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A200
Posts: 4 | Thanks:
Joined: Thu Aug 11, 2022 1:02 am
Goal: Relationship
Age: 27
Location: San Diego

Fri Aug 12, 2022 1:34 am

I, Al. commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Typical start to my journey I’m sure but got dumped. girl moved out. Totally crushed me and had the fear that I couldn’t find anyone as hot it as cool so my goal is to break that limiting belief and date hotter and cooler women. I don’t want to use any dating apps until I can meet and date women in real life to break my scarcity mindset and build my confidence that I can do this without anything else but myself.

Goal
-date hot and cool chicks
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Xealous
Posts: 9 | Thanks: 5
Joined: Sat Aug 13, 2022 7:30 am
Goal: Beat AA
Age: 20
Motto: Not a minute to lose.

Sat Aug 13, 2022 8:42 am

Hey I'm, Xealous,
"I, Xealous, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I am 20 years old, living in Sydney.
Current KYIL Short Term goals:
- Complete AA Program, currently Week 2
- Get 5 lays from cold approaching (currently 0)

Other Goals I'm willing to share here:
- Memorise top 5000 commonly used words in Spanish.
- Go to the Olympics (for which sport that is for the reader to imagine)
- Finish my degree's

Can't show my face due to limited digital fingerprint I must keep for my job.
printerboy
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sat Aug 13, 2022 9:37 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 28

Sat Aug 13, 2022 9:57 pm

"I, printerboy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals
- Short term: Improve my quality of matches, dates, and in-person game
- Long term: Settle into a long term relationship I'm happy with
- Improve my fitness (gain 5-10 lbs of muscle, get a six pack)
Last edited by printerboy on Sun Aug 14, 2022 12:45 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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Manganiello
Posts: 1477 | Thanks: 1550
Joined: Fri Jun 05, 2020 2:25 am
Name: Brandon
Goal: Lose fat & Move
Age: 31
Motto: Use your dark side.

Sat Aug 13, 2022 10:11 pm

printerboy wrote:
Sat Aug 13, 2022 9:57 pm
"I, printerboy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
@printerboy you must have an image of yourself, it can be blurred out or not showing all of your face.

This is mandatory if you don't do it soon, we will ban the account.

EDIT: Thanks for doing that.
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Goal • 많은 한국 여자를 Smash.

Past Goals:
AA program (viewtopic.php?f=42&t=40)
Lost vCard Day Game(viewtopic.php?p=17087#p17087)
OLD Log and Lays viewtopic.php?f=5&t=889

How I got 9 lays in the first 6 weeks on Tinder
viewtopic.php?p=23227#p23227

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RedGee77
Posts: 9 | Thanks:
Joined: Mon Aug 15, 2022 12:15 pm
Name: Hichem
Goal: Build a career
Age: 26

Mon Aug 15, 2022 12:20 pm

Hi i'm Hichem i'm 26yo i'm here to :
-Get fit
-Make money
-Get laid
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gridlock0114
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Tue Aug 16, 2022 2:49 am
Name: Grid
Goal: To close better
Age: 22

Tue Aug 16, 2022 4:02 am

"I, Grid, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals
- Short term: Get more matches & dates.
- Long term: Move out & start my life.
- Already lean and muscular, aim to attain an elite bodybuilder physique by next summer.
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Black Dynamite
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Tue Aug 16, 2022 7:54 pm
Goal: AA over getting laid
Age: 20
Motto: "Don't give up hope"
Location: DC Area

Tue Aug 16, 2022 8:14 pm

Hey guys!
"I, Black Dynamite, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals
- Short term: Improve my social circle, start CA, and get more photos of myself
- Long term: Do 50 approaches (Do AA program if I can't) and get laid once before the end of the year
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Sonofagun
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Wed Aug 17, 2022 2:11 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 28

Wed Aug 17, 2022 2:53 pm

Hi all, good to see a forum of guys committed to improving this area.

"I, Sonofagun, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals
- Build a solid online dating profile (mine was always a little lacklustre, and since 2022 began my results have tailed off.
- Push the envelope in daygame even harder (get my first same-day-lay, hit 500 approaches (I'm currently at around 360) and have some more amazing experiences with girls).
- Improve my physique and finally get out of the rut I'm in with it (I've barely put on a pound of muscle in the past 4-5 years despite training).
114 lifetime lays (lost v-plate in 2014)
96 from online, 15 from daygame, 3 from social circle.

2022/2023 goals:

- Get a same-day-lay from daygame.
- Sleep with a handful of girls whom are bonafide 9/10 level in looks.
- Get an objectively good physique.
- Set up a more effective online dating profile as mine isn't getting traction anymore.
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actionbastard
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Thu Aug 11, 2022 7:37 am
Goal: Get in better shape
Age: 32
Motto: Yes and? / Why not?

Fri Aug 19, 2022 4:55 am

Hi, I'm actionbastard

"I, actionbastard, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I decided to join this forum after breaking up with my girlfriend of 2.5 years. I'm still at the point where it's hard to see myself with other people so I decided to take this opportunity to take the long term approach to my goals. There are parts where I get sad but I'm also excited for the new opportunity. LFG.

I decided to evaluate my past failures and start again and take it seriously this time.

My goals.
- Get in better shape. I paid an extra for much more expensive gym that is much close to where I live because I hate the long commute. I'm also taking muscle recovery more seriously since muscle soreness is kills my fitness momentum. So far it's been 1 session of sports massage but I learned that investing in ice pack is working fine for me.
- Get better at photography for the online dating part; I have an old dslr camera and I have invested in the remote and tripod. I do wonder if I should invest in a mirrorless camera since they say it's more beginner friendly.
- Get a higher paying job; I had a verbal offer that would achieve this goal but the hiring freeze caused by macroeconomics has added to my depression. I aim to get out of this funk.
- Get feedback on clothings. I am a simple man. I hate thinking about what to wear every morning so it tends to be plain white / black tshirts. (Mark Zuckerberg style).

