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KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 706 | Thanks: 508
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Writing full-time.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
Contact:

Fri Sep 04, 2020 12:59 am

At some point I'll set up an Instagram/Model Mayhem/etc and post nude artwork on there. It'll make it even easier with girls too, since it's more "legit" - rather than "my personal collection".
Andy / Australia
Podcast: The Inner Winner Show

140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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Mr_Cambridge
Posts: 8 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Sep 03, 2020 8:12 pm
Goal: Get Game / Get Lays
Age: 31
Motto: Giddyup

Fri Sep 04, 2020 2:46 am

Yep - I tell girls before we meet that I want to do photoshoots of them. Most BEG me for it - literally beg. Especially when I show them past photos I've done.
When specifically do you present that in the message template phase? And wtf do you even say?
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fervazquez
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Sep 04, 2020 7:10 am
Name: Fernando
Goal: Get over my ex
Age: 25

Fri Sep 04, 2020 7:24 am

"I, FerVazquez, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

My goals are:
- Get over my ex girlfriend: she is a super hot girl and we were together for 2 years and a half. She left me for apparently no reason because I was afraid of taking some decision such as moving in together. She probably just lose attraction.

- Improve my body: I am hitting the gym since 2 years but without being constant. I want to lose some body fat even if I am pretty skinny. I also want to improve my chest since I find it not so good.

- Getting laid: I want to get laid with quality girl just to demonstrate myself I can get another girl as hot as my ex-girlfriend. Possibly without using Instagram because I always fought a personal battle against social network and I don't wanna be incoherent, however sometimes I feel lonely as fuck.

- Moving out my parents home: I work since a year and I finally want to move out. It hurts as fuck because I was about to do that with my GF but that's life. I have to do that to improve my skills, I am 25 years old by the way.
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rev1405
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Fri Sep 04, 2020 9:00 am
Name: Patrick
Goal: Get Laid.
Age: 22
Motto: Keep striving.

Fri Sep 04, 2020 9:38 am

I, Patrick, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
- 22 years old
- Live in Denmark
- Computer Science student (Just started my Master).

My short term goals are:
- Get laid and find FWBs.
- Get fit.
- Fix my diet (Trouble eating even maintenance without unhealthy snacks).
- Get my slightly crooked teeth fixed. (+ teeth whitening can't hurt either.)
- Get a hairstylist to get a better haircut (I have low volume on my front scalp so a ton of hairstyles don't work - seems to have gotten better after quitting porn a few months ago)
- Get more clothing that looks good on me.
- Quit school and get a job in software development.
- Move to bigger apartment.

Long term:
- Improve my photography. (Maybe become part-time photographer).
- Maybe try out some modelling - when I get better looking.
- Learn Japanese.
- Learn to play the piano and sing.
- Get a closed triad relationship (MFF).
- Start my own business.
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reduction122
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sat Sep 05, 2020 5:30 am
Goal: Achieving my goals
Age: 23

Sat Sep 05, 2020 5:39 am

Hi,
Im 23 and a electrical engineering student in Ottawa.
I want to continue working out for a solid year straight.
Be proactive with my classes in my next semester.
Amass a body count of 50 with girls that I am actually into.
Join a club at my university that will help my job search in the future.

I, Reduction commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Ris
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Sat Sep 05, 2020 5:10 pm
Goal: Complete AA program
Age: 21
Location: Toronto

Mon Sep 07, 2020 8:15 pm

I, Ris, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm Ris, 21 years old and am pretty shy, unconfident etc.

