaked on me 🚪

Met her in the train station and she was blonde, busty, big boobs and had a big ass 🍑 Plus a very posh accent (she was from Kent here in the U.K which is a very posh area) 🎩

We had a chat for an hour or two over coffee then headed back to her place ☕️

Hopped in the shower to start with as we'd both come straight from work (which was fun) 🚿

This chick was very submissive calling me 'Daddy' and asking to be told what to do next 👀

So I did the following:

- Ordered her to go onto her bed face down, ass up and to wear this blindfold (I brought mine and gave it to her). Told her to wait patiently for me and 'no peeking...'. I then went into my bag and got my leather riding crop out. Spanked her with it for about half an hour which had her squirming and moaning 🫦

- Made her get on her knees and suck me. She made me come through this 💦

- As her 'reward for being a good girl', I used my magic wand on her. Took about half an hour, but I eventually made her come really hard 🪄

- I went down on her 👅

- We then Fucked. She put the Condom on me which was pretty hot not gonna lie. Fucked her legs on shoulders which had her screaming 🛌

For my own peace of mind, I am stating here that condoms were used every time during sex.

Sex was good. Enjoyed hanging with her, but straight after the sex? This is where things got a little weird... 👾

She pretty much got changed straight away and told me I needed to leave 🚪👈

I said 'Cool. Let me know if you wanna hang again' 🚪 🚶‍♂️ 👋

So I got dressed and got out of there 🚗

Got back home and told her thanks for a fun night and she text me back saying how she wanted it to just be a 'one night thing'. 🌘

She did tell me earlier how she wants to explore with different men having been in a relationship for years. She's also signed up for a sex club etc. so looks like she's having a 'ho phase' 🛌

Spider Stands His Ground 🛡

I was kinda expecting this to be honest. She asked me to do a couple of things during the sex which I refused to do as I wasn't comfortable with. I'll explain after once you read the list 📝

- She wanted me to tie her up
- She wanted me to 'Punch her'
- She asked me to 'Slap her around'
- She told me to 'Choke me until I pass out...'

🤨

I stood my ground on these and refused to do them ✋

I explained to her it's our first time meeting and those kind of things are a little hardcore for a first meet and take a certain level of trust ⚖️

I'd need to be more comfortable with her and a level of trust would need to be established before we look at trying out any of those things, but blindfolds and spanking I was happy with for now 🍑 👋

Call me wary, but if this chick who'd already gone flakey on me suddenly decided she regretted last night, it would be pretty Fucking convincing if she had bruises all over her, rope marks on her ankles and wrists and choke marks all over her neck if she walked into a Fucking police station the next day and dropped the 'R word' 🚔

I had a bad experience with a girl a while back where a girl changed her mind the next day after we slept together. I went into detail on this with @KillYourInnerLoser on the podcast we did together 🎙

I now take every opportunity to protect myself from false allegations and I've got a bit wiser in my late 20's from when I was a dumb teenager 🙃

I don't know this Fucking chick apart from texting and an hour's coffee date 🤷‍♂️ She coulda been a man hating feminist or crazy or something. This was not something I was willing to roll the dice on 🎲

Probably a good thing she doesn't want to see me again if she can't respect the fact I won't do things in the bedroom I'm not comfortable with 🚪👈

Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot... 💭

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Fri Jul 22, 2022 8:53 am

Congratulations.

Never ever ever punch a woman during sex. And choking until she passes out is legitimately life-threatening if you don't know what you're doing (and even then...)

Putting your hand on a girl's neck and applying pressure with your fingers on the side (not with the palm of your hand on the throat itself) is good enough to give her that psychological sensation of being choked. If a girl wants more than that, I refuse.

If you build up trust with a girl and want to explore shit like that, then tell her you will make a sound recording of the entire date and afterwards tell her you had fun and make her say she had fun too. Just say you had a "crazy ex" and that's why you want to record it.
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Fri Jul 22, 2022 11:17 am

hey @Spider Jerusalem

As my name suggests, this is a bit my field of play ;)

You did absolutely right. especially the breath play, that is something that only very VERY experienced doms can do
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Fri Jul 22, 2022 11:34 am

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Congratulations.

Never ever ever punch a woman during sex. And choking until she passes out is legitimately life-threatening if you don't know what you're doing (and even then...)

Putting your hand on a girl's neck and applying pressure with your fingers on the side (not with the palm of your hand on the throat itself) is good enough to give her that psychological sensation of being choked. If a girl wants more than that, I refuse.

If you build up trust with a girl and want to explore shit like that, then tell her you will make a sound recording of the entire date and afterwards tell her you had fun and make her say she had fun too. Just say you had a "crazy ex" and that's why you want to record it.
Thanks mate and yeah Fuck doing any of that kinda shit!

I do do the thumb and forefinger on the sides of the neck where the veins are which gives that sensation. I can imagine some inexperienced idiots thinking 'Fuck it' and have ended up seriously Fucking a girl up.

Won't be seeing this one again

Thanks again
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