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TheRenegadeRat
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Joined: Sun Apr 03, 2022 7:48 pm
Name: Z
Goal: Lose fat
Age: 22
Motto: Genetics load the gun; lifestyle pulls the trigger
Location: Mexico

Sun Apr 03, 2022 8:24 pm

About me:
- 22 years old.
- Born and raised in Mexico
- Student
-5´6 Height

Why am I here?
I joined because I want to meet new girls and move on from a girl I loved
Socially awkward, sometimes shy, I grew up with strict parents
I have avoidant attachment issues and I have dealing with long-term depression

Short-term goals
-Fix my diet
-Lose weight
-Go to the gym or train at house
-Get a full beard with Minoxidil use
-Find new friends

Longer-term goals:
- Improve my physical strength
- Improve my physical appearance by learning to dress
- Learn to fight, maybe with kickboxing
- Work on my mental health
- Go out to parties and dance without feeling like a poorly programmed robot
- Get a girlfriend
- Improve my social networks (Instagram)
- Reach 10 Lays.
- Approach 200 women.
- Overcome social & approach anxiety.
- Become socially confident in every social situation.
- Finish my degree and maybe start a business
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bigsky112
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Sun Apr 03, 2022 8:01 pm
Name: Dan
Goal: Better Life experience
Age: 28
Motto: Life is wonderful.

Sun Apr 03, 2022 8:37 pm

I, bigsky112, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

28 year old living in Europe

Short term goals
- Getting laid
- Get better/unique pictures
- Starting an music instrument
- Feeling better

Long term goals
- Investing in Crypto again
- Kids
- Having fun and finding my purpose in life
AugustusPablo
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Joined: Mon Apr 04, 2022 9:40 am
Goal: Face fears
Age: 24

Mon Apr 04, 2022 9:57 am

I want to face my fear of approaching women and getting over my fear of meeting new people. I have been terrified of rejection for too long and lately I have been feeling ready to tackle this issue head on. I am from Melbourne and I joined this forum to hopefully find other gentlemen who are working on the same thing. So if you're from Melbourne, get in touch and we can support each other. I'm easy going and it would be great to meet others who have the same passion for getting over this fear.
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TheGreySwan
Posts: 34 | Thanks: 8
Joined: Mon Apr 04, 2022 5:44 pm
Goal: Approach 1 Fem/Day
Age: 29
Motto: Only dead fish swim with the stream.

Mon Apr 04, 2022 7:00 pm

"I, TheGreySwan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I'm TheGreySwan, age 29, in NYC, USA.

Some background: yesterday was my birthday. One's 29th is hardly notable, and the occasion wouldn't even warranted a comment except for the fact that I spent most of it attending a funeral. The man who's remains were put into the ground 1:00 PM EST yesterday afternoon was about four weeks past his 30th birthday. Commemorating one's birth and another's death was a juxtaposition that prompted the decision to stop dabbling.

I've been a 3y casual reader of GLL material. I've been a casual reader of /listener to KYIL over the last 6 months. During my adult live I've been fortunate to have had some decent success with woman at bars/parties/dating apps. However, my victories never had the consistency or quality I wanted for myself. I'm sure as a I get to know you all better that'll be a topic to explore. But for now, I'll officially take the plunge and state my goals.

My goals for this next year
1. Approach at least one woman a day for the next 365 days, where "approach" is defined as
a. Expressing sexual interest ("You're hot/sexy/cute etc.")
b. Finding out if she's single, and...
c. If she is single, at a minimum asking for her number. (Will be keeping a log on this site for accountability/record keeping).

In layman's terms, I want approaching to be as much a part of my life as brushing my teeth or going to work.

2. Add 15 lbs. of muscle. (Started lifting on Aug. 30 2021 and have added 10 lbs. thus far. Can post log)

3. Finish the rough draft of my book on investing.

4. At least one new lay a month.

Long-Term Goals
1. 250 lays. At 74 as of today, with two this calendar year (can show log for proof)

2. Fully mitigate approach anxiety, where "mitigate" means that I'm never prevented, by fear, embarrassment, shyness etc. from approaching a girl I find attractive. (Though I fully expect to feel those emotions, I won't have them as my master).

3. 25+ individual lays from woman who make their living from being hot (models, influencers)

4. 10x MFF threesomes where both parties are members who are professionally hot (see LT goal #3.)

5. 5x MFFF foursome

6. One MFFFF fivesome

7. Run my own hedge fund that, over at least a 15-year period, beats the market by 300 bps on an annualized basis.
Lifetime Lays: 75
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Nianaa
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Mon Apr 04, 2022 2:15 pm
Goal: Improve dating
Age: 28
Motto: Your future lies in your daily routine

Tue Apr 05, 2022 6:59 am

I, Nianaa, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

28 from a Nordic country.