My goals are:
- Complete the AA program
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creepo
Posts: 20 | Thanks: 44
Joined: Wed Sep 09, 2020 12:30 pm
Name: Ariel
Goal: Get laid
Age: 19
Motto: Paving my way

Wed Sep 09, 2020 12:47 pm

I,Ariel,commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
My goals:
- Lost my V-Card
- Put on some muscle with calisthenics since I'm broke
- Launch my web development business website
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Rustrike
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sat Sep 12, 2020 12:31 pm
Name: Rus
Goal: Become an Entrepreneur
Age: 28

Sat Sep 12, 2020 12:40 pm

I, Rus, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 28, from Estonia (ethnically Russian) living in London, UK. I'm working on three main goals at the moment:
1) Build a body that puts me in the top 20% of dudes in a gym.
2) Succeed at selling on Amazon Marketplace and then setup own Shopify store.
3) Form a band and start touring the world.
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Lionel
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Tue Sep 15, 2020 4:05 am
Name: Linus
Goal: Become a playboy
Age: 22
Motto: Kaizen, Continuous Improvement

Tue Sep 15, 2020 4:18 am

Hi everyone.

I'm Linus, 22 from Ontario, Canada. I'm in university for one last year before I move to the big *city. Here's my goals.
a. Figure out this Tinder/Hinge/Bumble stuff with all your help (I'm already so grateful for the gigantic 6 part guide) so that I'm finally getting constant matches (lets say 3 a day without gold/boosts).
b. Land a kickass job this year in corporate finance (with a company, not the bank), ideally in natural resources since that's the only thing Canada's globally competitive in. I'll define kickass as either a position in a company that's quickly expanding (>40% y/y revenue growth) or a huge player (market cap > 15B).
c. Finally get laid. I feel pathetic saying that, but I trust the process.

Finally, I, Linus, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. Thanks and welcome to my journey :)
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BDG-95
Posts: 12 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Tue Sep 15, 2020 5:05 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27
Motto: Fuck it. I'll do it now and figure it out later.

Tue Sep 15, 2020 5:19 am

Hi everyone,

I'm a 27 year old post-college dude from Southern California. It's been quite a journey to get where I am today but I don't regret a single second spent on it.

My goals for the remainder of 2020:
1. Bulk up to 150 lbs, or 15-17% Bodyfat. Currently at 142-144 lbs
2. Get laid with 10 new girls. Currently @ 7/10.
3. Save up $4,000 for sleeve tattoo. Currently at $750.

I, BDG-95, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 706 | Thanks: 508
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Writing full-time.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
Contact:

Tue Sep 15, 2020 5:27 am

BDG-95 wrote:
Tue Sep 15, 2020 5:19 am
I, BDG-95, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Mate! Was wondering when you'd sign up.
Andy / Australia
Podcast: The Inner Winner Show

140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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joe_ronimo
Posts: 82 | Thanks: 18
Joined: Wed Sep 16, 2020 12:29 am
Name: Joe
Goal: Nomad $$$/Bang Puss
Age: 28
Motto: Live is meant to be enjoyed, not just survived.
Location: Austin, TX/World
Contact:

Wed Sep 16, 2020 12:58 am

Hey hey hey. Joe here.

I, Joe, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Quick bio... Although it turned out to be longer than I expected.:
I moved around a ton in my childhood and was really good at talking to strangers - I had to fly by myself across the country (USA) at the age of 11 to see family, and got used to trains. So I talked to random people.

But I was (and still am more than I would like) pretty inconsistent with girls... I can be nice guy and people pleasing but sometimes bitter and jaded... I've been on a journey to be assertive and empathetic, but I'm having trouble - a lot of it because I don't know how to get sex when I want and feel in control of my sex life.

I'm pretty short (5'7") and was 215 lbs, and on medication I didn't need (long story behind all that) in 2013. In 2014 I finally got angry enough to get my shit in order, and in that year I ran every day, lost tons of fat, got my Associate's degree with a fucking awesome GPA and started hitting on girls. I kissed my first girl too! And I went on my first solo trip out of the country. I went to university and lost my virginity early the next year.

I went on to have some awesome fucking experiences (~100 girls at this point, traveling in 6 countries outside the USA total, some on my own), started building my content empire, and I'm building my life here in Austin.

