Spider’s Progress Log 🕷 DAY 366: Continuation Log Link ⛓️

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Sun Jul 03, 2022 7:01 pm

Day 266: 03/07/2022 ✅

Buffer Post: Sleep 💤

First full week back at work after COVID done ✅

Honestly I’m exhausted. Got a week off now, so I’m going to try to fix my sleep and recuperate.

It’s 20:00 Hrs here and I’m in bed 🛌

Gonna get an early night and (hopefully) wake up fresh tomorrow morning early.

Might have a few dates planned for my week off, but I’ll post about it tomorrow as I’m Fucking beat, so this is just a quick buffer post.

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Mon Jul 04, 2022 6:55 pm

Day 267: 04/07/2022 ✅

AMSTERDAM BOOKED ✈️ and Tinder Date with a Sexologist 👀

So I've just booked my trip to Amsterdam for the 01/08/2022 - 07/08/2022 ✈️

Really looking forward to going. My American FWB will be coming with me, so looks like I'll be getting clapping cheeks every night and getting laid all week (We're sharing a double bed) 🛌 and it's also worked out nicely as we'll be going halves and paying 50% each on everything 💵

Really excited to be getting back over there again. Had the travel bug since the cruise and I'm really looking forward to getting out of the country again 💯 Gonna hit up my man @Holden as I believe he's not too far away and mentioned he may head to the Dam to meet up and hang for a bit if he's free. Be good to meet someone else from the forums! 🤝

Airbnb has been booked, so now I just gotta wait for confirmation from that. Next jobs once this is through:

- Book Flights
- Buy Travel Insurance
- Book Train to London
- Book Hotel for Night Before Travelling
- Pack

And that'll be me sorted. Considering I was a depressed anxious mess 2 months ago and now I'm flying to another country, I'm chalking this up to a win 💯

Tinder Date with a Sexologist 👀

Got a Tinder Date with a Sexologist (No Bullshit) tomorrow night in the City 🏙

She's studying a PHD in sexual studies and is writing a thesis paper on porn and human sexuality. She seems very kinky anyway to say the least and wants casual. Also has her own place which seems promising 🏠

I've been using @countingsheep7878's lines which have been working very well for me. I am very grateful to him for this:

Me: 'I can tell you have some of my weaknesses'.

Her: Replies with usually 'What are those?'

Me: 'Intelligence, Ambition, Flirty sense of humour, Down to Earth, nice ass, and most importantly a wild passionate submissive side behind closed doors.'

They then reply positively or negatively 👍👎

If it's positive, I pitch a date. If negative, I just un-match straight away. Got no time for bullshit 🚪 👈

Gotten a few numbers from 6's, 7's and 8's - the 7 being the Sexologist who I'm meeting tomorrow 🔜

I'll update in due course with how I'm doing on this side of things 📝

Thanks for reading 📖

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Tue Jul 05, 2022 6:36 pm

Day 268: 05/07/2022 ✅

Dating Plan B - Spider Gets Flaked! 👎

Lol.

The Sexologist I was supposed to meet today flaked on me. Got a text message this morning with the whole 'I don't feel well, I'll catch you another time...'

No proposal of another day and time to meet.

Looks like the Sexologist did not want to have sex! With me anyway. hah.

Did my backup plan instead and went shopping, cleaned my place and got my hair cut.

I was going to send Andy's recommendation of the bucket list and ask about her most Fucked up fantasies, but I don't think this can be salvaged as I'm getting the vibe that she completely isn't interested. On top of that I'm not really in the mood for talking to her any more.

That's it for today really. Bit of a letdown, but it is what it is.

I'll keep trying and see where I get.

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Wed Jul 06, 2022 10:25 am

Day 269 (tee-hee): 06/07/2022 ✅

Date with a Paramedic 🚑

Got a date with a Paramedic tomorrow. Pitched a 'Dominos pizza round my place with wine' date and she seems game. Have to see how it pans out 👀

Red hair, tattoos, tall-ish, nice ass and slim figure. My kinda girl 🍑👋

Hopefully I can swing it so she comes round and I'll try and make a move. See how it plays out 🛌

The Sexologist also got in touch last night. She wasn't really sick. She'd just come out of a relationship and didn't feel ready. Wished her all the best and thanked her for her honesty 🤝

I can't be mad at someone who's honest and I'm not the kinda monster to make a girl do something she isn't comfortable with 🕊

Hopefully I'll have better luck tomorrow. I'll put an update on and let y'all know how things go 🤞

