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Joined: Fri Sep 23, 2022 6:53 am
Goal: Casual Dates
Age: 28
Motto: Primacy of Direct Experience
Location: Australia

Fri Sep 23, 2022 7:44 am

Hey guys. Glad to be joining this community of go-getters.

About me
- Age 28
- 6”1
- 71kg
- Live in Australia
- Recovering self-improvement junkie

It turns out I’ve been in a dry spell for 3.5 years now. It’s time to shatter that spell. I found Andy’s powerful and inspiring blog last year, took some action, then got distracted with other life areas. Feels good to be finally making my first post.

I want to be sincerely serious in my efforts to actualise the dating and sex life I've always wanted. By that, I mean becoming clear and fully committed to what I want/need in this area and consistently working towards it.

I want the social freedom to be able to talk to anyone that I feel the desire to and honestly express myself.

I want to always be working towards being of higher value while remembering my inherent value. I want to be fit for service.

Current Goals
- Go on dates. At least one per week.
- Improve fashion/style. Get pierced.
- Improve self-portrait photography for dating profiles.
- Once more comfortable with dates, get laid regularly.
- Find, connect and work with people focusing on this life area, preferably local.
- Go to social activities e.g. salsa. Once a week.

With all that being said…

I, Sincerious, commit to working on my Goals and taking myself seriously.

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Joined: Sat Sep 24, 2022 3:05 pm
Name: Barry
Goal: Build a music career
Age: 27
Motto: “Get busy living or get busy dying…”

Sat Sep 24, 2022 3:16 pm

I, Barry, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

  • 1,000 IG followers
    1,000 plays
    Get featured on Spotify
  • 500 IG Followers (Currently 120)
    500 plays (Currently 303)

Right now my main goal I’m focusing on is my music. However I’ve realized I never conquered my demons with dating/confidence/esteem so now facing all of those issues as an artist. Putting yourself out there is PARAMOUNT in both fields, dating and music, so I can no longer run from the source of the issues. I’m here to become a better person, something I know I’m capable of doing.
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Joined: Sat Sep 24, 2022 9:41 pm
Name: Sergio
Goal: Get dates
Age: 27

Sat Sep 24, 2022 9:53 pm


-Beat my previous year's income of $116k and try to hit $130k
-Gain 3-5 lbs of muscle by EOY while remaining trim
-Find a steady rotation of girls or GF
-Drop Breaking into sales Masterclass for my group

Actions I am taking towards it:

-Hitting my client base hard and learning my territory in new job
-Cutting alcohol nearly completely out, keeping sugars and saturated fat under 20g, with high protein and carbs.
-Sticking to lifting 5-6 days a week + weekly soccer game and 3X week morning mild cardio
-Fixing my IG/Tinder while also making it a habit to approach girls I meet. At this point, I want to prioritize day game + online since I can still meet women while avoiding the alcohol + sleep deprivation that nightgame can carry
-I am dedicating some time each day to polishing my presentation to give value to my group

Glad to connect with anyone who vibes, specially if you are also in the Dallas area.

I, Sergio, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously
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Joined: Mon Sep 26, 2022 8:50 pm
Goal: Lose fat, get laid
Age: 26
Motto: Nobody cares, work harder

Mon Sep 26, 2022 9:13 pm

Hey guys awesome to be here. Have been watching a little bit of andy and instead of just keep lurking, one small goal is to sign up here and start being an action taker.

A bit about me
-Age 26
-193cm (6'4 feet)
-123kg (271 lbs)
-I work in IT
-I live in Europe

About 5-6 years ago I use to do cold approach pickup. Super hard when I was young and living like an hour from the city. But had some success and then two girlfriends (at diffrent times) and now I am back on the market.

My number one goal is to lose fat. I have been working out on and off for many years. My heaviest has been 132kg (291 lbs). A big why is to get more women and hotter women.

My goals after that is to upgrade my style, take better pictures to max my instagram.

On my way to lose all this fat my goal is to start going out again. To socalize and build up my game or pickup skills.

I, hawkmeister, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Joined: Tue Aug 02, 2022 10:32 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 23

Thu Sep 29, 2022 10:19 am

I, Notimport, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
- 23
- 1,85m (6.0)
- 76kg
- Central Europe (city population: 279k)

Hi guys i've been lurking on these forums for 2 months now and ive finally decided to take the leap and stop procrastinating. I'm a College student, aspiring pilot and recovering porn addict, that is retaking a year and as such am free of college duties for the first semester, so im going to try my best to achieve as many non career related goals as possible while i dont have to worry about college.

