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Danny
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Joined: Wed Jul 13, 2022 4:39 am
Name: Danny
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27

Wed Jul 13, 2022 5:03 am

"I, Danny, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goal: Sleep with 8 girls by Dec. 31.
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DegenerateHunk
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Joined: Wed Jul 13, 2022 5:26 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 28
Motto: Get Laid or Die Trying

Wed Jul 13, 2022 5:48 am

My Goal is to fuck 3 Girls till the end of the Year.

Everyday Goal: Talk to 10 Girls a day
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Manganiello
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Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Lose fat & Move
Age: 31
Motto: Use your dark side.

Wed Jul 13, 2022 1:28 pm

DegenerateHunk wrote:
Wed Jul 13, 2022 5:48 am
My Goal is to fuck 3 Girls till the end of the Year.

Everyday Goal: Talk to 10 Girls a day

Hey @DegenerateHunk .

Nice nice. If you do stuff right you'll crush your annual goal very soon.

Also make sure you edit and write your introduction post with "I ____ commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

As per forum rules.
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Goal • 많은 한국 여자를 Smash.

Past Goals:
AA program (viewtopic.php?f=42&t=40)
Lost vCard Day Game(viewtopic.php?p=17087#p17087)
OLD Log and Lays viewtopic.php?f=5&t=889

How I got 9 lays in the first 6 weeks on Tinder
viewtopic.php?p=23227#p23227

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kAldown
Posts: 29 | Thanks: 12
Joined: Wed Jul 13, 2022 3:54 pm
Name: Bogdan
Goal: Find Sweet Girlfriend
Age: 31

Thu Jul 14, 2022 4:29 pm

Sup

I, kAldown, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

31 y.o. from USSR (Ukraine), lived most of my live in Russia. Now in London (UK).
Just discovering myself after huge drop. Realised I have passion in sport and love extreeme.
Technical 31 years old virign (lost it a month ago with a lady from a bar, and the next week in Turkey with another one)
High energy person, sometimes out of control energy.

Current goals:
- Find a sweet girlfriend with greater match

^ this goal includes a lot of steps underneath:
- get tons of laids (40 was my number for 2 years, to not to be afraid to find a better person for me, rather than stick with the first lady who touch my d*ck)
- much better shape (girls telling me I'm good, but I want more. Want 90kg 15% fat, now 75 with 12% fat)
- want to know how to dress well (never bought myself a single cloth. Recently bought a coat for 600 pounds!, fucking love it)
- want to put myself first (spent tons of money on dating approx 20 womens from august to october, while being greedy to buy a good steak for myself)
- believe in myself (missed even straigh request from them to get into my room to f*ck. Have performance anxiety, even after I did well first 2 times, drilled a chick on a public beach in front of a guard and random guy made a photo of us :D, still do not believe in myself)
- create surroundings of like-minded guys and girls, who won't judge me for my disire go give women a pleasure and take most from it
- want to find myself and be free with what I want, and not respond with what environment forcing me to do (I'm really romantic guy, but after seen each and every girl f*ck someone else after I put an effort - started to be really bitter)
- want to control my anger (with all the shit I saw and brutal rejections and judges - I became really angry, can yell at peaople, fought with my friends, friends told me they afraid of me, that's the reason I went into martial arts and doing gym everyday - not enough)
- create something meaningful (yet discovering my inner desire of this goal)
- get away from 9to5
- be an inspiration for peoples who stuck the same I did before
Goals:
[x] lost VCard
[x] ONS
[x] a lay from a proper date
[x] sex after an hour
- sex after 10 minutes
- 40 lays (6)
- 2+ FWB (2)
- a stripper friend
- sweet GF
- sex with 8+
- sex with Ukrainian on first date
- sex with pornstar
- [x] sex with the married one
- sex with black chick
- [x] porn clip with me
- 3some (MMF + FMF)
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- 90kg (76)
- get more male friends
- find what I truelly passion about
- start a business
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mac0
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Joined: Fri Jul 15, 2022 3:52 pm
Name: Maco
Goal: Massive Action
Age: 31

Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:10 pm

Hi everyone,

I Maco commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.


