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bcap
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Tue Dec 27, 2022 11:50 pm
Goal: Laid
Age: 27

Wed Dec 28, 2022 12:02 am

I’m bcap

I, bcap, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

27 from the USA, living in Florida

Current goals for 2023
- reach lifting goals, cut to 10% bf
- get 12 lays this year
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Leunammon
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Fri Dec 30, 2022 5:36 pm
Goal: Lose fat
Age: 25
Motto: Can't stay comfortable

Fri Dec 30, 2022 6:06 pm

I, Leunammon, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 25 and have let life pass me by. I will achieve my goals and make something of myself.

Goals for the next year:
  • Lose weight and get back into shape
  • Take the medical admission test
  • Get into med school
  • Get laid
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flaneur
Posts: 2 | Thanks:
Joined: Fri Dec 30, 2022 5:33 pm
Name: Seth
Goal: Improve Physique
Age: 20
Motto: Honesty is the Greatest Aphrodisiac

Fri Dec 30, 2022 8:31 pm

What's up people. I'm Flaneur from Boston, MA. Found this place looking for a guide on taking tinder pics and thought "oh what the hell."

My goals are as follows:
-Add on about 30 lbs of muscle over the next 3-4 years - I've always been pretty scrawny and I want to get to around 190-200 lbs when fully cut (currently 185 at 10% BF)
-Learn to box and dance
-Get online dating profiles setup with GOOD pictures
-Develop a personal style
-Get some tats, maybe an ear piercing? Gotta figure out what looks good
-Learn to go out alone and do so 3-4 times a week (this is a big one for me)
-defeat approach anxiety
-Grow my business from 'side-hustle' status to a full-time endeavor.

Super excited to be here with you all!


And of course, I, Flaneur, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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IceMan
Posts: 20 | Thanks: 14
Joined: Sun Jan 01, 2023 4:27 pm
Name: Max
Goal: to become disciplined
Age: 31

Sun Jan 01, 2023 5:31 pm

Hello everyone,
I'm Iceman But you can call me Max!
I've been called Iceman by my colleagues as i practice the Wim Hof Method and i only wear shirts hench te name! Ironically i still have to take the Icebath challenge! Which definitely is on the program.

i'm 30, almost 31 and i live in The Netherlands.

The reason i joined the forum is that i really want to better my self-discipline and willpower. I also want to work on my integrity which all are linked together.
Its not that i was that flawed with these, its more that i'm not happy with the results so far and i want to improve those results.

I currently work as a house painter which i really like. But i'm still working for a boss and i want to have my own hybrid paint company between now and 5 years. (Hybrid as in, i'm also a creative person who's a photographer and music producer. I'd like to do freelance creative jobs too in the future. But i don't want to quit painting just yet as i do really enjoy the job even if its manual labor.)

I've been working out for about 10 years now. With the main focus being health over size these last years.

There's also work to be done regarding dating. I've got laid about 20 times, but as i'm approaching 31 and i haven't had that much action these last years (only had one lay in 2022) i have a feeling that i missing out on something and i want to have some additional casual experiences. I do want to find someone serious in the future though. But its not my main goal.

: Goals in 5 years (work in progres list)
- Having my own Paint/creative hybrid company.
- The paint company has to be fully focused on bio-based paints)
- Having no financial worries anymore (I don't have to be mad weathy myself. but i don't want to have any financial worries anymore either)
- Finishing the music course i will attend this september.
- having build proper integrity and a steel-like willpower/discipline
- reached impressive strength and health feats like muscle ups front back lever, one armed push-ups with good form etc.
- Had quality casual experiences (additional 20 + lays)
- Read and implimented over 100 books.

