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HankMoodyJr
Posts: 121 | Thanks: 27
Joined: Sun Oct 31, 2021 4:15 pm
Name: Dan
Goal: Master my life
Age: 25
Motto: Normal gets normal results.

Sun Oct 31, 2021 4:49 pm

Hey Guys,

Dan here. 24, originally from Brisbane, Aus, but been living in Germany for the last year, and will be floating around the EU for the next 8 months.

Could go on for a while, but I'll try to compress a bio in to a TLDR:
- spent entire adult life trying qualify for the Olympics in a niche sport
- began and just got out of a 3 year relationship with a German girl from said niche sport
- completed uni in a relatively well paid/in demand field, but realised I have no interest in pursuing a corporate job
- founded and manage online company selling equipment for niche sport
- built a 'side income' playing online poker.

Goals:
- transition events within niche sport and qualify for 2024 Olympics
- get in to the best shape of my life - sub 10% BF
- create a life in which I can live anywhere I want, and do things on my own time
- improve my social life, and have a wide range of experiences socially and sexually

Cheers for reading, I'm looking forward to diving in to the community.
portillo0320
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Goal: Work Out
Age: 26

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AjaxExtreme
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Joined: Wed Nov 03, 2021 11:37 am
Name: Ajax
Goal: Lose Virginity
Age: 21

Wed Nov 03, 2021 11:50 am

I,Ajax Extreme, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Here are my goals-
1. Lose my virginity
2. Master Visualization techniques
3. Become a millionaire
4. Have sex with 200 girls
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somethingaboutstars
Posts: 98 | Thanks: 8
Joined: Thu Nov 04, 2021 6:54 am
Goal: Lose Weight
Age: 30
Motto: it's never too late to turn around

Thu Nov 04, 2021 7:11 am

Whatup whatup! I'm SAS for the forums

I, SomethingAboutStars, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Basically I googled foursomes, read Andy's article, and signed up for group coaching like 2 days later.

I've done decently well for myself over the last year (crossing 6 figures in an arts-based career, working on projects of notoriety including one dream project), but felt like I wasted a lot of the year working on dead-end projects. I'd been working to make a change for the last couple of months, but everything came to a head when I started an amazing, open and honest, open relationship with the most emotionally mature woman I've ever dated... and proceeded to get way too anxious about it. We're still together and I'm upfront about it and everything, but that was the perfect tipping point for me. (and we'd talked about having threesomes and foursomes, which is how I found that article in the first place)

I'm still working out my goals (better goal setting is one of my goals), but some big picture life stuff is:

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I want 8% body fat.
I want 100,000 followers across various social media platforms, including Instagram and Twitter.
I want to have sex with someone I met on Instagram.
I want enough money to fully support several people at an upper class quality of life.
I want a sugar baby and a serious partner.
I want to pick up a girl at a bar and bring her home for sex within 5 minutes of meeting her.
i want to read a hundred good self-development books.
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I also need an accountability partner! I'm not sure where to post that yet but I'm about to do some digging.
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Thu Nov 04, 2021 7:56 am

Welcome
somethingaboutstars wrote:
Thu Nov 04, 2021 7:11 am
I want 100,000 followers across various social media platforms, including Instagram and Twitter.
Either delve into ads or reach out to people with bigger accounts and pay for reposts/retweets. Growing social accounts organically sounds dandy in your 20's but in your 30's (and since you have money) you can pay to play. I remember buying a few RT's back in 2019 and my Twitter grew a lot, fast. Even though I love Twitter, I hate social media so I'm no longer active there.

Have you read any growth guides, like the one from LifeMathMoney?
somethingaboutstars wrote:
Thu Nov 04, 2021 7:11 am
i want to read a hundred good self-development books.
Advice from one of my mentors: Instead of reading 100 books one time, read the best 10 books, 10 times. Here's one of his podcasts that drilled this concept in my head and made me stop, ahem, "downloading" stuff and instead paying for everything (even songs) : https://thepodcastfactory.com/bsa118/
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Alex226
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Sun Nov 07, 2021 2:34 am
Name: Alexander
Goal: Get Dates
Age: 26
Motto: Live Loud, Live Bold

Sun Nov 07, 2021 3:17 am

Hey Forum, I'm Alex. Just moved to the city and getting a handle of the much deeper dating pool. Currently trying to get lower body fat, a better tan(MT2 up in here) and just learning better photography and posing skills. Lets fucking get after it together.

