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Joined: Sun Nov 15, 2020 8:07 am
Name: Matt
Goal: Get laid
Age: 24
Motto: Be a motherfucking man.

Sun Nov 15, 2020 8:16 am

My top priority goal right now is this:
- Sleep with 100 women

And my secondary goals:
- Build myself a career with a solid income
- Write a book/books about life and philosophy

Ultimately, I just want to be the best man I can possibly be, and to keep pushing myself to improve.

I, M-Solomon, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Joined: Thu Nov 19, 2020 1:45 am
Name: Milo
Goal: Get a lot of girls
Age: 32

Thu Nov 19, 2020 4:11 pm

Hey Everyone,

My goal is to get more girls.

The problem for me is to get the hot girls and just more girls.

I go on dates but on 2 weeks its just one date.
I live in a nordic country.
I prefer not having a picture on here.
However I have uploaded my pictures onto an instagram account you can search for "Trocadero8888".
I really need some advice on which pictures are the best.
I have used photo feeler however I don't trust that site.

The problem for me is that I am a foreigner and I live in Sweden so maybe people are racist?
All well
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Joined: Sun Nov 22, 2020 4:15 am
Name: George
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 26
Motto: Consistency is key
Location: Boston

Sun Nov 22, 2020 10:07 pm

Hey guys, glad to be hear:

I, George aka enjoyablehat, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

26 from ~Boston (USA) (20 mins from city)

Here to kick my ass into gear and actually try to improve and get laid - but also just develop the mentality to set and stick to long and short term goals.
Work full time as an analyst, main hobby is olympic lifting. Live with my parents, drink a bit (amongst other things..), usually good diet that I'll ruin saturday nights/sundays.
Have some friends, not a huge social circle but a few really tight friends and then some other people I hang out with occasionally. Basically no girls in these circles


- Develop the mindset to consistently set, work on, and push goals in all aspects of my life
- Get Laid (become someone that can and knows he can get laid).
==> starting with dating apps, work on cold approaches after
==> look better, get better clothes, take better pictures, get feedback
- Get ripped (and stay it); goal weight for this: 150lbs / 68kgs
- Build muscle: get to 160lbs / 73kg (Still ripped) as a start
- Current olympic lifting goals: snatch 105kg/231 lbs, clean and jerk 135kg / 297 lbs (recent bests are 98kg/125kg, all time 103, 130)
- Move out of parents house
Current Goals:
Get a new job
Fix Sleep
Stay consistent with eating and improve health habits
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Joined: Mon Nov 23, 2020 1:08 am
Goal: Get laid more
Age: 27

Mon Nov 23, 2020 1:41 am

I, CovidSlayer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

27 from Western Europe.
30+ lays at the time of writing.

So, I've always done well enough in the past when it came to both casual sex and relationships with social circles and approaching in night clubs. I had never used the online dating apps before, completely disregarded getting pictures taken since forever and barely had social media pictures. I didn't see the point. However, the lockdowns that started in March have forced me to re-evaluate my perspective, as a couple of friends with benefits from before the madness faded away eventually and it became pretty much impossible to meet girls otherwise with no clubs and a lot less socializing of all types happening. So about a month and a half ago I got started with Tinder and a bunch of others, luckily had a couple of decent recent pictures from the middle of the summer. Already got 6 lays from that thus far but I quickly realized that I clearly have to work a ton on getting much nicer pictures taken to ensure hotter and more consistent girls over time. I've digested Andy's tinder guide entirely and it sure helped give me a ton of direction and the right mindset and I appreciated it a lot, even if I think some parts lack detail and I dislike his disdain for "game", when whatever you want to call it, you need it, as we all know it's not as simple a simply meeting a girl and randomly inviting her back to your place in 1 hour. I believe that can leave a lot of guys less experienced a bit clueless and with a lot lower initial success rate, when more actionable advice could definitely be given in the "Dates" section to make the lay actually happen.

Concrete goals :
- Have sex with a new girl at least once a week consistently.
- Build up social media so it actually displays higher status and creates attraction
- Get used to getting pictures taken, always be improving fashion-wise, in grooming and in posing.
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Joined: Mon Nov 23, 2020 1:22 pm
Goal: Get in shape
Age: 26
Motto: No excuses. Just fucking do it.