: Goals in 1 year
- stick to a weekly personal vlog here on the forum. (Integrity/discipline goal)
- Saving atleast 5000 Euro's (Financial worry goal)
- changing company/ getting a better salary deal (Financial worry goal)
- Having atleast 5 'own' paint jobs (Paint company goal)
- Starting the music Course in september (Music Course goal)
- finishing 6 bought masterclasses which just lay around. (music course/willpower goal)
- Mastered the muscle up with perfect form. (Strength and health goal)
- get to atleast 12% bodyfat (14 now), if this goes really well the goal will be shifted to 11 and maybe even 10.
- no alcohol for a year (discipline/willpower)
- no porn/masturbation for a year (discipline/willpower)
- limited bad junk foods. No take outs (discipline/willpower)
- Read 20 books and impliment the knowledge through creating a mindmap about them. (discipline/book goal)

: January Goals
- stick to a weekly personal vlog here on the forum. (Integrity/discipline goal)
- saving atleast 800 (financial worry goal)
- Finishing 1 masterclass (music/will power goal)
- Consistingly work out 3 times a week for the month without skipping a workout. A bad workout is better than no workout (strength/discipline)
- No alcohol for a month. Even if its my birthday the 20th. Nope nada. (discipline/willpower)
- reach the month without porn/fap (discipline/willpower)
- reach 70kgs again (72.5kgs now) (Strength and health goal)
- Having my morning routine back in check (waking up > reading 20 mins > meditation 10 - 15 mins > Ear training app > GTG) (discipline/willpower)
- Finishing 3 books, (How to win friends & influence people > Atomic Habits > Loving What Is) (book/discipline goal)

Damn its quite the list reviewing it back. Honestly? i'm terrified and super stoked at the same time. Especially the vlog thing, But i think its essential to do in order to really get yourself in the works with it. And also just being able to look back on the journey one went is a gift on its own.

I Max commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
: Febuary Goals 2023
- Continueing the vlogs, get better microphone
- increase savings to atleast 1200
- Finishing 1 masterclass on music production
- Keep the morning routine in check.
- Keeping up with the workout consistency.
- No take outs regarding food
- Continueing the streak of no drinking/fapping
- Reach 12% bodyfat.
- Continueing the IF protocol.
- Read 1 book and write.
- Write atleast one inquiry of The Work a day.
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Mindset
Posts: 135 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Mon Jan 02, 2023 2:15 pm
Goal: Get laid & retain
Age: 28
Motto: The grass is greener where you water it
Location: The Netherlands

Mon Jan 02, 2023 2:28 pm

I, Mindset, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I've read Andy's Tinder guide and the Slight edge summary/guide

I found the website through a lucky google search and have been in the space for a while but have not been taking it as seriously as I should.

Goals February 6th:

1: Get laid and retain two girls
2: Make $500 in revenue with my online business

Mini-goals:
1: Finish my 20-pack of teeth whitening strips
2: Learn how to play chess
3: add 2 pictures to my dating/online profile

Look forward to learning from you guys and later on giving advice where possible.
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Goals for December 31st 2023

Paid Dating Photography - 50% attention
1st Month of 4k w/ Dating Photography
KPI: 1 Photoshoot per week

144 Sales - 25% attention
79/144
KPI: 40-50 calls a day
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W G
Posts: 30 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2023 2:04 am
Goal: Stability
Age: 23

Wed Jan 04, 2023 2:16 am

I, Will, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My #1 goal is to be emotionally secure on relationships, had TERRIBLE experiences on heartbreaks and I'm looking forward to be a better man realizing I could have ton more options once a relationship is over.

Came from DC7 yt channel to GLL and completed half of the AA program (realized I was able to hit on girls already) and migrated here for an active community.
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1prctbetterdaily
Posts: 6 | Thanks: 11
Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2023 9:50 pm
Name: Bradley
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 21
Location: Orlando, Florida, USA

Wed Jan 04, 2023 10:06 pm

My number one goal is to lose my virginity in 2023. I am autistic and have difficulty interacting with women, and have some body fat to lose as well. I am around 187 lbs (85 kg), down from 286 lbs (130 kg) four years ago. I am skinny fat and my goal is to lose ~15 lbs (7 kg) in two months by implementing a strength training routine and adhering to a 1,800-2,200 calorie/day, high-protein diet. Unfortunately, I developed a oneitis for a crush I met on a group trip. She has a vivacious personality and great smile, and I am obsessed w/ her. My goal is still to interact with more women and try to get laid, despite the effort required to find a girl like her and attract her. I will continue attend group therapy once a week, in addition to regular therapy and psychiatry sessions, to deal with my issues relating to obsessive crushes and autism. My goal is to earn $50-70k+ for my first job out of college. I had a intro phone call for a remote analyst role today, and have multiple job interviews next week. I plan to hit the gym as soon as I recover from being sick. I hope 2023 is a year full of prosperity and love :)

I, dedicated individual, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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"My happiness is not the means to any end. It is the end. It is its own goal. It is its own purpose."-Ayn Rand, Anthem
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IntellectualMuscle
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Tue Dec 27, 2022 11:54 pm
Name: Ketan
Goal: Love Myself
Age: 33
Motto: Just. Beasting.
Location: Oakville, Ontario, CA
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Wed Jan 04, 2023 10:16 pm

Hey Guys, very excited to finally be on the forums!