My goals are as follows:
-Sleep with several new women - 10+
-Work out and train in fighting - 3-5x/wk, 1-3x/wk
-Develop a social circle outside of cold approach
-Work on and maintain self discipline to manage my time with other aspects of life
-Find new work - Double or triple my income

I Maco commit to my goals and take them seriously but will need to return to this post to provide more clarity in what I'm looking for (ex. time frame, numbers, SMART goals, etc.).

I wish everyone the best of luck with their journey and appreciate the opportunity to be given a channel for accountability. Look forward to contributing.

Maco/Marco

PS. @Manganiello @september wassup homies

7.18 Edit-
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Physical
Emotional
Social
Spiritual
Intellectual

Physical Current Self Rating 7/10
I'm healthy and in good shape but want to take my strength, cardio, and nutrition to the next level.

My strength goals involve lifting weights and boxing training.
For lifting I will aim for 4-7x a week doing PHUL and abs. For fighting I will aim for 1-3x a week. I aim to spar on weekends too.

For cardio I will aim to run 1-4x a week. Jogging will be 1-3x at 2-4km. I'm looking to practice high-interval sprints once a week. Once a day/5-7x a week I will be practicing pranayama meditation for 15 minutes minimum.

Nutritionally I want to gain weight and eat healthy. My ideal weight I'm aiming for is 160lbs and I'm 140lbs. I aim to eat mostly healthy and from groceries. My aim is to consume enough to cover the protein for both lifting and fighting on the same day and maintain a caloric surplus. I aim to consistently eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

Nutritionally I also want to avoid heavy drug and alcohol use. Getting my smoking and drinking habits down to 0-2x a week is ideal.

Emotional
Emotional Current Self Rating 7/10

For the most part I'm emotionally secure but could work to achieving a better state of mind. My emotional goals have to do with: positive attitudes, stress management, friends and support circles, giving myself periods to think and process things internally, and on-the-go mood management hacks. It's hard to numerically give an idea for what I'm looking for here but I'm sure many understand. My emotional level is also obviously tied into these other categories and goals I'm filling out. I'll give a better idea of a number breakdown I'm looking for here later.

I will be aiming to keep things like my personal hygiene and chores clean and consistent, to minimize their negative effects on how I feel.

Social
Social Current Self Rating 8/10

I would classify my social life as good, but it could always be improved, especially if I'm not getting the results or convenience I that want.

I aim to attend 1-3x new events a week. Events where I can expect to see familiar faces and people I'm already connected with don't count. Events where I plan to strictly cold approach don't count however I do plan on approaching at events. Joining clubs is OK but if there are the mostly the same faces I'm seeing at events like this, I won't count them towards my goal.

I aim to take inventory of my friends and my social circle at least once a month. I aim to be someone who provides value to my circles in the form of resources, fun, a place to stay/drink/party/etc., I don't want people to see my value as a "people connector" because that shit is too much work.

Women
This gets it's own section here of course. My goals are as follows:
-Sleep with 5 new women
-Maintain 5 FWB relationships simultaneously
I will look to accomplish this through cold approach, social circle building, partying, and general vibing with others.

Spiritual
Spiritual Current Self Rating 8/10

I already spend a lot of time in nature but would like to expand spiritually in other ways. My goal is 1x/wk. reading books with spiritual components like self-help, philosophy etc. and minimum 1x/wk. to think about things like values, beliefs, etc. not the same emotional thinking.

I would like to incorporate more nature walks and starting/finishing the day with a walk.

Intellectual
Intellectual Current Self Rating 6/10
I'm a dumbass lol- in all seriousness, I could use improvement here, because I don't do a lot of "book learning" activities going on right now. I have a bookshelf of unfinished books and have a number of things I want to learn about though. Reading 1 chapter/wk. is a a positive small step towards improving the time I put into these activities for now.

Of course this is a section where I intend to work on PUA knowledge too. To avoid getting stuck in my head I need to ensure I take action far more than I read about taking action - so maybe just 1 good chapter reading/wk for the PUA stuff as well.

I'm open-minded to meeting and spending time with people who vibe with me intellectually but it's not something I strongly want to aim for. I don't care much to keep up with the news or politics right now.