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Thu Jul 07, 2022 9:21 pm

Day 270: 07/07/2022 ✅

LAY 11 - Paramedic Chick 🚑 and Date with a Daddy's Girl 📅

LAY 11 - Paramedic Chick 🚑

What a night I've had 👄

Just slept with one of the best looking girls I've ever been with 💯

Paramedic chick came over today and Fuck me, is she cute 👀

Red long hair, tattoos, D cups, slim body and a nice ass 🍑

We made out after a bit, had pizza, and then went up to bed and Fucked. Lot of LMR and I thought this was just her being flakey, but after being honest and having a talk, she was worried as she hadn't waxed 🤷‍♂️

Told her it's no drama and about some of my embarrassing sexual escapades which put her at ease 👍

It was game on from there. Went down on her which made her come, Fucked her, spanked her, then we just cuddled and chilled 🍑👋

For my own peace of mind, I used a condom every time and this girl is on the pill

So that's Lay 11 in the bag. Really happy and I think I'll see this girl again as she's pretty down to Earth and nice as well as smoking Fucking hot 🔥

Date with a Daddy's Girl 📅

Got another date planned tomorrow with a Daddy's Girl 📅

She sent me a couple of photos of her in a maid outfit and with her coloured hair, so I know the type. She looks cute, but we'll see how her personality is 👀

She was going to come straight over, but wanted to meet in public first.

No dramas I said - I understand that for a girl, going round to some random dude's house on the first date can be a little risky. Been a few high profile cases here in recent years where chicks have been killed by scumbags who they've met online in those kinda circumstances 👎

Luckily, there's a pub across the rode from where I live and we've arranged to grab a drink there for an hour first. I'm cool with this. I get to check her out as well as we haven't video called or anything yet 👀

I'm kinda expecting a flake, but we shall see what happens 🤞

I'll keep you all posted on this one 📝

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Fri Jul 08, 2022 6:21 am

Girls in the medical sector are crazy, I've been with doctors, paramedics, nurses. They're all wild
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Fri Jul 08, 2022 8:44 am

Holden wrote:
Fri Jul 08, 2022 6:21 am
Girls in the medical sector are crazy, I've been with doctors, paramedics, nurses. They're all wild
Dude, 100% true!

I can also say the same as regards cops speaking from personal experience working with and dating them - all crazy in bed!
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Fri Jul 08, 2022 11:48 am

Day 271: 08/07/2022 ✅

Back in the Gym 👟 and The Daddy's Girl 🎀

Back in the Gym 👟

After yesterday's excitement, I forgot to post that I got back in the gym yesterday. Had a session with my P.T. 👟

After COVID, I handled it quite well. Walked down and back (20 minutes each way) then busted my ass for an hour with the weights 😓

Gonna look at going back properly next week 🔜

The Daddy's Girl 🎀

Got a date with The Daddy's Girl later at 7 📅

I got some cheap tins of Gin and Tonic in that cost me a few bucks, so that'll be the pull back to mine 'Wanna get a drink back at my place?' later on after we've had 1 or 2 at the bar 🥂

Hopefully she's up for coming back 🤞

Any Other Business:

Caught up with the Paramedic today 🚑

She's doing good and had a good time yesterday - arranged to meet her for coffee on our rest days Friday, so something to look forward to ☕️

That's about it for now 📝

I'll put a post on tomorrow to let you all know how the date tonight goes 🔜

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Fri Jul 08, 2022 1:34 pm

Spider Jerusalem wrote:
Fri Jul 08, 2022 8:44 am
I can also say the same as regards cops speaking from personal experience working with and dating them - all crazy in bed!
A Fetlife lay of mine was a cop - she regularly does gangbangs. Thought it was pretty funny
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Sat Jul 09, 2022 9:18 am

Day 272: 09/07/2022 ✅

⭐️LAY 12⭐️ Spider Fucks 2 Girls in 24 Hours ⏰

Well, shit.

I've gone and Fucked 2 different girls in the space of 24 Hours again ⏰

Paramedic on Thursday 🚑 and The Daddy's Girl last night 🎀 takes us up to Lays 11 and 12 ✅ ✅

Met the Daddy's Girl at the bar over the road from me. 5 foot 2 and bit of an emo, but still pretty cute 👀

She was hella' nervous and I bought her 1 drink then we went back to mine after some small talk 💬 Funny thing turns out I worked with her brother 10/11 years ago in my first ever job. lol. Small world 🌎

Chilling at mine in the garden 🏠 I poured her a couple more Gin and Tonics and we just kept chatting 🥂 I was winding her up a little and negging her which she was loving 💦

Only bad points were that she was a smoker and asked if she could light up some weed whilst here 👎 Told her respectfully and politely no as it's my parents place. Plus I don't need that kinda drama from the neighbours! She accepted this and was cool with it 👍

