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brohankwon
Posts: 60 | Thanks: 18
Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:52 pm
Name: Yohan
Goal: 2-3 plates
Age: 27
Location: Hamburg, DE
Contact:

Tue Nov 29, 2022 12:56 pm

Hi everyone!

I'm Yohan (pronounced Johann) - 26 years old, Asian-American living in northern Germany. My big goal is to get laid on a consistent basis (first step being 100 count). I, Yohan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously; and will put in all effort by maximizing the possibilities within my resources.

Other important goals include:
-getting fit (gaining muscle + losing fat)
-finding new job as a staff pianist in a European opera house (contract ends in July)
-pumping up side project with original + funny piano/vocal songs
-language proficiency in Spanish + Russian (already speak German, Italian, French)
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Juastus
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 9:18 pm
Goal: Getting Laid
Age: 25

Tue Nov 29, 2022 9:31 pm

I am a 25M working as an sysadmin.

Most of my Life i was a lazy and fat man.
Somehow if I have a goal I wont lose my path. 2020 i started with 130 Kg and reduced my weight to 85 Kg.

My goals are:
- Losing V-Card
- Improve Tinder
- Learn to communicate with woman and lose anxiety from them
- Put myself and goals first
- Gain muscles
- …
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michaelho068
Posts: 58 | Thanks: 33
Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2022 11:37 pm
Name: Michael
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 20
Motto: Never give up.
Location: Santa Monica

Wed Nov 30, 2022 12:03 am

Sup everyone,

I, Michael, ommit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I want to be a confident, thick skinned guy. Someone who does whatever he wants - most of the time - without letting other people's opinions affect my decisions.

Was an insecure, low self-esteem loser from 13 - 19.

Now I'm 20, my mindset is 100x better, I have much higher self esteem, and I am totally ready to conquer dating/sex.

Goals:
- Thrive in a career I like(car sales is my goal for now)
- Become confident & IDGAF
- Get my first lay
- Get huge.
- Get pretty(using minoxidil for beard, going to improve my fashion too)
Self-loathing loser from 13 -> 19 years old.

I'm 20 now with much higher self esteem, higher confidence, and now I'm trying to figure out how to get better with women(and talking to people in general).
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Jameskillsem
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Thu Nov 17, 2022 1:39 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27
Motto: Be kind. Be empathetic

Wed Nov 30, 2022 4:00 pm

Whats up.

My name is Killsem.

Born and raised in US. I work in Logistics currently and hate my fucking job.

My main goals for this next year.

-Lose Fat
-Gain muscle
-Get Laid/Meet nice ladies
-Learn to be happy alone
-Learn to be financially independent
-Learn to love myself

Just got out of 7 1/2 relationship and definitely at my ultimate low point in life as well as my appearance.
I need to change. I have to be better.
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Bigtexxn
Posts: 11 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Fri Dec 02, 2022 12:01 am
Name: Matt
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 26
Motto: beep beep my droogies

Fri Dec 02, 2022 1:01 am

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Tue Jun 02, 2020 10:32 am
1. Reply this this post with your goals, what you want to achieve, as well as this line:

Make sure you include this sentence: "I, [your name], commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

2. Add a photo of yourself as an avatar.

If you do not do these 2 steps, your account will be deleted within 3 days.

Why?

This forum is all about commitment and actually getting shit done. No theorising, no sitting around wasting time - we're here to actually get shit done. We take our self-improvement seriously.

As for mandatory avatars - it's hard for anyone to give you self-improvement and getting-laid advice if we don't know what you look like. (Plus all the reasons listed here).

If you don't want to show your face, crop it out/blur it out.

Think of this as you giving a promise that you'll actually work towards achieving your goals; we aren't interested in anyone who wants to half-ass this shit.

When you've done that, go read the Forum Rules.

Oh, and welcome. If you're here, we have no doubt you're gonna kick some serious ass and live an epic life. We'll do everything we can to help you hit your goals.
-Andy
I, Bigtexxn, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Goals:

- get laid consistently and easily; build up to an abundance mentality instead of scarcity mindset
- look better
- get out and actually start cold approaching girls
- improve at online dating and quit sucking at it
- release second mobile game app and get a better install conversion rate this time with better user retention as well
- build muscle up to 190-200 lbs at 6 ft 2 with 7% body fat
- have more fun; take quarterly vacations, get into formal mixed martial arts training (currently self and sibling taught), take more random adventures, and plan at least one big fun thing a month other than the usual
- make friends and actually be social
- move out of parents house and get my own place in a central location, or get one in a central place with cool roommates
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Crimson
Posts: 698 | Thanks: 702
Joined: Fri Apr 02, 2021 3:12 pm
Name: Brandon
Goal: Move out
Age: 21
Motto: TAKE ACTION
Location: Germany

Fri Dec 02, 2022 1:34 am

Jameskillsem wrote:
Wed Nov 30, 2022 4:00 pm
Whats up.

My name is Killsem.

Born and raised in US. I work in Logistics currently and hate my fucking job.

My main goals for this next year.

