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KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 516 | Thanks: 371
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Writing full-time.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
Contact:

Thu Jul 02, 2020 11:45 am

Hey man, welcome. You'd benefit from making your goals more tangible though. "More money" doesn't mean anything. How much money? "I want more sex" - how many girls in the next 6 months? Etc
-Andy
Andy / Australia
My Transformation

140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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Sin Silver
Posts: 91 | Thanks: 48
Joined: Tue Jun 30, 2020 9:03 pm
Name: Silver
Goal: Build a career
Age: 32
Motto: Winners focus on winning
Location: UK

Thu Jul 02, 2020 5:50 pm

Hi everyone, my names David,

Make sure you include this sentence: "I, David, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

About me
-32 years old
-PhD (Physics)
-UK(North Wales)
-Boxing(6 years)
-14 lays

My goals right now are to focus on excelling in my career as a physicist, preparing myself for getting laid more once lock down is over, and building up my strength and stamina for boxing,

My most short term goal is to try and get a self portrait his weekend to match the quality of shops on here, Andys guides have been quite useful.
rydawg
Posts: 10 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Thu Jul 02, 2020 8:31 pm
Goal: Start My Business
Age: 24
Location: West Coast, US

Thu Jul 02, 2020 9:40 pm

I Rydawg, commit to working on my goals & taking myself seriously.

Hey everyone!
I used to read gll WAY back in the day (2014-2015?). I found it through a now defunct blog/community called boldanddetermined that had a HUGE impact on my life & mindset back then.


About me:
-Physics student, currently working as a software engineering intern
- ~50 lays?
- Ex-firefighter
- Western US

My 2020 goals:

#1 Get my software business idea ready for winter Y-Combinator

#2 Go from 255 lbs -> 230-220 lbs.

#3 Start having regular threesomes with my GF. (I'm in an open relationship with a chill, Bi girl, similar to Andy's situation minus the threesomes. We'd both like to change that.)

#4 AFTER I've leaned out, improve my style & get better tinder pics.


I'm joining this forum just to have some extra accountability with my goals. I believe you're the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. The people here seem driven & have positive mindsets.
Last edited by rydawg on Thu Jul 02, 2020 10:48 pm, edited 1 time in total.
2020 Goals:
* Get my software business up & going
* Go from 255 lbs -> 230 lbs
* Improve style & get new tinder pics
* Start having threesomes with my bi GF
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Logan123
Posts: 6 | Thanks: 11
Joined: Sat Jun 20, 2020 8:15 pm
Name: Logan
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 19

Thu Jul 02, 2020 10:47 pm

It's nice seeing your sight grow and i hope it keeps going, it's a lot of quality in one spot @KillYourInnerLoser.
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KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 516 | Thanks: 371
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Writing full-time.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
Contact:

Thu Jul 02, 2020 10:56 pm

Logan123 wrote:
Thu Jul 02, 2020 10:47 pm
It's nice seeing your sight grow and i hope it keeps going, it's a lot of quality in one spot @KillYourInnerLoser.
Yeah man, it's cool watching it grow. I only just set it up, so I'll be even more excited watching people grow and crush their goals.
Andy / Australia
My Transformation

140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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TMOGG
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Jul 02, 2020 6:10 pm
Name: Aaron
Goal: Gain Muscle
Age: 26

Thu Jul 02, 2020 10:56 pm

"I, TMOGG, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Based upon my Avatar, where should i begin. Need advice on haircut/Beard. Been a little lazy lately and not maintaining my appearance (working from home, not out much)

Current goals
Career - find an analyst job - improve my analytical skills
Fitness - Lose fat/become more muscular. 225lb bench - push 315+ on squat/DL
Dating - Go on 1-2 dates a week
Self-improvement - become more stoic, less emotional at times, improve my appearance/confidence. Read 1-2 books a week, meditate daily.
rydawg
Posts: 10 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Thu Jul 02, 2020 8:31 pm
Goal: Start My Business
Age: 24
Location: West Coast, US

Thu Jul 02, 2020 11:16 pm

TMOGG wrote:
Thu Jul 02, 2020 10:56 pm
Need advice on haircut/Beard.

