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CFB
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Tue Apr 06, 2021 4:04 pm
Goal: 16% BF
Age: 26
Motto: Karma is what you make

Tue Apr 06, 2021 5:50 pm

Hey Guys,

I'm CFB. Feel free to read that as CAB.
I'm a big nerd, excellent at planning and tracking progress but actually taking action needs work. I also have pretty severe body dysmorphia when it comes to weight/attractiveness and have been on/off trying to diet since 2014. Last June I turned 26 and told my 262 lb self I'm going to fix that shit once and for all, or die trying. I've been following KYIL since I found it in November, and swore to myself once I crack 200 lbs there are no more excuses to delay taking action in other areas: making a dating profile, developing my style, career building, practicing socializing, and working actively on nervousness/anxiety/fear. I'm open to help from others and would love to share what I've learned as well.

Anyways... I, CFB, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Please excuse the somewhat vain profile picture :D Clearly the choice was between literally or figuratively sucking my own dick, and I figured it was less contentious to do the latter. It's nothing special objectively (Christ, when I don't suck in a little I feel like I resemble Andy's "before" pictures) but I'm proud of how far I've come.

PROGRESS:
Losing Fat: around 65-70 lbs + difference in Muscle
Fitness: Bench 185 (Nov) -> 230 | Push Ups 15 -> 50 | Chin Ups 0 -> 10 | Plank 0:45 -> 2:00 | Mile Run 15+? -> 10:13
No Fap: Since March 1, 2021
Mindset: Starting to feel sexy for the first time in my life
Youtube: 200 Subscribers in 3 months, self-taught basic Video+Audio editing, practice being vocal
(I prefer to keep Youtube/Online separate from my real life, so I won't link)

APRIL GOALS:
Fitness
Weigh <195 lbs (or roughly equivalent body re-composition)
Run a 9 minute mile
Focus On @ Gym: Pull Up, Shoulder Press, Side Raise, Bench, Row, Squat
Develop a Meditation Habit, 10 mins / day
Work
Get certified as a Scrum Master (organizational manager for Tech teams)
Release 3 Youtube Videos
Dating, Anxiety - Starting Small
Take 2-3 half decent photos
Create a Profile on 1 App, doesn't have to be perfect
Just chat with any matches, no pressure to meet up
Be mindful of what people wear & consider styles
Autist in the head, Animal in the bed
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southernSavant
Posts: 27 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Wed Apr 07, 2021 2:44 am
Goal: Slay Pussy
Age: 32
Motto: What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger
Location: Denver, CO

Wed Apr 07, 2021 9:56 pm

I, southernSavant, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey guys, excited to be here to join you all on this same wretched and exciting path to becoming a better version of ourselves.

I will keep this short but will expand on my background once I start logging my AA progress. 31 years old living in the US. I've had 20+ lays but never consistently enough and most of it just feels like luck. Especially after covid I feel like I'm in a rough spot so I want to make many changes and significantly improve my dating life.

Long term goals:
- Start a software business, work for FAANG and/or own real estate
- Build a bigger network of colleagues and friends
- Sustainable Confidence
- Unlimited personal growth

Current goals:
- Finish cut 180 lbs or gain weight (need opinions once I post photos)
- Start and finish the GLL AA program before the end of 2021
- Slay cold approach and the online dating game
- Date more attractive women
- Get another tattoo before the end of 2021
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2021 Goals:
Bulk to 190 lbs while keeping bf <13%
1 lay by 05/31
Improve style/dating profile pics
AA program Days 7 / 55
Get another tattoo
Lasik

Long Term Goals:
Conquer AA
Date women of quality 7+
Improve and retain network friends/colleagues
Start a business in software
Live a stoic life
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openthebox
Posts: 21 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Apr 08, 2021 12:46 am
Goal: Get Happy
Age: 27
Motto: keep truckin til you're fuckin

Thu Apr 08, 2021 1:04 am

Sup
Im OpenTheBox AKA Rapitup from GLL
I, OpenTheBox, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 27 from Canada, living in Australia - Just moved to Sydney after 3 years in Melbourne
I want to focus more on my own fulfilment and meeting my goals
To me that looks like: Hitting the gym regularly, being social, working hard and being kind to others
I've been on GLL since 2012/2013 and have a solid amount of experience from online, random chicks and nights out

Longer term goals
- Make a milly
- Get really good at something I enjoy (snowboarding or muay thai)

Current short term goals
- Start going to the gym at 6am every morning again
- Get down to 10-12% body fat within the next 3 months
- Stress less
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TheGreatTurk
Posts: 53 | Thanks: 26
Joined: Thu Apr 08, 2021 11:36 am
Goal: Getting quality pussy
Age: 33

Thu Apr 08, 2021 11:49 am

Hey everyone,

TheGreatTurk here.

