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- TheRenegadeRat
- Posts: 12 | Thanks:
- Joined: Sun Apr 03, 2022 7:48 pm
- Name: Z
- Goal: Lose fat
- Age: 22
- Motto: Genetics load the gun; lifestyle pulls the trigger
- Location: Mexico
About me:
- 22 years old.
- Born and raised in Mexico
- Student
-5´6 Height
Why am I here?
I joined because I want to meet new girls and move on from a girl I loved
Socially awkward, sometimes shy, I grew up with strict parents
I have avoidant attachment issues and I have dealing with long-term depression
Short-term goals
-Fix my diet
-Lose weight
-Go to the gym or train at house
-Get a full beard with Minoxidil use
-Find new friends
Longer-term goals:
- Improve my physical strength
- Improve my physical appearance by learning to dress
- Learn to fight, maybe with kickboxing
- Work on my mental health
- Go out to parties and dance without feeling like a poorly programmed robot
- Get a girlfriend
- Improve my social networks (Instagram)
- Reach 10 Lays.
- Approach 200 women.
- Overcome social & approach anxiety.
- Become socially confident in every social situation.
- Finish my degree and maybe start a business
- 22 years old.
- Born and raised in Mexico
- Student
-5´6 Height
Why am I here?
I joined because I want to meet new girls and move on from a girl I loved
Socially awkward, sometimes shy, I grew up with strict parents
I have avoidant attachment issues and I have dealing with long-term depression
Short-term goals
-Fix my diet
-Lose weight
-Go to the gym or train at house
-Get a full beard with Minoxidil use
-Find new friends
Longer-term goals:
- Improve my physical strength
- Improve my physical appearance by learning to dress
- Learn to fight, maybe with kickboxing
- Work on my mental health
- Go out to parties and dance without feeling like a poorly programmed robot
- Get a girlfriend
- Improve my social networks (Instagram)
- Reach 10 Lays.
- Approach 200 women.
- Overcome social & approach anxiety.
- Become socially confident in every social situation.
- Finish my degree and maybe start a business
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"Ad Maiora"
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- bigsky112
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Sun Apr 03, 2022 8:01 pm
- Name: Dan
- Goal: Better Life experience
- Age: 28
- Motto: Life is wonderful.
I, bigsky112, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
28 year old living in Europe
Short term goals
- Getting laid
- Get better/unique pictures
- Starting an music instrument
- Feeling better
Long term goals
- Investing in Crypto again
- Kids
- Having fun and finding my purpose in life
28 year old living in Europe
Short term goals
- Getting laid
- Get better/unique pictures
- Starting an music instrument
- Feeling better
Long term goals
- Investing in Crypto again
- Kids
- Having fun and finding my purpose in life
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- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Mon Apr 04, 2022 9:40 am
- Goal: Face fears
- Age: 24
I want to face my fear of approaching women and getting over my fear of meeting new people. I have been terrified of rejection for too long and lately I have been feeling ready to tackle this issue head on. I am from Melbourne and I joined this forum to hopefully find other gentlemen who are working on the same thing. So if you're from Melbourne, get in touch and we can support each other. I'm easy going and it would be great to meet others who have the same passion for getting over this fear.
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- TheGreySwan
- Posts: 34 | Thanks: 8
- Joined: Mon Apr 04, 2022 5:44 pm
- Goal: Approach 1 Fem/Day
- Age: 29
- Motto: Only dead fish swim with the stream.
"I, TheGreySwan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
I'm TheGreySwan, age 29, in NYC, USA.
Some background: yesterday was my birthday. One's 29th is hardly notable, and the occasion wouldn't even warranted a comment except for the fact that I spent most of it attending a funeral. The man who's remains were put into the ground 1:00 PM EST yesterday afternoon was about four weeks past his 30th birthday. Commemorating one's birth and another's death was a juxtaposition that prompted the decision to stop dabbling.