I, Alex226, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

-Go on a date once a week.
-Hit 1/2/3/4 For 5 reps a piece
-Learn better photography skills and posing and be more confident when taking them.(I get fuckin self conscious as hell if people see me taking selfies with a full dslr tripod setup)
-Learn to stop giving a fuck and approach
Goals:

-Cut to 150-160lbs. Started: 190. Currently: 171.
-Figure out photography well enough for portraits and dope background shots.
-One date a week unless a relationship is formed. Dates since 10/23: 7.
-One lay a month(Preferably more!). Lays since October: 1.
-Increase lifts to 1/2/3/4 for 5. Current for 5: Deadlift:345. OHP: 130. Squat: 265. Bench: 185.
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dropout
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun Nov 07, 2021 4:18 pm
Goal: Getting consistent sex
Age: 18
Motto: Get so good that you don't even think about it

Sun Nov 07, 2021 5:05 pm

Hey all - glad to be here. I'm 18 and just started university. Had a few exclusive relationships in high school + some friends with benefits, but since starting university, I haven't been doing as well as I would like. There's a few main reasons for why I think so (i.e. a few things I'm working on):

:arrow: There's more competition - I've started going to the gym 6 days a week + I am slowly resetting my wardrobe as I learn more about style + buying what my budget allows. Going to read Radical's guide - I just found out about it.
:arrow: I didn't really talk to girls during COVID because I couldn't leave the house + I was pretty focused on work/school. I feel Iike I've lost my touch (e.g. I'm making dumb mistakes like being too forward too soon, not reading signs as well as I used to, etc). Hoping that this will just come back with more practice.
:arrow: All the girls that I've been with, I've known/talked to for a while before getting sexual with. I don't have any experience meeting people at parties and going home with them, but I am gaining experience and learning from what others do (this is what I need the most advice on I think)

Advice on the above is super, super appreciated (especially if you think I might be focusing on the wrong things). My goals are:
- Sex with 5 different girls by the end of December
- Sex with someone that I meet at a party
- Get at least one consistent FWB
- Get laid via a dating app (I've made an account - now I need to get good pictures)

And of course:
I, dropout, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Noself
Posts: 233 | Thanks: 184
Joined: Wed Nov 10, 2021 11:04 am
Name: Trent
Goal: Lose Fat, Gain Muscle
Age: 23
Motto: The goal of life is to die before you actually do

Wed Nov 10, 2021 11:15 am

"I, Noself, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

About me:
-I’m 23 years old from Dover, DE, USA currently working in USAF.
-Studying to become an artist
-Meditate daily

Short term goals
-Build a better Tinder profile
-10 lays in a year
-Run everyday/study running technique everyday
-Finish the Approach Anxiety Program(on Day 23)
-Cold Approach 1000 girls in one year
AA Program Log: viewtopic.php?f=42&t=1009

✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
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mike777
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Thu Nov 11, 2021 10:41 am
Goal: Get my dream long term
Age: 22
Motto: Be positive and productive

Thu Nov 11, 2021 11:11 am

Hi, my name is Mihailo, I am from Serbia, small country in the Balkans, southern Europe (you might know it for Nikola Tesla or Novak Djokovic), but you can call me Mike, since that is the English version of my name.

I am 22 years old and I have many goals.
I want to become the best medical doctor I can be and make the world a better place.
My main other hobbys are archery ( shooting with bow and arrow), hiking, spending time in nature, climbing mountains and I also want to write a great medieval fantasy novel one day (I have already started) that even Tolkien would be proud of.

I also want to start going to the gym and build a perfect body (I am pretty slim right now), and I want to get my dream girlfriend for a long term relationship.
I don't want to have many girlfriends, just one for life if possible, and have many children with her, but she has to be very special. If possible my dream phyiscal and mental type at the same time.
We would live in the nature, in small village somewhere, far from the crowded cities, I would have a natural healing resort as a good medical doctor there, we would have 4-5 kids and plenty of dogs, cats, horses, other animals, lot of plants too.
That would be my dream life.

All of this sounds great and wonderful, but I have many insecurities which I would like to overcome. But as I said in my motto, being positive and productive are my two main driving forces.
There Andy, hopefully you like my introduction, I should be posting a profile photo as soon as I figure out how, since I am not very good with cellphone and cyber tech (another goal is to get better there too, since the future seems nearly impossible without properly using tech).
StanleyYelnats
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Joined: Thu Nov 11, 2021 10:26 pm
Name: Stan
Goal: Lose my Virginity
Age: 23
Motto: The first hole Is the hardest.
Location: Florida, USA

Fri Nov 12, 2021 12:10 am

I, StanleyYelnats, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

How's it going KYIL users? I'm Stan, age 23.

Currently, I'm a virgin that has never had a girlfriend and I'm going to change that. I was always told that "you don't have to worry about it and it will happen when it happens", but I'm tired of pretending that I'm okay with that! I have had some serious self-esteem issues since puberty (horrible acne that ruined my self-image) that I have been working on and will continue to work on. I'll probably start making some threads to go more into depth with my fitness goals and online dating photos (hopefully posting about it on here will give me more motivation to make it happen consistently).