Shameless goal to finish Elden Ring goes here

(Last part will be financial/career goals)
Last edited by mac0 on Mon Jul 18, 2022 7:48 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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Manganiello
Posts: 1470 | Thanks: 1543
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Lose fat & Move
Age: 31
Motto: Use your dark side.

Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:26 pm

mac0 wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:10 pm
Hi everyone,

I Maco commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.


My goals are as follows:
-Sleep with several new women - 10+
-Work out and train in fighting - 3-5x/wk, 1-3x/wk
-Develop a social circle outside of cold approach
-Work on and maintain self discipline to manage my time with other aspects of life
-Find new work - Double or triple my income

I Maco commit to my goals and take them seriously but will need to return to this post to provide more clarity in what I'm looking for (ex. time frame, numbers, SMART goals, etc.).

I wish everyone the best of luck with their journey and appreciate the opportunity to be given a channel for accountability. Look forward to contributing.

Maco/Marco

PS. @Manganiello @september wassup homies

Marco!

Thought the profile pic looked familiar. Glad to see you here.
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Goal • 많은 한국 여자를 Smash.

Past Goals:
AA program (viewtopic.php?f=42&t=40)
Lost vCard Day Game(viewtopic.php?p=17087#p17087)
OLD Log and Lays viewtopic.php?f=5&t=889

How I got 9 lays in the first 6 weeks on Tinder
viewtopic.php?p=23227#p23227

.
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semblencedestruction
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Joined: Fri Jul 15, 2022 9:26 pm
Name: Hark
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 35
Motto: Embrace the

Fri Jul 15, 2022 9:33 pm

I, Hark commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 36 years old and looking to take my life to another level. I am looking to work on improving my physique and to make changes to my life that can give me the life I’ve always wanted.

I grew up in an abusive childhood and suffered mental health issues for most of my life until recently after getting the right treatment, I’ve been able to make big improvements.

Right now I want to get into better shape to crush online dating and feel better about myself, I would say I’m 20-30 lbs overweight, trying to get to 10-12%bf.

I also want to move out of my current place and move to a the city so I can take advantage of new social situations etc.
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AspiringMaleStripper
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2022 2:37 am
Goal: Have 5 active plates
Age: 34
Motto: I keep getting older, they stay the same age

Sat Jul 16, 2022 2:56 am

I, Adam, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Whats up guys!!

I'm 34 living in the pacific northwest. Long story short I have always done alright with women because I'm not bad on the eyes and I've got a pretty good sense of humor. If I spend time with a girl (through social circles, work, etc) I can make almost any of them fall for me. On the other hand, if I have to approach a girl, I am at a near-0% success rate.

I spent 7 years traveling and being a dirtbag. It was great for the time, but once the pandemic happened, all that shit was over. Now I'm plopped back into the real world and I can't use traveling to make myself look sexy and mysterious anymore. Whooooops! I actually got super depressed during the pandemic and was smoking weed and jerking off all day every day, hating myself. I didn't have sex for TWO YEARS!! That really did my head in.

Now things are going a lot better. I have a nice job, I'm updating my wardrobe, I'm back to being fit again, and things are working well for me. I finally broke my 2-year dryspell with a 3some with two girls who are probably 6's, but I wasn't going to look a gift horse in the mouth! Since then I've acquired two plates, both 22 years old, but one is a little shaky and the other is leaving the country next month!

My goal right now is to have 5 active plates. I also want to put on another 10lbs at the gym (currently 180) and make at least $80,000/year.

My biggest challenges right now are my ability to meet girls. I used to be a bartender (oh the glory days) but I got tired of being a servant and now I am a carpenter and superintendent for a residential builder. I LOVE my career field and I have a lot of upward potential, but there is ZERO opportunity to meet girls in my day-to-day. I've also moved out of the city and I'm living in the suburbs where it is very pleasant, but I'm surrounded by families. Zero opportunities to meet girls out and about. I do my best to network my social circles and go out in the city, but it's been hard. Still, having an awesome schedule and making decent money has given me some freedom.