Mon Nov 23, 2020 2:05 pm

I, Excuses, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey guys.
I'm Excuses, 25, from Germany. My absolute passion is writing stories as in form of fiction books (mostly fantasy, but I'm also into thriller, erotic, romance).

So why I'm here? Coming from TRP which completely opened my eyes and turned my view on this world and life upside down, feeling like I've been walking completely blind through this world all my life and now I can finally see what's going on behind female nature. I still haven't fully swallowed the pill as it's a long way to go, but you can say what you want about trp, it's the best and worst thing that happened to me. Because the truth hurts, it's brutally painfull. Accepting this fact will become a long road, but it is what it is. I will try to become the best version of myself and pick the best things thats useful for me. I've found this site like 2 months ago and was mind blown. This is the kind of advice-site I've been always wishing for and Andy is doing gods work. I tried to apply some stuff in his guides and it helped me succeed already in some areas.

To me:
I'm 194cm, 73-75kg, not at all in shape.

I've been my whole life extremely skinny. 1,5 years ago my weight was 50kg. That's when I started to eat and lift as hard as I can. I gained 20-25kg which was a HUGE step for me, because it changed everything. I never thought it was possible and it boosted my self esteem. I had huge depression my whole life and several attempts of killing myself. Since ive gained the weight I changed my thinking and tried to focus on thinking positive, because i've always been a pessimist. Because of corona I stopped going to the gym for more than a half year now and lost some gains, my social anxiety came back and it keeps my lazy ass at home. But there's also a big problem regarding my lifting and weight gain which throws me back everytime I make a little progress. I have an unknown disease for almost 10 years now which hinders me to fully gain more weight. It's a disease which randomly happens after eating something with fat, sometimes after alcohol or even a cup of cola, it's really hard to tell. But when this happens my belly hurts brutally and the pain goes into my back too. When this happens I can't eat anything the whole day or have to eat only mild things like soup. Only with a lot of painkillers I can kind of bear this pain. And this inflammation lasts for several days. No doctor seems to have a clue or wants to help me with this issue. But in those years i've researched a lot of things and i'm fairly sure this has to be the pancreas. It's some kind of inflammation of the pancreas. And I don't know how to cure this. I have read that a person may have to live with this for his whole life and needs to avoid completely alcohol, fast food and nicotine. This is a nightmare, since this is blocking my way to gain more weight and become bigger and enjoy my life.

But I don't want to be a whiny little pussy here. I will keep going my way, no matter how hard it is.

My goals:

-Gain weight (atleast 10kg at first, then 20kg). My goal is to have 90-100kg minimum.
-Get in shape (i want a six pack and have some sort of a good looking body, not being skinny fat)
-Fuck regularly 6s, 7s, 8s and 9s as in hot girls (I score too many low smv or fat girls and its not what im really craving for)
-Publish my first book
-Build my career - finish my school and start studying or finding a job to collect money and start building my own business
-Fix my erectile disfunction/ my perfomance anxiety
-Get more and more into BDSM and maintaining dominance

This one got a bit long, but I just can't keep myself short. That's also one weakness of myself, heh.
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Joined: Tue Nov 24, 2020 6:08 am
Goal: threesomes
Age: 27

Tue Nov 24, 2020 6:13 am

I, MrBlackwing, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

- conquer approach anxiety / build consistent daygame habits
- improve inner game / work through baggage (re: race + height)
- have a shitton of threesomes
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Joined: Mon Nov 23, 2020 9:05 pm
Name: Syd
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 25
Motto: Confidence will get me everywhere
Location: U.K

Tue Nov 24, 2020 8:34 am

I, Syd, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey everyone I’m Syd. Just wanna start off by saying massive thank you’s to Andy and Imogen - your podcasts and articles have inspired me to get off my ass and get things done


I have started my own 365 day project: walk or run for 10 minutes minimum every day.

By joining here, I hope to achieve my ultimate end goals:

- Get laid
- Build a better body
- Complete my University degrees
- Build a career
- Travel the World
- Get my own place

I have started to make headway into these by doing a series of 30 day challenges - these challenges then become habits which I carry on for the foreseeable (this is what works best for me).

