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ethicalloser
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Mon Jun 05, 2023 3:56 pm
Goal: Confidence
Age: 20
Motto: Never Stop Progressing

Mon Jun 05, 2023 4:10 pm

I, Ethicalloser , commit to working on myself and taking myself seriously.

Goals:

End dry spell ( Sleep With 10 new girls by 2024 )
Save enough money to move countries
Move Countries
Achieve somewhat 'Social Freedom'
Drop to 70kg from 75kg
Quit Porn
Quit time-wasting
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bigV
Posts: 55 | Thanks: 5
Joined: Tue Jun 06, 2023 3:45 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 30
Motto: Per aspera ad astra

Tue Jun 06, 2023 3:56 pm

I, bigV, commit to working on myself and taking myself seriously.

Polish expat doing a PhD in Switzerland. I don't even speak the local language. The loneliness here was my small personal hell. I'm close to 30 and soon I'll be forced to switch countries, so it's time to sort out my shit. No face in the photo, I don't want to be recognized via an image search, and if I stay in academia my face might become public.

I already started following Andy's self-improvement guide. Lost 5kgs, bought accessories, started treating my acne scars, currently trying to take good pictures of myself.
Reading Andy's guide alone made me realise that improving myself is possible and motivated me to quit porn. Andy, if you're reading this, I already owe you.

Goals:
Lose ~13kgs more until I'm around 10% BF
Achieve social freedom
Get laid 5 times before I'm forced to switch countries
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Ruscu
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Joined: Tue Jun 06, 2023 7:47 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 35

Tue Jun 06, 2023 8:22 pm

I, Ruscu, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 34 years old. It's crazy to think that I started reading some pick up stuff in 2008 but never really committed to it. I still improved over the years just out of normal life accumulation of experience plus a bit of guidance I did extract every now and then from pick up content, especially in the last few years after my last relationship. Concretely, I got laid about once every two or three years in my early twenties, sometimes feeling it was almost impossible that I would ever get laid again without paying. Now I have more consistent results and more confidence but still far from where I'd like to be.

Goals:
Get laid with girls I'm really attracted to, and in the process figure out what kinds of relationships I want
Make more friends
Create new income streams
And I would love to cold approach in daytime but I'm honestly not so sure I'll be able to beat my excuses/fear on that one.
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Sun Jun 11, 2023 4:50 pm

Jamesfromoz wrote:
Sun Jun 11, 2023 3:53 pm
I, jamesfromoz, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I’ve been reading about the pickup community lately, especially mike mehlmans blog and go interested in pickup, so looking to use this forum to keep myself accountable and try get laid

Goals:

Get laid,
Cold approach more
Your profile pic seems AI generated. Privately send me a different pic, with a different expressions, in a different setting if you want to continue being part of the forum.

Also, we don't want MM name mentioned here. We call him Lord Voldemort.
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MrBond
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Fri Jun 09, 2023 9:35 pm
Name: Rob
Goal: Become a Better Person
Age: 28
Motto: on s'engage et puis on voit

Sun Jun 11, 2023 8:10 pm

Hello everyone,

I, MrBond, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

28 from Italy, my current goals are:

-finishing my degree in data science
-understand how relationship work in a more general sense
-find a HQ girlfriend
-become financially indipendent, i.e. I don't want to care about money as much as I do now
-I want to be able to recognize oppurtunities when they present themselves

I am not a native english speaker, so please excuse me if some of my writing make little sense, and thank you all in advance,

Rob
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bonzo34
Posts: 468 | Thanks: 87
Joined: Mon Jan 10, 2022 2:33 am
Name: Alex
Goal: 50 "made love"
Age: 28
Location: San Antonio TX

Tue Jun 13, 2023 10:15 pm

lol why can't people put their picture. I found pest control at least
dating

resolve job/income

Be an Army Officer

50 lays. 1/50

The first time you quit, it's hard. The second time, it gets easier. The third time, you don't even have to think about it.
be transparent as possible. Stop setting plays. Stop playing chess with life.
you make progress when you face a fear head on
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Atlantis
Posts: 35 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Jun 15, 2023 12:18 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 26
Motto: I will not fear. Fear is the mind-killer.