Eventually went up to bed and put some tunes on and we got pretty much straight into it 🎶

She gave me the longest blowjob of my life (she said she loved sucking cock). She was a bit rough at it and I had to direct her a bit, but once she calmed down it was pretty enjoyable. I used my wand on her which got her absolutely screaming the place down (@KillYourInnerLoser thank you Andy!) and Fucked her twice 🛌

💭 For my own peace of mind, I used a condom every time and this girl is on the implant 💭

Just chilled in bed for a bit and chatted. Noticed this chick has a lot of self-harm scars on her body. Obviously been through some shit in her time, but I was cool about it 🕊

She left about 1ish. Was gonna have her stay over, but my folks came back early this morning 🌅 From reading @Holden's log, I've kinda realised now that I'm not obligated to have anyone stay over if I don't want them to. Told her I had work and needed my sleep which she was cool with 💤

I helped her out with some cash towards the taxi 🚕 (only 5 bucks or so) and made her text me when she got home so I knew she was alright (my caring nature I guess) 🤷‍♂️

I enjoyed the sex, but I preferred Paramedic Chick to be honest 🚑 I think I'll try and set up something regular with her going forward 🔜 Logistics are gonna be difficult with this Daddy's Girl anyway as she also lives at home and we both don't get the places to ourselves very often 🏠

Probably just be a one night thing, which I'm cool with. It's all an experience! 📚

So that's Lay 12 in the bag. I've pretty much roughly Fucked a new girl every month this year now 🗓 Quite an achievement I think considering the shit I've been through and I’ve still got 5 months left to go of the year! 📅

Any Other Business:

- My House is now tidy as Fuck due to getting it clean for visitors coming round the past couple days. Just need to do my room real quick now as it got a bit ropey after last night! 🧹

- My back is completely Fucked after mowing the lawn yesterday and last night's antics! Need a rest before I get my ass back to work tomorrow 🪴

That's it for today's update 📝

Onwards and upwards 💯

Thanks for reading 📖

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Sat Jul 09, 2022 10:48 am

See man, this is exactly what I meant when I said "you're better than that" :)
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Sat Jul 09, 2022 1:03 pm

Squilliam wrote:
Sat Jul 09, 2022 10:48 am
See man, this is exactly what I meant when I said "you're better than that"
@Squilliam

Appreciate the advice my man - I try and listen to everybody on the forums as what they tell me usually pays off

Thanks again!
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Sun Jul 10, 2022 3:55 pm

Day 273: 10/07/2022 ✅

Post-Lay Recovery 😴

I'm pretty Fucking beat after the past couple days of shenanigans, so I'm taking a bit of time to take it easy today 🛌

I've strained a muscle in my back whilst mowing my lawn and doing gardening, so that's an even bigger reason to chill a little 😖

Had to put a 7 hour shift in at work today which was a bit of a killer as it's been one of the hottest days of the year. Had some right arsehole customer in who upset one of the girls too by being a condescending prick 🖕

I hate the average person who thinks it's okay to act like this.

I'm in now for the next 4 Days taking Friday and Saturday as my days off, so it's gonna be pretty full-on the rest of the week. Might be some filler posts required as it's going to be a case of go to work, go home 🏠

I'll be seeing Paramedic Chick on Friday for coffee which she's confirmed with me via text 🚑 She seems cool, so I'm happy hanging with her outside the bedroom ☕️

Got a feeling she wants more, but I'll have a chat with her about it as I've made it clear I don't want marriage, kids etc. at this stage of my life or a serious relationship 🗣

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Mon Jul 11, 2022 6:46 pm

Day 274: 11/07/2022 ✅

Sleep Pattern Reset: Waking up at 05:00 🌅

Decided to reset my Sleep Pattern and start getting up earlier again. With COVID, everything kind of went sideways as regards getting up early and going to bed on time which carried over when I went back to work.
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This has resulted in me not getting enough sleep and hating the world every morning when the alarm goes off and I have to go put 8/9 hours in at work 😴

Not happy with this as it's really messing up my day. Running on 4/5 hours sleep is wrecking my health and I'd go so far as to say ruining my self-improvement 👎

So yesterday I set the sleep schedule on my iPhone to run from 21:00-05:00 Hrs. And I stuck to it: Last night I went to bed at 21:00 Hrs. and I Woke up at 05:00 Hrs. today 🌅
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Still felt a bit groggy this morning, but I'd say I got about 7/7.5 Hours sleep which is a lot more than I've been having normally.

I hope to continue this tomorrow and going forward as I'm much more productive and have more time to get shit done ✅

Thanks for reading 📖

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