The 30 day challenges I have completed:

No Alcohol: Started - 01/10/2020

Brush, Floss, Mouthwash Teeth 2x per day: Started - 22/10/2020

Walk/Run once a day: Started 24/10/2020 (also my 365 day challenge)

Challenges I am currently working on:

- No Fizzy Drinks: Started 28/10/2020

- Crunches every day (10): Started 11/11/2020 - add 5 on the start of every month

- Push-Ups every day (10): Started 11/11/2020 - add 5 on the start of every month

- Stop biting nails: Started 13/11/2020

- Read 30 minutes a day: Started 14/11/2020 - Almost finished ‘You can’t afford the luxury of a negative thought’.

- Listen to 1 Podcast a day: Started 17/11/2020 - currently working through the Inner Winner Show!

Future 30 day challenges:

- Get rid of back acne (apply cream 2x per day)

- No Fap:

- Fix sleep pattern 21:00/22:00 04:30/05:00

- Face wash + Moisturise 2x per day

- Back exercises 2x per day (I struggle with back pain)

- Fix my diet (I’m underweight and want to get bigger)

- Gym 6 times a week (gradually build this up and not dive in straight away!

Lot of work to do, but I feel I’ve made a good start and I hope to keep smashing it.

I will aim to post here regularly to check-in and hold myself to account.

Looking forward to working together with all you guys as a Community to achieve our goals.

All the best,

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Joined: Tue Nov 24, 2020 1:17 pm
Goal: Retire Early
Age: 34
Motto: My life is awesome, what's your excuse?

Tue Nov 24, 2020 1:32 pm

Hi all,

I am 33 and from the UK. I recently came out of a long term relationship, so long that Tinder and IG didn't even exist.

Re-entering the dating market since everything has changed is kind of intimidating, but I love challenges and am committed to experiencing all that life has to offer.

This site had some really great advice and the attitude of Andy is something I can get along with.

My goals: -

Get comfortable using dating apps
Work on my Instagram account to convey my awesome life
Able to enjoy casual sex outside of relationships (I have pretty much always been with different girls in relationships)
Visit Vancouver and Miami when it is safe to do so (I would love to live in Vancouver, so I want to see what its like of what it is like before pursuing that fully)
Reach 80KG at 10% body fat (Currently 75 KG at around 12%)

"I, Brother_Tucker, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
Body Transformation Guide viewtopic.php?f=40&t=1376
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Joined: Thu Nov 26, 2020 8:32 pm
Name: Gabo
Goal: Be a millionaire artist
Age: 27
Motto: Follow your gut

Thu Nov 26, 2020 9:08 pm

Hey all,

My name is Gabriel, I've been into self improvement since 2017. I joined the gll forums in mid 2017, started the AA program on mid 2018, made it to day 42, then started doing real approaches, I slowly got to about 100 approaches, without much success. I have 3 lays, 2 from social circle and one from online, but I'm at a one year and a half dry spell at the moment. I think it has mostly to do with mental obstacles, like sexual anxiety (moral guilt), perfectionism and a pessimistic mindset, which I've been trying to fix. My motto is from a song, Philosopher- Death (one of my favorite metal bands), I think it entails one of my biggest problems, I get lost in my own thoughts and theories and lose touch with reality.

I've been lurking this forum for a while, I decided to join here because it is more active than GLL and I like the structure of the site. Plus the standard is high here, there are a lot of legit players (including Andy).

I live with my parents, they are both 66 years old, they have showed legitimate concerns about me going to social gatherings, so I decided to respect that and focus on other goals.
My two goals right now are:

-Put together art porfolio (5 good pieces)
-Get to 8% bodyfat

Forgot to do the most important thing: I, Sisyphus commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Last edited by Sisyphus on Thu Nov 26, 2020 10:06 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
Number 2: Fuck 10 girls from cold approach (5/10)

Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Mr Available
Posts: 69 | Thanks: 17
Joined: Sat Nov 28, 2020 2:51 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 24

Sat Nov 28, 2020 2:58 pm

A little about myself:
Currently a student, unfortunately might have to drop out for academic reasons.

I'm preparing for my trip to Colombia this January. Once I'm done with this goal my next goal would be to take care of my finances. I want to make $450K per year.