But I've been in a rut for a few years. I've been trying to solve my money problems, but having issues with that - decided to put content creating on the back burner and get a Software Development job. $80k+/year starting salary, and either my first job or my second job will be remote- then I can travel all I fucking want, at least 50% of the time and live like a king and not be worried about money.

Creating content on the side right now, but eventually after building a large savings, quit my job and make content creating my focus again, but this time without money getting in the way.

Anyway here are my goals:
1) Start getting laid again. It's been too long. Embarrassingly long. I have been with tons of girls, but I'm not in control of my sex life - I need to figure it out... Probably just talking to more girls will do it, I also started GLL AA bootcamp to put myself out there and build momentum.

2) Once I'm bored of having tons of sex, I want to create a one-sided open relationship and have tons of threesomes, see girls together and apart but no other guys... Kinda like Andy and Imogen. Funny thing was I knew I wanted this for years, and a mentor showed me this blog and I'm like "Fuck yeah!!! Somebody's doing exactly what I want!" Before I heard of Andy I had this in my head and didn't know it was possible so it was a huge relief to see someone else who's done it successfully.

3) Get my iOS Dev job, do a boss ass job and switch to a remote job (if it's not at the start), start traveling 50+% of the time, save up $$$, invest it, and then focus 100% on lifestyle content again.

Here's what I am doing to get there:
1) Following Andy's advice and cutting fat. I'm 154lbs right now (70kg) and about 14% body fat. I'm counting calories every day and working out a lot, training martial arts (Muay Thai and 10p Jiu Jitsu) and other stuff - I should get to 10% by the end of 2020!

2) I joined Andy's 365 challenge and am writing a line of code every single day. I also have been applying to one job every single day and got my first phone screening call this morning!!! Even though she didn't like that I dropped out of college, I was and am so happy that I got a bite at all! I'm building momentum!

3) I don't have AA when it comes to talking to any girl, but I do have AA when it comes to escalating, and I want to build momentum and put myself out there so I started the GLL AA Bootcamp thingy. Day 3 tomorrow.

Totally happy to hear constructive feedback from anyone and everyone. I have much work to do.

Internal changes I want:
1) I get too cocky when I start seeing results and end up losing gains by stopping the constructive consistent things I did to get there (it's why I haven't been laid in a while amongst other things) I want to learn to be more humble

2) I want to become even more comfortable being a sexual man. I have sexual shame, feel like I'm a "creep" sometimes and etc. I act in spite of these insecurities, and over time I think they'll go away but I still want to change this

3) I want to learn and get really good at the "You AND Me" mindset with girls. I've been somewhat bitter, but also revert to people pleasing with girls too. Open to suggestions on how to embody this.

My Strengths that have and will continue to help me:
1) Quick action - I have been to tons of seminars and watched Youtube videos where the speaker will suggest some form of action... If I can do it on my phone, I do it immediately. If I can't, I immediately give myself a reminder for the first step.

2) Consistent action - I have a morning, midday, and nightly routine. Small but super achievable things. I've kept up with it for months.

3) Jumping into the unknown - I'm not as good at this as I was before, but I've jumped into lots of new things, like overseas trips with minimal preparation, leadership roles in clubs at university and other stuff. I do need to re-learn this I've been a bit rigid and unexploring recently.

This was super long, thanks for putting in the time and getting to this point in my post. I was pretty vulnerable and I always appreciate when people read vulnerable things I write - even though it's pretty scary to write stuff like this.

I'm excited to join a supportive community! I have a good feeling about this.