My name is Ketan Seth and my Social Media/YT Handles are @intellectual.muscle or IntellectualMuscle across different platforms.

I've been listening to Andy's podcasts and YT for a while now, first finding it through the Approach Anxiety program and then realizing there is actually an active community on here that is working together to better themselves!

I've been in self-improvement for over 15 years now (Zyzz & GLL were my first ever idol/mentor) and started Pick Up about 2 years ago as a means to get over my fears of "not being good enough".

I have since documented my journey on my Youtube channel :- https://youtube.com/c/IntellectualMuscle
&
my IG :- https://instagram.com/Intellectual.Muscle

I've learnt from and worked with Alex from PWF, John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset, John Anthony, Todd V and Zebotta, a bunch of their podcasts have been posted on my channel.

In the past 3 years I've made a crazy body transformation.


Wr.t. Pick Up moved from a Socially Awkward Retard with crazy Approach Anxiety & done a BUNCH of Day Games with some AMAZING interactions. Did a little bit of night game too but not enough.


Started off helping others via my Youtube and Podcasts where I share every bit of my journey and my successes and failures and coach others like us going from heartbroken, low self-confidence etc Incels to Getting Laid.


My Goals

Wr.t. Game these are all the things I haven't done that I wish to explore :
-3somes
-Pull from Clubs/Bars repeatedly
-Greater engagement with Higher Quality Women
-Older Women (LOVE Cougars and need to find my Mrs. Robinsons <3 )

I am looking to get back into Game BIG time for a period of 3-6 months at least and see what's capable with a 100% focus on nothing but Game (which has pretty much NEVER been able to happen so far). At some point, I would maybe even want to take a "world tour" or at least hop on the top few countries with a bunch of guys all looking to slay together.

I am actually looking for active wings in the GTA, I live in Oakville currently myself and would love to have someone to team up with to hit the Night Game locations.

I, Ketan/Intellectual Muscle, commit to working on my next goals of exploring night games and a crazy debaucherous sex life SERIOUSLY.
I'm the big brother with tough love you didn't even know you needed.

Youtube :- https://youtube.com/c/IntellectualMuscle

Instagram :- https://instagram.com/Intellectual.Muscle
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tofu_toni
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Jan 06, 2023 12:27 pm
Name: Toni
Goal: Get laid more
Age: 21
Motto: Cupid ready to shoot

Fri Jan 06, 2023 12:34 pm

I, Toni, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I have some experience (20 lays) but have been in a dry spell for the last few months and I am commited to changing that for good. I am a Uni student (21 years) in a medium/small city in Europe

Current goals:
-Sleep with at least 10 new girls in 2023 and retain the ones that I enjoy spending time with.
-Gain 6 kg of muscle and hit 87 kg (current weight 81 kg)
-Have an overall satisfying dating life
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Manganiello
Posts: 1736 | Thanks: 2021
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Career Launch
Age: 33
Motto: Embrace your Darkside
Location: Seoul

Fri Jan 06, 2023 3:20 pm

Futurepremballer27 wrote:
Fri Jan 06, 2023 1:27 pm
[attachment=0]IMG_20221228_091734.jpg[/attachment hey im Junior my goal is to improve as a man

Hi @Futurepremballer27.

Nice to meet you.



To use this website:

1. Have your picture put in your profile.
2. Write the part in red text and put it in your first post. (click this to see)

English might not be your native language. But you must follow the rules of this site.

If you have questions please ask soon.


If you don't ask questions or make changes in 3 days I will have to ban your account for not following the rules.
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Past Goals:
🗡️ AA Program Log
☀️ Lost vCard from Day Game Post
🇰🇷 Moved to Korea Post
🔥 OLD Log & Lays Log


How I got 9 lays in the first 6 weeks on Tinder
[Guide]

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Declaration of Principles
Posts: 8 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sat Jan 07, 2023 8:10 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 25
Motto: Tonight's the night

Sat Jan 07, 2023 8:53 pm

Hi.

