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- Berco
- Posts: 3 | Thanks:
- Joined: Tue Mar 22, 2022 2:18 am
- Name: Troy
- Goal: Find a wife
- Age: 30
Hey all,
I, Troy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm 30 from Cairns but lived on the GC for 3 years whilst studying law. I work for a not-for-profit charity as a lawyer in remote QLD. The role allows me to go on four wheel driving adventures and see unique parts of the Country.
My LC is getting close to 100 (82).
Currently seeing some success from online dating but I feel that I haven't reached my potential and and I'm yet to maximize my SMV.
I have mainly used the material, tips and guides from Alex at PWF but thought I could also learn more from Andy.
Current short term goals include maintaining 8% body fat at 82-84kgs and career (salary) progression.
Long term goals would be to find someone to settle down with.
I, Troy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm 30 from Cairns but lived on the GC for 3 years whilst studying law. I work for a not-for-profit charity as a lawyer in remote QLD. The role allows me to go on four wheel driving adventures and see unique parts of the Country.
My LC is getting close to 100 (82).
Currently seeing some success from online dating but I feel that I haven't reached my potential and and I'm yet to maximize my SMV.
I have mainly used the material, tips and guides from Alex at PWF but thought I could also learn more from Andy.
Current short term goals include maintaining 8% body fat at 82-84kgs and career (salary) progression.
Long term goals would be to find someone to settle down with.
- Kressh
- Posts: 4 | Thanks: 2
- Joined: Wed Mar 23, 2022 4:25 pm
- Goal: Lose virginity
- Age: 26
- Motto: Don't wish it was easy, wish you were better.
- Location: Utah, USA
Happy to be here. I am a student and music producer from Utah.
I, Kressh, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I've been stuck in the avoidance and self-sabotage phase for about a year now after losing 70lbs. I feel like I'm on track to becoming attractive and its time to put in the work to treat dating seriously. My main goal is to use what's left of my time at college to lose my virginity.
I was raised mormon (a conservative christian cult) but tossed that shit out to pasture about 2 years ago and I've been rebuilding my world view since then. I'm specifically looking here for guys who have advice on how to navigate online dating in conservative cultures such as Utah. I simply want to increase the reps required for me to get laid and just generally become more confident through positive experience.
Fitness is still a big part of my mission. I've picked up boxing and would like fight as a welterweight. I will lose 30lbs and 11% more body fat. I have long term goals of leaving the US to hopefully find a culture I'd love enough to renounce citizenship.
Lets do this,
Kressh
I, Kressh, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I've been stuck in the avoidance and self-sabotage phase for about a year now after losing 70lbs. I feel like I'm on track to becoming attractive and its time to put in the work to treat dating seriously. My main goal is to use what's left of my time at college to lose my virginity.
I was raised mormon (a conservative christian cult) but tossed that shit out to pasture about 2 years ago and I've been rebuilding my world view since then. I'm specifically looking here for guys who have advice on how to navigate online dating in conservative cultures such as Utah. I simply want to increase the reps required for me to get laid and just generally become more confident through positive experience.
Fitness is still a big part of my mission. I've picked up boxing and would like fight as a welterweight. I will lose 30lbs and 11% more body fat. I have long term goals of leaving the US to hopefully find a culture I'd love enough to renounce citizenship.
Lets do this,
Kressh
- notAndy
- Posts: 110 | Thanks: 67
- Joined: Thu Mar 24, 2022 8:03 pm
- Name: Mo
- Goal: Prioritize sleep
- Age: 31
- Motto: Every great life has a great renunciation
Hey guys
I am not Andy, I'm Mo.
I, Mo, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
30, living in Switzerland, Zurich area.
Have been working as a software engineer for the past ten years.
Too many video games and porn and not enough travel, adventure, sex (none) and memorable experiences made me realize that I need to change my life or I will deeply regret it.
Over the last year or so I started to change my life.
Started group coaching (not with Andy), picked up a new hobby (photography), moved to a better apartment, finally bit the bullet and had laser surgery for my eyes, dabbled in some online dating and began a 365 project (90 days in so far, write at least 300 words per day).
When I saw Andy's interview with Brandon about the AA Program I got this heavy feeling in my gut that this is something I must do or I will remember for the rest of my life that I pussied out.
I've been putting off doing it for a few weeks now. Last Thursday night I said "fuck it", tomorrow is the day. I'll start the AA Program.
Since then I have done a drill every day, even when it got hard and I wanted to quit.
My number one goal right now is to finish the AA Program. I feel anything else I want to do after that will be much easier.
I am not Andy, I'm Mo.
I, Mo, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
30, living in Switzerland, Zurich area.
Have been working as a software engineer for the past ten years.
Too many video games and porn and not enough travel, adventure, sex (none) and memorable experiences made me realize that I need to change my life or I will deeply regret it.
