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Lonely_Rottweiler
Posts: 119 | Thanks: 115
Joined: Tue Dec 21, 2021 2:38 am
Name: Raph
Goal: Have a stoic mindset
Age: 24
Motto: Fall forward

Tue Dec 21, 2021 4:33 am

I, Raph, Commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

Hello everyone, I'm a 24 years old guy from the Philippines

My goals for the rest of the days of 2020 to the next year are:
Important goals
-Have a stronger mindset and boundaries
-Become the best Architect that I can be
-Not trying to commit suicide again

Goals
-Finish my Thesis
-Continue reading/listening to self-improvement books
-Have friends and friends-with-benefits with quality people
-Build an aesthetic body
-Have a strong presence and charisma
-Find, Date, and Marry a high-quality woman

Something Cool to have/do
-Play 30 songs on the guitar
-Have an online business that can earn me at least $100 a month


I'm happy to be a part of this community, Thank you.
Goals for 2023:

Travel out of the city by myself or with friends:
Jan 28- Jan 29: Company outing

Read new books
How to get along Difficult people by William J. Diehm

Buy a condo for passive income
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4130 | Thanks: 4864
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Tue Dec 21, 2021 4:36 pm

Welcome boys. Start a log, be consistent, you will improve.

MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
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Lonely_Rottweiler
Posts: 119 | Thanks: 115
Joined: Tue Dec 21, 2021 2:38 am
Name: Raph
Goal: Have a stoic mindset
Age: 24
Motto: Fall forward

Wed Dec 22, 2021 2:40 pm

Hello Bro, Do we need to do the log here in the forums or in a notebook?
Goals for 2023:

Travel out of the city by myself or with friends:
Jan 28- Jan 29: Company outing

Read new books
How to get along Difficult people by William J. Diehm

Buy a condo for passive income
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Dewm
Posts: 346 | Thanks: 140
Joined: Mon Dec 21, 2020 6:53 am
Name: Brady
Goal: Love Myself
Age: 35
Motto: Fuck Bitches Get Money
Location: New York, NY

Wed Dec 22, 2021 3:21 pm

Lonely_Rottweiler wrote:
Wed Dec 22, 2021 2:40 pm
Hello Bro, Do we need to do the log here in the forums or in a notebook?
Try it out here in the forums, but as always privacy is your discretion. Check out the progress logs section for ideas on what it looks like.
Goals
Love Myself
  • Finish my screenplay and make that movie.
  • Produce a comedy show that makes me money
  • Lose weight and gain muscle
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4130 | Thanks: 4864
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Wed Dec 22, 2021 5:49 pm

Lonely_Rottweiler wrote:
Wed Dec 22, 2021 2:40 pm
Hello Bro, Do we need to do the log here in the forums or in a notebook?
Hey man. You can do this in the forum. You have the option to create a private log, or you can create one on the public forum.

The best way to achieve greatness is by using the logs, being consistent, and having hardcore accountability - tell the truth about yourself no matter how bad it looks. You will improve over time.

MAC
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
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Fineokay
Posts: 9 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Wed Dec 22, 2021 8:13 pm
Name: Tommy
Goal: Get in awesome shape
Age: 28
Motto: Whatever
Location: Italy

Wed Dec 22, 2021 8:36 pm

I, Fineokay, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My Goals for 2022 are:

- Geting laid with 12 new girls.
- Having 2 fuck-buddies at the same time.
- Reach 80KG (currently fluctuating between 73 and 75).
- Meditate for 365 days in a row.
- Do Kegels for 365 days in a row.
- Lean to play the guitar (I know, it's kinda vague but i still have to start and to figure out a more precise way to put this down)
GeneralYin
Posts: 25 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Wed Dec 22, 2021 9:39 pm
Goal: Lose Fat
Age: 25

Wed Dec 22, 2021 9:43 pm

I, GeneralYin, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Those goals being building up social circles, losing weight & improving relationships
2022 Goals:

Shred to 80kg(90.4kg current)
1/10 New Tinder Lays in 2022
3/15 Total Unique Lays in 2022
More Confidence
Small Tattoo
Dress Better
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PinchePendejo
Posts: 209 | Thanks: 74
Joined: Sat Dec 11, 2021 3:01 am
Name: Bryan
Goal: Be better
Age: 32
Motto: Be consistent
Location: Los Angeles

Thu Dec 23, 2021 2:16 am

Fineokay wrote:
Wed Dec 22, 2021 8:36 pm
I, Fineokay, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My Goals for 2022 are:

