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Wifty
Posts: 192 | Thanks: 118
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 1:30 pm
Name: Ben
Goal: Get laid
Motto: Humble&aggressive

Thu Apr 08, 2021 12:47 pm

Welcome.

You seem to have a lot of attributs on your side to begin with.


That's Nice yet not necessary when it comes to get laid.



What you need to do is look good and talk to girls. A lot.

Here on the website and GLL as well are a ton of articles about this.
These are very supporting

However what makes the difference is your investment.

What you want and what you're willing to do to get it.



If you want advices here about how to max out your looks, I suggest you to open a thread, post a few pics of yours and ask for comments and advices.




Are you able to approach women and tell them you find them attractive ?
Would you be able ask a minimum of 20 girls out a week.
If so, aweome.

If not, there is the AA PROGRAM on GLL and here specifically dedicated to max out your social freedom.
I didn't do it personally but I followed a similar model which was :
Ask time
Direction
Time direction
Time non sexual compliment
Direction non sexual compliment
Time direction non sexual compliment
Non sexual compliment
Time sexual compliment
Sexual compliment (hey, you're cute)
Sexual compliment, are you single ?
Sexual compliment, are you single (small talk) number.

Worked for me. You can do this too.

In the meantime you get on tinder with good pics according the advices from members here. Following the guidelines of the tinder guide by Andy on the website.


Look good, Talk to girls. A WHOLE LOT.
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Tobi
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Thu Apr 08, 2021 11:22 pm
Goal: Become more dominant
Age: 33

Thu Apr 08, 2021 11:35 pm

I, Tobi, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am a 33 year old german living in Thailand.

My current goals are:
- Become more dominant/better at sex
- Get up to 80kg body weight (at 73 right now)

Planning to create a Log later and go into more detail there.
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Thrice
Posts: 6 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Fri Apr 09, 2021 8:33 am
Name: Mohamed
Goal: get laid
Age: 32

Fri Apr 09, 2021 8:35 am

I'm Thrice, i want to get ripped and get laid with cute girls, make money and friends

I, Thrice, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 32, from Italy
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HyperR
Posts: 6 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Sun Apr 11, 2021 12:24 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 24

Sun Apr 11, 2021 12:32 am

I, HyperR, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Found this website from GLL. It all started with a video from More Plates More Dates, where Derek was screaming that people needed to fix their dating life or else they would be stuck in a relationship, too afraid to leave. The reality check hit like a truck at 120km/h. My last relationship made me emotionally retarded and that's why I wanted to start my self-improvement.

About me:
-24 years old
-Born in Portugal
-Software Engineer

My goals are:
-Get 3 laids until the end of the year
-Take better pictures, both for Tinder and Instagram
-Betting my anxiety when making a move on girls
-Improve my Photoshop skills
-Get to 62kg without getting fat currently at 58kg
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Radical
Posts: 971 | Thanks: 550
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Goal: Build Blog
Age: 27
Motto: Take drastic action
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Sun Apr 11, 2021 12:42 pm

Welcome @HyperR
Headwear and style website: https://www.thehatfish.com *

*I have written a Men's Style Guide for Beginners which you can grab on my website. It will get you looking like a guy that gets laid in one instructed shopping spree
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limajuliethotel
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Mon Apr 12, 2021 3:54 pm
Name: Liam
Goal: Learn Tinder
Age: 22
Motto: Hope is a flame I won't let die
Location: USA

Mon Apr 12, 2021 4:28 pm

I, Liam, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 22, spent the last 7+ years poisoning my brain reading incel shit online. Similar story to Chris from GLL, I have only ever slept with girls who were extremely hot and approached me, thus guaranteeing a dogshit sex life. My immediate goals now that I've seen how fucking misguided that approach was include:

-Moving out of my parent's place. Looking at places today.
-Talking to more girls, going on more dates.(No lie, in the past I stopped using tinder because girls weren't inviting themselves over to have sex with me after I said "hey")
-Maxing out what I can achieve with phone pics, learning modeling skills and what looks good. Then buy a DSLR.
-Hit 1 plate OHP, 2 plate bench, 3 plate squat, 4 plate deadlift. As of this writing I'm at 95 x 5 OHP, 195 x 2 bench, 205 x 1 squat, 335 x 1 deadlift.
-Suck it up and spend the money to look good, I dress like the typical low effort frat guy because I thought that's what girls like. Starting to realize frat guys get laid because they talk to a lot of fucking girls, not because they're complete slobs.
-Drop toxic and stagnant friends(this shit is going to be the hardest for me).
-Get an ear pierced for shits and giggles(also "looking gay" scares me and i want to crush that fear).
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 234 | Thanks: 134
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 31
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Mon Apr 12, 2021 4:33 pm

Welcome
limajuliethotel wrote:
Mon Apr 12, 2021 4:28 pm
-Get an ear pierced for shits and giggles(also "looking gay" scares me and i want to crush that fear).
When I pierced my second ear:

1. A girl looked at me in the bus, giggled, turned to her friend and they giggled together. Then she said "I just hate it when hot guys are gay"