Cheers,
~Joe
GOAL 1) Nomad $ -75% focus
a Pay bills on time
• Make $ Tues-Sun w/ Gig econ
• Pay off credit before due
• No loans w/o plan

b Get iOS Dev job
• Code 1 line+/dy
• Apply 1 job+/dy
• Conn. w/ 3 recruiters on L.I.
• Post L.I. 365 prog

c Save $2,500 for MacBook Pro 16"


GOAL 2) Bang Puss -25% focus
a Get abs
• Count Cal
• Exercise 5 day/wk

b No porn

c Swipe: Bumb/Tind/OKC

d 1 appr/day

e Save $1,700 for DSLR & Supp
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Calis
Posts: 21 | Thanks: 9
Joined: Tue Sep 15, 2020 4:32 pm
Name: Axel
Goal: Lose fat, gain muscle
Age: 31
Location: France

Wed Sep 16, 2020 1:22 pm

Hello, I’m Axel, 31 years old, from France.

I always had difficulties to approach other people and it is worse with women. Fortunately, I never had difficulties making friends even with women. But I have never exceeded the status of friend. To improve work on my shyness and meet girls, I started dancing Latino dance (salsa and bachata) 2 years ago. It was one of the best thing I did.

At 30, I had never kissed, never have a date and of course, still had my V-card. My Tinder account was totally useless. Everything change during a trip in Russia. I had my first date (with a very cute Russian girl) thanks to Tinder, I first kiss and lost my virginity. And my Tinder account works very good (but I didn’t stay enough time to enjoy it).

Back in France, I was in a very good mood, full of energy and ready to meet girls. But nothing happen. I did attempts to hit on girls for nothing and nothing on tinder… In 4 months I was back in the same routine and begin a circle to depression, until the covid lockdown.

After losing 3 months just playing video games and watch porn during the lock down, I said to myself “what am I doing with my life?”. I stumbled upon Andy's website by chance 3 months ago when I was looking how to do self-portrait for Tinder. I found here the best advices I could found.
Since then I stop procrastinated. I go to the gym 3 times a week, walk every day at least 30min, begin horse riding, begin to look for an apartment, see my friend more often… I get my life back on track!

My goals:
- have I own apartment (I still live I my parents’ house),
- lose fat about 5kg (11pounds) in 4 months,
- build muscles,
- stop my porn addiction,
- gain 500€ more per month (promotion or investment),
- improve in horse riding,
- begin a martial art (I will test one next week),
- improve my English (specially expression),
- learn Russian,
- and last but not least, improve my online dating profile and get laid.

I, Axel, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

PS, thanks a lot Andy for your website, this is the kick in the ass that I needed.
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Kobeef
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Thu Sep 17, 2020 11:53 pm
Name: Andy
Goal: Get laid
Age: 20
Motto: Motivation is crap

Fri Sep 18, 2020 12:01 am

I’m currently working on getting in the best shape of my life to make my goal of becoming an army ranger a fucking reality in the meantime I'm working at a mechanic shop where I work with engines and detailing cars but it sucks I can't wait to enlist. I wanna get some action at least 20 girls before the end of November. Oh and I'm a fucking virgin (not for much longer though) I Andy commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 85 | Thanks: 72
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 31
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Fri Sep 18, 2020 5:57 am

Kobeef wrote:
Fri Sep 18, 2020 12:01 am
I wanna get some action at least 20 girls before the end of November.
You mean have sex with 20 girls in the next 10 weeks? If so, it's not gonna happen unless you:

1) Cold approach all day long (impossible since you're working)
2) Have a wicked online dating profile (doubtful from your pic) and use boosts (possible since you're working)
3) Have some kind of plan you didn't mention

I'm all for setting crazy goals that get you excited. Since you're still a virgin, a better plan for the next 10 weeks would be to focus on a method that allows you to meet girls (cold approach or online dating). This way you can lose your virginity and perhaps score 1-2 extra girls, provided you really put in the time and energy.
Main goal:

I Will Live Stress-Free In A Nice, Central Apartment By August 2021

Secondary goal:

Completed on 30/8 - I will get laid once, in the next 2 months
I'll upload a video on Youtube for 30 days straight

365 Days Project

Send one email per day to my English list

Days so far: 11/365
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