Been in seduction community for a long time. I was 22 and lost my virginity over this, but never achieved above-average success. I sleep about 6-7 women every year, but quality is nowhere near what I want. (bad character, no young beach bodies etc.)

I have read tons of seduction advice. Like TONS. What I liked a lot about this website is that, it is not made for losers to become average, but the goal is to become at an elite level.

I am a quite good-equipped guy. I was never obese or a great loser. I can speak 3 languages (English, German, Turkish) learning Russian currently and got a PhD in engineering. I am well-travelled, over 40 countries and have a good-paying, remote job which would allow me a lot of freedom after Corona. I can afford an above-average (but not spectacular) lifestyle. I believe, I have a really good "product" as a man.

My marketing is very bad though.

I have, for years, half assed gym, did not really track my progress and got average results, but nothing really significantly good.

My current goal is to get quality pussy. Quality pussy means girls between 20-28, BMI between 20-25, cute face (difficult to quantify).

I want to be a guy, that draws attention naturally. On a very superficial and animalistic level. I want girls to get wet, just by looking at me.

I can get pussy, if I really grit. I want the pussy, without all the drama and the grit. I need to reach another level.

I, TheGreatTurk, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

At the end, I would like to get a quality girlfriend, but I would like to feel the abundance first, before committing. I want to have an abundance of pussy.
Wifty
Posts: 173 | Thanks: 123
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 1:30 pm
Name: Ben
Goal: Get laid
Motto: Humble&aggressive

Thu Apr 08, 2021 12:47 pm

Welcome.

You seem to have a lot of attributs on your side to begin with.


That's Nice yet not necessary when it comes to get laid.



What you need to do is look good and talk to girls. A lot.

Here on the website and GLL as well are a ton of articles about this.
These are very supporting

However what makes the difference is your investment.

What you want and what you're willing to do to get it.



If you want advices here about how to max out your looks, I suggest you to open a thread, post a few pics of yours and ask for comments and advices.




Are you able to approach women and tell them you find them attractive ?
Would you be able ask a minimum of 20 girls out a week.
If so, aweome.

If not, there is the AA PROGRAM on GLL and here specifically dedicated to max out your social freedom.
I didn't do it personally but I followed a similar model which was :
Ask time
Direction
Time direction
Time non sexual compliment
Direction non sexual compliment
Time direction non sexual compliment
Non sexual compliment
Time sexual compliment
Sexual compliment (hey, you're cute)
Sexual compliment, are you single ?
Sexual compliment, are you single (small talk) number.

Worked for me. You can do this too.

In the meantime you get on tinder with good pics according the advices from members here. Following the guidelines of the tinder guide by Andy on the website.


Look good, Talk to girls. A WHOLE LOT.
Tobi
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Thu Apr 08, 2021 11:22 pm
Goal: Become more dominant
Age: 33

Thu Apr 08, 2021 11:35 pm

I, Tobi, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am a 33 year old german living in Thailand.

My current goals are:
- Become more dominant/better at sex
- Get up to 80kg body weight (at 73 right now)

Planning to create a Log later and go into more detail there.
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Thrice
Posts: 478 | Thanks: 296
Joined: Fri Apr 09, 2021 8:33 am
Name: Mohamed
Goal: get laid
Age: 32
Motto: GO GET SOMETHING FUCKING DONE
Location: Italy

Fri Apr 09, 2021 8:35 am

I'm Thrice, i want to get ripped and get laid with cute girls, make money and friends

I, Thrice, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 32, from Italy
Looking for a hardcore accountability partner👇🏽

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HyperR
Posts: 36 | Thanks: 15
Joined: Sun Apr 11, 2021 12:24 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 24

Sun Apr 11, 2021 12:32 am

I, HyperR, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Found this website from GLL. It all started with a video from More Plates More Dates, where Derek was screaming that people needed to fix their dating life or else they would be stuck in a relationship, too afraid to leave. The reality check hit like a truck at 120km/h. My last relationship made me emotionally retarded and that's why I wanted to start my self-improvement.

About me:
-24 years old
-Born in Portugal
-Software Engineer

My goals are:
-Get 3 laids until the end of the year
-Take better pictures, both for Tinder and Instagram
-Betting my anxiety when making a move on girls
-Improve my Photoshop skills
-Get to 62kg without getting fat currently at 58kg
Primary goals till the end of the year:
Laycount of 3 (4)
Approach a girl a week
Lay from approaching
Get to a lean 65kg (61)
Finish a side project
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Radical
Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1439
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Sun Apr 11, 2021 12:42 pm

Welcome @HyperR
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limajuliethotel
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Mon Apr 12, 2021 3:54 pm
Name: Liam
Goal: Learn Tinder
Age: 22
Motto: Hope is a flame I won't let die
Location: USA