My goals
- Get laid more and get more experienced at sex to become a sex god (current lay count 2)
- Kill the scarcity mindset and cultivate abundance mindset, and create a roster of girls i find really attractive.
- Improve my social skills and create new social circles that include women (my social cirlce is a sausage fest atm)
- Move out of my parents house and into my own flat or at minimum share a flat with roommates
- Nofap for 180 days (best streak 95)
- Get my private pilots license and College degree
- Improve my looks, style and photos
- Get shredded and big in the gym (best ever was 14% Bf)
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Joined: Wed Oct 05, 2022 2:18 am
Name: Joe
Goal: Lose fat, get laid
Age: 18
Motto: Let’s get it

Wed Oct 05, 2022 2:21 am

I, Joe, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Joined: Sat Oct 08, 2022 7:15 am
Goal: Get laid
Age: 31

Sat Oct 08, 2022 7:21 am

I, Unbreakable, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I joined this site to hold myself accountable, and connect with driven like-minded people.
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Joined: Sat Oct 08, 2022 2:24 pm
Goal: Build Rotation
Age: 20
Motto: The master has looked like the clown

Sat Oct 08, 2022 2:30 pm

I, Dc8 commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously
Goals is just to build a rotation. Want to talk to other people who cold approach
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Joined: Sun Oct 09, 2022 12:08 pm
Name: Bjoern
Goal: Get a hot girlfriend
Age: 30
Motto: What is the worst thing that can happen ...
Location: Bavaria / Germany

Sun Oct 09, 2022 12:19 pm

Hey Guys

I, Björn, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
30 years old

I found the GLL Forum almost 10 Years ago. Startet my self improvement journey. I struggled with a lot of anxiety to the point where I could not leave the house without a panic attack. So I can relate to Andys story a lot.

About 5 Years ago I did an approach anxiety program but not the one from GLL. Was able to approach women and got laid a few times from cold approach.

I struggle with finding a girlfriend that I connect with on a deep level. I can get laid now but deep intimate relationships where I open up fully are difficult for me. I got about 30 lays over the years, most of them from Online Dating. Also a few from cold approach and a substantial amount from parting. I don't go out anymore right now because I value my sleep and want to be productive for my business.

The plan is to stick to approaching women during the day and getting a better Timer Profile.

I worked the last 4 years in sales and at the end made more then 10k a mont which was a goal of mine back then. Right now I started a business with a partner and this is my main focus besides finding a hot girlfriend.

Right now I am reading the Slight Edge and build good habits. I got a bit rusty with cold approaching but want to get back into the habit.

Greetings from Germany
Goals 2022:
- Find a hot girlfriend
- 80kg athletic build with sixpack
- make 10k with own business (done)
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Joined: Tue Oct 11, 2022 2:43 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27

Tue Oct 11, 2022 3:03 am

My goal is getting laid at least once. That's literally it.

I want to achieve learning how to interact with women correctly.

I, MostlyAloof, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Joined: Tue Oct 11, 2022 10:06 pm
Goal: Be Happy
Age: 19
Motto: Never be Average
Location: Chicago

Tue Oct 11, 2022 10:47 pm

Hey Fellas

I, Mr. Privacy. commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
I am 19 years old and attending my last year of community college.
I plan to transfer to a university and get a bachelor's in computer science.
My hobbies are fitness, coding, and photography.

- Get A's in all my classes this semester
- Lose Virginity this year
- Have a lean and muscular physique before the summer
- Get a Tattoo
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Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Wed Oct 12, 2022 11:57 am

henryjac99 wrote:
Wed Oct 12, 2022 10:22 am
Hi all ,I am newbie and its my first post here, excited to be the part of this community
To keep being part of this community you need a profile picture of yourself. Can be cropped or blurred. Upload one in the next 3 days, otherwise I'll ban your account.
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Joined: Fri Aug 20, 2021 9:19 pm
Goal: Girlfriend
Age: 99

Wed Oct 12, 2022 7:44 pm

I, NN, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Joined: Fri Oct 14, 2022 11:16 pm
Goal: Cold Approach
Age: 23

Fri Oct 14, 2022 11:43 pm

I, Diamond, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

24. I want to sleep with 10 different girls from Cold Approach by the end of 2023.
Going to use mainly daygame cold approaching, supplemented by online dating.
Current short term goals (end of 2022)
- Lose virginity
- Cold approach 100 women
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Joined: Sat Oct 15, 2022 4:20 am
Goal: Quality Girls
Age: 27

Sat Oct 15, 2022 4:27 am

I, weeyummy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

- Get good dating profile pics & lock this shit down
- Have a MFF threesome!
- Find a quality gf
- Join the 1000lb club within a year
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