Looking forward to chatting more with all of you! Cheers!
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AspiringMaleStripper
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2022 2:37 am
Goal: Have 5 active plates
Age: 34
Motto: I keep getting older, they stay the same age

Sat Jul 16, 2022 3:02 am

MFbag wrote:
Wed Jul 13, 2022 12:52 am
KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Tue Jun 02, 2020 10:32 am
"I, 💰 Mother Fuckin Bag 💰, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Whats up lads. Im Joshua 26 from Texas. Theres as few things about myself I want to work on:

1 - I have basically no friends. I used to have plenty, but since the pandemic ive lost contact with more and more people and now im a lonely ass motherfucker.
2- I dont do shit. Your average friday night im staying alone in my apartment on my computer like a cave dwelling troglodyte. This is related to (1) having no friends.
3 - I havent been laid in almost two years. Not with a girl anyway. I did fuck a few transexuals this year while i was on a Ligandrol cycle. It was fine but not what Im looking for. At least I know my dick still works.
4 - My job is going nowhere. The pay is fine, and its easy as fuck to the point where I spend half the day playing chess. That's the problem though, its like a rut. I want something challenging that makes me proud.

Fitness wise I'm already a pretty swole bodybuilder so I have that going for me. Im basically like Johnny Bravo in real life some jacked dude whos terrified of women. If anyone needs any lifting tips hit me up.
Ive gone on a few dates this year and even brought a few girls back to my apartment but didnt manage to bang any of them. Ive had three (3) girls literally in my bed and didnt fuck any of them. Can you believe that shit?

Anyhow Im going to lurk these forums for a while and get a feel for the culture of the website. Thanks for having me boys.
Damn dude, this really resonated with me. I got into the same shit during this "pandemic." I was living in a new city and had no way of meeting people. I eventually gave up and moved back to my home town, and things got SO much easier. Even though I was gone for so long and lost most of my connections, I still had a few that I was able to utilize.

I wish I had some advice to give you about meeting people. The best I can think of is to work in a restaurant or bar. Seriously, it's like steroids for your social life. I've tried to meet people at the gym, using meetup.com, going to events by myself, and I never had any luck. I ended up doing a part time security gig at a swanky lounge and I made a few connections there that's helped a lot. I feel your pain though, nothing worse than being home by yourself on a weekend night. Stay strong and keep your head up!
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SpaceBunSarah
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Joined: Sat Jul 16, 2022 7:02 am
Name: Sarah
Goal: Transition
Age: 28

Sat Jul 16, 2022 7:27 am

Hi there! I posted on this forum a little bit under another username. However, I realized recently that I’m trans, so I obviously need a new profile to reflect my new name and new life.

I’ve been a huge KYIL fan for a little over 6 months and made changes in my life that led to more dating success than I had before…but I was still a 4/10 at best. And it makes sense — if you try to be a gender you’re not, odds are you won’t be very good at it.

I have a few goals that most of you can relate to, and some that might be different since I’m a woman, and a very fucking girly one at that.

Goal 1: So obviously I need to lose fat, I was big before and I’m big now. I likely need to lose less since we’re going for hips and tits instead of abs but we’re still looking at about 50lbs.

Goal 2: Transitioning. I didn’t fuck around when I realized I’m a woman. I had clothes, a wig, and hormones within a week and an active Tinder on week 2. But this goal is my transition, so let’s make a doable list:

- Makeup skills! Most women my age have 10-15 years of makeup experience on me. I need to close that gap.
- Fashion! I felt like I was getting comfortable with dude fashion when my egg broke, but girl fashion is next level, y’all. I want to stop relying on my new girl friends all the time and dress myself properly.
- Friends! One of the biggest gripes in my life is that something was missing in my male friendships. They weren’t intimate! And there was like zero physical touch. Even worse, women would be my friend but treat my differently and still at somewhat of a distance. Now that I’ve come out, I can have the deep, loving and supportive friendships I’ve always longed for.
- Be a Bimbo Bitch! I’ve got 2 kids, a tech job, and so many years of struggling to be the dominant man who leads. That was never me. So now I want a break lol. This goal is to date a very dominant man or woman and let them make all the decisions for me so I can look cute and be a dumb bitch without beating myself up for it.