Over the last year or so I started to change my life.
Started group coaching (not with Andy), picked up a new hobby (photography), moved to a better apartment, finally bit the bullet and had laser surgery for my eyes, dabbled in some online dating and began a 365 project (90 days in so far, write at least 300 words per day).
When I saw Andy's interview with Brandon about the AA Program I got this heavy feeling in my gut that this is something I must do or I will remember for the rest of my life that I pussied out.
I've been putting off doing it for a few weeks now. Last Thursday night I said "fuck it", tomorrow is the day. I'll start the AA Program.
Since then I have done a drill every day, even when it got hard and I wanted to quit.
My number one goal right now is to finish the AA Program. I feel anything else I want to do after that will be much easier.
- Myka
- Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
- Joined: Fri Mar 25, 2022 4:40 pm
- Goal: Become independent
- Age: 21
- Motto: We should stare at walls more
I, Myka, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
About me: While I don't think I have limiting beliefs, I am awful at taking action and I truly want to change that.
So hello, let's obliterate our goals.
My goals are:
To clean up my room (it's a never ending pursuit isn't it).
Get laid.
Quit pornography for life.
Take some daily time for meditation, gratitude journaling, simple walks outside.
Learn to dance (shuffle/popping) by doing it daily no matter how little, starting today.
Work towards financial freedom(10k Eur/Month) by again, taking little actions daily.
To wake up and go to sleep consistently. (6am / 22:30)
To do my first cut from 111kg to 95-100kg. (I'm about 6'6)
To get 'brutally' strong (Weighted Dip(120Kg), Weighted Pull Up(80Kg), OHP(100Kg), Squat(200Kg), Deadlift(240Kg).
To get somewhat flexible: bridge, pancake, middle splits.
To not drop out of university or retake modules.
To actively take or create leadership roles for myself.
To become a man that can express himself freely.
Love, Myka
About me: While I don't think I have limiting beliefs, I am awful at taking action and I truly want to change that.
So hello, let's obliterate our goals.
My goals are:
To clean up my room (it's a never ending pursuit isn't it).
Get laid.
Quit pornography for life.
Take some daily time for meditation, gratitude journaling, simple walks outside.
Learn to dance (shuffle/popping) by doing it daily no matter how little, starting today.
Work towards financial freedom(10k Eur/Month) by again, taking little actions daily.
To wake up and go to sleep consistently. (6am / 22:30)
To do my first cut from 111kg to 95-100kg. (I'm about 6'6)
To get 'brutally' strong (Weighted Dip(120Kg), Weighted Pull Up(80Kg), OHP(100Kg), Squat(200Kg), Deadlift(240Kg).
To get somewhat flexible: bridge, pancake, middle splits.
To not drop out of university or retake modules.
To actively take or create leadership roles for myself.
To become a man that can express himself freely.
Love, Myka
- Chemguy3
- Posts: 4 | Thanks: 1
- Joined: Sun Mar 20, 2022 9:28 pm
- Goal: Beat approach anxiety
- Age: 30
- Motto: All I got to do is put my mind to this.
Hey guys, my name is Joe and I'm a 30 year old analyst living in London.
My Goal:
- Complete the approach anxiety programme, no matter how long it takes.
My Goal:
- Complete the approach anxiety programme, no matter how long it takes.
- Jthewinner
- Posts: 4 | Thanks:
- Joined: Mon Mar 28, 2022 6:06 pm
- Name: Jardel
- Goal: Break her pussy and ass
- Age: 21
- Motto: Go for what you want, do the shit and win in life
- Location: Lima,Peru
Hello everyone. I am Jardel. I'm from Lima, Peru.
I, Jardel, am committed to working on my goals and I take myself seriously.
I love your blog and your forum, Andy. The truth is that I felt identified with you when I read your story.
I'll cut to the chase, I'm 21 years old, I'm a college business student.
My goals:
a) Looks and health :
1. Improve my appearance :
-Skincare
-Dental care
-Remove imperfections on my skin
-Hair
2. Have an aesthetic body :
- 12% of BF
- + 10 Kg of muscle mass.
b) College and money:
1. Get the best grades in my university.
2. Learn entrepreneurship and start a business.
c) Sex life:
1. Casual sex with 10 women on Tinder. Anal sex to 5 at least.
2. And doing as many sex positions as I can with my Tinder dates.
3. Convince a female friend who lives near my house to have casual sex with her hehe.
d) Skills :
Languagues : Improve my English.
Summary:
1. My best looks (Min 8 of 10 in decile scale)
2. Better grades in all subjects (20 in my country) and start a business.
3. Casual sex with 10 women on Tinder, anal sex with 5.
4. Speak English perfectly
Greetings Andy @KillYourInnerLoser and all the members of the forum.
