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Flash Bang
Posts: 8 | Thanks: 13
Joined: Tue Jul 14, 2020 4:34 pm
Goal: Crush Anxiety + Finance
Age: 31
Location: Australia

Tue Jul 21, 2020 2:08 am

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Mon Jul 20, 2020 11:32 pm
@Flash Bang - Awesome man. From your pic you're attractive with good style - you'll kill it once you have some decent Tinder pics.

Social Anxiety - tried this?
Oh my god this could be massive for me. How much I fluctuate is ridiculous. You could ask 2/3 of the people I know and they would possibly say I'm at above average confidence but the issue is my ridiculous fight or flight response with fluctuates massively. I can get caught in a negative feedback loop and end up burning up red in the most ridiculous situations if I've met an attractive girl for the first time or get into some kind of low level conflict. It's so dumb.

I'll be going back through this article and will make a log at some point. Thank you.

I've already set up a date with a mate tonight to try and get some good shots with a dslr I've had collecting dust. WIll be posting a feedback post very soon
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bigDICKGOD
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Mon Jul 20, 2020 5:04 am
Name: Mo
Goal: Work towards perfection
Age: 25
Motto: Discipline equals Freedom

Tue Jul 21, 2020 2:12 am

"I, bigDICKGOD, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals for the year:

1) Fix my neurochemistry and issues with discipline -> Finding a good psychiatrist who does genetic testing for precision medicine and work on creating structures that improve my work ethic.
2) Find out a way to create a social circle despite this fucking Coronavirus shitshow here in NYC.
3) Get down to a 155lbs or 12% body fat. Whichever comes first.
4) Get a software engineering job making at least $200K
5) Get another half inch of girth on my dick
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SIGMA_1234
Posts: 951 | Thanks: 328
Joined: Tue Jun 02, 2020 9:13 am
Goal: Digital Nomad Income
Age: 26
Motto: Action > Perfection

Tue Jul 21, 2020 2:32 am

^This is the most cursed username and profile picture I have seen so far lmao

Welcome
Aspiring Digital Nomad

Follow my lifestyle journey log

Fitness:
-) Cut to 56 kg, then bulk after

Sex Enhancement:
-) Bathmate & Kegels

Learning goals:
-) 10 books
-) more note-taking & reviewing of past materials

^^Lifestyle habit tracker can be monitored here.

Learning Chinese Mandarin:
-) Mandarin 365 Project, monitor here.

Follow my business journey log

$ Goals:
-) US$3k/ mo nomad income
-) US$10k/ mo nomad income
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Radical
Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1439
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Tue Jul 21, 2020 3:27 am

Ah my favourite GLL username has made it on to here

Welcome dude

140 odd guys willing to post their picture is crazy
JaegerBombastic
Posts: 57 | Thanks: 14
Joined: Fri Jul 17, 2020 4:20 pm
Goal: Enjoy the present
Age: 33
Location: USA

Tue Jul 21, 2020 10:48 pm

I, Mac, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My overall goal is to consistently attract/date/have sex with beautiful women. I've done this but pretty rarely - I want to make this something that I can consistently do with little to no effort.

I've been reading this site for a month or two now, and putting a lot of it to use. I'll continue to work on the following (which I have specific goals/dates for):
1. Have a positive outlook on life. Specifically, meditate and use CBT/gratitude exercises daily.
2. Exercise & diet in order to reduce bodyfat. Eventually get my BF% measured and re-evaluate.
3. Take new pictures. Become more proficient at Photoshop, post the results on here for feedback.
4. Update fashion: buy more accessories, buy a new outfit or two, get a tattoo and a piercing.
5. Plenty of other goals that are smaller and/or further in the future.
JaegerBombastic
Posts: 57 | Thanks: 14
Joined: Fri Jul 17, 2020 4:20 pm
Goal: Enjoy the present
Age: 33
Location: USA

Tue Jul 21, 2020 11:20 pm

Sweet, I'll check those out! Thanks man!
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l0vebone
Posts: 178 | Thanks: 65
Joined: Fri Jul 24, 2020 2:16 am
Name: RJ
Goal: get throat
Age: 24
Motto: fuck hos get money

Fri Jul 24, 2020 2:18 am

Sup guys. You all might know me from GLL under a different handle..

Goals: smash hoes, get money. Study computer science.

