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OnTheFly
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Joined: Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:07 am
Name: sdf
Goal: Get laid like a warlord
Age: 32
Motto: Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life.

Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:53 am

What's up guys,

I, OnTheFly, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

-get laid like a warlord
-do at least 1 cold approach/day
-no sugar in 2021
-gain 10 more lbs (currently at 171 lbs)

I'll start a journal and write more details there.
GregGreg
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Joined: Fri Jan 01, 2021 12:52 pm
Goal: Max OLD efficiency
Age: 27

Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:00 pm

Hi all

I'm 27 and my primary goal is to try and maximize efficiency with online dating photos

I, GregGreg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Cheers
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Radical
Posts: 760 | Thanks: 451
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Goal: 100 lays
Age: 27
Motto: Take drastic action
Contact:

Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:45 pm

@GregGreg

Hey dude, welcome to the forums

As per our rules you need to edit your first post to include

'I, GregGreg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.'

Any account not following the entry rules will be deleted in 3 days
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*I have written a Men's Style Guide for Beginners which you can grab on my website. It will get you looking like a guy that gets laid in one instructed shopping spree
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DeathToBoyfriendMaterial
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Dec 31, 2020 1:39 pm
Name: Evan
Goal: Get >2 fuckbuddies
Age: 33

Fri Jan 01, 2021 5:14 pm

Hi

I'm Evan, 33M. I just found KYIL and then GLL in the past 2 weeks. I've always put off handling my sex life because I used the "I'll get everything else in my life handled and sex will take care of itself after I have everything fixed" line of reasoning instead of admitting I have anxiety and insecurities around being a sexual man. I've read plenty of PUA stuff in the past, could never get any success with it and always felt stupid doing it. I've had 2 relationships in my life, each only lasting 3-4 months, and 4 other sporadic women throughout my life that I've had sex with since I was 18 (always women who are very forward with their interest in me, never women that I approach and initiate interactions with).

I am committing to accomplishing my goals and taking this seriously. I will really need accountability help.

So, my goals are:
ultimate goal- be able to get sex ANY time I want it, preferably from having multiple fuckbuddies, but also to be able to go on Tinder or cold approach and have a woman THAT night.

get AA handled-I'm doing the GLL AA program

get rid of my Nice Guy/"Boyfriend Material" vibe

have 2-3 fuckbuddies at any given time

Have a great social life. I'm new in my town, been here for 4 months, haven't really made any friends. I also have trouble maintaining ANY relationships, not just sexual ones. I haven't really had anybody I consider a very close friend or best friend since I was a kid. I have signed up for Meetup.com to begin addressing this goal.
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Adam
Posts: 19 | Thanks: 13
Joined: Tue Jan 05, 2021 3:53 pm
Name: Adam
Goal: Lose Fat
Age: 32

Tue Jan 05, 2021 9:47 pm

"I, Adam, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I'm 33 and live on the east coast of the US.

Goals for the next year or so:

- Lose fat. Get down to a 31 inch waist. Currently at 33.5 inches.
- Put on Muscle
- Have more adventures
- Get good with girls (what that means quantitatively to be determined later once it becomes my main priority).

Current Short-Term Goals:
- I WILL lose 2lbs this month (172.0 lbs)
- I WILL take a snowboarding lesson this month. Something I've never done before.
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Steven_v_d
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Joined: Sun Jan 10, 2021 9:49 pm
Name: Steven
Goal: GET LAID!
Age: 22
Motto: No think, only do!

Sun Jan 10, 2021 10:03 pm

Hallo,

I’m Steven, 22 years old. I’m Dutch and study physics at a university in the Netherlands.

Strong doubts about my own appearance and attractiveness towards women / ability to attract women have been a burden I carry for many years starting from my teens.
In the past years I have been improving a lot in this field, having had my first lays with 4 women now.
Still, this area of my life is a big source of dissatisfaction.
The last two years I’ve been gaining a lot of momentum. Together with a great friend I have been conquering my anxieties (that are still not completely gone) for talking to women. We have used the current lockdown to our benefit and got a shit ton more buff through bodyweight training.
Seeing a psychologist for a bit more then half a year now, I have been able to go from a place of depression and huge continuous negative thinking to a better place with more frequent moments of joy, happiness and calmness. Looking back at the prior years, there is almost a sense of grievance for all the pain, negative thinking, self-hatred and foremost continuous anxiety that was my life experience.

Leaving all that drama behind, here are my goals in specific areas of my life.