Mon Apr 12, 2021 4:28 pm

I, Liam, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 22, spent the last 7+ years poisoning my brain reading incel shit online. Similar story to Chris from GLL, I have only ever slept with girls who were extremely hot and approached me, thus guaranteeing a dogshit sex life. My immediate goals now that I've seen how fucking misguided that approach was include:

-Moving out of my parent's place. Looking at places today.
-Talking to more girls, going on more dates.(No lie, in the past I stopped using tinder because girls weren't inviting themselves over to have sex with me after I said "hey")
-Maxing out what I can achieve with phone pics, learning modeling skills and what looks good. Then buy a DSLR.
-Hit 1 plate OHP, 2 plate bench, 3 plate squat, 4 plate deadlift. As of this writing I'm at 95 x 5 OHP, 195 x 2 bench, 205 x 1 squat, 335 x 1 deadlift.
-Suck it up and spend the money to look good, I dress like the typical low effort frat guy because I thought that's what girls like. Starting to realize frat guys get laid because they talk to a lot of fucking girls, not because they're complete slobs.
-Drop toxic and stagnant friends(this shit is going to be the hardest for me).
-Get an ear pierced for shits and giggles(also "looking gay" scares me and i want to crush that fear).
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Mon Apr 12, 2021 4:33 pm

Welcome
limajuliethotel wrote:
Mon Apr 12, 2021 4:28 pm
-Get an ear pierced for shits and giggles(also "looking gay" scares me and i want to crush that fear).
When I pierced my second ear:

1. A girl looked at me in the bus, giggled, turned to her friend and they giggled together. Then she said "I just hate it when hot guys are gay"

2. A grandpa hit on me in the bus, telling me to get off with him. He even promised that "I'll have fun"
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Burn_the_ships
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Tue Apr 13, 2021 2:16 pm
Goal: Beat depression
Age: 22
Motto: Burn the ships

Tue Apr 13, 2021 2:48 pm

Hi I am 22 from Europe. Currently I am trying to get my life back on track.
My top 5 goals are:
1. Beat depression once and for all
2. Start eating healthy
3. Start and stick to an exercise routine
4. Become financially independent and move to a major European city
5. Get a high quality girlfriend
I, Burn_The_Ships, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Andy i would like to thank you for creating this community! I admire you for sharing all of your experiences it takes guts to that, you are the real deal!
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SamJ_
Posts: 485 | Thanks: 109
Joined: Wed Apr 14, 2021 11:14 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 25
Motto: Cant cross the sea by standing&staring @ the water

Thu Apr 15, 2021 1:21 am

Goal: Overcome all social anxiety and insecurities that I currently have by starting conversations with women as much as possible during the daytime.

What I Hope to Achieve: Be more open about sexual desires and improve my current lack of dating/sex life, as well as overcome other aspects of social anxiety that I have in order to make myself as confident as possible having a conversation with anyone about any topic that is necessary.

In particular, I want to get over all my mental blocks about daytime approaching and breaking "social norms." I'd like to actually, physically talk, either on the phone or over the Internet (skype, google hangout, zoom, whatever) about this with those of you who have the same goals and who actually have experience with this, in order to keep myself motivated.

I, SamJ_, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Crypto
Posts: 243 | Thanks: 32
Joined: Thu Apr 15, 2021 2:57 am
Goal: Get Lean (4-6 pack)
Age: 29
Motto: Hard Choices, Easy Life
Location: Australia

Thu Apr 15, 2021 3:37 am

I, Crypto, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Sup, I'm Crypto and I'm from Melbourne, Australia. Have read a few things on this site and can relate to a few, my copy of You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought is already on the way.

I have a shit ton of goals of which I will list the main ones below, but to summarize I want to get my confidence and ability to speak my mind and not give two shits what others think back. As well as get back to rooting.

Current major goals in no particular order:
- Move out alone
- Cut down to a 4 Pack
- Beat depression permanently
- Find a job I can tolerate and work around
- Root more
- Stop eating shit

I have a lot more goals and aspirations in life, but these are the main ones that I feel are the most pressing. Cheers all.
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Abs Lvl 3 - [82.5kg] ➔ [80kg] ➔ [77.5kg]
Tinder Lvl 1 - [Take Photos] ➔ [Make Profile] ➔ [Get a Date]
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the Con Man
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Thu Apr 15, 2021 8:37 pm
Name: Scott
Goal: mastering Pickup
Age: 46
Motto: either earn or learn

Fri Apr 16, 2021 5:17 pm

I, Scott, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
- 46 years old
- Born in England
- father of 3 boys but seperated from their mother

My goals (over the next 4 years) are:
- develop outstanding confidence and pickup skills. Date lots of unique, sexual women and experience lots of great stuff. I want the by-product of self improvement to be attracting really exciting, high value women into my life
- create income streams/Businesses over the next few years and become Financially Free/Wealthy
- learn interesting skills like languages, guitar, salsa dancing, magic
- get really fit, ripped, strong and become a karate blackbelt (currently Blue)

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