- Geting laid with 12 new girls.
- Having 2 fuck-buddies at the same time.
- Reach 80KG (currently fluctuating between 73 and 75).
- Meditate for 365 days in a row.
- Do Kegels for 365 days in a row.
- Lean to play the guitar (I know, it's kinda vague but i still have to start and to figure out a more precise way to put this down)
your fucking avatar HAHAHAHAHA!!
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TacoLover
Posts: 40 | Thanks: 9
Joined: Thu Dec 23, 2021 6:21 pm
Goal: Improve Online Dating
Age: 26
Motto: Let's fucking go

Thu Dec 23, 2021 6:27 pm

I, TacoLover, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm looking to improve on my online dating and getting laid as much as I can this 2022.
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Aku
Posts: 61 | Thanks: 46
Joined: Thu Dec 23, 2021 11:38 pm
Goal: Make female friends
Age: 29
Location: Canada

Fri Dec 24, 2021 3:59 am

Hey, you're sexy. I'm Aku. Watcha up to?

I, Aku, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me
27, from Canada. I have wasted most of my 20s avoiding social interactions and avoiding any contact with girls because of my very low self-esteem. Now I'm aware of my potential and i'm way more confident, but i'm seeing my 30s approaching and i'm freaking out. This is the time to take action and live my prime before I turn into granpa.
I just started my online dating journey this summer and i'm joining you guys because I want to find people serious about self-improvement related to having lotsa sex with hot girls. I know that i'm very far away from my full potential and I can go way harder.

2021 so far
-Went to 25 dates
-Had sex with 9 girls (+1 BJ, idk if that counts)
-Had 3 girls on rotation at some point
-I knew that in theory, sex was normal and girls wanted sex too, but I got to experience it IRL and it was a big revelation for me. Now I can proudly say to anyone that I just want casual sex without feeling like its a bad thing. And now I know that anywhere I go there are girls around that would be down to have sex with me. It's all about marketing myself and playing the numbers game.

Main goals
-I want to have sex with 25 new girls in 2022
-I want to have sex with 100+ girls by 2025
-I want to keep raising my standards (hotter girls)


Secondary goals
-Invest 50%+ of my income
-Fix my sleep and efficient time management
-Meet new people, live new experiences, make new memories and enjoy life!

Shout out to Andy's tinder guide, it truly is the best tinder guide on the internet (by far).
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LetsGetThisPartyStarted
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 14
Joined: Tue Dec 28, 2021 6:07 pm
Goal: Build a good life.
Age: 25
Motto: Fuck that.

Tue Dec 28, 2021 7:17 pm

Hi all! Been lurking around here for a few weeks now, wanted to introduce myself properly.

I, LetsGetThisPartyStarted, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
25yo.
Working an ok day job.
Setting up my own youtube channel.

goals:
Get to a lifetime total of 50+ lays. Now at 4. (+ twice super close).
Lose the fat. Get down to 88kg. Now at 95kg.
Improve my online dating picture quality and overall style. Fuck higher quality girls.
Grow and improve friend circle to more positive people. Less negativity.
Posting new videos regularly for the coming 2 years. Start monthly, work up to weekly. Then maybe more.

Progress:
Shaved my balding head last week.
Started hitting the gym twice a week. Literally started by going and leaving after 5 mins. building up now.
Started counting calories. 2600/day.
Bought new clothes and accessories.
Did my first photoshoot. Working on the second one.
Pulled 15 numbers last three weeks, 1 lay, 1 almost.

I really like the openness of this community. I hope I can help you just as you are helping me. I wish you all the best on your journeys.

Cya!
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swimorsink
Posts: 14 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Tue Dec 28, 2021 5:23 pm
Goal: Have success online
Age: 34

Tue Dec 28, 2021 7:36 pm

I, Mike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I've had a decent amount of dating success in real life, but I've always struggled with online. I'm done making excuses, and I'm going to figure it out.
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DiiiieInnerLoser
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Wed Dec 29, 2021 10:53 am
Goal: Get laid, lose fat
Age: 35

Wed Dec 29, 2021 11:22 am

I, DiiiieInnerLoser (Andre), commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me
35 y/o, 5' 7", living in the UK. I'm here because I've browsed this website and seen that Andy has made himself vulnerable many times, which makes me think that he's not full of BS like a lot of pickup artists on the Internet.

