New members - you MUST post in here before anywhere else.

[anglofrenchy86]

Hey brothers,

I, anglofrenchy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. Originally from the UK been living in france for 7 years, divorced father of 2, looking for better results with girls

my goals:

-providing a great life for my 2 boys
-having greeat experiences with women, casual and relationships
-getting to 50 straight pull ups this summer, stuck on 30 for a loooong time

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[Sewerdog]

What's up I'm Alastair aka Sewerdog

I'm 27 going on 28 and have had zero lays. I'm here to get this shit handled and face my fears of rejection, crush my anxiety and kill my depression.
My life has been going pretty well in other aspects apart from this one area.

Goals:
Loose virginity
Get comfortable and good at sex
Get rid of ED
Quit porn
Start guitar teaching business
Play live music
Get my own place

[Mimbe393939]

I, SIlverWP, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Stats:
5'6 Asian guy in Canada
12% bodyfat
24

Goals:
Sleep with 100 different women in my life
Make over 100K in a year and start my own online business
Get really good at pole dancing
Optimize OLD(online dating profile) through the help of this community.

Btw, is this forum still active?

Welcome fellow Canadian. Hope to see you start posting!!

[Drama]

"I, Dave, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Hey, I'm Dave, 30, fit, socially very capable but in terms of cold approach just starting out. Started reading RP shit about 5 years ago and have massively changed my life - was suicidally depressed, a loser and no direction in life. Now I own my own business, put on 15kg of muscle, earning more, doing more and fucked a lot more women (mostly between 5-7s though, no really hot girls, hence the cold approach).

Goals (this year):
- Hit 90kg bodyweight at 12% body fat
- Make $350K
- Buy a house and apartment
- Make a new friend group
- Be able to cold approach any girl I want

I'm here and I'm committed.

[Crisis_Overcomer]

@Sewerdog Heya man

A profile pic of yourself is required to post here. Just posting it isn't enough.

Please rectify or we'll ban your account

Cheers

[NightRoller]

I, NightRoller aka "G----- like the Cracker", commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

21, 2 lay notches since I genuinely started taking dating seriously in May 2022.
Currently in Japan for the summer, usually in the U.S. (midwest); attending college.

Goals include, but are certainly not limited to:
+ Getting laid in Japan
+ Getting laid from cold approach
+ Developing solid cold approach skills
+ Gaining sexual abundance, experience, and confidence (they go hand-in-hand)
+ Decreasing my body fat/getting lean while still going to the gym (only seriously been using the gym for 4 months, don't want to quit yet)
+ Acquiring a Master's degree after finishing my Bachelor's and getting a functional stats-related job that leaves me sufficient time to self-improve
+ Finding an awesome girl to build a relationship with and grow alongside
+ Learn how to write reports and instructions well, such that others can learn from my experience (in the future)

Pancakemouse recommended these forums, and it seems I won't be disappointed.

Good to meet y'all.

-NightRoller

[pancakemouse]

I, NightRoller aka "G----- like the Cracker", commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

21, 2 lay notches since I genuinely started taking dating seriously in May 2022.
Currently in Japan for the summer, usually in the U.S. (midwest); attending college.

Goals include, but are certainly not limited to:
+ Getting laid in Japan
+ Getting laid from cold approach
+ Developing solid cold approach skills
+ Gaining sexual abundance, experience, and confidence (they go hand-in-hand)
+ Decreasing my body fat/getting lean while still going to the gym (only seriously been using the gym for 4 months, don't want to quit yet)
+ Acquiring a Master's degree after finishing my Bachelor's and getting a functional stats-related job that leaves me sufficient time to self-improve
+ Finding an awesome girl to build a relationship with and grow alongside
+ Learn how to write reports and instructions well, such that others can learn from my experience (in the future)

Pancakemouse recommended these forums, and it seems I won't be disappointed.

Good to meet y'all.

-NightRoller

Great to see you here. You have an impressive physique for only four months of lifting — likely means good genetics, which is auspicious for your further adventures in the world of hypertrophy! Did you delete your blog, by the way?

[Jpoker02]

I, Jpoker02, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 22 (turning 23 in July), university student from Central Europe. Struggled with girls for most of my teenage years, mainly due to low self-confidence. Changed massively in the past two years or so and started taking dating a lot more seriously. Have been on 10+ dates in the past year through Tinder. Four lays in total (1 through Tinder).

My dating goals for the second half of the year:

• 30 dates & 5 lays by the end of September
  Finish AA program by the end of September
  Cut down to 76kg / 10% BF while keeping (increasing) my current strength levels
  Update my style (have a set budget)
  Get new photos taken by 2.7.

