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[Talons]

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[Blitzcrank]

"I, Blitzcrank, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Hey guys, I'm a Software Engineer from Melbourne,

My goal is to work on online dating which is the primary reason why I signed up on this forum. I'm currently getting 0 results from it, and it's shocking.

Also if there are any cool guys to hang out and do some cold approach, I would be down too (in Melbourne). Thanks,

Other goals:
- Get a remote job to be a digital nomad
- Have social media presence
- Have a cool social circle
- Be fit
- Work on fashion and photography
- Read the classics (Crime and Punishment, Beyond Good and Evil)

Your profile picture for these forums looks pretty damn solid in my opinion so if the rest of your pictures match that quality I don't understand why you're not getting matches. You might be doing something wrong that you haven't realized or have some setting on/off keeping you from being seen. And have you been on dating apps very long? You should post your pictures in the Tinder/Online Dating section so we can see them and find out why.

Thanks man,

I've had one of those Tinder guru's rating my profile before, and they rated it 5/10. I'm barely getting any 'decent' matches (girls above 6/10), on all the online platforms (Bumble, Hinge, Tinder). So I'll definitely post my photos in Tinder/Online Dating section to get feedback.

I think the issue is that,
- I get super uncomfortable in front of the camera
- My friends are absolutely terrible at using a DSL camera (pictures out of focus, tilted in the wrong way, not centered, etc.)
- I'm skinny side, with no muscle - which is huge for online dating (from my observation).

The positives is that I do have a good camera with a good lens, and able to use lightroom.

[Suprino]

I, Suprino, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hey guys,

Just finished my degree as a doctor and broke up with my girlfriend of long time.
I've basically been in relationships my whole life, mostly with me dating girls I've been friends with, so I never actually learned how to approach a girl/ take initiative.
My current goals basically boil down to this:

A) Lose the 8kg of weight I gained in my last year of medical school
B) Actually show intitiative approaching girls/online dating and get laid with a ton of different girls

[dvnt]

1. Reply this this post with your goals, what you want to achieve, as well as this line:

Make sure you include this sentence: "I, dvnt, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Hey lads,

On the paper my life is very decent, I'm a fit and tall self-made multi-millionaire with multiple apartments, 100++ bodycount, a supercar and a comfortable daily to take me places, a few close friends and a supportive family.

But the inside of my head is a mess.

My goal is to improve my looks, my sense of self and understanding why I behave certain ways in relationships (my biggest issues right now seem to be a huge fear of being left alone, which is ironic since I'm anyways introverted, and insane anxiety whenever a girl sets in at my place for a longer time). Hopped from a nearly 10-year relationship to a new, kind of a situationship deal with another girl for two years mere weeks after breaking up from my long relationship. Recently this ended too as she understandably had finally had enough of me not taking things further with her.

I have to figure out what the fuck is going on with my brain and how I can try and make sure that the next time I want to have a longer term relationship with someone, I don't end up hurting them and myself as badly as I ended up hurting this recent girl.

Happy to share tips and insight when it comes to online business, investing and fitness, and really appreciate all possible advice in getting my head straight when it comes to my issues.

[Radical]

@dvnt I'd go straight to Andy tbh, you dont have an issue affording him and the problems you've written about he's basically specialised in helping with now

[MakingAComeback]

1. Reply this this post with your goals, what you want to achieve, as well as this line:

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Happy to share tips and insight when it comes to online business, investing and fitness, and really appreciate all possible advice in getting my head straight when it comes to my issues.

Welcome!

Yeah, head issues - been through the gamut with that, bro, documented my journey in my log.

Re. biz, we just started a KYIL business group chat, if you're in PM me. You'd be more than welcome;

Otherwise, will be interested in observing your journey in healing the mind. Andy is my coach and he has been an amazing help with building a more positive psychology. His group coaching program helped me a TONNE.