What I've accomplished so far
  • Financially stable
  • Emotionally stable, relatively speaking (I've only ever been complimented on my maturity, never my looks...)
  • Competent in 2 instruments, across several genres of music
  • Been in two long-term relationships, each lasting 3 years
  • Reconnected with a girl I met and fell in love with in high school after 12 years, took her to bed, went on a long roadtrip
  • Hooked up with a long-time friend, and then a really wonderful girl 9 years my junior who already had a well-established career
  • Went from morbidly obese (126 kg @ 5' 7"), to borderline obese (88kg @ 5' 7")
  • Started lifting free weights over a year ago
  • Built a home gym during COVID lockdown
  • Realized how fucking important sleep is for EVERYTHING
What I need to accomplish
  • Increase my extremely low lay count of 5
  • Get laid with higher quality girls
  • Stop being a fat slob, and reach a healthy bodyweight
  • Once healthy bodyweight is attained, get abs for Tinder success
  • Stop fucking stuffing my face
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stef
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Wed Dec 29, 2021 7:06 pm
Name: Steven
Goal: Build a career
Age: 22

Wed Dec 29, 2021 10:02 pm

I, Stef, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Sup dudes, I'm Stef, mechanical engineer, 22, Netherlands.
What i have already done
  • Down to 8% body fat 8-) & good exercise habbit
  • Got a long term girlfriend
  • Read the slight edge
  • Build a homegym
What i want to work on in 2022
  • Build my carreer as a mechanical engineer
  • Further improve my clothing style
  • Further improve my workout routine
  • Build a bigger group of motivated friends
  • Learn new skills like playing guitar
  • Daily progress log on this website
  • More clearly define my goals
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Squilliam
Posts: 2061 | Thanks: 361
Joined: Thu Dec 30, 2021 12:57 am
Goal: Be happy
Age: 24
Motto: Pain is temporary. Greatness lasts forever

Thu Dec 30, 2021 2:08 am

I, Squilliam Fancyson, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.


Quick disclaimer, I wouldn't have chosen such a stupid username if I knew I had to upload a real picture of myself.

So a little bit of backstory. I'm 21, I've been quite a loser for most of my life. Mostly a social outcast. In the past few years of college, I've made a lot of progress on personal development. I started going out on dates, I finally got laid. But it hasn't been until recently that I've really gotten on the right track. A few months ago, I quit drinking, and my mental health has improved immensely as a result. Recently, I found myself in a situation where I was talking to a cute stranger, and I worked up the courage to ask her for her Snapchat. We went on a date that went nowhere, but that was a huge accomplishment for me regardless.

So far, I've gone out on probably about two dozen dates, I've been laid 3 times, and I've made out with a few more than that. However, as of lately online dating is not working well for me, and getting laid is quite sporadic and infrequent.

My career and financial progress (I'm becoming a software engineer), is going well, and I don't think there is much more work to be done there (at least right now). I want to prioritize my social life.

So I guess I'll just list out all of my goals, I'll split them up into two categories, near-term (before 2022 ends), or long-term (Really any amount of time but I don't expect to achieve any of these any time in the near future.)

Near-term (most of these will be ongoing goals that I never stop working on, but I will start working on them in the near term):
  • Improve fashion and sense of style
  • Continue working on bouldering, and start lifting weights. (Ensure that diet, sleep and exercise are optimal for muscle gain)
  • Have at least one hookup by the end of summer.
  • Take new pictures and go on some dates/get some hookups
  • Make some new friends
  • Climb a V5 in bouldering
  • Start writing book about idea I had
  • Improve my in-person social skills in general, especially with women I am not familiar with.
Longer term (once again, really no set time limit, it could be 10 days from now, or 10 years):
  • Be able to get laid on a regular basis. Not really a fan of aiming for a number.
  • Have an MFF threesome
  • Get a girlfriend?
  • Become a millionaire
  • Climb V8?
Not sure how much I can accomplish in 6 months. I'd like to get the pictures done by the end of my school semester so that I can hopefully get lucky at least once during the summer.

I'm not going to put down stuff related to cold approaching because it's still way too daunting for me. I don't want to promise something I'm not sure I will follow up on. I want to be serious and completely honest. Right now I have been gradually exposing myself to social situations that I would've once said were too intense for me to handle.

The problem is that without pressure, without some fear or other person adding pressure to me, it's too easy to just tap out when the nerves get too intense.

Anyways, sorry for my ramble. I am happy to be here and I hope I can kill my inner loser. This site seems different than other men's self-improvement spaces. In a good way, lol.
check out my blog: https://squilzpursuit.wordpress.com/

- Do 1000 approaches by end of 2024 (~350/1000)
- Get laid from daygame
- Learn game and stop being a social autist
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