I'm Declaration of Principals, or DoP, 25 from Scotland

I turned 25 last summer, and I'm getting my life sorted. spent the last 2 years of university in a funk, and I let my career and personal life get away from me. After 6 months of proper ground up work, i think i'm at a place to really tackle some self-improvement, and join this site.

Bit about me:
I'm a huge fan of old movies (my username comes from Citizen Kane). I would like to make movies for myself, and made 2 shorts a while back.
I love cooking. used to bake, but now it's mostly healthy for me.
I work at a nightclub, but not an especially cool one. looking to trade up.

my goals for the year
Get laid - sleep with 10 girls and go on 30 dates. (I've finally signed up for tinder and hinge Today. That should help!!)
Exercise goals - visible abs and jawline + add muscle.
Hobbies - Save for a DSLR so i can take better pictures and to make a short film over the year
Work - keep applying to new places and try to get a better job.

I, DoP, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Manganiello
Posts: 1736 | Thanks: 2021
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Career Launch
Age: 33
Motto: Embrace your Darkside
Location: Seoul

Sun Jan 08, 2023 1:45 am

Declaration of Principles wrote:
Sat Jan 07, 2023 8:53 pm
Hi.

I'm Declaration of Principals, or DoP, 25 from Scotland

I turned 25 last summer, and I'm getting my life sorted. spent the last 2 years of university in a funk, and I let my career and personal life get away from me. After 6 months of proper ground up work, i think i'm at a place to really tackle some self-improvement, and join this site.

Bit about me:
I'm a huge fan of old movies (my username comes from Citizen Kane). I would like to make movies for myself, and made 2 shorts a while back.
I love cooking. used to bake, but now it's mostly healthy for me.
I work at a nightclub, but not an especially cool one. looking to trade up.

my goals for the year
Get laid - sleep with 10 girls and go on 30 dates. (I've finally signed up for tinder and hinge Today. That should help!!)
Exercise goals - visible abs and jawline + add muscle.
Hobbies - Save for a DSLR so i can take better pictures and to make a short film over the year
Work - keep applying to new places and try to get a better job.

I, DoP, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.


Hey mate,

Nice to have you here.

Just noticed your profile pic is missing. Or atleast the file isn't loading for me, or the other mods.

Can you try uploading again?

Have a profile pic is a mandatory requirement of the forum.
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Past Goals:
🗡️ AA Program Log
☀️ Lost vCard from Day Game Post
🇰🇷 Moved to Korea Post
🔥 OLD Log & Lays Log


How I got 9 lays in the first 6 weeks on Tinder
[Guide]

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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4138 | Thanks: 4746
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Sun Jan 08, 2023 6:36 pm

Welcome, brothers, and make yourself at home!

You are appreciated here.

We want to help.

Start a progress log, tell us your story.

We will support you. I'll make sure of it.

MAC
YouTube: IronWill: https://www.youtube.com/@IronWillTribe/

GOALS 2023:
(1) MONEY: £3k Per Month W/ My Passion Biz, IronWill Accountability & High Performance Coaching
(2) Muscles: Building Physique Towards Adonis Ratio
(3) Mindset: Develop My Mentality & Inner Being
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Yggdrasil13
Posts: 43 | Thanks: 8
Joined: Sun Jan 08, 2023 10:37 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27
Motto: Do or Die

Sun Jan 08, 2023 10:54 pm

I, Yggdrasil13, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi.

My main goal is to get laid by multiple girls and be a player.

Other goals are to put on some muscle and produce good art.
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Reddas
Posts: 47 | Thanks: 13
Joined: Wed Jan 11, 2023 3:48 pm
Goal: Max myself out
Age: 31

Wed Jan 11, 2023 4:10 pm

"I, Reddas, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Hello everybody,

I'm here to take action, maximize my full potential, and document my progress.

My current goal is to get paid, since I don't have any income right now, only savings (around 100k) - lived on savings for a fucking long time, while I became obsessed with the gym. Best income year I had was around 160.000$.

When my cash-flow is in check, it will open more doors for my overall lifestyle that I will explore.


Let's go, my friends.
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