Spider’s Progress Log 🕷 Day 267: AMSTERDAM BOOKED ✈️ and Tinder Date with a Sexologist 👀

[Brother_Tucker]

No worries, can you also share your age range for the girls your looking for?

This will have an impact on the advice I will give you.

[Spider Jerusalem]

No worries, can you also share your age range for the girls your looking for?

This will have an impact on the advice I will give you.

It’s set to 18-99, but realistically 18-35 I think is what I’m comfortable with

Many thanks!

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 254: 21/06/2022

Quarantine Day 3 Feeling rougher than 5 Buck hooker!

Gonna keep this one brief lads, but I basically feel like I been run over by a car!

Fever, muscle aches, headache, cough, shortness of breath and I’m a walking phlegm factory

I haven’t been able to get anything productive done except type up this post So at least there’s that!

I’m going back to bed and hopefully when I wake up tomorrow I’ll be feeling a bit better

Ever the optimist!

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 255: 22/06/2022

Quarantine Day 4 Reflections on Dating: Frustration and Low Mood

Well boys, I think I'm starting to go a little stir crazy

Day 4 of Quarantine, although it's technically Day 5 as I started Quarantining from Saturday afternoon

I've noticed my morale is low as hell It's like I'm under another lockdown and I feel trapped. Everything is just kind of compounding lately and I'm struggling due to a combination of many things:

- Stuck in my room and can't leave except to take a piss. Have to mask up and my family moves to another room when I do this
- Had no human contact since Saturday
- Can't even let the cat in for some company in case my folks or brother pet her and catch it
- Can't taste anything so comfort eating is out
- Can't sleep as I wake up coughing
- There's a heatwave going on here which is making my symptoms worse
- My room is a mess and I'm too sick to clean and my folks can't touch any of the glasses/cutlery, so I've had to bag it and pile it 🍽
- I just generally feel like utter shit

I've also been thinking recently about my dating life. Most of the women I've been Fucking have been single mothers, older or overweight

I haven't really been that attracted to many of the girls I've been sleeping with.

This raises serious questions deep within myself

Have I lost my self-respect?

I think getting laid with girls I'm not that attracted to is actually damaging and a hell of a lot worse than not getting laid at all Think I need to get some standards, as I'm just going for the 'low-hanging fruit' all the time and the girls who are easy to lay

This partly is because the average looking chicks I've encountered seem to just want a relationship and nothing else. Good-looking girls don't seem to be interested in even that with me anyway

See below quotes for examples:

'You can take me to dinner, but it's not a date...'

'Nothing sexual until we're in a committed relationship...'

'I've got plenty of men I could sleep with whenever I want. Why would I want to sleep with you?'.

'I have a 3 week rule...'

'You have to buy me dinner first before you even think about anything happening...'

I think ultimately it's down to one thing and one thing only:

I look like shit

I'm very grateful to@Brother_Tucker who I am currently working with to help optimise my dating profile. I am hopeful and confident this will help me out a fair bit, but the bottom line is this:

I need to look better

I'm hopeful once I'm over this COVID and I get my shit together in the gym, take better photos and optimise my profile, I can start laying the girls who I actually find attractive as I'll be able to pull them to me better

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 256: 23/06/2022

Quarantine Day 5 Practicing Gratitude

I'm still testing positive for the China Virus

I did a test last night and the lat flow test I've done (the one with the piece of plastic and red lines) is still giving a positive indication, although yesterday's line was much fainter, so I'm trying to take this as a positive (no pun intended)

I haven't seen my family and the only places I've been are my room and the downstairs bathroom for the past week

I feel a bit better, but I'm still coughing up shit and feeling like crap

It is what it is.

Been popping aspirin/paracetamol like it's candy. Still taking my antidepressants and CBD gummies too

I haven't really got anything else for today. Just been trying to take it easy

I'll do another test tomorrow and if I'm negative, I'll hopefully be able to release myself from quarantine and do something simple like go for a walk

Made me realise how grateful I am for the things I usually take for granted

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 257: 24/06/2022

Quarantine Day 6 Virus Spread and Spider helps a Married Couple ‍

I am feeling a little better. My sense of smell and taste is gradually starting to come back (Fuck me, I need a shower)

Although I am quite concerned as my parents have both got COVID

From what I can tell, he's caught it from work as he has had to deliver to many COVID patients and I have locked myself in my room for the past week so I'm highly doubtful it's me who's given it to him as I just haven't seen him or anybody. I am on a bit of a guilt trip at the minute with it however

I haven't even seen the cat for God's sake

Spider helps a Married ‍Couple

Got chatting to this chick a while back from FEELD who I catch up with on occasion. She's a 5 foot Brunette, so my type of girl

She has an open relationship with her husband, but they've been arguing as she's getting laid but he isn't

Lol.