I've been a 3y casual reader of GLL material. I've been a casual reader of /listener to KYIL over the last 6 months. During my adult live I've been fortunate to have had some decent success with woman at bars/parties/dating apps. However, my victories never had the consistency or quality I wanted for myself. I'm sure as a I get to know you all better that'll be a topic to explore. But for now, I'll officially take the plunge and state my goals.
My goals for this next year
1. Approach at least one woman a day for the next 365 days, where "approach" is defined as
a. Expressing sexual interest ("You're hot/sexy/cute etc.")
b. Finding out if she's single, and...
c. If she is single, at a minimum asking for her number. (Will be keeping a log on this site for accountability/record keeping).
In layman's terms, I want approaching to be as much a part of my life as brushing my teeth or going to work.
2. Add 15 lbs. of muscle. (Started lifting on Aug. 30 2021 and have added 10 lbs. thus far. Can post log)
3. Finish the rough draft of my book on investing.
4. At least one new lay a month.
Long-Term Goals
1. 250 lays. At 74 as of today, with two this calendar year (can show log for proof)
2. Fully mitigate approach anxiety, where "mitigate" means that I'm never prevented, by fear, embarrassment, shyness etc. from approaching a girl I find attractive. (Though I fully expect to feel those emotions, I won't have them as my master).
3. 25+ individual lays from woman who make their living from being hot (models, influencers)
4. 10x MFF threesomes where both parties are members who are professionally hot (see LT goal #3.)
5. 5x MFFF foursome
6. One MFFFF fivesome
7. Run my own hedge fund that, over at least a 15-year period, beats the market by 300 bps on an annualized basis.
I'm TheGreySwan, age 29, in NYC, USA.
Some background: yesterday was my birthday. One's 29th is hardly notable, and the occasion wouldn't even warranted a comment except for the fact that I spent most of it attending a funeral. The man who's remains were put into the ground 1:00 PM EST yesterday afternoon was about four weeks past his 30th birthday. Commemorating one's birth and another's death was a juxtaposition that prompted the decision to stop dabbling.
I've been a 3y casual reader of GLL material. I've been a casual reader of /listener to KYIL over the last 6 months. During my adult live I've been fortunate to have had some decent success with woman at bars/parties/dating apps. However, my victories never had the consistency or quality I wanted for myself. I'm sure as a I get to know you all better that'll be a topic to explore. But for now, I'll officially take the plunge and state my goals.
My goals for this next year
1. Approach at least one woman a day for the next 365 days, where "approach" is defined as
a. Expressing sexual interest ("You're hot/sexy/cute etc.")
b. Finding out if she's single, and...
c. If she is single, at a minimum asking for her number. (Will be keeping a log on this site for accountability/record keeping).
In layman's terms, I want approaching to be as much a part of my life as brushing my teeth or going to work.
2. Add 15 lbs. of muscle. (Started lifting on Aug. 30 2021 and have added 10 lbs. thus far. Can post log)
3. Finish the rough draft of my book on investing.
4. At least one new lay a month.
Long-Term Goals
1. 250 lays. At 74 as of today, with two this calendar year (can show log for proof)
2. Fully mitigate approach anxiety, where "mitigate" means that I'm never prevented, by fear, embarrassment, shyness etc. from approaching a girl I find attractive. (Though I fully expect to feel those emotions, I won't have them as my master).
3. 25+ individual lays from woman who make their living from being hot (models, influencers)
4. 10x MFF threesomes where both parties are members who are professionally hot (see LT goal #3.)
5. 5x MFFF foursome
6. One MFFFF fivesome
7. Run my own hedge fund that, over at least a 15-year period, beats the market by 300 bps on an annualized basis.
Lifetime Lays: 75
- Nianaa
- Posts: 7 | Thanks: 2
- Joined: Mon Apr 04, 2022 2:15 pm
- Goal: Improve dating
- Age: 28
- Motto: Your future lies in your daily routine
I, Nianaa, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
28 from a Nordic country.
Current goals
Achieve my best possible physique, have been working with a personal trainer for the past year.
