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klondike
Posts: 298 | Thanks: 118
Joined: Mon Aug 22, 2022 12:58 am
Goal: Drop to 205lbs
Age: 35

Mon Aug 22, 2022 1:04 am

Whatsup I'm Klondike. Only game goals right now are to get to a beginner level, and to hook up with 5 girls off the apps. Primary physique goal is to drop 15-20lbs of lard.

I, Klondike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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gettingoutofcomfortzone
Posts: 62 | Thanks: 27
Joined: Sun Aug 21, 2022 5:12 pm
Name: Ash
Goal: Delayed Gratification.
Age: 33
Motto: Desire Control.

Mon Aug 22, 2022 12:55 pm

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Tue Jun 02, 2020 10:32 am
"I, ASH, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
Yo...!!
32, 165 cm, Obese, Single, Indian in Sweden.
Fcking feeling 60 for the past few months.
Main reason that pushed me to create an account is to be part of a community that are full of go-getters.

Goal
To get Laid. Be comfortable in my own shoes.
But, have these major hurdles to cross.
- Reduce BF and Weight .
- Reduce Social Anxiety, stop being a goofy smiling moron to everyone.
- Increase presence in Socials.
- Be selfish enough to prioritize my life over family. Fckin, Indian households man.
- Improve style. Being positive.
- Masturbation.

Triggers:
- Porn,
- Living life through others lenses,
- Mindless Reddit & YouTube browsing.
- Need for validation, criticism from the current woman I am seeing.

What I have going for me.
- New job that has good potential. Moderate salary currently.
- New weight loss program. I like the workouts enough to keep me going to the gym consistently.
- Have my own place and transport. (was a luxury for me until now).
- Independent enough to pursue new interests, hobbies.


Abilities:
- Quit nicotine addiction in the past and 100% convinced I can do it in other areas of my life.
- Attempted nofap previously to moderate success (90+ days).
- Willing and able minded.

I read that it is beneficial to do daily logs so as to improve consistently.
I wish to add more details as part of my daily logs.
Excited to be here.
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colgate
Posts: 919 | Thanks: 1775
Joined: Thu Aug 05, 2021 9:23 pm
Name: bulldog
Goal: BANG!! japanese chicks!
Age: 27
Location: japan
Contact:

Tue Aug 23, 2022 8:52 am

gettingoutofcomfortzone wrote:
Mon Aug 22, 2022 12:55 pm
KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Tue Jun 02, 2020 10:32 am
"I, ASH, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
Yo...!!
32, 165 cm, Obese, Single, Indian in Sweden.
Fcking feeling 60 for the past few months.
Main reason that pushed me to create an account is to be part of a community that are full of go-getters.

Goal
To get Laid. Be comfortable in my own shoes.
But, have these major hurdles to cross.
- Reduce BF and Weight .
- Reduce Social Anxiety, stop being a goofy smiling moron to everyone.
- Increase presence in Socials.
- Be selfish enough to prioritize my life over family. Fckin, Indian households man.
- Improve style. Being positive.
- Masturbation.

Triggers:
- Porn,
- Living life through others lenses,
- Mindless Reddit & YouTube browsing.
- Need for validation, criticism from the current woman I am seeing.

What I have going for me.
- New job that has good potential. Moderate salary currently.
- New weight loss program. I like the workouts enough to keep me going to the gym consistently.
- Have my own place and transport. (was a luxury for me until now).
- Independent enough to pursue new interests, hobbies.


Abilities:
- Quit nicotine addiction in the past and 100% convinced I can do it in other areas of my life.
- Attempted nofap previously to moderate success (90+ days).
- Willing and able minded.

I read that it is beneficial to do daily logs so as to improve consistently.
I wish to add more details as part of my daily logs.
Excited to be here.
sup dude

i'm a ~167cm indian except i'm in america. i think we have very similar base stats but i just started before you :P

you can read my logs (in my signature) if you want to learn more about my journey

hmu in PM if you want to be in contact
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📖 My Story

🥰 dating log
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see my interview!
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hq4
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Tue Aug 23, 2022 1:36 pm
Goal: Get Into College
Age: 18
Motto: Failure is not an option

Tue Aug 23, 2022 4:45 pm

I, hq4, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hello! Its hq4, a 18 year old autistic which virgin and skinny.
I was surfing in the red pill communities and fond Andy's blog. This place is amazing and contains more actionable guides than most red pill community.