Spanish levels = Intermediate, will get to advanced by January.
Fitness level = Advanced
Online Game = Biggest weakness
Cold Approach = Can do 50 per day

I only recently got started in photography. I've seen some of the photos you all have posted. Mine aren't on that level yet.

I, Mr Available, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Do me a solid and rate my online pictures please:
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Joined: Sun Nov 29, 2020 12:21 am
Name: Dean
Goal: Build a life
Age: 31
Motto: Enjoy the process

Sun Nov 29, 2020 1:40 am

Hello my name is Dean, I am 31 years old. I came onto this website through GLL. After years of struggling with addiction, dropping out of pharmacy school, and destroying all of my social circle, I had decided to get my life back again. I have been sober for a little more than year now and to be honest, I'm relearning how to live again. Besides my family, I do not have anyone else in my life. But I am trudging along still. I have been going to the gym, socializing with as many people as I can. My goals are to have a life again, to have a career, to have plenty of friends and lovers. I believe I can achieve this things with the help of the people on this forum.
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Joined: Sun Nov 29, 2020 1:34 am
Goal: Get laid more
Age: 23
Motto: Do one thing a day that scares you

Sun Nov 29, 2020 9:02 pm

Hi everyone, I'm architect. I got out of a long-term relationship a few months ago, had less luck with online dating than I would have liked, and now I'm ready to start taking things seriously. I want to have sex with more girls, higher-quality girls, and I'm going to work hard to get it.

I, architect, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Joined: Sun Nov 29, 2020 7:31 pm
Name: Alexander
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 23
Motto: Shadows and Dust
Location: Germany

Sun Nov 29, 2020 9:07 pm

Hey everyone!
My name's Alexander and I'm a 23 y.o. Greek dude living and studying in Germany.
"I, Alexander, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Some background:
Without it sounding too cliche, I'd say I started out really really low, rather similarly to Andy.
I used to be completely and utterly addicted to electronics (videogames, youtube, Netflix, reddit, porn, anything really as long as I could bury my face in a screen) and spent the vast majority of my teenage years like this with barely any friends until around age 19 I finally started getting a grip on my addiction which is by now pretty much entirely gone (largely thanks to a convoluted system of interlocking software and systems that has been perfected over the course of a few years).
Also was downright anorexic @ <60kg at 1,79m (fixed it by learning how to eat and doing Stronglifts 5x5, now weigh 87kg while being quite lean) and suffered from terrible acne which made me shut myself indoors and avoid human contact as much as possible (fixed it by taking Accutane).
After reading the above it may not come as a surprise that I was super duper introverted and socially awkward. Barely had any friends or knew how to socialize, let alone talk to girls.
I'd say that until age 19 I was sort of an incel but not really incel, more like volcel cause I wasn't even interested in women. I was just too absorbed with videogames and porn to even try talking to women.

Eventually, after coming across the whole Self Improvement section of the internet I managed to get some of my shit together and within a few weeks I had lost my virginity to a beautiful girl whom I then went on to fall in love with and practically marry (We actually moved in together and lived like a truly married couple while we were both 20. No joke, we mostly stayed at home, drank tea, studied and read books together while our friends were living the college lifestyle and going to parties.
Twas certainly a good experience and for a good amount of time I felt like I had truly made it in life with only minor insecurities of feeling like I was missing out on life or such.
That is until my ex got bored to death and our relationship (or should I say marriage lol) slowly fell apart over the course of 6 months until she eventually cheated on me before my very eyes and moved out.

This all happened a year ago in November of 2019 and surprisingly enough I literally took a girl back home the first night I went out after my breakup and then another one the same week.
Long story short, since this weekend I just hit the initial goal I set myself of sleeping with 15 women within 1 year I figured I might as well stop being a lurker and sign up here since I now feel up to par so to say.
I've so far had several one night stands, fuckbuddies, an MMFF foursome, had a regular MFF threesome semi-relationship going for a while with two French girls, dipped my toe in BDSM (like a lot), partied and drank aplenty, went to cool raves and did drugs (LSD had been a fucking godsend!), traveled more than in any previous year and found love again to heal my broken heart (one of the aforementioned French girls with whom I am in a long-distance on-and-off relationship for the foreseeable future).