Increase total lays from 5 to 10.
Take up a new more social hobby to meet new people, thought about dancing, bouldering, paddel tennis.
"crack the code" of online dating.
28 from a Nordic country.
Current goals
Achieve my best possible physique, have been working with a personal trainer for the past year.
Increase total lays from 5 to 10.
Take up a new more social hobby to meet new people, thought about dancing, bouldering, paddel tennis.
"crack the code" of online dating.
- MakingAComeback
- Posts: 4130 | Thanks: 4864
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
- Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
- Age: 32
- Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK
Welcome boys!
-Your friend, Ravi
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential
My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
- Halligan
- Posts: 3 | Thanks:
- Joined: Wed Apr 06, 2022 12:39 am
- Name: Halligan
- Goal: Improve dating profile
- Age: 34
- Motto: Live Free Or Die
I, Halligan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Hey guys. Glad I found this place. Andy- what you wrote regarding tinder profiles is the best guide I've seen. I've been trying to implement it for about a month. Increasing my matches is my main goal at the moment. I got the Canon EOS you recommended and its awesome. Currently in the process of updating the wardrobe as that is pretty lacking. Following Hatfish's content for that. Ordered some accessories off amazon that should be arriving in a few days. Anyways, glad to be here.
Hey guys. Glad I found this place. Andy- what you wrote regarding tinder profiles is the best guide I've seen. I've been trying to implement it for about a month. Increasing my matches is my main goal at the moment. I got the Canon EOS you recommended and its awesome. Currently in the process of updating the wardrobe as that is pretty lacking. Following Hatfish's content for that. Ordered some accessories off amazon that should be arriving in a few days. Anyways, glad to be here.
- oscarcma
- Posts: 4 | Thanks: 3
- Joined: Thu Apr 07, 2022 12:44 am
- Goal: Get better matches
- Age: 37
- Motto: Grow Don't Change
- Location: Boston
I, oscarcma, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
My goals are:
- Getting laid by attractive women once per week
- Building my confidence
- Developing my ability to pursue my goals
- Excelling professionally
- Developing healthy non sexual relationships
My goals are:
- Getting laid by attractive women once per week
- Building my confidence
- Developing my ability to pursue my goals
- Excelling professionally
- Developing healthy non sexual relationships
- ShivP_91
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Wed Apr 06, 2022 9:27 pm
- Name: Shiv
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 31
- Location: Sydney
I ShivP_91 commit to working on my goals and taking them seriously.
Goals:
-Get to 15% bodyfat (currently around 25%)
-100 lays (currently at 3)
-Make 500K per year (currently 200k but i work a shitload of overtime)
-Crush my approach anxiety (i have done 5 appraches in my life, they were all last Friday and before that i had never done an approach in my life)
-Meet like minded people, i currently have no friends with similar interests or goals.
Goals:
-Get to 15% bodyfat (currently around 25%)
-100 lays (currently at 3)
-Make 500K per year (currently 200k but i work a shitload of overtime)
-Crush my approach anxiety (i have done 5 appraches in my life, they were all last Friday and before that i had never done an approach in my life)
-Meet like minded people, i currently have no friends with similar interests or goals.
- turkeydancer
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Sat Apr 09, 2022 8:18 pm
- Goal: lose fat
- Age: 34
I, turkeydancer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
Short term goals
-defeat approach anxiety
-widen delts (I have naturally narrow shoulders)
-lean out to 160lbs (currently 180)
Short term goals
-defeat approach anxiety
-widen delts (I have naturally narrow shoulders)
-lean out to 160lbs (currently 180)
- jonyrids
- Posts: 10 | Thanks: 3
- Joined: Sun Apr 10, 2022 12:52 am
- Name: Jonny
- Goal: Develop self confidence
- Age: 30
- Motto: Practice and hard work will get you far.
