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[Sugartooth]

Hey y'all,

I'm Dan, aka Sugartooth.

I, Dan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 28, from New York originally, but in New England for the time being.

GOALS:
- Lose 120 lbs of fat
- Build a copywriting business to a consistent $10,000/month
- Sleep with 1 new girl by the end of the year
- Reach 1 year completely sober

I've struggled with alcohol addiction for most of my 20s and it's basically made dating impossible for me. It's been about 6 years since I've dated/got laid, and I'm tired of putting off what I want to a future that will never come.

Discovering this blog has been huge for me and serves as proof that it's not too late for me, provided I put in the work. I'm ready to crush the rest of my 20s and build a life I love. Happy to be here with you fine gents.

[sml987]

I, sml987, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi everyone. I'm gonna go right into my goals.

Short-term goals:

- Do well in school
- Meet new people & make more close friends
- Stay consistent in the gym
- Improve fashion

Long-term goals:

- Build a body I like
- Lose my virginity
- Have many casual relationships
- Develop a sense of confidence that isn't dependent on how much girls like me

[Rice]

I, Rice, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

Goals:
Get laid
Improve fashion and style
Get better pictures for online dating
Talk to more girls
Make new friends
Continue fixing insecurities
Get an abundance mindset / healthier view on relationships
Gym consistently

I ultimately want to settle down in a good relationship eventually, but to get there I need to feel like I am dating a girl because I actually like her and not because she is kinda cute and accepts me. I have never really felt like I had options, being in computer science field, and not having social hobbies.

[hannangame]

Make sure you include this sentence: "I am hannan, and I fully commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
I'm currently 19 in a state university

[sisis]

Hey, it's Amir. 24, based in Helsinki now.

I was very clueless about girls until recently. From the beginning of this year (2022), I entered into pick up and now I want to seriously work on myself to improve my lifestyle and get laid.

My goals for 2022:
1. Sleep with 10 decent girls.
2. Be able to do 140kg Squat, 100kg Bench, 180kg Deadlift.
3. Have visible abs.
4. Complete the AA program.
5. Read and do all the advice in Andy's guide to getting laid with Tinder.
6. Approach 1000 girls.

In terms of my current situation:
1. Had sex with 1 girl who was not attractive, so she is doesn't count in the 10 targets.
2. It's been ~1 month that I'm going to gym: 50kg Squat, 40kg Bench, 65kg Deadlift.
3. Haven't worked on it at all. I need to lose a lot of fat.
4. Haven't started yet.
5. Just started reading it.
6. Approached 50 so far.

I, Amir, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Any comments or advice on the goals are appreciated.

[Radical]

@sisis hey dude

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[sisis]

Done.

@sisis hey dude

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[ninjaboynaru]

Hey, it's Amir. 24, based in Helsinki now.

I was very clueless about girls until recently. From the beginning of this year (2022), I entered into pick up...

Welcome to the community Amir. Start small, slow, and humble, and keep momentum. We look forward to seeing your progress.

[countingsheep7878]

The name's Jake, been watching Andy's content for a while now. I am 35 and am really focusing on improving my SMV by losing weight and lifting weights. My current body fat % is between 21% - 22% and I am trying to get to 10% -12% or even single digits in the next 3-6 months. I have made pretty good progress in the last 3 months dropping 16 pounds and getting more cut with actual muscle but still another 25 pounds or so to go.

I am also in the process of separating / getting divorced. I am the one who initiated it due to general dissatisfaction in my marriage but there was no tragic event nor ill will toward my ex. So other goals I have involve getting better with cold approach (both day and night game) and get a rotation of quality women inside and out.

While I do believe firmly in setting goals that are measurable it's tough to put a # of total lays as a goal on my list. Instead I will focus on conversion from cold approach and online and when I have a great rotation of 2-5 girls (ideal would be dating multiple bi women, or maybe a main chic with multiple side chic similar to what Andy has going on) then I will know I hit my goal. It doesn't really matter to me however many lays that takes.

A few specific sexual goals include

- a 3 way with 2 girls
- a first day / night pull with a quality girl from day or night game (I am very confident I can get a first night lay from online due to Andy's guide and Playing with Fire's product)
- have sex with or get a rotation girl with at least 1 college girl from my local university
- never feel like I hate my sex life ever again

Would like to start with a tactical goal of 25 approaches per week and move up to 50+ as I progress. I'd like to get number / date close from cold approach to 33% or higher and above 10% of numbers to lays.

In other goals I would like to continue growing the business I have cofounded last year and is starting to take off. Without being too specific. I would like to grow our products user base by 25x in the next 6 months and 100x in the next 12 months.

Lastly and most importantly I want to make sure I maintain more then enough time for my son as I grow thorough this journey.

I, Jake, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

[Crisis_Overcomer]

@countingsheep7878 welcome. Great intro. I'm really hoping you don't fade away, would be interesting to see your development.

[JHOD70]

Hi Everyone!

I'm 51, divorced, and looking to date again. Married in my late 30s and would like to make up for the lost time by working hard to improve my body, my social life, and learning how to meet women IRL and online for sex and eventually LTR. I don't want to waste any more time (my head was not even near the right place until recently) and KYIL and these forums look like a great place to start.

Things that worry me include: 1) my age and how that affects my dating prospects. Thought it would be nice, my goal is not to date young women; late 30s up to my own age or so is AOK - though I might try younger if the opportunity arises . My hair is thinning, well has been for years, and I struggle with it just like most guys.

I, JHOD70, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Thanks!

[einherjar]

Hey everyone, this is Rob!
First things first: Thanks for having me.

Reason for being here: I recently turned 25. Although this isn't an accomplishment on its own, it lead me down to some sort of reflection of the last 5 years:
Great school, great studies abroad, great cushy corporate job & accolades - on paper it all seems good.
However, I'm not. The things I thought are the shit and worth pursuing, led me to socially isolate myself, all the while more or less intentionally dismissing the truly great things as time wasters: Partying, travelling, taking time off, fooling around with girls, friendship and crazy stories to tell those (not yet existent) friends about. I ultimately feel like I missed out on life, the real life.

Now, I also feel the burning urge to change that and that's why I'm here.
I, Rob, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Feel free to hit me up!
R

[MakingAComeback]

Welcome all!

MAC

[ases96]

Hey

James here.

My goals:
+Have a tinder profile matches frequently
+Get my body shaped up
+Have a nice outfit
+Be succesful on my job

[Crisis_Overcomer]

@ases96 hey dude

An avatar of yourself is required to post here as per our rules. Can be cropped or blurred

Also, edit your intro post to include this line:

I, ases96, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.