Oh, and I did all this while dealing with severe emotional turmoil from the breakup, the bitterness of getting a very abrupt and very in-depth redpilling, a severe knee injury (my kneecap popped out of place at a JiuJitsu championship back in January) and the deep pit of depression resulting from that and then the COVID-19 pandemic.
GLL and KYIL have been a huge inspiration in my life that has driven me forward like nothing else to do things that to be honest I never really imagined I would ever do.
Andy actually convinced me to finally go to therapy (CBT) and 2 months ago my therapist and me both agreed that the issues I had come to him for had been completely solved by now and there was no point in continuing our sessions.

Seeing myself now in November 2020, a year after I started this journey, I'd rate it a fantastic success.
A year ago I had severe oneitis, didn't really know if I was attractive or desirable, if I could ever again get laid or find a girlfriend or find love.
I certainly didn't picture myself having threesomes or being called a gorgeous Greek God or being invited to cool parties or getting a reputation as a party-animal or sleeping with girls within 3 hours of meeting them or tieing up girls and spanking their butts raw or being in the position to dump girls for being crazy overnight and without any doubt or guilt. Or something as simple as wearing earrings, I suppose.
I guess I didn't really expect to acquire abundance this fast.
Hell, I went from 30 contacts on WhatsApp to 260.
I had the best year of my life, by very far, while also overcoming some of the greatest challenges I have ever faced.
I feel truly alive and happy. At the top of my game and excited for the days, weeks, months and years ahead.
Confident that I am on the right track and that my life is going to work out in the end.

I now find myself ready to truly go all in with the getting laid lifestyle.
This is what I intend to dedicate the coming years of my life to.
At least 2, probably 3, maybe even 4. Or maybe simply until I have exhausted this stage of life so fully that I am 100% ready to move on to bigger and better things.
I want to have as much fun as possible and just concentrate on enjoying life and women and developing myself as a man. The rest, I suppose, will follow if I remain committed and focused.

Current Goals:
  • Fuck 24 girls in 2021.
    Move in with a cool frat in the old town.
    Get a bartending job after the lockdown is over.
    Cut down to 84kg before the gyms reopen and get back to bulking afterwards.
    Figure out online dating so I have a consistent stream of pussy from there.
    Stay consistent with meditation and trip 10 times in 2021.
    Finish You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought.
    Study properly and progress towards graduating.
    Get inked.
    Finish straightening teeth and get them whitened.
    Grow my dick with the Bathmate and the Phallosan Forte.
That should be enough.
Let's get to crushing those goals!
23 Lays - 2 FFM threesome constellations - 2 MFMF foursomes
Living the college lifestyle
My intro: viewtopic.php?f=43&t=49&p=6882#p6882
My log: viewtopic.php?f=40&t=424
Current Goals:
  • 24 Lays in 2021. (3 done)
  • Move in with a cool frat in the old town.
  • Get inked for the first time in 2021.
  • Trip 10 times in 2021. (2 done)
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Joined: Sun Nov 29, 2020 11:02 pm
Name: Aych
Goal: Consistent sex with +8s
Age: 26
Motto: Do it for the people who can't do it

Mon Nov 30, 2020 12:45 am

I, Aych aka Shinobi, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

26 from Chicago
10-15 lays at the time of writing

Been dabbling in self-improvement and pickup since 2014. After a few short lived romances here and there mainly through cold approach, I met my first gf of 2 years on tinder. We ended our relationship amicably in 2020.

As of 2020 I've gone on about 10 first dates.
Currently have 2 girls in rotation and am looking to start dating hotter girls as I progress through this Phase.

- Pass my sales trial at my new job []
- Sublease an apartment in March 2021 []
- Post once a day on personal blog []
- Make $1500 from affiliate marketing []
- Grow strength, Cut on body fat (train daily) []
- Consistently have sex with fit and sometimes model quality women []

Will reasses more goals once I've completed the ones above.
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Joined: Fri Nov 06, 2020 7:54 pm
Goal: Find a purpose
Age: 24

Mon Nov 30, 2020 8:13 pm

I, AnemicBruh, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I've been struggling with an eating disorder(anorexia) and anxiety/unease with myself for the last 2-3 years.
My short-terms goals are the following:
-Gain weight(57kg before 2021 and 58kg before next February)
-No social media(FB, insta or fitness youtube videos for the next 30 days)
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