Day 190: 19/04/2022
Yesterday's Lock-in Lay Report New Prospect Starting a Website?
I managed to get laid again yesterday meaning that lock-in has now been achieved with the Fitness Cougar I've been seeing I've also managed to get a new prospect who I may be seeing soon and the story of how I got her is quite surprising! I'm also thinking of starting my own website
Yesterday's Lock-in Lay Report
So I met the Fitness Cougar
again yesterday. Ended up going straight to her house
she didn't want to bother with coffee or anything, she just told me to come straight round
Suited me fine
Got the text saying 'Door's unlocked, come straight in...'
so I did and she'd just got out the bath
and I was greeted at the top of the stairs by her just wearing a cute thong
She gave her ass a little shake for me
and asked if I liked her body.
Could tell then and there that it was gonna be a good day
She gave me some exercises to do for my back and some diet advice which she's wrote down for me which was very sweet of her
I'm actually getting a lot out of seeing this girl and I'm appreciating the advice that she's giving me
We ended up chilling on her sofa for a bit whilst she drank the wine I brought for her
and then we went up to bed and it went from there…
Lots of kissing, 69, oral, Fucked her a couple of times and I actually made her come 3 times 🫦 Managed to make her squirt using one of her toys and my tongue at the same time which was pretty Fucking hot
Chilled round hers for a couple hours
and chatted about life, relationships, date stories, awful dating sites etc. She's said how she wants to see me in a couple of weeks now due to not wanting to get attached and lose the spark
This suits me fine as I'm kind of finding I get bored too easily if I see a girl a couple of times a week
Said I'd give it a couple of days then check-in with her and see how she is
Not contacting this girl for a few days is working quite well actually and I'll keep to this contact plan as a rule
I'll hit her up Friday or the weekend and just see how she's doing
So that's the lock-in achieved with this girl by the looks of things
Happy that I've got this girl locked in to replace my last lock-in lay who was the Professional Girl who I wrote about
Professional girl was a racist, man-hating, white people loathing feminist upon reflection and I'm glad I cut it off when I did
Should've done it earlier, but old Spider would've just put up with it until it came to a head and resulted in serious drama and arguments
Looks like I'm learning
New Prospect
So I got talking to this chick on Badoo recently. Instead of sending messages back, I recorded little voice videos
which Badoo lets you do now and sent them back
She was quite shocked by my confidence and we had the back and forth 🗣 She was saying I was handsome and too confident for her etc. and that she appreciated my honesty
We talked about sex, what we wanted, etc. and why I didn't want a relationship
She wanted a relationship, so it was a no-go with her, but she said it was interesting to talk to me
I was playing the attitude of 'you can leave anytime and I'm not bothered if we meet or not...'
which worked really well and kept her hooked
She mentioned it was her friend who used her phone to swipe on me as she said I was attractive and her friend is also against relationships like me and only does casual
So I jokingly said 'You should give me your friend's number instead...' To my surprise, she asked her friend if she was interested and her friend wanted to chat to me on Instagram!
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Her friend is a 43 year old Latina fitness instructor and beautician who is very Fuckable indeed
We've been talking since Saturday - not sending loads of messages and I've been flirting a little using my limited Spanish
Diosa - Goddess
Nina Bonita - Pretty Girl
Muchos Besos - Lots of kisses
She's been liking the messages I've been sending on Instagram messenger (The heart symbol appeared next to them)
I've pitched her a coffee date
but I'm slowly trying to talk her into the bottle of wine round hers which she's starting to warm to
Again, thank you to
@Holden for this idea I've picked up from reading your log!
So this looks like a potential new prospect
I'll keep working her and update on here with any developments
I'm finding that not bombarding chicks with messages and being a little unpredictable is really working out for me
Starting a Website?
Been doing some thinking recently and I'm considering starting a website
I've been told by many people over the years that I'm good at writing
and I have a way with words
and I'm wondering if this is something I could take one step further and turn into a form of passive income
It's early days yet, but I've been researching website builders and drafting a few ideas
I'm thinking I could write articles on various topics and produce content
I'm still off work at the minute, so this could be something I could put my time and energy into and set up as a little side-business gig
Just gotta figure out how I could make some passive income from it
Been reading some of the logs on here and this is a side-venture that I know quite a few guys have dabbled with and set their own things up
I could do the groundwork now and get a solid base and then implement this as my next 365 Project once this one is up
Early days, but it is something I am considering
Part of me thinks that I'm being stupid however thinking that I could even produce something that would make me a bit of passive income
It's definitely something I have an interest in exploring and I have the time now to throw myself into it
Not sure what I could write about yet, but I've got a few ideas. maybe Dating, Societal issues, My personal experiences etc.
Something to think about. If anyone has any thoughts on this, do let me know
Any Other Business
- Ordered a few more ear piercings which came today. Magnetic ones I use save me putting a hole in my ear! This also unfortunately means I end up losing then on occasion, so I buy a couple every now and again
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Thanks for reading
Spider 🕷
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