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[Skelly92]

Hi I'm Skelly

I, Skelly, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 30 from Newcastle, England.

My main goals is to lose my virginity by the end of the year.
I will do this by mainly focusing on online dating apps.

My goals are to
- Lose 40 pounds of fat by the end of the year
- To improve my style
- To Improve my dating app pictures
- To get my own place and move out of my mam's home

Welcome lad.

Start a log.

We'll smash all these goals, easily.

MAC

Thanks mate, I will have look into and maybe start a log.

[tsantos23]

I, Tsantos, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi I'm Tsantos, 33 and belong to Delhi, India. I've worked quite hard on my professional front at the expense of personal/social development. I've only slept with 3-4 girls so far and its quite embarassing as I see my friends switching partners literally every month and I feel I've missed out on a lot. Professionally I've lost motivation to move forward as this aspect pinches quite a bit. My self confidence is severely low at this point.

I want to lift myself up and emerge as a new self that I could be proud of. I'm willing to work hard to see changes.

My goals for the year are:

- Get laid
- Transform into a person that deserves to get laid
- Step up dating app game
- Improve fashion/style quotient
- Develop a clear, focused mindset towards life
- Lose body fat (target 12%)
- Improve overall personality and social skills

[MakingAComeback]

I, Tsantos, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi I'm Tsantos, 33 and belong to Delhi, India. I've worked quite hard on my professional front at the expense of personal/social development. I've only slept with 3-4 girls so far and its quite embarassing as I see my friends switching partners literally every month and I feel I've missed out on a lot. Professionally I've lost motivation to move forward as this aspect pinches quite a bit. My self confidence is severely low at this point.

I want to lift myself up and emerge as a new self that I could be proud of. I'm willing to work hard to see changes.

My goals for the year are:

- Get laid
- Transform into a person that deserves to get laid
- Step up dating app game
- Improve fashion/style quotient
- Develop a clear, focused mindset towards life
- Lose body fat (target 12%)
- Improve overall personality and social skills

Extremely possible.

I hadn't slept with anyone until I was 29.

I built a thriving life.

You can, too.

MAC

[HeyitsScottWest]

I, Scott West, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 36. I'm from the US. I'm getting out of a relationship now that I've been in since I was 20, so I'll need to work on making major changes to myself and my life.



My current goals are:

-Get laid, in the short term. I know I'll eventually want to settle down with someone, most likely. But I want to experience a different lifestyle for awhile before I go back to that.
-Lose weight and bulk up. I'm at least in decent shape, so I'm confident I can keep making progress.
-Figure out my sense of style. I'm really starting from scratch here, because currently it's a disaster. Mostly t-shirts and cargo shorts.
-Build up my personal confidence. I'm not a complete shut in; I can be charming sometimes and hold a conversation, but I also often come across as awkward and unconfident.

[Manganiello]

I'm 36. I'm from the US. I'm getting out of a relationship now that I've been in since I was 20, so I'll need to work on making major changes to myself and my life.

Wow man.

Can't imagine that transition being easy.

I'm rooting for you.

[Heretofly]

Whats up.
I, HereToFly, commit to working on my goals, taking myself seriously, and being the best version of myself

About me:
- I am 24 years old
-I am a software engineer
- Live In America

Long term goal
-lose Virginity
- Sleep with 10 girls

Short term goals:
- I currently weigh 195 pounds(15-17% bf) I want to drop that down to 185 pounds.
- I want to get my dating app profile started within the week.

[Manganiello]

Whats up.
I, HereToFly, commit to working on my goals, taking myself seriously, and being the best version of myself

Welcome @Heretofly,

Looks good, but you need a picture of you in your avatar. A picture of a cat doesn't work. It can be a blurred out shot if your looking for anonymity, but it has to be of you.


Accounts that don't do this, get banned.


You got 3 days to fix this.





As per first comment on the thread.

On top of posting an avatar of yourself (can be cropped or blurred),

Edit: thanks for fixing this

[marketgorilla]

What’s up I’m MG.

I, MG, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

25 living in Atlanta.
Goal is to get shredded.

I want to get down to 160lbs in 2023.

[Killing boredom]

Yo
I'm KB.
I, KB, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

31 from Brazil, playing online poker full time

My goals are:

Either get into a healthy(by my standards) relationship or get laid at least once a month
- Related to last goal, I need to internalize it is ok not to be in a relationship and have a good life regardless
I want to learn how to improve my apps(mainly Tinder) game - I know for instance my pics are shit
Get shredded(will be hard for me without guidance)
Get better in dealing with anxiety

[bastianferrari]

Hi,
My name is Bastian, 26 years old, from Argentina.

My goals for this year (2023) are:
-Give Tinder a second go, but this time take it seriously.
-Go for 3 professional photoshoots to post killer photos for my Tinder profile.
-6 Lays from Tinder and cold approaching.

Mid-term goals (by the end of 2024):
-Go on a 100 dates with girls I actually find attractive (6's and above).

