New members - you MUST post in here before anywhere else.
Once you've posted/replied & introduced yourself in here, you'll be able to post in all the other sections of the forum.
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- Posts: 7 | Thanks:
- Joined: Sat Aug 20, 2022 8:50 pm
- Name: Zach
- Goal: Get Money
- Age: 24
I, Zach, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
My goals are being able to get laid anywhere, being financially free, and inspiring my generation to actually get up, believe in themselves, and do shit through social media.
My goals are being able to get laid anywhere, being financially free, and inspiring my generation to actually get up, believe in themselves, and do shit through social media.
- mouser
- Posts: 1 | Thanks: 2
- Joined: Fri Aug 19, 2022 8:24 pm
- Goal: Get 5 lays by January 1
- Age: 25
I, Mouser, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm a 25 year old software developer. My long-term goal is to have a high quality and highly abundant dating life through cold approach. Ideally, I'd like to have sex with 100 women. Right now, I'm at six, three from cold approach.
Short-term, my goals are as follows:
I'm a 25 year old software developer. My long-term goal is to have a high quality and highly abundant dating life through cold approach. Ideally, I'd like to have sex with 100 women. Right now, I'm at six, three from cold approach.
Short-term, my goals are as follows:
- Have sex with five women by January 1st, 2023
- Cut down to within 10%-15% bodyfat
- klondike
- Posts: 175 | Thanks: 55
- Joined: Mon Aug 22, 2022 12:58 am
- Goal: Bone 10 Girls
- Age: 35
Whatsup I'm Klondike. Only game goals right now are to get to a beginner level, and to hook up with 5 girls off the apps. Primary physique goal is to drop 15-20lbs of lard.
I, Klondike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I, Klondike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
- gettingoutofcomfortzone
- Posts: 17 | Thanks: 14
- Joined: Sun Aug 21, 2022 5:12 pm
- Name: Ash
- Goal: Delayed Gratification.
- Age: 32
- Motto: Desire Control.
Yo...!!KillYourInnerLoser wrote: ↑Tue Jun 02, 2020 10:32 am"I, ASH, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
32, 165 cm, Obese, Single, Indian in Sweden.
Fcking feeling 60 for the past few months.
Main reason that pushed me to create an account is to be part of a community that are full of go-getters.
Goal
To get Laid. Be comfortable in my own shoes.
But, have these major hurdles to cross.
- Reduce BF and Weight .
- Reduce Social Anxiety, stop being a goofy smiling moron to everyone.
- Increase presence in Socials.
- Be selfish enough to prioritize my life over family. Fckin, Indian households man.
- Improve style. Being positive.
- Masturbation.
Triggers:
- Porn,
- Living life through others lenses,
- Mindless Reddit & YouTube browsing.
- Need for validation, criticism from the current woman I am seeing.
What I have going for me.
- New job that has good potential. Moderate salary currently.
- New weight loss program. I like the workouts enough to keep me going to the gym consistently.
- Have my own place and transport. (was a luxury for me until now).
- Independent enough to pursue new interests, hobbies.
Abilities:
- Quit nicotine addiction in the past and 100% convinced I can do it in other areas of my life.
- Attempted nofap previously to moderate success (90+ days).
- Willing and able minded.
I read that it is beneficial to do daily logs so as to improve consistently.
I wish to add more details as part of my daily logs.
Excited to be here.
- colgate
- Posts: 782 | Thanks: 1292
- Joined: Thu Aug 05, 2021 9:23 pm
- Name: bulldog
- Goal: japanese lay
- Age: 26
- Motto: TOMORROW I WILL BE A SUCCESS
- Location: japan
- Contact:
sup dudegettingoutofcomfortzone wrote: ↑Mon Aug 22, 2022 12:55 pmYo...!!KillYourInnerLoser wrote: ↑Tue Jun 02, 2020 10:32 am"I, ASH, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
32, 165 cm, Obese, Single, Indian in Sweden.
Fcking feeling 60 for the past few months.
Main reason that pushed me to create an account is to be part of a community that are full of go-getters.
Goal
To get Laid. Be comfortable in my own shoes.
But, have these major hurdles to cross.
- Reduce BF and Weight .
- Reduce Social Anxiety, stop being a goofy smiling moron to everyone.
- Increase presence in Socials.
- Be selfish enough to prioritize my life over family. Fckin, Indian households man.
- Improve style. Being positive.
- Masturbation.
Triggers:
- Porn,
- Living life through others lenses,
- Mindless Reddit & YouTube browsing.
- Need for validation, criticism from the current woman I am seeing.
What I have going for me.
- New job that has good potential. Moderate salary currently.
- New weight loss program. I like the workouts enough to keep me going to the gym consistently.
- Have my own place and transport. (was a luxury for me until now).