If I were you, I'd go with a skin fade & keep your beard about like it is. They look masculine, fit your head shape well & are pretty "in" right now. Something like this?
https://i.ytimg.com/vi/LgKsXoWX-dU/maxresdefault.jpg

Btw @KillYourInnerLoser let us know if this thread/topic should be kept clear of random chat like this. Are you intending it entirely for introductions or is random discussion like this ok?
2020 Goals:
* Get my software business up & going
* Go from 255 lbs -> 230 lbs
* Improve style & get new tinder pics
* Start having threesomes with my bi GF
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KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 516 | Thanks: 371
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Writing full-time.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
Contact:

Fri Jul 03, 2020 12:08 am

rydawg wrote:
Thu Jul 02, 2020 11:16 pm
Are you intending it entirely for introductions
Yeah entirely for introductions. Just start a new thread.
Andy / Australia
My Transformation

140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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Grimloe
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Jul 03, 2020 5:10 am
Name: Tyler
Goal: Get under 12% body fat
Age: 27
Motto: Strive for freedom

Fri Jul 03, 2020 5:26 am

Hey,

Grimloe. Tyler's also fine.

I, Grimloe, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Current goals:
-Get under 12% body fat
-Hit 5k/month online income
-Have a rotation of 3+ girls
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YOLO420TSLA
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 5
Joined: Thu Jul 02, 2020 8:50 am
Goal: Get Dates Get Laid
Age: 24
Motto: Never fucking give up

Fri Jul 03, 2020 7:39 am

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Thu Jul 02, 2020 11:45 am
Hey man, welcome. You'd benefit from making your goals more tangible though. "More money" doesn't mean anything. How much money? "I want more sex" - how many girls in the next 6 months? Etc
-Andy
Thanks for pointing out me not being specific. I updated the post.

Edit: I wasn't specific enough with my goals which is a good criticism, and I tend to not be specific due to uncertainty (I guess?).
Goals:
Date 3 attractive females before the end of 2020.
Get laid before the end of 2020.
Make $1000 per month working part time while going to college.
Make content once per week until the end of 2020
Weigh 185lbs by 1/1/2021
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BouffeQ
Posts: 34 | Thanks: 19
Joined: Fri Jul 03, 2020 12:19 pm
Goal: 1 date per week
Age: 31

Fri Jul 03, 2020 12:46 pm

Sounds like a great thread you guys are having, here I am.

I, BouffeQ, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

French, but lived all my adult live abroad, currently on some touristy small European island.

Some of the goals for 2020 by order of priority:
-Go down to, and maintain 12% body fat long term. Current is 16ish according to my own guess.
-Get at least a successful date per week. Current average is 0. Successful means balls deep in the meat sandwich.
-Climb the Kilimandjaro
-Read 10 books
-Start to meditate (I used to think it's kinda of ghey, but then I heard it's great for mental health).
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Smicker
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Fri Jul 03, 2020 1:27 pm
Name: Philipp
Goal: Lose fat
Age: 24
Location: Sweden

Fri Jul 03, 2020 1:42 pm

Hi everyone!

I'm Philipp, from Sweden and have been somewhat active on GLL in 2019 and early this year. Corona made me fall back into old habits and destroyed some of the progress I made, so I restarted working towards my goals in late May. Most of the goals are fitness related, as my main goal right now is to lose weight.

The reason that I only post this now even though I read most of the articles on here is that I didn't allow myself to make an account before achieving the first of the goals I was working on. Today, I finally biked 100km in a single day, one of the easier goals although time-consuming.

I won't post again until I achieved 5 more of my goals, but I'm making good progress on all of them.

Now I'm looking forward to taking part of the afternoon off and reading through some of your logs that I couldn't access so far. Hopefully, I'll learn a lot!

I, Philipp, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously!
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arkania
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Fri Jul 03, 2020 11:20 pm
Goal: Improve looks
Age: 30

Sun Jul 05, 2020 1:15 am

I, Arkania, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey guys, I'm happy to have found this community. I'm 30 years old, live in Seattle, and there's a lot I'd like to accomplish. My career is going great, so I'm mostly focusing on personal stuff for now.

