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[sundleboro]

Hello everyone. I'm Bill, 25, from the United States. I'm an engineer and a wannabe entrepreneur. I'm becoming more and more interested in my ethnic spirituality and ancient philosophy. I am insanely ambitious and single-minded. I look younger than I am.

I, Bill, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Might be a bit different, but my main interest is entrepreneurship, and only after that, girls. I've had 5 girlfriends, no real casual lays to speak of. I've gone on seduction forums since high school, and never did anything about it because I didn't understand that action/exposure seems to be the key to everything. I started off on the GLL forums last year, but stopped because of covid and completely wasted last year in terms of this stuff. Now I'm back and committing barring any fresh act-of-God.

My goals for the next 6 months are:

• Complete the GLL Approach Anxiety program and log it here over the next few months (I got to day 10 last year right before covid hit and circumstances were dire, and I'm starting over today; it's my priority 1b, as Chris says)
• Get more used to giving speeches in front of people without tripping over my words
• Start my business
• Lose the final 15 pounds of weight (down 30 pounds already in the last 6 months)
• Avoid politics and news, it just brings me way down
• Avoid masturbating, if I can, and anything else that I use as a dopamine rush when anxiety hits
• Find a community here, especially for when the AA program/life gets into its downs

I've seen Andy's stuff over the past year, and want to stick it to the end.

[Radical]

@sundleboro

Hey dude welcome

As per our rules you need to post an avatar of yourself (can be cropped or blurred)

If you dont your account will be banned within 3 days

[drz]

Hey All. I came here after finding some of the interesting mental health/depression articles (of Andy's), and thought that maybe some of my "game" experiences (or lack of, more correctly) would contrast here.

I come from an academic background, obtaining a PhD in a pharmaceutical field in 2016. Despite this, I graduated with no sexual experience (no pun intended). I eventually developed depression as a result of seeing pretty much every guy around me fall into relationships, and things got pretty dark. After about a year of cognitive behavioural therapy and a flirting class later, I got my first sexual experience and girlfriend shortly after turning 28. I found her via a cold approach, and were arguably some of the richest months of my life.

Fast forward to now, and I've done over 1500 cold approaches in the past 2 years. With one dissatisfying lay and nothing meaningful at the end of it, It's pretty apparent that my "stats" are very below-average. I suspect this' because I have a strong level of anxiety, feeling unsafe whenever I'm around others and thus can't really form connections with total strangers. I've been trying various things to overcome that. I'd say more here, but I've written enough for one post, and am better off starting a new thread.

I, Z, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals (next 4 years):

• - fix the poor approach-to-date ratio
• - get into a relationship
• - move to a detached house (I don't get on with my neighbours)
• - Find a way of perma-reducing anxiety when I'm out.

Yours,
Z

[Hakan]

I, Hakan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously, 22/Turkey

My goals are:
-Lose my virginity
-Improve my English
-Improve my software skills
-Go to a gym and gain some weights

[Radical]

@Hakan
welcome mate

You need to put the following sentence in your intro thread as per our rules:

I, Hakan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

[Mack]

"I, Mack, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."


Hey bros, I only have one goal: "Get a good paying remote developer job on 2021"

That's it, easy peasy. I'm currently from a second to worst third world shithole. As a very experienced web developer I'm only making $400 per month.

I deserve more, people with less qualifications than me are getting 10x what I do.

I want to make at least $4000, I don't care if it's a full remote job. I'm tired of being poor. I want to move out of my mommy's house... I feel (I am actually) like a fucking big loser.

I will post a log soon.

See you around

[aquamage]

Hey guys, my name is Jeremy. I'm a professor in Tennessee, and I've always had a hard time getting girls from a young age. I know it's probably because of my looks, but I think my confidence could use some work too.

My main goal is to work out and get in shape. I have a bit of a gut right now, so I think I need some motivation to get fit and be happy with myself first. Excited to be on here, I may even post progress pics!