I, Jardel, am committed to working on my goals and I take myself seriously.
I love your blog and your forum, Andy. The truth is that I felt identified with you when I read your story.
I'll cut to the chase, I'm 21 years old, I'm a college business student.
My goals:
a) Looks and health :
1. Improve my appearance :
-Skincare
-Dental care
-Remove imperfections on my skin
-Hair
2. Have an aesthetic body :
- 12% of BF
- + 10 Kg of muscle mass.
b) College and money:
1. Get the best grades in my university.
2. Learn entrepreneurship and start a business.
c) Sex life:
1. Casual sex with 10 women on Tinder. Anal sex to 5 at least.
2. And doing as many sex positions as I can with my Tinder dates.
3. Convince a female friend who lives near my house to have casual sex with her hehe.
d) Skills :
Languagues : Improve my English.
Summary:
1. My best looks (Min 8 of 10 in decile scale)
2. Better grades in all subjects (20 in my country) and start a business.
3. Casual sex with 10 women on Tinder, anal sex with 5.
4. Speak English perfectly
Greetings Andy @KillYourInnerLoser and all the members of the forum.
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- JoySolFi
- Posts: 3 | Thanks:
- Joined: Tue Mar 29, 2022 12:45 am
- Goal: Minimize regrets
- Age: 28
- Motto: Ships aren't meant to stay in the dock
Hi from Texas everyone I'm 28, living in DFW. Looking forward to seeing everyone's journey on this forum and sharing my own.
I, Sol, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
1. Improve depression & have higher self esteem
- Should have this down, but there's something off internally. I make enough to not worry about money, people say I'm good looking, I've objectively done well in school, have an awesome career, got cool hobbies, but I can't help but compare myself to the top 5% of people & get down on myself about it.
2. Do better with girls (e.g consistent matches & results from online dating, explore getting dates from IRL)
- I used to do pretty good (sleeping with girls on the first date, 2-girl threesomes, abundance mentality). I'm not sure what happened the last year or so, but now I get almost no matches, 0-2 dates per week with girls I'm ambivalent about, and even when I bring girls home I'm not able to close the deal with them.
3. Get a solid friend group who is down to join me doing dope shit
- I have like one friend right now, but hopefully with some new hobbies & moving that will get better
4. Feel competent in my current hobbies (music, photography) and explore new ones
- I try to spend 20 minutes practicing each day, and take my camera with me everywhere. This is going pretty well.
5. Stick to my habits that I've been tracking (Lifting, sleeping, diet, journaling, social stuff)
- Also going pretty well. I found a great app that really hits that brain dopamine button for nerdy guys like me (called Habitica if anyone wants to join my party)
6. Do the above stuff without hurting my conservative family too much
- This one is tough. I've got some plans about how to do this (i.e. moving out to a badass apartment) but it's hard because I do love my family & they don't approve of some of the above goals
My next goal is to post in the area specific forum to find someone who's down to go take pictures Nice to meet you everyone!
I, Sol, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
1. Improve depression & have higher self esteem
- Should have this down, but there's something off internally. I make enough to not worry about money, people say I'm good looking, I've objectively done well in school, have an awesome career, got cool hobbies, but I can't help but compare myself to the top 5% of people & get down on myself about it.
2. Do better with girls (e.g consistent matches & results from online dating, explore getting dates from IRL)
- I used to do pretty good (sleeping with girls on the first date, 2-girl threesomes, abundance mentality). I'm not sure what happened the last year or so, but now I get almost no matches, 0-2 dates per week with girls I'm ambivalent about, and even when I bring girls home I'm not able to close the deal with them.
3. Get a solid friend group who is down to join me doing dope shit
- I have like one friend right now, but hopefully with some new hobbies & moving that will get better
4. Feel competent in my current hobbies (music, photography) and explore new ones
- I try to spend 20 minutes practicing each day, and take my camera with me everywhere. This is going pretty well.
5. Stick to my habits that I've been tracking (Lifting, sleeping, diet, journaling, social stuff)
- Also going pretty well. I found a great app that really hits that brain dopamine button for nerdy guys like me (called Habitica if anyone wants to join my party)
6. Do the above stuff without hurting my conservative family too much
- This one is tough. I've got some plans about how to do this (i.e. moving out to a badass apartment) but it's hard because I do love my family & they don't approve of some of the above goals
My next goal is to post in the area specific forum to find someone who's down to go take pictures Nice to meet you everyone!
- Pilly1
- Posts: 10 | Thanks:
- Joined: Tue Mar 29, 2022 10:33 pm
- Name: Phill
- Goal: Beat Approach Anxiety
- Age: 20
- Motto: nothing but optimism
- Location: New Jersey
What up legends Im phillip
My #1 goal right now is to beat AA
and 1b is to get a job
Nothing crazy for now but im coming out of a long dark depression so I'm starting easy to get the ball rolling.