Some of my goals:
-Sleep with 3 attractive girls this year
-15 inches biceps (currently at 14 and 3/16)
-42 inches chest (currently 38 and 8/16)
-33 inches waist (currently 34 and 6/16)
-Improve my social skills. I feel like I lost a lot of my progress since I've been locked alone since March.
-Improve my fashion/style
-Join a Celtic band. I've been practising with an instrument for a year with this goal in mind
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DNPTHC
Posts: 116 | Thanks: 76
Joined: Sun Jul 05, 2020 6:44 am
Goal: Get Laid Again
Age: 25
Motto: Just Try

Sun Jul 05, 2020 7:49 am

Hi everyone my name is Blake 25Y old

I, Blake, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

So a little bit about me.


I was a no life antisocial gym rat for a while then.
I joined/Lurked GLL in 2015. Did the AA and Going Out Alone program in 3 months. Made a Tinder profile and went from virgin to fucking 40 girls in one year. All these lays came from Tinder, POF, OkCupid. My area is so spread out that cold approach is far less efficient than online dating.

After 40 girls in one year, I stopped journaling every lay afterward (unless if they were really hot). notable/funny lays include fucking an amateur/entry porn girl. (Only 3-4 Busch league scenes) still, take these though =). Also, accidentally fucking a prostitute and almost getting robbed as a result. funny now back that I think about it. terrifying during.

So what brings me here. Well long story short after years of steroid use. I went bald.
This was really devastating to me and my sex life. But I am still getting laid occasionally about once a month with a below-average to an average girl online. none of them are super hot anymore =(. this is mainly because my tinder profile sucks. it's like embarrassingly bad haha.

So the immediate goals right now are to.

Get back on cycle again, I stopped for a long period of time in order to try to keep my hair. didn't work haha. (already back on again.)

get back to being shredded sub 9% body fat. (currently 12-13) need to lose 1-2lbs per week. gear, diet, and muscle memory will accelerate this drastically. ( goal still in progress)

learn to take professional photos myself and pose for them. (ordering a camera) and learning to pose. ( goal still in progress )

better style. Honestly just need a better place to order T-shirts from. Any suggestions from fit/jacked people would be appreciated. (goal still in progress)

Get matches with hot girls again/ revamp online dating profiles. (literally will take no time after I get ripped and take really good shots again.)

restarting my IG and Youtube peaked at 16k IG and 30K YT. I can provide links for proof if need be. stopped posting on the accounts due to being really busy with school and also violating their social media policy =(. I graduated a little bit ago so I can start up again. (This will be on semi hold until sex life is back in order)

Mini goals include
Read more- starting with a slight edge. already ordered the book. I typically read about 1 book per month wanna try 2
listen to more education youtube videos and podcasts
better skin/grooming. doing woodisgoods skincare routine. and trimming fading my beard/ shaving head every 1-3 days. wanna shave head every day and trim beard every 2-3
stop playing video games entirely. massive waste of time.
be more active in social life. hangout with friends at least 1-2x a week.
Get a tan- already on mt2. might take like 2 weeks max of walking around in the sun to get a good tan.
get more tattoos already have a sleeve, chest piece, and one on my left forearm. just wanna either finish the whole sleeve or leave it at a half sleeve.
financial goals are on hold as of right now until I get my dating life back on track again.


Notable achievements include
3.81 GPA just graduated a bit ago- any college kids need help with studying feel free to hmu.
Landing dream job and starting CRNA school soon. by soon I mean 2 years. haha. I still take these though.
315x10 frontsquat, 225x 18 benchpress, 365x10 RDL. All of these were on gear at a BW of 190 10-12%BF. aim to beat these once I start B/Cing again.
peaked at 16k IG followers 30k YT subscribers. Did fitness and personal training stuff while in school to support myself. Had to stop due to getting in trouble at school =(. the accounts have decayed quite a bit. I'm sure with a lot of hard work I can revive them though.
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shakirsux
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Mon Jul 06, 2020 6:02 am
Name: Shakir
Goal: Lose fat, gain muscle
Age: 21
Motto: No regrets
Location: FL

Mon Jul 06, 2020 6:20 am

I, Shakir, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

21 from Florida.

I'm currently in the military but will be getting out very shortly.

Goals:
- Go to trade school for welding and graduate with high marks
- Get a good paying job
- Be able to live with no roommate
- Be debt free within the next 5 years
- Be financially stable
- Get back to 200 lbs currently 230 lbs
- Get laid regularly
- Make sure my family is taken care of
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