Thu Jun 15, 2023 12:35 pm

I, Atlantis, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Found this forum at the end of 2021, started implementing the advice given here and as a result had about 20 lays from online in 2022. It doesn't feel like ive done
alot of work though, my online success was mostly down to one good picture i shot of myself. I've since moved to a much bigger city (1.8M people) and my online dating
pretty much died. (Though i slept with two girls in my second week here and am still seeing one of them) I suspected this would happen since there were more girls than boys in my last city. So after doing a professional photoshoot and not seeing any improvement
it is time for me to get my ass up and do the work. For me that means:

Talking to atleast one girl a week (will increase later)
Bulking up to 90kg (currently at 80.5)
Improving my fashion
Making friends in this new city

I will setup a log to post what i did everyday to keep myself accountable.
Also i want to reach a place where i can give value back to this community that has already done so much for me. Looking forward to being a part of this!
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fatone42
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Joined: Fri Jun 16, 2023 3:00 am
Goal: Lose Fat
Age: 52
Motto: Your Network Is Your Networth

Fri Jun 16, 2023 3:18 am

Im fatone42
I, fatone42, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

From Rhodesia, living in san jose as of now.
Goals:
-Quit gambling
-Quit coke
-Quit nitrous
-Quit kratom
-Get a hair transplant
-Lose weight
-Network more (day-traders)
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Sat Jun 17, 2023 11:23 am

smithy5556 wrote:
Sat Jun 17, 2023 10:43 am
Hey guys

From Sydney Australia. Had sporadic success with online but want to start doing more cold approach and overcoming fear of rejection.
You need to edit your post according to the rules. Check the first post on this thread for the deets. Got 3 days to fix it, otherwise we'll ban your account.
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rebel
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 9
Joined: Wed Aug 05, 2020 10:00 am
Goal: Solve Online Dating
Age: 25
Motto: We are not here to take part, we're here to take o

Sat Jun 17, 2023 12:22 pm

I Abel, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

25 years old from Los Angeles, CA
Been around the self improvement community since age 15, found goodlookingloser at that time and started cold approaching 10 years ago while still in highschool.
I can consistently pull from in person both day time + bars

One thing I have not solved to this day or put any effort towards is online dating and the goal is to solve online dating completely handled to a point where I can get multiple lays a month from online solely.
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DragonSlaya69
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Joined: Sat Jun 17, 2023 2:01 pm
Goal: Get Laid, no fat chicks
Age: 27
Motto: UwU

Sat Jun 17, 2023 2:08 pm

I, DragonSlaya69, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

27 year old guy who is having trouble finding a job.
-goals
-Get laid on dating app(no fat chicks, no milfs)
-lose minimum of 50 pounds before 2024
-Get a better job that pays atleast 50k a year
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randomNPC
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Fri Jul 03, 2020 5:12 am
Goal: Get a life
Age: 35

Sat Jun 17, 2023 3:22 pm

Hi lads,

I'm randomNPC, I'm a 35 years old NEET/hikikomori from central Europe.

I've been lurking since 2013 on GLL and here since the forum was made without taking much action.

I'll start a progress log and start working towards my goals.

I, randomNPC, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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G-Man
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 14
Joined: Sun Jun 18, 2023 9:33 am
Goal: Start a business
Age: 26
Motto: Its worse in your head than in reality

Sun Jun 18, 2023 7:46 pm

Hi there
I'm G-Man

I, G-Man, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

26 from Kenya, been reading the forums and watching Andy's stuff for a long time, thought it was about time I join.
My biggest issues to solve revolve around social anxiety, financial instability, and no success with women.

For the year 2023, my goals are:
-quit employment and make independent income aiming for 200,000kshs (2000$) a month in my own business
-overcome my social anxiety and make 1 new friend to hang out with
-get laid more and get 2 fbs (previously I would have said lose my V-card but I recently handled that)
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foducossy42
Posts: 521 | Thanks: 76
Joined: Wed Jun 21, 2023 12:41 pm
Goal: Hot girls + FFM
Age: 26
Location: London

Wed Jun 21, 2023 1:39 pm

Sup
I'm foducossy42
I, foducossy42, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

26 year-old living in London

I want to solve online dating for myself and build a kickass profile that brings in high quality matches consistently.