My goals are:
- Lose my Virginity (The big goal, basically the one that keeps me up at night, wallowing in self-pity)
- Improve my tinder/dating app game. Get better at taking higher quality photos with my new camera.
- Continue Improving style. Buying things on occasion that I think will complete an outfit or make a new look. (Still new to this, but I'm better than I used to be)
- Start Reading Self Improvement Books (I have just ordered "You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought")
- Post here regularly
- Continue to gain strength and size in the gym. (Probably going to buy a workout plan to really keep myself honest)
- Finish my cut and get down to a 6-pack. (I've been lifting for 2+ years now, currently at a "4 pack") (Hopefully 3 months away, will continue until I get there)
- Continue on nofap/noporn. Today is day 50!
- Continue my skin care regimen to keep my acne in check (Turns out, it was mostly a dietary issue) (simpleskincarescience was the site that helped me most, highly recommended)
-Meet new people from meetup.com (I joined a couple of groups that seem promising, this is mostly just to get more comfortable speaking to strangers)

Things I've accomplished recently (Making notes of these to remind myself that I'm not hopeless):
-Graduated with a 4.0 in College
-Got a simple job that pays well enough
-Made a habit out of lifting (Can't imagine not going anymore)
-Maintained a great set of friends for many years
-Bought a nice camera (Canon M50 Mark II) to improve my photos. (actually got my friends to split the cost and we're doing a joint custody thing)

Excited to hear from other like minded people!
150lb Body-weight, 5'10"
No Fap/No Porn 50 Day Streak! (started on Sept. 23)
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Radical
Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1439
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Fri Nov 12, 2021 7:55 am

welcome dude @StanleyYelnats
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pancakemouse
Posts: 1768 | Thanks: 1052
Joined: Sun Nov 14, 2021 4:14 pm
Goal: Master cold approach
Age: 33

Sun Nov 14, 2021 4:21 pm

I want to be total and complete player, not just one that relies on his looks and persistence to close.

I am giving myself one year to do this.

I will be writing daily field reports, analyzing my weaknesses, and hoping to improve with each passing day.
I will be favoring cold approach and the uncertainty of in-person seduction over the familiar comfort of Tinder.
I will be moving to New York City in April to accelerate my learning.

On November 1, 2022, I will check in and re-evaluate my progress.



My current lifetime stats as of this post:

Daygame:
1510 approaches
356 numbers
24 dates
11 instadates
4 lays

Batting average: 1 lay per 378 approaches

Nightgame:
~100 nights out
4 pulls (2 couldn’t get hard, 1 LMR, 1 lay)

Batting average: 1 lay per 100 nights out



My goals for November 2022:

Daygame: 1 lay per 100 approaches, minimum rating 6.5
Nightgame: 1 lay per 20 nights out, minimum rating 6.5

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I, pancakemouse, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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SacredScout
Posts: 14 | Thanks: 5
Joined: Wed Nov 17, 2021 10:11 pm
Goal: Appr. +100 p.w./~10% BF
Age: 22
Motto: Victory Will Be Ours
Location: Germany / Netherlands

Wed Nov 17, 2021 10:25 pm

Hey everyone, I am SacredScout from Germany and I am 22 years old. I am process-oriented and will not even mention past results or outcomes; because I believe that the focus should be solely on the process. I am here to get a better person in *all areas of life*, not just in dating.

My Goals:

- Never ever PMO again (trying t o quit forever since 2016)
- Get laid a lot
- hit the gym every day
- Improve myself as much as possible
- Maximize my style as much as possible
- Get on with my psychology studies properly; do not procrastinate around.
- Be happy and not depend on others for my happiness.

I, SacredScout, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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colgate
Posts: 919 | Thanks: 1772
Joined: Thu Aug 05, 2021 9:23 pm
Name: bulldog
Goal: BANG!! japanese chicks!
Age: 27
Location: japan
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Wed Nov 17, 2021 10:57 pm

SacredScout wrote:
Wed Nov 17, 2021 10:25 pm
Hey everyone, I am SacredScout from Germany and I am 22 years old. I am process-oriented and will not even mention past results or outcomes; because I believe that the focus should be solely on the process. I am here to get a better person in *all areas of life*, not just in dating.

My Goals:

- Never ever PMO again (trying t o quit forever since 2016)
- Get laid a lot
- hit the gym every day
- Improve myself as much as possible
- Maximize my style as much as possible
- Get on with my psychology studies properly; do not procrastinate around.
- Be happy and not depend on others for my happiness.

I, SacredScout, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
hell yeah, welcome dude. looking forward to your log
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4130 | Thanks: 4864
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Wed Nov 17, 2021 11:15 pm

SacredScout wrote:
Wed Nov 17, 2021 10:25 pm
Hey everyone, I am SacredScout from Germany and I am 22 years old. I am process-oriented and will not even mention past results or outcomes; because I believe that the focus should be solely on the process. I am here to get a better person in *all areas of life*, not just in dating.

My Goals:

- Never ever PMO again (trying t o quit forever since 2016)
- Get laid a lot
- hit the gym every day
- Improve myself as much as possible
- Maximize my style as much as possible
- Get on with my psychology studies properly; do not procrastinate around.
- Be happy and not depend on others for my happiness.

I, SacredScout, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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