I've been reading you cant afford the luxury of a negative thought and its honestly changed everything. Thank you to Andy for making the article on depression and me reading it like 10 times I've started to become an optimist and I don't see myself going back.
My #1 goal right now is to beat AA
and 1b is to get a job
Nothing crazy for now but im coming out of a long dark depression so I'm starting easy to get the ball rolling.
I've been reading you cant afford the luxury of a negative thought and its honestly changed everything. Thank you to Andy for making the article on depression and me reading it like 10 times I've started to become an optimist and I don't see myself going back.
- Radical
- Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1439
- Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
- Name: Cam
- Goal: Funnel/Product Building
- Age: 29
- Motto: Take drastic action
@Pilly1 hey man
A profile picture of yourself is required to post on here. Can be cropped or blurred.
Please amend or your account will be banned.
Cheers,
Radical
A profile picture of yourself is required to post on here. Can be cropped or blurred.
Please amend or your account will be banned.
Cheers,
Radical
- aboudez123
- Posts: 10 | Thanks: 4
- Joined: Tue Mar 22, 2022 2:41 pm
- Goal: Get laid
- Age: 26
- Location: Cologne , Germany
Whats up.
I, aboudez123, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
About me:
- I am 26 years old
- Studying to be an engineer
- from Tunisia but live in Germany
- never had a gf but had some lays from drunk clubbing and escorts
My goals:
- Beating AA and reaching social freedom
- finishing my studies
- learning how to dj
- having sex with 50 girls
- earning money online via cryptocurrency day trading
I, aboudez123, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
About me:
- I am 26 years old
- Studying to be an engineer
- from Tunisia but live in Germany
- never had a gf but had some lays from drunk clubbing and escorts
My goals:
- Beating AA and reaching social freedom
- finishing my studies
- learning how to dj
- having sex with 50 girls
- earning money online via cryptocurrency day trading
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- Posts: 2 | Thanks:
- Joined: Wed Mar 30, 2022 2:30 pm
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 18
- sandsnow
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Thu Mar 31, 2022 4:01 pm
- Name: Leo
- Goal: Overcoming AA
- Age: 27
- Motto: Own your shit show
- Location: Morocco
I, SandSnow, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
About me:
- 27 years old.
- Born and raised in Morocco.
- 4 lays to date.
- Freelancer/Entrepreneur
Goals for the end of the year:
- Lose 55 lbs total (already lost 24 lbs)
- Get 5 clients & make $5k/month with my agency.
- Get at least 6 good pictures for my Instagram account.
- Finish the GLL AA program.
- Move out & Live in a bigger city.
Longer-term goals:
- Become a full-time Entrepreneur & Earn $500k/month.
- Become a great writer & Write 1000 Blog Posts Online.
- Reach 100 Lays.
- Approach 20,000 women.
- Interact with 1,000,000 people.
- Demolish social & approach anxiety.
- Have a great 100 picture Instagram profile.
- Become socially confident in every social situation.
- Join a Martial Arts Gym. (MMA or BJJ)
About me:
- 27 years old.
- Born and raised in Morocco.
- 4 lays to date.
- Freelancer/Entrepreneur
Goals for the end of the year:
- Lose 55 lbs total (already lost 24 lbs)
- Get 5 clients & make $5k/month with my agency.
- Get at least 6 good pictures for my Instagram account.
- Finish the GLL AA program.
- Move out & Live in a bigger city.
Longer-term goals:
- Become a full-time Entrepreneur & Earn $500k/month.
- Become a great writer & Write 1000 Blog Posts Online.
- Reach 100 Lays.
- Approach 20,000 women.
- Interact with 1,000,000 people.
- Demolish social & approach anxiety.
- Have a great 100 picture Instagram profile.
- Become socially confident in every social situation.
- Join a Martial Arts Gym. (MMA or BJJ)
- Mimbe393939
- Posts: 145 | Thanks: 399
- Joined: Sat Apr 02, 2022 11:46 am
- Goal: Learn Japanese
- Age: 26
- Location: Japan
I, Mimbe393939, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
24 year olds living in Canada
Short term goals
-Hit 10 different lays in one year
Long term goals
-Become a home owner
-Start a home improvement YouTube channel for passive income/fun hobby
-Make money off investing in crypto/stocks
-Hit 30 lays
24 year olds living in Canada
Short term goals
-Hit 10 different lays in one year
Long term goals
-Become a home owner
-Start a home improvement YouTube channel for passive income/fun hobby
-Make money off investing in crypto/stocks
-Hit 30 lays
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Difficulty shows what men are. Epictetus
The world turns aside to let any man pass who knows where he is going. Epictetus