I've previously had success on online dating apps and achieved 150 matches, 30 dates, 15 kiss-closes and 5 f-closes through there. But that was 3 years ago when I was in uni, and now that I'm working and the market has changed, things seem to be different. Photo quality needs to be higher, girls out in the real world may care about other things. I've also been in a long term relationship and need to rebuild my social skills and rizz.

Strengths: graduated from top university, decently facially attractive (helps if people can comment/rate), confident with girls (able to escalate kino, deep dive and connect), top 1% earner in London so I have financial resources to achieve my goals. I'm also confident enough to cold approach, but I don't care for the art as I don't fancy the statistics and I'm not sure if it'll help with my long term goal.
Weaknesses: radiating sexuality irl and on Tinder pictures, body is just average or maybe slightly above average, not sure what sort of girls I'm best placed to attract and how to customise my Tinder profile for that.

Current short term goals
- drop to 68kg (currently 74kg) and have visible abs and no love handles
- find an FWB
- Improve fashion sense
- Take better pictures for Tinder
- Be able to convert 50% of dates into make-outs

Medium term goals
- Commence lean bulking once I'm lean
- Be able to convert 50% of make-outs into f-closes
- Be able to get laid at least once a month with a new girl

Long term goals
- 80-83kg at 10-12% bodyfat
- Find a girlfriend I really, really like. Yeah, sue me, I'm into relationships, but I want to set my standards high and never settle.
My log & learnings for online dates
My Telegram log for your daily dose of shitposts

Goals for 2024:
- Gym consistency
- Apply to jobs
- Threesome

2024 lay count: 10
^No goals for this, idgaf

Lifetime lay count: 36

In 2023 (June onwards) I achieved:
- Stylemaxxing & facial looksmaxxing
- Killer dating app pics
- 20 new lays
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GN44
Posts: 461 | Thanks: 88
Joined: Wed Apr 05, 2023 8:23 pm
Name: GN
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 21
Motto: If you pity yourself, life is an endless nightmare
Location: United States

Wed Jun 21, 2023 11:09 pm

Whats good everyone, I'm GN

I, GN, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

I am 21 years old from the USA, currently a rising senior in college. I discovered KYIL a few months back and found it super refreshing because most dating advice on the internet is straight ass. Andy always keeping it real.

I have struggled a fuck ton with women and self esteem for a very long time. I was born on the spectrum so social interaction wasn't my forte. I discovered self improvement Aug 2022 and started going to the gym after my weight nearly crossed 200 pounds. Since then I have gained muscle and lost 30 pounds meaning I am finally a healthy weight! I also started talking to girls more often and I have approached probably 10-15 women since and managed to get a date! Sadly it didn't work out between us but it proves I can do it! I also picked up Ballroom dancing which has helped a TON with getting comfortable with women.

Initially I was down I only got one date, but reading Andy's article "Give yourself permission to suck", I looked at it from a different perspective. I learned A LOT from the mistakes I made in the past year and I will only get better.

I tried doing OLD (Hinge), for a few weeks but it fucked up my mental health and destroyed my self esteem for a while because I was really average in appearance at the time and the app kept feeding me super hot girls I thought I had no chance with, made me feel like the ugliest mf in the world. I did get a few matches and likes and some of the guys I talked to said I had great ratio for a dude. I also saw a lot of people saying OLD is worthless if you aren't straight, white, and 6ft+ so I have been discouraged from trying again. I am straight (mostly), Indian/Middle Eastern, and 5ft 10. Additionally, In retrospect I realize I had mid tier photos and a very "pick me"-esque profile. I want to try again to hopefully get laid so I may need some help.

My current short term goals:
-Reduce Porn usage
-Reduce Social Media use (mainly Reddit)
-Lose V-card by end of college
-Learn more new cooking recipes
-Reduce Hair loss

Medium term goals:
-Have sex with attractive women/increase lay count (or find a gf whichever comes first)
-Get into CAA school
-Get rid of Moobs/Love handles

Long term goals:
-Get a 200k+ job (should be doable if I get into CAA school)
-Get married to someone I can give my 110% to
-Buy a nice car (hopefully a Porsche)
"Stop pitying yourself. Pity yourself, and life becomes an endless nightmare" - Osamu Dazai
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