I, Jeremy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

[solar]

Hey guys, my name is Seth and I found Andy's forum a couple of months ago. I'm 18 years old and I live in the Midwestern United States. I've always been something of a loser when it came to socialization. I was (for a very long time) something of a stereotypical nerd type, no gf, 4.0 GPA, and so on. About a year ago I began to seriously work on improving myself - going to the gym, trying to socialize more, etc. only for COVID to hit and throw a wrench into the gears of everything I was trying to improve. I only recently got back onto the track I was on before and I wanted to use this community as a way to get advice and feedback and to hold myself accountable.

My goals for 2021 are the following:
-Graduate high school without crashing and burning (online school is a real bitch).
-Get a job (I've decided to take at least a gap year before going to uni - presuming I decide to go)
-Start my own business (Social media marketing)
-Get a tinder account and go on 20 dates in 2021
-Lose my virginity
-Work on developing my social skills - become more charismatic.
-Be able to bench 225 (Currently: 145), do 12 unassisted pull-ups (currently 12 assisted @ 40lbs), and leg press 330lbs (currently 225ish)
-Develop a better fashion sense and a solid wardrobe.

I, Seth, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

See you guys around.

[Xyz]

Hello!
My name is Xyz, i’m 23 years old. Atm i’m in the procces of applying to univerty also working full time!

Got into self-improvment since September of last year!

Only long-term goals.

Get laid, and also look for the my match!
Improve my social skills.
Grow my business.
Start working out my legs.
Commit to PE!

I, Xyz, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

[Allnyte]

I, Noah, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I want to get laid, get hotter (weight loss/building muscle), and ultimately improve my confidence through these.
If I make a post with a few pictures of mine asking for honest feedback on my appearance is that ok?

Thank you.

[FenixPJ]

What's up, I'm PJ.

I, PJ, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About a couple of months ago, I went through my first relationship and breakup and that caused a total reset of my entire mindset. Decided the way I was living wasn't worth it anymore and finally decided to do something about it. Since I started in September I've lost over 15 lbs, begun to care about the clothes I wore and finally begin to build confidence in myself. Am I there yet, absolutely not. But everyday since I started it's been getting closer and closer.

My goals are:
-Dropping my weight down to 160 lbs and eventually achieving a 14% body fat.
-Stop being a cheap-ass and finally get a DSLR Camera with good lens to get good photos of myself.
-When the pandemic is over, really go ahead and try to approach women I find attractive and get laid, like a lot.
-Finish up my University and graduate with a Master's degree in English as well as beginning my working Career.
-Find a new girlfriend.

Gonna start writing up my log on here soon.

[meken]

I, Eddie, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My immediate goal is to get a date. I've never been on a date before.

Longer term goals are to have sex, get better at dating and relating to people, shift my identity to someone who does this and it's no big deal, have a girlfriend.

[nyaztecwarrior]

Hey ya'll ! apparently i have to make an intro here. I, J, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm 25, latino, from NYC. Currently coming out of a Long term long distance relation as well as finishing my degree in accounting so big changes are coming into my life. Although scary, i am excited for what's next. Ive used the gll website before and have learned the emphasis of sticking to 1-2 goals. I have my #1 for a couple of years now and honest'y have yet to pull the trigger but this year i'm def gonna make huge changes onto my life so i will stick to 2 goals and have mini goals i want to accomplish but not needed.

Goal # 1 : Move out of my parents house and move into Brooklyn or manhattan
-Ideally i want this done by the end of December, with roomates. This is my main priority and will be okay if i accomplish just this.

Goal # 2 : Get a Long term job. This one is basically connected to the first goal, i want to get an entry level job as a JA, ideally something fully time.

[Radical]

Hey dude welcome @nyaztecwarrior

You need to move one of those pics into your avatar as per the rules

[epicharlie12]

What's up guys
I, Charlie, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Goals and achievements
Do my first callisthenics competition
Talk to as many girls as possible
Move away from my parents
Graduate from uni
Get a higher financial income
Smoke less weed