2. A grandpa hit on me in the bus, telling me to get off with him. He even promised that "I'll have fun"
Main goal:

I Will Live Stress-Free In A Nice, Central Apartment By August 2021
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Burn_the_ships
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Tue Apr 13, 2021 2:16 pm
Goal: Beat depression
Age: 22
Motto: Burn the ships

Tue Apr 13, 2021 2:48 pm

Hi I am 22 from Europe. Currently I am trying to get my life back on track.
My top 5 goals are:
1. Beat depression once and for all
2. Start eating healthy
3. Start and stick to an exercise routine
4. Become financially independent and move to a major European city
5. Get a high quality girlfriend
I, Burn_The_Ships, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Andy i would like to thank you for creating this community! I admire you for sharing all of your experiences it takes guts to that, you are the real deal!
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SamJ_
Posts: 8 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Wed Apr 14, 2021 11:14 pm
Goal: cold approach
Age: 24

Thu Apr 15, 2021 1:21 am

Goal: Overcome all social anxiety and insecurities that I currently have by starting conversations with women as much as possible during the daytime.

What I Hope to Achieve: Be more open about sexual desires and improve my current lack of dating/sex life, as well as overcome other aspects of social anxiety that I have in order to make myself as confident as possible having a conversation with anyone about any topic that is necessary.

In particular, I want to get over all my mental blocks about daytime approaching and breaking "social norms." I'd like to actually, physically talk, either on the phone or over the Internet (skype, google hangout, zoom, whatever) about this with those of you who have the same goals and who actually have experience with this, in order to keep myself motivated.

I, SamJ_, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Crypto
Posts: 17 | Thanks:
Joined: Thu Apr 15, 2021 2:57 am
Goal: Overhaul My Life
Age: 29
Motto: Hard choices, Easy Life
Location: AUS

Thu Apr 15, 2021 3:37 am

I, Crypto, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Sup, I'm Crypto and I'm from Melbourne, Australia. Have read a few things on this site and can relate to a few, my copy of You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought is already on the way.

I have a shit ton of goals of which I will list the main ones below, but to summarize I want to get my confidence and ability to speak my mind and not give two shits what others think back. As well as get back to rooting.

Current major goals in no particular order:
- Move out alone
- Cut down to a 4 Pack
- Beat depression permanently
- Find a job I can tolerate and work around
- Root more
- Stop eating shit

I have a lot more goals and aspirations in life, but these are the main ones that I feel are the most pressing. Cheers all.
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the Con Man
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Thu Apr 15, 2021 8:37 pm
Name: Scott
Goal: mastering Pickup
Age: 46
Motto: either earn or learn

Fri Apr 16, 2021 5:17 pm

I, Scott, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
- 46 years old
- Born in England
- father of 3 boys but seperated from their mother

My goals (over the next 4 years) are:
- develop outstanding confidence and pickup skills. Date lots of unique, sexual women and experience lots of great stuff. I want the by-product of self improvement to be attracting really exciting, high value women into my life
- create income streams/Businesses over the next few years and become Financially Free/Wealthy
- learn interesting skills like languages, guitar, salsa dancing, magic
- get really fit, ripped, strong and become a karate blackbelt (currently Blue)

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zayn
Posts: 10 | Thanks:
Joined: Sat Apr 17, 2021 12:08 pm
Goal: $1 million by 2025
Age: 23
Motto: Obsession Is The Only Way
Location: Canada

Sat Apr 17, 2021 12:28 pm

I, Zayn, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 23 years old, studying computer/electrical engineering in Canada.

I've already hit my girl goals through GLL. Currently in a committed relationship.

My goal is to have 1 million US dollars in my possession by 2025.
I will do this by scaling eCommerce businesses, and sell one for 2-5 times what it makes. This means I need a business that makes between 200k-400k profit. That would be a million-dollar asset, which I could keep or sell depending on what I decide later.

I am going to do this while studying engineering full-time at university. If a business takes off way earlier than expected, might even drop out.
Goal: 1 Million USD by 2025

Currently getting my Engineering degree and Building an eCommerce business.
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krak3n
Posts: 2 | Thanks:
Joined: Sat Apr 17, 2021 4:43 pm
Name: Aaron
Goal: get into social spaces
Age: 18
Motto: Masquerade

Sat Apr 17, 2021 4:44 pm

yello
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krak3n
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Joined: Sat Apr 17, 2021 4:43 pm
Name: Aaron
Goal: get into social spaces
Age: 18
Motto: Masquerade

Sat Apr 17, 2021 4:54 pm

I, Aaron, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
hello lads, name's Aaron
gone through the hardest time in my life for the past few months after a breakup. just seeing how to improve myself and to get back on the horse
love the work on the site,
About me:
18 yo
working wageslave job
wanna take gym and luthier hobbies to the next step.

chow my bros
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YouBetYourCottonPanties
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Joined: Sat Apr 17, 2021 8:30 pm
Goal: Shake off the rust
Age: 40

Sat Apr 17, 2021 8:47 pm

I, YouBetYourCottonPanties, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey gents, from Canada. Goals are:
- Lift 1000lbs between my three major compound lifts while keeping lean (5'11, 165lbs right now)
- Establish a rotation of 3-4 beautiful and interesting women with one as my primary
- Learn how to mitigate (soften?) my type a personality
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