- Independent enough to pursue new interests, hobbies.
Abilities:
- Quit nicotine addiction in the past and 100% convinced I can do it in other areas of my life.
- Attempted nofap previously to moderate success (90+ days).
- Willing and able minded.
I read that it is beneficial to do daily logs so as to improve consistently.
I wish to add more details as part of my daily logs.
Excited to be here.
i'm a ~167cm indian except i'm in america. i think we have very similar base stats but i just started before you

you can read my logs (in my signature) if you want to learn more about my journey
hmu in PM if you want to be in contact
💁🏽♂️🐶
5'5" indian in 🇺🇸→🇯🇵, childhood in religious cult, turned teenage internet gay, now aspiring toxic male.
📖 My Story
🇺🇸 America log
🇯🇵 Japan 'BROWN SHOGUN' log
💪🏾 Training log
5'5" indian in 🇺🇸→🇯🇵, childhood in religious cult, turned teenage internet gay, now aspiring toxic male.
📖 My Story
🇺🇸 America log
🇯🇵 Japan 'BROWN SHOGUN' log
💪🏾 Training log
- hq4
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Tue Aug 23, 2022 1:36 pm
- Goal: Get Into College
- Age: 18
- Motto: Failure is not an option
I, hq4, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Hello! Its hq4, a 18 year old autistic which virgin and skinny.
I was surfing in the red pill communities and fond Andy's blog. This place is amazing and contains more actionable guides than most red pill community.
Goals:
- Go to college in 2 years
- Get a side hustle
- Become 70kg(58kg right now)
- Run a marathon
- Run a half-marathon barefoot
- Get a 1 hour cold exposure
- Get laid in the college time
Hello! Its hq4, a 18 year old autistic which virgin and skinny.
I was surfing in the red pill communities and fond Andy's blog. This place is amazing and contains more actionable guides than most red pill community.
Goals:
- Go to college in 2 years
- Get a side hustle
- Become 70kg(58kg right now)
- Run a marathon
- Run a half-marathon barefoot
- Get a 1 hour cold exposure
- Get laid in the college time
- kratjeuh
- Posts: 198 | Thanks: 117
- Joined: Sun Aug 21, 2022 8:18 pm
- Goal: get laid
- Age: 26
Hello kratjeuh here, 26years old.
Main goal right now is to get laid a lot from online dating + the occasional night out. I want to achieve an abundant dating life before committing full time to make money and expand my life.
Main goal right now is to get laid a lot from online dating + the occasional night out. I want to achieve an abundant dating life before committing full time to make money and expand my life.
- Papa0231
- Posts: 3 | Thanks: 1
- Joined: Tue Aug 16, 2022 3:16 am
- Name: Papa
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 22
- Motto: Thot magnet
I, Pops0231, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously
Hey I’m 22 and my goals are to be the best man ho I can possibly be. I want have over 700 bodies minimum before I leave earth. My goals for right now is just build a rotation and become the best conversationalist I can be. I want to build a foundation from cold approaching so good that I can get laid any night I want by just going outside. I know that’s seem like a lot but it’s doable and it will get done.
Hey I’m 22 and my goals are to be the best man ho I can possibly be. I want have over 700 bodies minimum before I leave earth. My goals for right now is just build a rotation and become the best conversationalist I can be. I want to build a foundation from cold approaching so good that I can get laid any night I want by just going outside. I know that’s seem like a lot but it’s doable and it will get done.
- JakeS
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Thu Aug 25, 2022 7:17 pm
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 21
I, JakeS, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I want to get laid once or twice a month and go on two or three date per month.
I want to go to the gym 5 days a week. Of course, I want to improve all parts of my body, but specifically I want to get bigger shoulders, arms, and chest, as I'm pretty skinny.
I want to learn more about how to interact with people better. I have aspergers (and I think the autism jokes in the tinder guide are hilarious) and have lived relatively socially isolated for most of my life due to factors outside of my control. I'm not completely socially incompetent, but there is certainly room for improvement.
I want to get laid once or twice a month and go on two or three date per month.
I want to go to the gym 5 days a week. Of course, I want to improve all parts of my body, but specifically I want to get bigger shoulders, arms, and chest, as I'm pretty skinny.
I want to learn more about how to interact with people better. I have aspergers (and I think the autism jokes in the tinder guide are hilarious) and have lived relatively socially isolated for most of my life due to factors outside of my control. I'm not completely socially incompetent, but there is certainly room for improvement.