Goals:
- Go to college in 2 years
- Get a side hustle
- Become 70kg(58kg right now)
- Run a marathon
- Run a half-marathon barefoot
- Get a 1 hour cold exposure
- Get laid in the college time
kratjeuh
Posts: 740 | Thanks: 341
Joined: Sun Aug 21, 2022 8:18 pm
Goal: ...lskd
Age: 94

Tue Aug 23, 2022 6:13 pm

Hello kratjeuh here, 26years old.

Main goal right now is to get laid a lot from online dating + the occasional night out. I want to achieve an abundant dating life before committing full time to make money and expand my life.
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Papa0231
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Tue Aug 16, 2022 3:16 am
Name: Papa
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 22
Motto: Thot magnet

Thu Aug 25, 2022 6:35 am

I, Pops0231, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

Hey I’m 22 and my goals are to be the best man ho I can possibly be. I want have over 700 bodies minimum before I leave earth. My goals for right now is just build a rotation and become the best conversationalist I can be. I want to build a foundation from cold approaching so good that I can get laid any night I want by just going outside. I know that’s seem like a lot but it’s doable and it will get done.
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JakeS
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Joined: Thu Aug 25, 2022 7:17 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 21

Thu Aug 25, 2022 7:26 pm

I, JakeS, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I want to get laid once or twice a month and go on two or three date per month.
I want to go to the gym 5 days a week. Of course, I want to improve all parts of my body, but specifically I want to get bigger shoulders, arms, and chest, as I'm pretty skinny.
I want to learn more about how to interact with people better. I have aspergers (and I think the autism jokes in the tinder guide are hilarious) and have lived relatively socially isolated for most of my life due to factors outside of my control. I'm not completely socially incompetent, but there is certainly room for improvement.
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_J_
Posts: 12 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Thu Aug 25, 2022 11:48 pm
Goal: Lose Virginity
Age: 21
Motto: Day by day

Fri Aug 26, 2022 12:22 am

I, J, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I've come a far way in my self improvement journey. I've improved my self hatred, I've lost 40 pounds, I've improved my confidence and more but I've still got a long ways to go. I've never gotten laid before, I haven't had my first kiss yet, quite frankly I have very little confidence with women and I want to change that. I don't want to find the girl of my dreams and be too scared to ask her out and be worried about not having sex before. I want some experience and I think that will bring confidence along with it. I'm joining this forum for some general guidance and to have some accountability.

Right now I'm at my final year of college and I'm back on campus for one final hurrah. There is so many cute girls around and I've been too scared to hit on them. I think joining this forum is going to give me the push I need to hit my goals.

Current goals:
Specific:
Hit 163 LBS by end of September
Go on 10 dates this year: 0/10
Go on 5 dates with cute/hot girls this year 0/5
Get my first kiss this semester
Lose my virginity before this semester is over
Make 3 new friends this semester 0/3

Broad:
Get more confident with women
Get more confident in going out alone
Be more social
Make some new friends this semester
Current goals:
One casual date a month 2/12
Get Laid again
Get visible abs before summer
Improve Dating profiles before April
Improve mindset and mental health
Post every day for rest of the year 0/301

Completed Goals:
Get my first kiss 1/1
Lose my virginity 1/1
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gettingoutofcomfortzone
Posts: 62 | Thanks: 27
Joined: Sun Aug 21, 2022 5:12 pm
Name: Ash
Goal: Delayed Gratification.
Age: 33
Motto: Desire Control.

Fri Aug 26, 2022 9:51 am

colgate wrote:
Tue Aug 23, 2022 8:52 am
sup dude

i'm a ~167cm indian except i'm in america. i think we have very similar base stats but i just started before you

you can read my logs (in my signature) if you want to learn more about my journey

hmu in PM if you want to be in contact
Hey, you are one of my major motivations in creating an account in the forum.
Your pic speaks a 1000 words my man.
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McJD
Posts: 9 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Aug 26, 2022 9:08 pm
Goal: Healthy Sex Life
Age: 29
Motto: I am because I say I am
Location: Montana, USA

Fri Aug 26, 2022 9:32 pm

I, McJD commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am a 29yr old American living in Montana - but have been living in NYC for the past eight years pursuing an acting career. The last two years have been tough - left nyc which I loved, living with parents, very depressed and I am in a sexual drought, all of which I want to break free of.

Goals:
1. Sleep with 10 women in one year
2. Gain 10lbs of muscle at least - I am 140lbs right now - skinny hardgainer.
3. Get my life back in order in two months so I can move back to NYC by October.
4. Travel abroad at least one time this year

Broad goals:
1. Become a charisma god
2. Always be living a life worth sharing with others
3. End my depression once and for all

Things I have already accomplished in the last month:

1. Gone on 2 dates from dating apps
2. Started therapy with BetterHelp
3. Took out a gym membership - going 3 days a week. I struggle to go 3 days some weeks.
Play the infinite game - the only way you lose is if you stop playing.