Told her he needs to get Gold and Buy Boosts - just a few lines from Andy's Tinder Guide really

She appreciated it anyway

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 258: 25/06/2022

Back on Tinder Profile Optimisation

I've recently gone back on Tinder and purchased Tinder Gold again - it's on offer at £11.06 through the web app for the first month, so heads up if anyone is interested!

Last night @Brother_Tucker sent over some changes/advice in a detailed PDF file which I have now started to implement. I'm very grateful to him for this and I will get swiping and see how my results are

I'm going to need to start taking better photos so this is something I will look at once I am COVID-free and out of quarantine. I'm still testing positive which is a pain in the ass, but I'm feeling a lot better and had a tidy up today

Going forward, I'll post results of my new Tinder adventures on this log. Hopefully I can start getting laid again as time goes on and with better quality chicks

Not much else to report I'm afraid. Hopefully that will change as time goes on

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 259: 26/06/2022

2 Dates?

Working out the logistics of some dates this week and next when I'm hopefully recovered from this COVID

Still testing positive which is a bitch, but it is what it is. I'm back in work on Wednesday and I'm meeting this chick for a drink straight after work. Just a quick 1 hour Date, so I'm starting to multitask more again - arranging quick dates on the days that I'm working. Going to try to aim for 1 additional activity on days I'm working e.g. Gym and work or Date and work

This other girl has been sending nudes etc. and wants me to slip round hers 'for a coffee' whilst she has the place to herself this week or next

Looking promising, but she's in the mind space of 'I don't want casual' yet will still send nudes etc. straight after. Looks like I'll have to slip round and see what happens. Always pay attention to a girl's actions and not her words

I haven't got much else today

Both my parents are quite sick with it. Both are asleep with me keeping an eye and my brother is quarantining himself as he's still testing negative

Been a pretty shit week I'm not gonna lie

My health anxiety has been up a little, but I'm in the mindset of if I was terminally ill, COVID would have me on a ventilator in an ICU ward right about now

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 260: 27/06/2022

Getting Better: Cleaning my room, Going for a Walk and Getting Ready for Work

Not gonna be a great update today as I'm still feeling rough, although I am on the mend. Still testing positive even on Day 9. Not unheard of, but I thought 5 Days and I'd be done. Just like a bad cold in my opinion.

Gotta go back to work Wednesday as that's my 10 days up. Hasn't exactly been a holiday.

Managed to get a few things done today as I've felt well enough:

- Cleaned my room as it looked like a COVID/Depression pit!
- Took a shower - coulda stopped in there all day
- Went for a walk - sun and fresh air does a man good

And that's about it for today. Been told I gotta wear a mask when I go back to work until I'm testing negative, which I'm not particularly happy about, but it is what it is. Older women work there, so if it helps keep them comfortable I'm not gonna be a dick about it and refuse. Day or 2 of wearing a mask won't hurt me and I may even test negative tomorrow or the day after.

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 261: 28/06/2021

Ghosted and Tinder Boosting

Ghosted

So I pitched a date for after work tomorrow with this chick on Tinder. And I've been completely ghosted on

No contact since yesterday morning and I've sent another text today to confirm, but I've been completely ignored!

Oh well. Onto the next one

Tinder Boosting

So I've been back on Tinder and boosting with my new profile

Couple of matches, but nothing too significant Best prospects:

40 Year-old Thai Cougar

Pitched a bottle of wine round hers, but it was a 'I only meet in public first...'. Gonna have to work some more out with this as she lives an hour away. Might not pursue this one.

22 Year-old Milf

Got the 'cute' vibe going on. Pitched a bottle of wine around hers one night next week. She seem sin 2 minds, so I guess we'll see

Asked about my height (6'1) and seemed more open to the idea. Fucking Tinder!