Had to push myself a bit to even post here, but the community seems so great here. Hope to contribute to others eventually as well

[dumpling]

Hello guys!
I'm dumpling, 25, currently doing a master's degree in IT and I'm in Europe.
I've always been kinda socially awkward and haven't been successful with girls/dating in general. One of my biggest issue, is my lack of having a group of good friends for a long time in my life. My current and long-term goals are(the first 3 are my main priority atm):

• getting a part-time job besides my study -> get work experience and earn some money

• build a group of friends and generally broaden my social circle to be less awkward

• lose weight- I'm 170cm(5’7") and currently about 71 kg. My goal is cut down to about 63 kg with a low BF percentage through running(I actually enjoy cardio ) and bodyweight exercises

• Become good or at least decent at dating/talking to girls and get some lays later as well

• Starting some kind of social media presence ( probably YT) to have a side hustle

It's already a bit out of my comfort zone to post here, but the posts I saw before, seemed alright to me and not like some PUA stuff.
Nice to meet you

[Ocean]

Hi guys,
I, Ocean commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm a shy guy from Argentina, I was the first half of my 20s only focusing on my studies/work and with almost no social life, so there was a lot I needed to change.
I made some progress in terms of girls but for sure I have to keep going.

My goals:
-I'm working mostly on my physique, trying to gain a bit of weight.
-Improving my online dating results, as I get some matches here and there, but not much and I'm not really attracted to them.
-Better sex life, as I struggled with ED for some time. This issue did get a bit better, but there is still room to improve.

[wilson]

Hi all,

I, Ali, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I spent a lot of my 20s focused on work/school, and have been successful with it in terms of degrees/finances. I've had two LTRs, and I'm pretty good at talking to girls or anyone once I'm in a one-to-one setting, or in "natural" group situations, but cold approach of any sort has always been something that scares the shit out of me, and so which I've only attempted a handful of times, and never in a sustained manner.

I've lost 25 lbs in the last six months, and I'd like to lose 25-35 more. That's my main focus for now, but after it's done, and maybe before it's done, my next immediate focus will specifically be dating/approaching.

[Antonio44]

Good evening everyone.

I, antonio44, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Recently out of long term relationship, so a bit rusty. Working between europe and South America at present, loving it.


Had decent results when i was single, am now getting good results again but would like to improve. I get good results but i think most of this is only because I'm an interesting/high value guy, i'd like to try to improve skills. Right now all i do is meet women in clubs or online, talk casually with them about stuff i find interesting, tease them a bit, then take them home. It works often enough (closing about 70% of first dates)but I'm sure with a few tweaks i would improve.

Can be a bit lazy sometimes with women/ get bored if they don't want to come home immediately. Also sometimes get aa but not too bad.

Was a bit of a workoholic starting a business about 5 years ago, really starting to see the payoff now but want to keep growing and not get comfortable. And also keep enjoying the journey!

Goals:

Short term:

• Improve online dating results, optimize profile
  
  Get more comfortable/successful closing women in clubs
  
  Figure out how to text women, i often ignore them for days/weeks because i don't enjoy texting/am busy, this often upsets them enough to block me (especially latinas). I don't care if one does, but there is a pattern and it's not efficient.
  
  Maintain a few cool women to date and have fun with, do adventures i like with them to interesting places.
  
  Learn spanish to b2 level (about a2 at present but progressing fast).
  
  Learn to dance (enough to get compliments from latinas)
  
  Launch 2 more products for business (hardware)
  
  Spend my time more efficiently in life - Think how to optimize - e.g get cleaner/ avoid doing low value tasks that can be outsourced.
  
  Spend more quality time with the people most important to me

Long term:

• Find suitable partner to have children with
  
  Get more land and forest it
  
  Scale business further
  
  Get houses on two continents

[dabaws]

By the end of the year I want to cut my gut in half.

I, da baws commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

[virtually_simple]

What’s up everyone.

I’m 29, just got out a hellhole depression for all of my 20’s. I missed out on a lot of shit and want to make up for it in my 30’s.

I, Jonah, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals (Tentative)
*start a log*
1. Get a job
2. Get a new body
3. Update wardrobe
4. Get a new vehicle (Motorcycle)
5. Get a new place
6. 25 lays by this time next year.

[oneder]

What's up everyone
I, oneder, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 35 years old living in Miami, FL

Goals:
- Drop to about 12-13% body fat
- Then put on about 20 lbs of muscle
- Take my style to the next level
- Get some 9's and 10's