Goal 3: BDSM

So obviously if you read this far you can probably guess I’m a hardcore sub. But I got thrown into the dominant role most of the time. I’ve had one true sub experience and it was the best sex of my life. So this goal is to find somebody to top the shit out of me. Tie me up, edge me for hours, overload my senses until I can’t even breathe consistently, beat the shit out of me, do some CNC. Doesn’t matter too much but I want to be made into a total mess of a human.

I think that’s it for now! I think “lose fat” and “have crazy sex” are genderless goals, so I’d love to get to know you guys and cheer each other on.

It feels so good to say it! I, Sarah, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Starting today, I’m making myself into the woman I always was, but never met.

<3
Sarah
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AjaxExtreme
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Joined: Wed Nov 03, 2021 11:37 am
Name: Ajax
Goal: Lose Virginity
Age: 21

Sun Jul 17, 2022 2:42 pm

Hello everyone,
I am AjaxExtreme.
What I want to achieve and What I currently am is poles apart. I am 21, male and I live in India. My goals are -
I want to lose my virginity to a beautiful girl.
I want to sleep with 200 hot girls from different countries and of different races.
I also want to master Neville Goddard's technique.

The thing is I am unhealthy. I am completely out of shape and weak. I am unhappy as hell and extremely undisciplined. I hate Andy because he has everything I want and the discipline to go along with it. But the biggest reason I hate him is because he was exactly where I am right now which means I have zero excuses.
I am horribly addicted to downloading and watching TV shows. I am tired of myself and have often wondered about killing myself.
I have zero friends. Literally.
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Copywritecowboy
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Joined: Sat Aug 14, 2021 1:19 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 25
Motto: For to dream is to become.

Mon Jul 18, 2022 2:39 am

Howdy Folks!

I, Copywrite Cowboy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I’m 25 year old dude with 4 lays to date. I been a long-time lurker of the community going back to the GLL days.

So I have made progress in the online dating scene from Andy’s Tinder guide. It’s fucking awesome and making a few adjustments from it boosted the amount dates I had already.

GOALS:
  • I want to fuck 25 girls and have 3 long term fuck buddies.
  • Build a service based business on Electronic Repairs. And earn 3k monthly from it.
  • Enter 3 blue belt level BJJ Tournaments. And medal at least one of them.
  • Gain 15lbs of Muscle while learning & performing gymnastic based feats of strengths(Muscle Up, Handstand Push-up, one legged squats).
  • Increase Dick size to 7.5 inches and 5.5 Girth
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Moses21
Posts: 49 | Thanks: 25
Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2022 4:23 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 24

Mon Jul 18, 2022 11:32 pm

Hello
I, Mose, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I plan on getting 5 lays by the end of the year.im 24 years old and pretty much no experience.made a tinder and Pof and will ask around to optimize it. Have done around 60 approach this past 30 days and got 5 numbers.3 were a dud and I got the other two yesterday so will try those tomorrow.

Goals-

-Fuck 5 girls and get 1 fuck buddy
-Start Smma Agency
-Bulk to 190
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 818 | Thanks: 486
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Tue Jul 19, 2022 12:13 pm

@TY scott mate, make a proper introduction post as per our forum's rules. Otherwise I'll ban you in 3 days
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Fuckboy Aspirant
Posts: 41 | Thanks: 8
Joined: Tue Jul 19, 2022 3:09 pm
Goal: Conquer Social Freedom
Age: 23
Motto: "Do what YOU want!"

Tue Jul 19, 2022 3:29 pm

Sup guys, how is it going?

So, I'm 23 years old young man and, as many others here, I felt like I've been underachieving in my sex life as well as in other aspects too, so I decided on joining the forum as a way to hold myself accountable in my journey.

As the name suggest, I want to get laid a ton.

My goals at the moment are basically:

1. Keep an habit of approach 5 days/week, progressively increasing the number of approaches (currently aiming for 3 a day, consistenly, eventually 5)
2. Get to ~10% bf by the end of the year (i.e visible abs)

I, Fuckboy Aspirant, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
"A man is never wrong, doing what he believes to be the right thing."

My cold-approach log: viewtopic.php?f=40&t=1525
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