Current goals

Achieve my best possible physique, have been working with a personal trainer for the past year.
Increase total lays from 5 to 10.
Take up a new more social hobby to meet new people, thought about dancing, bouldering, paddel tennis.
"crack the code" of online dating.
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4130 | Thanks: 4864
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Tue Apr 05, 2022 7:09 am

Welcome boys!
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
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Halligan
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Joined: Wed Apr 06, 2022 12:39 am
Name: Halligan
Goal: Improve dating profile
Age: 34
Motto: Live Free Or Die

Wed Apr 06, 2022 1:08 am

I, Halligan, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey guys. Glad I found this place. Andy- what you wrote regarding tinder profiles is the best guide I've seen. I've been trying to implement it for about a month. Increasing my matches is my main goal at the moment. I got the Canon EOS you recommended and its awesome. Currently in the process of updating the wardrobe as that is pretty lacking. Following Hatfish's content for that. Ordered some accessories off amazon that should be arriving in a few days. Anyways, glad to be here.
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oscarcma
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Thu Apr 07, 2022 12:44 am
Goal: Get better matches
Age: 37
Motto: Grow Don't Change
Location: Boston

Thu Apr 07, 2022 1:00 am

I, oscarcma, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals are:
- Getting laid by attractive women once per week
- Building my confidence
- Developing my ability to pursue my goals
- Excelling professionally
- Developing healthy non sexual relationships
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ShivP_91
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Joined: Wed Apr 06, 2022 9:27 pm
Name: Shiv
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 31
Location: Sydney

Thu Apr 07, 2022 7:02 am

I ShivP_91 commit to working on my goals and taking them seriously.

Goals:
-Get to 15% bodyfat (currently around 25%)
-100 lays (currently at 3)
-Make 500K per year (currently 200k but i work a shitload of overtime)
-Crush my approach anxiety (i have done 5 appraches in my life, they were all last Friday and before that i had never done an approach in my life)
-Meet like minded people, i currently have no friends with similar interests or goals.
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turkeydancer
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Joined: Sat Apr 09, 2022 8:18 pm
Goal: lose fat
Age: 34

Sat Apr 09, 2022 8:37 pm

I, turkeydancer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Short term goals
-defeat approach anxiety
-widen delts (I have naturally narrow shoulders)
-lean out to 160lbs (currently 180)
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jonyrids
Posts: 10 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Sun Apr 10, 2022 12:52 am
Name: Jonny
Goal: Develop self confidence
Age: 30
Motto: Practice and hard work will get you far.

Sun Apr 10, 2022 12:58 am

I, jonyrids, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Goals:
Develop self confidence and a better mental attitude,
Get into better shape
Widen my social circle
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squidzila
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Mon Apr 11, 2022 4:47 am
Goal: Meet a girlfriend
Age: 21

Mon Apr 11, 2022 5:18 am

I, Squidzila, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I've always been kinda shy and surrounded by guys as I've been in STEM all my life. Academic life? Perfect. Social life? Terrible. Never had a girlfriend.

I'm spending five months in a new city and I've made it my goal to leave a different (better) person.

My goals include:
- Obligatory: get a girlfriend - get laid. I don't want to become a hook up machine, just prove to myself that I am actually worth something to the opposite gender.
- Get fit: jogging, weightlifting.
- Have non-zero self-esteem.
- Learn to feel confident enough to engage with strangers and meet new people organically.

Ciao~
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Imbacile
Posts: 16 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Mon Apr 11, 2022 8:01 pm
Goal: Social Freedom
Age: 20

Mon Apr 11, 2022 8:27 pm

I, Imbacile, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
The main goal I have is just complete social freedom. Honestly I'm already pretty free but Derek from MPMD described how the AA program and approaching helped him in way more ways than just with women, like in job interviews and just any social setting. I don't have issues with girls I get laid pretty regularly, I also look pretty good I'm 6'6" 205 lbs but I do want to put on some more muscle which is my second goal.
That's it, I started this account only to log my AA program which I will start tomorrow.
Total Lays: 23
-Get better at fucking
-Get back in gym
-Up my "game"
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kylerbro44
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Tue Apr 12, 2022 1:05 am
Name: Kyler
Goal: More confidence
Age: 22

Tue Apr 12, 2022 1:22 am

I, Kyler, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me
-22
-5’11” 228 lbs
-been engaged twice so don’t really got a lot of confidence considering one stole money and the other cheated

Goals
- reach 100 lays (currently at 75)
-get more confidence
-fuck my ex’s best friend
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Squilliam
Posts: 2067 | Thanks: 362
Joined: Thu Dec 30, 2021 12:57 am
Goal: Be happy
Age: 24
Motto: Pain is temporary. Greatness lasts forever

Tue Apr 12, 2022 1:43 am

kylerbro44 wrote:
Tue Apr 12, 2022 1:22 am
-been engaged twice so don’t really got a lot of confidence considering one stole money and the other cheated
You've been engaged twice, damn man. Can't imagine having experienced that once at this age, let alone twice.

Welcome to the forums.
check out my blog: https://squilzpursuit.wordpress.com/

- Do 1000 approaches by end of 2024 (~350/1000)
- Get laid from daygame
- Learn game and stop being a social autist
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