Sex Life:
1. Develop a healthy sex life
2. Make my online dating profiles look elite

Acting Business/Music:
1. Move back to NYC
2. Book at least 2 gigs
3. Submit Auditions at least once a week
4. Develop my online presence
5. Play every open mic I can find in NYC
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natedawg
Posts: 879 | Thanks: 221
Joined: Sun Aug 28, 2022 11:45 pm
Goal: Social Life
Age: 35
Motto: Whatever you do, don't quit.

Mon Aug 29, 2022 2:56 pm

I, NateDawg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

34. Copywriter. Work for big names, so I'm keeping a low profile (for now).

I, RedLines, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

34. Copywriter. Work for big names, so I'm keeping a low profile (for now).

Challenges:
- Years spent in anxiety & depression due to childhood upbringing. Spent many years with little to no self-worth.
- In terms of women, experience has been limited as a result. Slept with one, fooled around with others, and committed to none even when I had the chance.
- Seeing a therapist has been instrumental in improving my mental.
- I've been on a serious mental/physical self-improvement trajectory for the past 5 months.


Goals:
- (Broad) To see my inner work reflected outwardly (Believing I'm attractive (by getting dates) friendly, fun to be around, etc.)
- To speak to my therapist twice a month every month.
- To reach 185 lbs. by 2023 (Started at 233 --> 212lbs currently - I workout 5x/week w/ a personal trainer)
- To go on one casual date per month
- To join 1-3 new communities by end of 2022 (Increased socialization)
- To completely furnish my new apt by end of year
- To build a new fall/winter wardrobe by end of 2022

I'll be using audio/vlogs to track updates.
2023-2024 Goals

Year 1: Pg 1-42

"As long I don't quit, I can't lose." - Alex Hormozi

**Feeling lost/unmotivated? Read this:viewtopic.php?p=48007#p48007

** Trust in the process Andy laid out for me: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/11913966
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gettingoutofcomfortzone
Posts: 62 | Thanks: 27
Joined: Sun Aug 21, 2022 5:12 pm
Name: Ash
Goal: Delayed Gratification.
Age: 33
Motto: Desire Control.

Mon Aug 29, 2022 7:59 pm

natedawg wrote:
Mon Aug 29, 2022 2:56 pm
I, NateDawg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

34. Copywriter. Work for big names, so I'm keeping a low profile (for now).
Hey, Welcome. I am new here as well. Joined only last week. And, I already have some momentum thanks to some of the forum members. We are here for you. All the very best. PM if you want to stay in touch.

Also, I suggest creating separate logs for different goals to continuously track your progress.
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Mon Aug 29, 2022 8:08 pm

gettingoutofcomfortzone wrote:
Mon Aug 29, 2022 7:59 pm
I suggest creating separate logs for different goals to continuously track your progress
No. Please create a main log for all your goals. If you have questions, don't create separate logs. Ask them in your main log.
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Gartus
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Tue Aug 30, 2022 7:27 am
Goal: To get laid and fun
Age: 30
Motto: Somehow it will be

Tue Aug 30, 2022 8:10 am

What's up mates?!

I, Gartus, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 30, Polish, living in Wroclaw - Poland. Civil engineer, working as a project manager in my field. Recently ended 6 years long relationship with hot half-asian girl, but it was almost sex-less marriage. Going back to dating scene to bang chicks.
I was depressed before, but much better in general - currently a bit broken by the situation, in progress to feel better. Therapy and friends always helps.
I've never been a "player", always have issues with talking to women - felt anxiety. So goals!

My goals:
- get rid of my problems with anxiety with women;
- bang at last 10 times in next 6 months;
- bang a Spanish woman;
- go to at last 30 dates in next 6 months.
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Rattlehead47
Posts: 3 | Thanks:
Joined: Wed Aug 31, 2022 7:34 pm
Name: Kay
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 26
Motto: Keep improving everyday
Location: Belgium

Wed Aug 31, 2022 7:47 pm

I, Kay, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me

- 26 yr old Indian
- Living in Belgium
- 5’11
- Introverted and sometimes socially awkward
- Slept with 3 women
- Never approached a girl, every gf I had was because they made the first move
- Know I am good looking but can’t take good pictures even if there’s a gun to my head

Short term goals

- Get a job in europe
- Reach 76Kg (currently 85Kg)
- Get good pictures of me.
- Get laid through Tinder/Bumble, etc.

Long term goals

- Have a nice rotation of girls

Thats all I can think of right now
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