Long term goals:
-100 lays from Tinder and cold approaching.
-225 1 rep-max OHP.

I, Bastian, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

[MisterE]

Hey how are you doing.

I, MisterE, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

26, from Western Europe.

Goals I just finished:
- Gaining muscle (an onging goal, still going to the gym 4 times a week)
- Buying a DSLR Camera

Short term goals:
- Live on my own
- Give my fashion style an upgrade
- Get at least 3 Tinder pictures of myself

Mid term goals:
- Get laid
- Get consistently laid (once every month)

Long term goals:
- Get started with my own business

[Blake]

'I, Blake, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.'

I'm currently working temporarily and intend to return to pursue my higher studies in the construction industry. Still living with my parents (I do it for the pragmatic aspect of finance & it's common here in Asia)

Living in a relatively conservative society in Malaysia, I'm wondering if a lot of these techniques of "Game" apply to girls here who are less "out there"?



My Ultimate Goal:
Gain courage and wisdom so that I can apply Game to have successful progeny.

My Short term goal:
Explore at least "10" varieties of girls (looks & personality) who have genuine desire for me.

My Mid-Short term goal:
I want to lose my V-card by 25 (Always had no interest in pursuing a relationship due to seeing no actual future with the girls around me - so I've not even been on a date at 23)

My Mid term goal:
Notch count of 10

What I notice in a girl:
Base need = Fit & Fair
Base want = Friendly & Faithful
Girlfriend material = Introspective & Fervent
Wife material = Feminine & Fertile-Virgin

I'd love to communicate with others who are in a similar conservative society like mine and having a similar situation as me (23 M who never dated before).

So glad I found this community!

[Blake]

Done!

[Longbow]

I, Longbow, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My main driving goal is to create connections through approaches during the day.

Living in DFW, Texas as a bachelor

Get used to me y'all, I'm going to be using this board a lot.

[hyrtsmyrts]

I, Eljas, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Cheers everyone. I'm Eljas, soon 30 years old. I've had an awesome life but I'm not ready to settle to ordinary things.
I'm robotics M.Sc. and currently working in a well paying and satisfying job in tech & AI.
I live in Helsinki, Finland which is a nice place to be.
I have lots of money and status but I miss the bitches and parties.

I've basically been a serial monogamist for 10 years now. I was in a LTR for 7 years. I broke up with her because I got interested in another girl with whom I was for 2 years. Then I broke up with her because of many reasons. First, she was crazy af. Second, I had the urge to start cold approaching girls and start using Tinder because I never had tried it. Third, she didn't want an open relationship.

That was in 2021, just in the middle of pandemic. That was also when I found Andy's awesome tinder guide that helped me to get my lay count from 2 to 9 in a matter of months. I changed from a chubby, depressed loner to a cool, confident dude who has kinky BDSM sex with hot women.

My progress in my last tour:
- May 2021: my first tinder dates. I got matches quite regularly even though my images were shit and my text game was shit. However, I kept improving.
- June 2021: my first lay from tinder. Took me about 1 hour since meeting to kiss her, then took her to a hotel room and fucked with her 3 times. We were fwb for a couple of months before I dumped her because she was needy af
- July-August 2021: 4 more lays. Lots of dates. Lots of me making the move, inviting her to my place and making out but didn't fuck her. But I kept trying.
- September 2021: I travelled to France, got a date there and fucked her. We met later and did it again. Then got a match from tinder in Finland. We had an awesome and crazy date. She was super into me and I took her to my place and we fucked many times. The best date I ever had. She was super openminded and chill and horny. We ended up being in a relationship for 1.5 years before I broke up with her. Our sex life was amazing and she was up to all kinds of kinks but she was also too needy and attached to me.

So I have had 1.5 years pause from Tinder. Now it's time for me to go back. Feels a bit difficult but I know I'm gonna get it right.
I never fixed my approach anxiety even though I've had sex with 9 women, went for date with like 20 and kissed half of them. I still sabotage myself from getting those perfect fuckbuddies and sex adventures because I think I can't do it or they will reject me. This is a thing I NEED to fix if I want to be 100% of a human being.

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Goals in 2023 regarding sex and relationships:
- Reach 10% bodyfat
- Increase the amount of muscle to get those bootybuilder bitches
- Find some people to do BDSM with
- First threesome
- Go to a local BDSM meetup
- Start cold approaching girls again (I fucking hate it because I suck at it)
- Get first lay with a girl I met offline, like in a bar or public place

Other goals for 2023:
- Play a solo guitar concert (scheduled for June)
- Go bikepacking in 2 new countries (been in 13 so far) (scheduled for June)
- Take dance classes (scheduled for June)

Taking myself and my goals seriously:
- Stick to a calisthenics workout plan and a diet
- Find my own style & upgrade clothing
- Constantly improve myself. 1% every day
- Stick to the fucking plan. Even if it's hard.
- Start small to go big
- Find the best places to hit on women and do it regularly
- Grow the social circle to get to the best parties and success in life in general