- Eventually get a quality girlfriend / long term partner.
- and be in a position where I can give back to the community.

Thanks for reading!
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Lieutenant Lucid
Posts: 20 | Thanks: 13
Joined: Fri Aug 19, 2022 5:38 pm
Goal: Self-optimization
Age: 34
Motto: Give meaning to your suffering.

Fri Aug 19, 2022 5:58 pm

I, Lucid, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Spent the last 7 years recovering from debilitating health issues misunderstood by modern medicine. Living with my mother at 34 because I've been too sick to care for myself. No friends, too sick to exercise, dating is beyond me right now, too sick to build a business or engage in hobbies. It's been difficult beyond description but the experience has unlocked a level of self-awareness I was never capable of before. I'm finally reaching the end of my health journey- knock on wood- and I'm getting ready to get my shit together. I was in the GLL forums years ago and have seen 40-50 lays since then, but a lot of them with girls I wasn't especially attracted to and nearly all from online. Scared about having to restart my life at my age but also excited.

Goals:

-Recover health or die trying
-Move back into my own place
-Fix my vibe... apparently I give off unmasculine or gay energy
-Build a social circle
-Get back into shape
-Increase income
-Maximize looks
-Build a dating life from meeting women IRL
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IamGroot
Posts: 4 | Thanks:
Joined: Fri Aug 19, 2022 5:59 pm
Goal: Kill Fear of Rejection
Age: 44

Fri Aug 19, 2022 6:46 pm

I, Steve, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

44 from US in AZ.
Divorced about a year ago.

Goals:
1. Commit to improving body. Lose 10 lbs and build muscle.
2. Start now on the GLL AA program.
3. Build social circle.
4. Finish reading the Tinder Guide and upgrade my photos for OLD
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eyowhatup
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sat Aug 20, 2022 12:27 pm
Goal: Take action
Age: 23
Motto: “Love, too, has to be learned.”

Sat Aug 20, 2022 12:41 pm

"I, eyowhatup, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

My goals in order of importance:
Money
Fitness
Health
Women

I feel like I need to work on my self before starting my journey with women
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 2578 | Thanks: 2479
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 10 Lays In 2022 (9/10)
Age: 31
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Sat Aug 20, 2022 1:22 pm

Lieutenant Lucid wrote:
Fri Aug 19, 2022 5:58 pm
I, Lucid, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Spent the last 7 years recovering from debilitating health issues misunderstood by modern medicine. Living with my mother at 34 because I've been too sick to care for myself. No friends, too sick to exercise, dating is beyond me right now, too sick to build a business or engage in hobbies. It's been difficult beyond description but the experience has unlocked a level of self-awareness I was never capable of before. I'm finally reaching the end of my health journey- knock on wood- and I'm getting ready to get my shit together. I was in the GLL forums years ago and have seen 40-50 lays since then, but a lot of them with girls I wasn't especially attracted to and nearly all from online. Scared about having to restart my life at my age but also excited.

Goals:

-Recover health or die trying
-Move back into my own place
-Fix my vibe... apparently I give off unmasculine or gay energy
-Build a social circle
-Get back into shape
-Increase income
-Maximize looks
-Build a dating life from meeting women IRL
OK dude, if you want to talk health recovery, you need to talk to me.

I understand this topic deeply and have researched for 12 years. I can tell you I tried an insane number of approaches, but found solutions in approaches that worked on building up one's biology and create robustness in our organism. Mitochondrial rejuvenation, circadian biology, regenerating the brain and body, and reconnecting with nature are consistently what I have seen work when all else has failed. And I would love to help you with this, I know it very deeply and have tonnes of resources and info I can send you.

I had serious health struggles (go read my story in my log) but found answers, and I can document the whole process of my healing it was something I recorded on another forum, I was almost dead, obese, didn't leave my room and lived with my parents for 2 years legit. I was DESTROYED sick, extreme anxiety 10 panic attacks a day, couldnt sleep, couldnt even think. I got myself back into life and over the course of years, got myself healthier and healthier. I had to solve the puzzle, but now I can give the knowledge to all who need it. Once I'm rich and have started a family this will be my own passion project, helping the sick heal themselves for free. An amazing woman I look up to a lot does this right now she is an inspiration to me (Dr Courtney Hunt, a fellow mitochondriac).

Let's talk, I'm a PM away. I'll send you a link to my story and you can tell me about the things you're working on right now so I can give you some actionable tips right off the bat. When you say the modern medical system doesn't understand, believe me, many of us were put through the grinder by that system. The only Dr you need is the one inside you.

Hope you won't mind me pitching in like this. I just get passionate when I see people wanting to take their health to the next level.

MAC
POSITIVE SELF TALK

GOALS 2021: ALL ACHIEVED
GOALS 2022:
(1) 0 to 10 Lifetime Lays (Current Status: 9/10)
(2) Beat AA (DONE)
(3) Body Transformation: Ripped Abs & Elite Build (Weigh 185lbs)

My Progress Log: Outworking God's Plan - My Relentless Journey
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 859 | Thanks: 524
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Sat Aug 20, 2022 3:22 pm

@eyowhatup for your avatar, you need a picture showing you. It can be cropped or blurred. You got 3 days to do so, otherwise we'll ban you
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eyowhatup
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sat Aug 20, 2022 12:27 pm
Goal: Take action
Age: 23
Motto: “Love, too, has to be learned.”

Sat Aug 20, 2022 3:50 pm

@Crisis_Overcomer Hey! My profile is showing eyes. Is that not alright?
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