- _J_
- Posts: 12 | Thanks: 3
- Joined: Thu Aug 25, 2022 11:48 pm
- Goal: Lose Virginity
- Age: 21
- Motto: Day by day
I, J, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I've come a far way in my self improvement journey. I've improved my self hatred, I've lost 40 pounds, I've improved my confidence and more but I've still got a long ways to go. I've never gotten laid before, I haven't had my first kiss yet, quite frankly I have very little confidence with women and I want to change that. I don't want to find the girl of my dreams and be too scared to ask her out and be worried about not having sex before. I want some experience and I think that will bring confidence along with it. I'm joining this forum for some general guidance and to have some accountability.
Right now I'm at my final year of college and I'm back on campus for one final hurrah. There is so many cute girls around and I've been too scared to hit on them. I think joining this forum is going to give me the push I need to hit my goals.
Current goals:
Specific:
Hit 163 LBS by end of September
Go on 10 dates this year: 0/10
Go on 5 dates with cute/hot girls this year 0/5
Get my first kiss this semester
Lose my virginity before this semester is over
Make 3 new friends this semester 0/3
Broad:
Get more confident with women
Get more confident in going out alone
Be more social
Make some new friends this semester
I've come a far way in my self improvement journey. I've improved my self hatred, I've lost 40 pounds, I've improved my confidence and more but I've still got a long ways to go. I've never gotten laid before, I haven't had my first kiss yet, quite frankly I have very little confidence with women and I want to change that. I don't want to find the girl of my dreams and be too scared to ask her out and be worried about not having sex before. I want some experience and I think that will bring confidence along with it. I'm joining this forum for some general guidance and to have some accountability.
Right now I'm at my final year of college and I'm back on campus for one final hurrah. There is so many cute girls around and I've been too scared to hit on them. I think joining this forum is going to give me the push I need to hit my goals.
Current goals:
Specific:
Hit 163 LBS by end of September
Go on 10 dates this year: 0/10
Go on 5 dates with cute/hot girls this year 0/5
Get my first kiss this semester
Lose my virginity before this semester is over
Make 3 new friends this semester 0/3
Broad:
Get more confident with women
Get more confident in going out alone
Be more social
Make some new friends this semester
Current goals:
Visible Abs by end of Year
Go on 10 dates this year: 0/10
Go on 5 dates with cute/hot girls this year 0/5
Compliment 100 attractive girls this year 3/100
Ask for a girls number 0/75
Success 0/0 Reject 0/0
Make 3 new friends this semester 0/3
Get my first kiss this semester 0/1
Lose my virginity before this semester is over 0/1
Visible Abs by end of Year
Go on 10 dates this year: 0/10
Go on 5 dates with cute/hot girls this year 0/5
Compliment 100 attractive girls this year 3/100
Ask for a girls number 0/75
Success 0/0 Reject 0/0
Make 3 new friends this semester 0/3
Get my first kiss this semester 0/1
Lose my virginity before this semester is over 0/1
- gettingoutofcomfortzone
- Posts: 17 | Thanks: 14
- Joined: Sun Aug 21, 2022 5:12 pm
- Name: Ash
- Goal: Delayed Gratification.
- Age: 32
- Motto: Desire Control.
Hey, you are one of my major motivations in creating an account in the forum.
Your pic speaks a 1000 words my man.
- McJD
- Posts: 9 | Thanks: 2
- Joined: Fri Aug 26, 2022 9:08 pm
- Goal: Healthy Sex Life
- Age: 29
- Motto: I am because I say I am
- Location: Montana, USA
I, McJD commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I am a 29yr old American living in Montana - but have been living in NYC for the past eight years pursuing an acting career. The last two years have been tough - left nyc which I loved, living with parents, very depressed and I am in a sexual drought, all of which I want to break free of.
Goals:
1. Sleep with 10 women in one year
2. Gain 10lbs of muscle at least - I am 140lbs right now - skinny hardgainer.
3. Get my life back in order in two months so I can move back to NYC by October.
4. Travel abroad at least one time this year
Broad goals:
1. Become a charisma god
2. Always be living a life worth sharing with others
3. End my depression once and for all
Things I have already accomplished in the last month:
1. Gone on 2 dates from dating apps
2. Started therapy with BetterHelp
3. Took out a gym membership - going 3 days a week. I struggle to go 3 days some weeks.
I am a 29yr old American living in Montana - but have been living in NYC for the past eight years pursuing an acting career. The last two years have been tough - left nyc which I loved, living with parents, very depressed and I am in a sexual drought, all of which I want to break free of.
Goals:
1. Sleep with 10 women in one year
2. Gain 10lbs of muscle at least - I am 140lbs right now - skinny hardgainer.
3. Get my life back in order in two months so I can move back to NYC by October.
4. Travel abroad at least one time this year
Broad goals:
1. Become a charisma god
2. Always be living a life worth sharing with others
3. End my depression once and for all
Things I have already accomplished in the last month:
1. Gone on 2 dates from dating apps
2. Started therapy with BetterHelp
3. Took out a gym membership - going 3 days a week. I struggle to go 3 days some weeks.
Play the infinite game - the only way you lose is if you stop playing.