What I am currently doing to keep me in a good place and have to continue:
- Regular workout (without excuses) 5x a week
- Not numbing myself with weed, alcohol or social media AT ALL
- No caffeine and daily meditation to reduce anxiety
- No masturbation (40 days now) to recover from porn addiction / drive my sexual development
- Cold exposure

Mentality:
- Commit fully to getting laid
- Become more assertive, present, alpha, manly (and lose the ever present “nice guy”)
- Get more edgy (feel like boyfriend material as fuck)
- Stop procrastinating

Mental health:
- Build a more positive self-image
- Lose anxiety, through meditation and habit
- No drugs (weed, mdma, xtc, …), No alcohol, No masturbation

Appearance:
- Lose 15 kg of body fat trough intermittent fasting (20 hours). I came from 100 kg and am currently 97 kg. My goal is 85 kg.
- Clear up my skin
- Develop a fashion sense and act on it. Dare to ware something different and edgy.

I feel strong, confident and more manly, knowing I can and will achieve these goals.

I, Steven, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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mmccann12
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Joined: Tue Jan 12, 2021 4:35 am
Name: Mike
Goal: Improving myself
Age: 31
Motto: One percent better

Tue Jan 12, 2021 4:46 am

I, Mike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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kalamity
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Wed Jan 13, 2021 4:58 pm
Goal: Get some pussy
Age: 18
Motto: Necessity is what impels men to take action

Wed Jan 13, 2021 5:21 pm

What's good guys.

I, kalamity, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
18, from the UK.
I am a beginner, having done only a single cold approach and I have not made a tinder account, which I aim to do.

My goals are:
1. to get girls from both, and to improve my social skills in general
2. stay consistent with my lifting (I bought weights even though gyms in the UK are currently closed)
3. get girls again
4. figure out ways to make money
5. remove the limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns

Honestly I don't even want a relationship rn, just plenty of lays... And by plenty I mean a lot. :P
It's time to move onto the next stage of life.

Much love
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MoeZart
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Joined: Fri Jan 15, 2021 12:44 am
Goal: Become more successful
Age: 24

Fri Jan 15, 2021 12:59 am

Hey i'm Hassan and I commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 24 and live in central europe.

Goals for the next year:
- Put on Muscle since i'm currently underweight and have been my whole life
- Start to a good job after finishing uni
- and be more comfortable around girls

Nice to meet you all.
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thegreatroast
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Jan 15, 2021 5:34 pm
Goal: Succeed on apps
Age: 20

Fri Jan 15, 2021 5:37 pm

I, thegreatroast, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals:
1. Bulk up even more and improve on all my lifts
2. Continue to progress in my chosen career path
3. Improve in all aspects of social interaction
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Radical
Posts: 760 | Thanks: 451
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Goal: 100 lays
Age: 27
Motto: Take drastic action
Contact:

Fri Jan 15, 2021 5:38 pm

@thegreatroast hey dude welcome

As per our rules its a requirement of this forum that you post an avatar of yourself (it can be cropped or blurred)

If you dont do this then we will ban the account in 3 days
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Salsasurgeon
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Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 7:25 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 38

Wed Jan 20, 2021 9:58 am

Hey Andy and everyone,

So happy to have found this forum and we'll get through this as we're soldiers in the same struggle.

I, Omar, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My Goals:
-Receive better quality matches on dating apps (ie: Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel)
-Enjoy some casual relationships
-Eventually find the one
-Continue growing throughout the process as I always have been

Ready to do this and feel free to ask me any questions as I'll do my best to offer my perspective from my end and anything I can do to help.
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Sapere_aude
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Joined: Thu Jan 21, 2021 3:06 am
Name: Ty
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 31

Thu Jan 21, 2021 3:18 am

Hey guys,

Goals: Defeat my depression, become more confident/less anxious, start learning the game, lead a more fulfilled life (find a better career, become better at my hobbies), and meet lots of girls for the betterment of myself and, hopefully, them.

Achieve: Have sex with at least 100 women in the next 10 years.

"I, Ty, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I'll likely edit this as my goals become more defined. Let's get it, boys.
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GinStone
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Joined: Wed Jan 20, 2021 11:10 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 22
Motto: Enjoy the ride
Location: Italy

Thu Jan 21, 2021 11:39 am

Hello everyone,

"I, GinStone, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

22 y-old guy from Italy. Doing fairly decent well with girls and getting laid, but I want to take it to the NEXT LEVEL.

Goals for 2021:

- Having sex with 20-30 different girls;
-Getting better at sex;
-Gaining 5-6 kgs of LEAN muscles;
-Improve in every other aspect of my life

Cheers!
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Sergio7
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Joined: Wed Jan 20, 2021 10:22 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 26

Fri Jan 22, 2021 9:10 am

Hey Sergio's here, 26 years old.
My goals are:
- Improve my numbers (only 2 lays) with internet dating apps
- Keep pushing on daygame
- Reach 9% bodyfat (starting somewhere around 13%)
- Do my first perfect form pull-up and hold a perfect handstand
- Reach the top of expertise in my job (software engineering) [ long term goal]

"I, Sergio, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
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