I, jonyrids, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Goals:
Develop self confidence and a better mental attitude,
Get into better shape
Widen my social circle
Goals:
Develop self confidence and a better mental attitude,
Get into better shape
Widen my social circle
- squidzila
- Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
- Joined: Mon Apr 11, 2022 4:47 am
- Goal: Meet a girlfriend
- Age: 21
I, Squidzila, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I've always been kinda shy and surrounded by guys as I've been in STEM all my life. Academic life? Perfect. Social life? Terrible. Never had a girlfriend.
I'm spending five months in a new city and I've made it my goal to leave a different (better) person.
My goals include:
- Obligatory: get a girlfriend - get laid. I don't want to become a hook up machine, just prove to myself that I am actually worth something to the opposite gender.
- Get fit: jogging, weightlifting.
- Have non-zero self-esteem.
- Learn to feel confident enough to engage with strangers and meet new people organically.
Ciao~
I've always been kinda shy and surrounded by guys as I've been in STEM all my life. Academic life? Perfect. Social life? Terrible. Never had a girlfriend.
I'm spending five months in a new city and I've made it my goal to leave a different (better) person.
My goals include:
- Obligatory: get a girlfriend - get laid. I don't want to become a hook up machine, just prove to myself that I am actually worth something to the opposite gender.
- Get fit: jogging, weightlifting.
- Have non-zero self-esteem.
- Learn to feel confident enough to engage with strangers and meet new people organically.
Ciao~
- Imbacile
- Posts: 16 | Thanks: 2
- Joined: Mon Apr 11, 2022 8:01 pm
- Goal: Social Freedom
- Age: 20
I, Imbacile, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
The main goal I have is just complete social freedom. Honestly I'm already pretty free but Derek from MPMD described how the AA program and approaching helped him in way more ways than just with women, like in job interviews and just any social setting. I don't have issues with girls I get laid pretty regularly, I also look pretty good I'm 6'6" 205 lbs but I do want to put on some more muscle which is my second goal.
That's it, I started this account only to log my AA program which I will start tomorrow.
The main goal I have is just complete social freedom. Honestly I'm already pretty free but Derek from MPMD described how the AA program and approaching helped him in way more ways than just with women, like in job interviews and just any social setting. I don't have issues with girls I get laid pretty regularly, I also look pretty good I'm 6'6" 205 lbs but I do want to put on some more muscle which is my second goal.
That's it, I started this account only to log my AA program which I will start tomorrow.
Total Lays: 23
-Get better at fucking
-Get back in gym
-Up my "game"
-Get better at fucking
-Get back in gym
-Up my "game"
- kylerbro44
- Posts: 2 | Thanks: 2
- Joined: Tue Apr 12, 2022 1:05 am
- Name: Kyler
- Goal: More confidence
- Age: 22
I, Kyler, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
About me
-22
-5’11” 228 lbs
-been engaged twice so don’t really got a lot of confidence considering one stole money and the other cheated
Goals
- reach 100 lays (currently at 75)
-get more confidence
-fuck my ex’s best friend
About me
-22
-5’11” 228 lbs
-been engaged twice so don’t really got a lot of confidence considering one stole money and the other cheated
Goals
- reach 100 lays (currently at 75)
-get more confidence
-fuck my ex’s best friend
- Squilliam
- Posts: 2067 | Thanks: 362
- Joined: Thu Dec 30, 2021 12:57 am
- Goal: Be happy
- Age: 24
- Motto: Pain is temporary. Greatness lasts forever
You've been engaged twice, damn man. Can't imagine having experienced that once at this age, let alone twice.kylerbro44 wrote: ↑Tue Apr 12, 2022 1:22 am-been engaged twice so don’t really got a lot of confidence considering one stole money and the other cheated
Welcome to the forums.
check out my blog: https://squilzpursuit.wordpress.com/
- Do 1000 approaches by end of 2024 (~350/1000)
- Get laid from daygame
- Learn game and stop being a social autist
- Do 1000 approaches by end of 2024 (~350/1000)
- Get laid from daygame
- Learn game and stop being a social autist