-Lose Fat
-Gain muscle
-Get Laid/Meet nice ladies
-Learn to be happy alone
-Learn to be financially independent
-Learn to love myself

Just got out of 7 1/2 relationship and definitely at my ultimate low point in life as well as my appearance.
I need to change. I have to be better.
7 1/2 years, wow. Great that you found the forum, good luck on your journey.
My Progress Log: viewtopic.php?f=42&t=1564

My Mental Health Log: viewtopic.php?f=18&t=1416
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kiborg
Posts: 6 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Fri Dec 02, 2022 9:14 pm
Name: Kim
Goal: Relationship
Age: 30
Motto: Life must be lived forwards

Fri Dec 02, 2022 9:24 pm

I, Kim, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals:

1. Get over my own social anxiety around chatting with women
2. Get laid more often
3. Get a job I actually like over one I keep just to pay the bills
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Crafted
Posts: 13 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sat Dec 03, 2022 4:59 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 23

Sat Dec 03, 2022 5:07 am

I, Crafted, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals revolve around self development in all areas of life, but currently focusing on improving dating.
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Zeus31_
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Mon Dec 06, 2021 2:42 am
Goal: online game
Age: 31

Sat Dec 03, 2022 10:29 pm

I, Tyler, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

1. Focusing on quality vs quantity
2. Hitting the gym at a minimum four times per week
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Manganiello
Posts: 1710 | Thanks: 2021
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Career Launch
Age: 33
Motto: Embrace your Darkside
Location: Seoul

Mon Dec 05, 2022 8:40 pm

michaelho068 wrote:
Wed Nov 30, 2022 12:03 am
Get pretty(using minoxidil for beard, going to improve my fashion too)
Sup Michael

I recommend following @Radical's info. He's the defacto style master here.

For your first lay you could probably get it now looking how you look physique wise. Wouldn't take you that long assuming you can translate sales skills into pulling and escalation skills.

Get your style on (1 or 2weeks to do)
Get good pictures (1 or 2 weeks to do)
Get on OLD (premium accounts and boosts) should be able to get a lay within 2 weeks.

I got laid on my second date ever. So it can go pretty quick. Its all the base work that takes time. (Normalizing talking to cute girls, looking good, and being courageous enough to pull and escalate).

Having your own place or even your own car to escalate in makes life a lot easier.


Sales skills translate really well to game.


Anyways good look dude!
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Past Goals:
🗡️ AA Program Log
☀️ Lost vCard from Day Game Post
🇰🇷 Moved to Korea Post
🔥 OLD Log & Lays Log


How I got 9 lays in the first 6 weeks on Tinder
[Guide]

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Aspire2Greatness
Posts: 539 | Thanks: 104
Joined: Mon Sep 13, 2021 7:09 pm
Name: Thomas
Goal: Get laid
Age: 33
Motto: Discipline equals freedom

Mon Dec 05, 2022 8:53 pm

Talons wrote:
Fri Nov 25, 2022 9:39 pm
Start beat-making in FL Studio and get really good at it, and become a self-taught producer
Great to finally have another music producer on the forum!
I've been making music in Ableton Live for over 10 years now, and the main thing that has propelled my skills forward over the years has been to do a little bit of work every day. Even just something simple as a 4 or 8 bar loop. Do it for 2-3 years and your workflow and knowledge of the program will have improved tenfold, at least.
My progress log
Aka: I quit my dream job of 10 years and moved to the big city

Main goal: sleep with 10 women within the end of the year 7/10.


Previous main goal: Move to a bigger city
Jobs applied for in total: 5
09/20/22: Job landed
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Blitzcrank
Posts: 2 | Thanks:
Joined: Mon Dec 05, 2022 7:43 am
Goal: Build a career
Age: 28

Tue Dec 06, 2022 5:29 am

"I, Blitzcrank, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Hey guys, I'm a Software Engineer from Melbourne,

My goal is to work on online dating which is the primary reason why I signed up on this forum. I'm currently getting 0 results from it, and it's shocking.

Also if there are any cool guys to hang out and do some cold approach, I would be down too (in Melbourne). Thanks,

Other goals:
- Get a remote job to be a digital nomad
- Have social media presence
- Have a cool social circle
- Be fit
- Work on fashion and photography
- Read the classics (Crime and Punishment, Beyond Good and Evil)
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BlackMetalBisexual
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Tue Dec 06, 2022 5:06 pm
Name: Noah
Goal: Fuck the hottest girls
Age: 19
Motto: A life without failure isn't a life at all

Tue Dec 06, 2022 5:46 pm

What's up guys

I, BlackMetalBisexual, want to fuck the absolute hottest girls. Not just girls, but the girls that 99 % of guys dream of fucking and never do. I would rather fuck 3 women in a year as opposed to 100 (All power to those that want that but it's not for me)

My current goals (Short-term as in the next 2-3 years):
- Maintain Dean's list in college and complete both of my majors
- Don't get kicked out of my parent's house lol
- Fuck at least one absolutely phenomenal woman before I leave college
- Continue to work out despite the fact that I'm somewhat crippled (Long story short, I have a bar in my chest that I'm getting out in Summer of 2023. The placement of the bar fucked me over big time athletically, mentally, and just about every other 'lly you can imagine. Still not going to stop me from getting what I want
- After the bar is removed, do all of the crazy calisthenics and athletic shit that my parents would never let me do because of SaFeTy or whatever.
-This one is optional as the college I go to is one of the most difficult in my country and I don't have a lot of time to myself. I would like to have an amazing girlfriend, but that may be for future me.

My current goals (Long-term as in the next 4-10 years)
-Have not only an amazing physique, but also be practically strong and skilled
-Move out of the U.S for permanent residence in another country (Probably somewhere in Europe)
-Know the language of whatever country I end up moving to (Duh)
-Publish at least one book
-Be close to being or be financially independent

Life goals
-Be a leader people look up to
-Be a strong dad that my kids look up
-Be a world-renowned author
-Achieve individuation

As of right now, I just made a tinder profile and bought tinder gold. I made it in the spur of the moment so it's quite shit, but I want to know what I can do to improve it.
https://tinder.com/@noah_thurber
Talons
Posts: 16 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Fri Nov 25, 2022 8:42 pm
Goal: Got laid
Age: 23

Tue Dec 06, 2022 9:29 pm

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Talons
Posts: 16 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Fri Nov 25, 2022 8:42 pm
Goal: Got laid
Age: 23

Tue Dec 06, 2022 9:32 pm

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