Sex Life:
1. Develop a healthy sex life
2. Make my online dating profiles look elite
Acting Business/Music:
1. Move back to NYC
2. Book at least 2 gigs
3. Submit Auditions at least once a week
4. Develop my online presence
5. Play every open mic I can find in NYC
Sex Life:
1. Develop a healthy sex life
2. Make my online dating profiles look elite
Acting Business/Music:
1. Move back to NYC
2. Book at least 2 gigs
3. Submit Auditions at least once a week
4. Develop my online presence
5. Play every open mic I can find in NYC
- natedawg
- Posts: 427 | Thanks: 104
- Joined: Sun Aug 28, 2022 11:45 pm
- Goal: Casual Dates
- Age: 34
- Motto: Whatever you do, don't quit.
I, NateDawg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
34. Copywriter. Work for big names, so I'm keeping a low profile (for now).
I, RedLines, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
34. Copywriter. Work for big names, so I'm keeping a low profile (for now).
Challenges:
- Years spent in anxiety & depression due to childhood upbringing. Spent many years with little to no self-worth.
- In terms of women, experience has been limited as a result. Slept with one, fooled around with others, and committed to none even when I had the chance.
- Seeing a therapist has been instrumental in improving my mental.
- I've been on a serious mental/physical self-improvement trajectory for the past 5 months.
Goals:
- (Broad) To see my inner work reflected outwardly (Believing I'm attractive (by getting dates) friendly, fun to be around, etc.)
- To speak to my therapist twice a month every month.
- To reach 185 lbs. by 2023 (Started at 233 --> 212lbs currently - I workout 5x/week w/ a personal trainer)
- To go on one casual date per month
- To join 1-3 new communities by end of 2022 (Increased socialization)
- To completely furnish my new apt by end of year
- To build a new fall/winter wardrobe by end of 2022
I'll be using audio/vlogs to track updates.
34. Copywriter. Work for big names, so I'm keeping a low profile (for now).
I, RedLines, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
34. Copywriter. Work for big names, so I'm keeping a low profile (for now).
Challenges:
- Years spent in anxiety & depression due to childhood upbringing. Spent many years with little to no self-worth.
- In terms of women, experience has been limited as a result. Slept with one, fooled around with others, and committed to none even when I had the chance.
- Seeing a therapist has been instrumental in improving my mental.
- I've been on a serious mental/physical self-improvement trajectory for the past 5 months.
Goals:
- (Broad) To see my inner work reflected outwardly (Believing I'm attractive (by getting dates) friendly, fun to be around, etc.)
- To speak to my therapist twice a month every month.
- To reach 185 lbs. by 2023 (Started at 233 --> 212lbs currently - I workout 5x/week w/ a personal trainer)
- To go on one casual date per month
- To join 1-3 new communities by end of 2022 (Increased socialization)
- To completely furnish my new apt by end of year
- To build a new fall/winter wardrobe by end of 2022
I'll be using audio/vlogs to track updates.
🟤Member of The Browns since 9/8/22
Goals:
-One casual date per month (Achieved)
1a = Hit 195 lbs.
1b = Get ears pierced (Achieved)
2 = Fully furnish apartment
"As long I don't quit, I can't lose." - Alex Hormozi
***Feeling lost/unmotivated? Read this:viewtopic.php?p=48007#p48007
*** Trust in the process Andy laid out for me: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/11913966
Goals:
-One casual date per month (Achieved)
1a = Hit 195 lbs.
1b = Get ears pierced (Achieved)
2 = Fully furnish apartment
"As long I don't quit, I can't lose." - Alex Hormozi
***Feeling lost/unmotivated? Read this:viewtopic.php?p=48007#p48007
*** Trust in the process Andy laid out for me: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/11913966
- gettingoutofcomfortzone
- Posts: 17 | Thanks: 14
- Joined: Sun Aug 21, 2022 5:12 pm
- Name: Ash
- Goal: Delayed Gratification.
- Age: 32
- Motto: Desire Control.
Hey, Welcome. I am new here as well. Joined only last week. And, I already have some momentum thanks to some of the forum members. We are here for you. All the very best. PM if you want to stay in touch.
Also, I suggest creating separate logs for different goals to continuously track your progress.
- Crisis_Overcomer
- Posts: 881 | Thanks: 554
- Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
- Goal: Earn $5,000/month
- Age: 33
- Motto: Motion beats meditation
No. Please create a main log for all your goals. If you have questions, don't create separate logs. Ask them in your main log.gettingoutofcomfortzone wrote: ↑Mon Aug 29, 2022 7:59 pmI suggest creating separate logs for different goals to continuously track your progress