Ravi

[Bison]

"I, Bison, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Hey Guys,

I'm a Software Engineer living in South Florida. I moved here from Poland, so it's been quite a year of changes for me!
Got a way better job at a top tech company, so the financial side of my life is sorted. The downside is that I don't know anyone here, and my dating game sucks. I've started losing weight and am 10 pounds down from last month, I want to continue losing weight and get better at dating, online and in person.

My current goals are:
1) Get laid
- Lose weight - I've lost 10 out of the 25 pounds I want to lose
- Get better at dating, tinder and in-person
- Expand my social circle - meet new people I can hang out with
- Work on getting better pics - I still suck at taking self-portraits and need more photos

[MovingForward]

Hi everyone.

Been lurking these forums for probably over 6 month now, mainly to follow MakingAComeback. He's inspired me to start my own journey after feeling hopeless and depressed for years.

My plan is to start my own log at some point soon, and I'll introduce myself in more detail then. My goal though is to get laid, simple as that!

[MakingAComeback]

Hi everyone.

Been lurking these forums for probably over 6 month now, mainly to follow MakingAComeback. He's inspired me to start my own journey after feeling hopeless and depressed for years.

My plan is to start my own log at some point soon, and I'll introduce myself in more detail then. My goal though is to get laid, simple as that!

This makes me insanely happy dude.

Thank you so much for saying that. That is why I share.

I just want to galvanise people to not accept their fate should they want a better life, Andy did this for me, I want to open the same door for other men.

I really appreciate this.

MAC

[MILFandCookies]

Hi everyone.

Been lurking these forums for probably over 6 month now, mainly to follow MakingAComeback. He's inspired me to start my own journey after feeling hopeless and depressed for years.

My plan is to start my own log at some point soon, and I'll introduce myself in more detail then. My goal though is to get laid, simple as that!

Welcome to the forums. Better late than never.

[MovingForward]

Hi everyone.

Been lurking these forums for probably over 6 month now, mainly to follow MakingAComeback. He's inspired me to start my own journey after feeling hopeless and depressed for years.

My plan is to start my own log at some point soon, and I'll introduce myself in more detail then. My goal though is to get laid, simple as that!

Hey mate - you didn't read the forum rules on signup. Please reply with this contract agreement:
"I, MovingForward, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Otherwise the mods will delete your account in the next couple of days.

My bad.

I, MovingForward, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

[ennui]

I, Athen, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

about me:
- 19, 6.5
- working as a supervisor at a grocery store
- had a quite few flings and a few relationships, but mostly to not feel lonely

short term goals:
- improve my living situation(basically in a dump rn)
- get some nice clothes, look like something other than a nerd
- start working out and improving my physique

long term goals:
- find a girl i'd be happy staying with, while trying things out with others in the meantime
- be financially free enough to pursue my interests
- overcome my motivation issues and not settle for a life i don't want

[Darkwizard]

I, Darkwizard, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

about me:
- 44
- Had a rough childhood in a religious cult
- Afterwards, had relationships and lays during my 20's-30's.

(Note moved to private forum, didn't want it exposed on google)

Short term goals:
- Deciding whether I should go for early retire and just one itis some nice girls on millionaire match (lots of aging girls who did well in oil and gas industry and made out like bandits, and they aren't interested in playing the field in their late 40's and 50's, they want
to lock one down and fall in love and retire)
- Get fashion advice
- Get diet advice
- Get laid (more)
- Discuss current health, possibly early death (due to abusive upbringing).

Long term goals:
- Using this forum to prove to future men and women with (something), that a total wizard can make a recovery (get it, wizard?? oh I kill me)
- Turn social skills into my special interest
- Get good at socializing
- Make some friends
- Start an indie videogame business (I'll post more later).

More maybe I'll make a post later.... but that should be enough for a start.

[Radical]

@RamoxD hey man, please follow the sign up instructions properly

You have 3 days to amend or account will be banned