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Freyr
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Fri Oct 08, 2021 7:20 am
Goal: Self improvement
Age: 50
Location: USA

Fri Oct 08, 2021 8:16 am

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Koskela
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Oct 07, 2021 3:31 pm
Goal: Curing social anxiety
Age: 30
Motto: Keep going

Fri Oct 08, 2021 12:55 pm

Freyr wrote:
Fri Oct 08, 2021 8:16 am
Hey folks, I'm glad to be here. I had an idea pop into my head over the weekend to create a gently graduated program to get comfortable talking to strangers.
I have been doing sort of self-made program like this during this year... It's not AA-program but it's similar and goal is to get more comfortable at talking strangers, not just with women. I noticed I have too much social anxiety symptoms to actually do AA-program, like asking a time from a stranger in public space, so I have been training myself to be able to reach that level. Basicly figuring out easiest social intercations you can do with low level of anxiety, then repeating them and gradually changing situations to be little more anxious and repeating them until you are fine and can again move forward.
I'm not native English speaker so sorry for typos and weird sentence structures!
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ninjola
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Sat Oct 09, 2021 12:57 pm
Name: Nikola
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 25
Motto: True Victory is Victory Over Oneself
Location: UK

Sat Oct 09, 2021 11:44 pm

About me

Hey guys what's up my name is Nik, I'm 25 and live in the UK, and I discovered KYIL the other day from reddit. I've always been insecure about underperforming with regards to getting girls even though I've been told by many I'm a handsome guy and such.

Dating experience

I've only slept with one girl so far, my ex-gf whom I met through cold approach on a night out when I was at uni during my freshman year. We actually stayed together for 4 years and parted ways at the beginning of the pandemic, amicably, we still keep in touch and are good friends and have been supporting eachother during these shitty times. Nevertheless I'm not gonna deny I'm a bit bummed out since we've broken up she's already had another whole 9 month relationship and shagged 2 other guys while I've not even kissed a girl for the last year lmao. Not to mention my 16 year old brother back home has slept with more girls than me at 25 LOL

I've been using tinder for the last year and even though I get plenty of matches and my profile is decent with some very good pictures, my text game absolutely sucks ass and I haven't managed to get anyone out on a single date yet. I've had 4 diff girls agree to dates/give me their number only to later flake. I'm now determined to get this tinder thing down and get some fucking pussy or I'll fucking die trying I swear to god. During the pandemic also it's been difficult to make friends since I had just moved to a new city at the beginning of it, but now I've started establishing a decent social circle through training and have guys to go on nights out with. Even better I just learned recently some of them are also really into cold approach.

Outside of girls

Outside of dating, I'm a full stack software engineer and I'm obsessed with MMA and martial arts in general, having done a bunch of them for about 12 years straight, with my main focus being on brazilian jiu jitsu which I've been doing for about 2 years and regularly compete in. I'm in very good shape and a naturally lean guy at 145lbs, 5 7.

Goals

Short term goal:
- Get laid at least once by the end of this year - not a super ambitious goal but one I think is definitely achievable and would make me feel like this year was not wasted

Six month goals:
- Not interested in any relationships right now, I want to get loads of experience with different girls
- Get at least 3 fuckbuddies
- Sleep with at least 10 different girls

Long term:
- Have a threesome
- Sleep with at least 25 girls in 2022

I, Nik, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Spider Jerusalem
Posts: 22 | Thanks: 11
Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2021 9:51 am
Name: Spider
Goal: Bulk Up
Age: 26
Motto: 'Fuck around and find out'

Mon Oct 11, 2021 10:11 am

"I, Spider, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Hey folks I'm Spider. Been on here before, but came off due to various family issues and struggles with mental health. Now I'm in a better place mentally, I've decided to come back and try to Kill my Inner Loser.

My main goals are:

1. Bulk up
2. Get a Career

I do have a few sub-goals in mind but for now, I'm wanting to keep it simple as to not overcomplicate things and lose focus. I shall write about these sub-goals in due course.

Originally, my main goal was to get laid, but after some contemplation and trial and error, I have realised that focusing on that means everything else in my life e.g. career and bulking up gets automatically put on hold (not good). Getting laid will become a focus once I have my shit together in other areas of my life - this will make this goal considerably easier as I will be a more attractive prospect.

I have definitely also been suffering from Tinder Burnout and could do with a much needed break. It's a bit of a dumpster fire on there lately!

To ensure accountability:

- I have posted an Avatar photo for accountability.

- I will look to start a progress log and post on here once a day going forward.

- I shall look to post on other member's progress logs to encourage and help people along.

Looking forward to getting back into it! :arrow_up:

Kind Regards,

Spider
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daalor
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2021 5:08 am
Goal: improve style/confiden
Age: 37

Tue Oct 12, 2021 5:17 am

'Sup ya'll, I'm Daalor and I'm looking to upgrade my wardrobe and general appearance. Any advice and honest feedback would be appreciated.


"I, Daalor, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
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Rust
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2021 2:43 pm
Goal: Start business
Age: 24
Motto: Don’t seek advice

Wed Oct 13, 2021 3:09 pm

Hey, I am Rust and Im commited to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Most of my time is determined towards coding and strength training. If you live in Oslo and want to grab a beer or want a wingman for cold approach, just hit me up.

Goals:
1. Finishing coding my app before christmas and starting a business.
2. Deadlift 220 kg (210 kg current), BP 123 kg (119 kg current) and squat 145 kg (143 current). All before 2022
3. One lay from cold approach before 2022. Starting GLL approach anixiety program this week.
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chad_chaddington
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Joined: Thu Oct 14, 2021 10:09 pm
Name: charlie
Goal: get laid
Age: 26
Motto: i love bad bitches thats my fuckin problem

Thu Oct 14, 2021 10:18 pm

I, chad_chaddington, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

26, male
- lay count ~ 40
- never been in a serious relationship
- about to join the navy
- masters in physics

goals
- have 3 hot fwb
- eliminate approach anxiety
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