I, l0vebone commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
luket28
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Jul 24, 2020 10:15 am
Name: Duke
Goal: Get Paid
Age: 18

Fri Jul 24, 2020 10:21 am

:)
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BouffeQ
Posts: 67 | Thanks: 24
Joined: Fri Jul 03, 2020 12:19 pm
Goal: 1 date per week
Age: 31

Fri Jul 24, 2020 7:06 pm

Best of luck buddy. If you read the site you will see that master @KillYourInnerLoser was in the same boat, maybe even worst. Start fixing stuff one by one. Apply for jobs, join a gym, find some hobbies... Also, post an avatar before he pulls out the whips.
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Radical
Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1439
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Sat Jul 25, 2020 5:06 am

@fugly

Your first step is to post pictures of yourself so you can get feedback to address that from the guys who have turned it around. Can do it in the private section if you're worried

With this specific issue none of us can help ya if we dont know where your looks are at.

Also good to go over your style
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d00m
Posts: 18 | Thanks: 11
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 8:55 am
Name: Aaron
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 26
Motto: Leave them better than you found them

Sat Jul 25, 2020 9:22 am

I, Aaron, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi guys I'm Aaron from Texas. I have been fortunate enough to get attention from and even be approached by girls for a long time (even more so now), but I've always been too shy and lacked the confidence to ever close the deal. All of that changes now.

Goals
10 lays by February 2021
Get a real job and move out of my brother's place in a year
Take my musical projects more seriously
Continue improving my physique
Learn how to fight
Luke95
Posts: 155 | Thanks: 15
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 3:00 pm
Name: Luck
Goal: $$$$
Age: 99

Sat Jul 25, 2020 4:25 pm

I, Luke, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Got kicked out of mom's house when I was in last year of college. I got a pass but I list it as incomplete on my CV. But no worries because I still got a crappy IT job. Then I realized that I'm 23/24 and very alone with no real accomplishments. My first goal was to get a dev job and I did :D Now I'm 25 with a software engineering job. I consider getting the dev job my first big win. The next big wins: getting fit and starting a business.
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:45 pm

I, Crisis_Overcomer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Heya fellas, I was active last year in the GLL forums. While reading Andy's log I discovered this forum so I decided to sign up. Not sure if I'll be active both here and there but I shall see.

I was gonna take my dating life seriously again in February. Then corona happened and I got scared with both the virus and my government's measures (I live in Greece). Focused on my biz but was missing the sex. When in one of my dreams, I dreamed about having sex (inception?) I knew something had to change.

I was getting coached by Andy last year and did well with cold approaching. Alas now I've lost my flow. I tried starting again but it's tough. I end up spending hours walking aimlessly. Plus I sweat a lot for a skinny guy and this annoys me even more.

So I decided to install Tinder again, along with Bumble (my 10th world country doesn't support Hinge yet). I even asked a guy I know to take some professional photos but he's probably gonna flake. Anyway, I installed the apps today, got a few matches and I might go out with a girl tomorrow. She seems like a time waster but I feel warm and fuzzy communicating with a female that might be open to chocking, spanking, blindfolding, and face fucking .

Despite my sex-less intro, my main goal in 2020 is to make $5,000/month with my coaching business. However I realized that I miss sex. So, unless I fix this part first, my mind won't focus.

If I had to give a few checkpoints regarding my goals, they are:
  • get laid and continue doing so with online dating
  • start running FB ads to attract leads
  • convert leads into 4-figure customers
  • set a system that brings leads in consistently
  • retain enoug customers to be making $5,000/month consistently
  • move out from my crappy appartment
Anyway, that's all from me. Glad to be back and here's to a kick-glute rest of 2020
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Mark
Posts: 68 | Thanks: 19
Joined: Sun Jun 21, 2020 4:25 am
Name: Mark
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 27
Motto: You have to live it.
Location: Las Vegas

Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:48 pm

@Crisis_Overcomer good to have you back, we all missed you
2019 Lays: 9
2020 Lays: 2
2021 Lays: 0
2022 Lays: 1

Ultimate long-term goal: 50 lays (12/50 so far)
At least 10 8+'s (3/10 so far)
At least 20 7+'s (5/20 so far)

Goals:
Quit porn
Gym 3x a week
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:50 pm

Wtf hopefully you guys don't cum as fast as you replied.

@Mark heya man, thanks. I missed you guys as well and only wanted to come back when I was 100% serious again

@KillYourInnerLoser <3 Already did
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