I'll update if anything else that's significant pops up on my Tinder travels

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 262: 29/06/2022

11 Hour Shift and Negative People

What a day I've had today.

Literally got into work at 07:00 Hrs and finished at 18:00 Hrs. Did like a full 11 Hours.

I had a few really negative Customers who came in and were telling me I 'looked like death' and one even made a very snarky comment.

I asked 'Are you okay sir?'

and he replied: 'I don't look as bad as you so I'm doing a lot better than you...'.

What a shitty thing to say. I honestly don't know what the hell is wrong with people but everybody was just annoying me today.

I'm running on like 5 Hours sleep, so that's it for my update today.

I'm on a short shift tomorrow 10-4 so that'll be a bit easier.

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 263: 30/06/2022

Week Off of Self-Improvement

Turns out I have a week off next week as I've got to use up my vacation time in this new job, so I just picked random weeks that were available - next week is one of them

Now I'm testing negative and slowly recovering from COVID, I've decided to make next week into a week where I will try out living how I want to live for the week going forward

Goals for next week are:

- Fix my sleep pattern and get up at 05:00 A.M
- Start my Diet consisting of 2 Meal replacement drinks and 2 High-calorie protein bars a day
- Hit the gym 4/5 times in the week
- No-Fap
- Start reading again
- Get Laid

See how many of these I can get ticked off

Multiple Ghosts

- Girl who ghosted got in touch saying she got busy at work. Told her to work it out and propose a new date. No reply since yesterday, so might just bin this chick off.

- Thai cougar has left me on read

- 22 Year old MILF has ghosted

Not having much luck lately!

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Spider Jerusalem]

Day 264: 01/07/2022

Coming Back Stronger: COVID Recovery ‍ Tinder Boosting

Coming Back Stronger: COVID Recovery ‍

So I'm about 2 weeks into first getting COVID. Testing negative and still feeling pretty shit. Similar to a really bad/heavy cold

Luckily, working in the health food store has afforded me some pretty good perks - access to expert advice and a discount on supplements

Picked up the following on advice from my boss:

- Healthy gut supplements
- Immunity defence building tablets
- Another YFood Complete Meal Milkshake (Different flavour)
- 2 Protein Bars

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I'm at the stage now where I'm going to try and build myself up - both immune system wise and physically

I'm experimenting with the different protein bars and weight-gainer shakes to see which flavours I both like and can stomach

Got paid today - first paycheck in months due to being off work for so long. Felt good and I got a real sense of achievement from seeing the money hit my bank account. I've also got a bit of money now to spend on getting my body to the place I want it to be

I have a golden opportunity now: A decent(ish) job which will actually help me with my side goals instead of slaving away in a corporate environment or in some cubicle somewhere

Tinder Boosting

Did a couple boosts on Tinder last night

God I hate this Fucking Dating app

Couple prospects:

Cute Indian Chick

Seems receptive and thinks I'm very attractive (her words). Think she wants serious, but I'll see how it plays out. She has her own place and she's 20, so might play the 'I'll look after you and give you good experiences older guy' angle. Worth a shot

Nurse with big tits

Not sure where this one is going. Added on Snap and taking it from there

And a collection of Instagram Farmers, entitlement princesses and timewasters who like toying with men:

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I might boost again in a bit tonight and update if there's anything of note tomorrow, as I'm going to try and get laid on my week off

Fingers crossed.

Thanks for reading

Spider 🕷

[Squilliam]

When girls respond with that attention seeking BS don't even bother giving them a response. They thrive off of attention. Just unmatch them, they're not even worth a thought.

Literally 20 minutes ago I got a message from some girl saying "entertain me". Funny thing is she was like a 4/10 looks wise and I was gonna unmatch her anyways.

[Spider Jerusalem]

When girls respond with that attention seeking BS don't even bother giving them a response. They thrive off of attention. Just unmatch them, they're not even worth a thought.

Yeah good idea - don't want to feed into their bullshit. I'll unmatch all 3 now.

Literally 20 minutes ago I got a message from some girl saying "entertain me". Funny thing is she was like a 4/10 looks wise and I was gonna unmatch her anyways.

Shit how if a guy tried saying that he'd probably be shamed and get the whole 'It's not my job as a woman to entertain you you sexist pig!' Unless he was 10/10 Chad or something

Thanks for the advice