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HotEnigma
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sat Dec 26, 2020 11:16 pm
Name: Aaron
Goal: Lose Body Fat
Age: 24
Motto: Play to Win

Sun Dec 27, 2020 4:37 pm

Hey Boys,
My name is Aaron, I'm currently living in the midwest USA and Im 24.
I, HotEnigma, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm in nursing school and currently have a LTR of 6 months. I'm not very satisfied with where I'm at in life right now and I know I could have a higher life satisfaction if I set and achieve some goals. Here are some things I want to work on right now

1. Lose body fat. I'm probably at around 22-25% right now.
2. Excel in school and learn how to be a proficient nurse, so that I will be competent enough to travel nurse after a year or so of experience.
3. Explore and practice BDSM with my current girl
4. Eventually, I really want to get in to open relationships and have some MFF threesomes, which I've never done before. Sometimes I feel a little trapped in my monogamous relationship, because I don't think I am mono naturally. But I'm currently dating a great girl and I'm okay with the current situation.
Last edited by HotEnigma on Mon Dec 28, 2020 1:22 am, edited 1 time in total.
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cityofgodstar
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sun Dec 27, 2020 10:47 pm
Goal: Reaching $10 000/month
Age: 26

Sun Dec 27, 2020 11:13 pm

Hi guys,
Some things about me.
I'm 26, my ultimate goal is to reach $10 000 per month as a passive income until I reach 30.
Girls are a bonus for me. My biggest goal with girls is to reach a threesome without needing to pay for it. The next goal with be to get laid with as many different girls as I can.
That's it.
I am a simple man.

I, TY, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Radical
Posts: 971 | Thanks: 550
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Goal: Build Blog
Age: 27
Motto: Take drastic action
Contact:

Mon Dec 28, 2020 12:18 am

Hey @HotEnigma, welcome dude

You need to edit the following into your intro post as per our forum rules:

I, HotEnigma, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Anyone not following the rules gets 3 days to correct or they will be banned
Headwear and style website: https://www.thehatfish.com *

*I have written a Men's Style Guide for Beginners which you can grab on my website. It will get you looking like a guy that gets laid in one instructed shopping spree
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Greenranger
Posts: 19 | Thanks:
Joined: Tue Dec 29, 2020 1:09 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 19
Motto: compare yourself to the person you were yesterday

Tue Dec 29, 2020 1:21 am

I, greenranger, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

Goals
Lose my virginity
Cut down to a lower bf then lean bulk
Start some type of fitness business to help others with their body goals
Last edited by Greenranger on Wed Dec 30, 2020 7:45 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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Hemingway
Posts: 21 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Wed Dec 30, 2020 2:19 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 25
Motto: Go fucking approach

Wed Dec 30, 2020 2:27 am

What's up everyone.
I, Hemingway, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm 25, from the US.
My number one goal is to get laid through both cold approach and online dating. I currently have absolutely no consistency when it comes to my dating life. It's time to take it into my own hands instead of leaving it up to chance / social circle. I'm in like a 4 year dry spell for various reasons, mainly because I wasn't putting in the work / numbers. So first goal is to break this dry spell.
Goals:
1. Absolutely no alcohol until I reach target body weight (started March 28).
2. Do 30 cold approaches per week (if pipeline is empty).
3. Get to sub 10% body fat (14/32lbs lost so far).
4. Write 500 words per day.
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Radical
Posts: 971 | Thanks: 550
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Goal: Build Blog
Age: 27
Motto: Take drastic action
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Wed Dec 30, 2020 10:28 am

Greenranger wrote:
Tue Dec 29, 2020 1:21 am
Hi I am Greenranger, 19 years old as of now and theses are my goals for this year

Lose my virginity
Cut down to a lower bf then lean bulk
Start some type of fitness business to help others with their body goals
Hey dude, welcome
You need to add the following to your post via edit

‘I, greenranger, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously’
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Gabi
Posts: 21 | Thanks: 12
Joined: Thu Dec 31, 2020 11:55 pm
Name: Gabi
Goal: Major my semester
Age: 22

Fri Jan 01, 2021 12:33 am

Hi, i'm french, so excuse my poor english.
I, Gabi, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously !

My big goal :
- Getting laid, at least, 52 time.

I want to achieve my first goal trought online dating and aproch
I started to read the tinder guide a around month ago and started to prepare my self (clothing, dslr, hairstyle, bodylanguage) at the same time.
All i need now is to take some good pics (1~2 out of 6) and setup my tinder account !

Peace
First finish my studies.
Then my own place.
Finally my best sexlife !
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OnTheFly
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:07 am
Name: sdf
Goal: Get laid like a warlord
Age: 32
Motto: Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life.

Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:53 am

What's up guys,

I, OnTheFly, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

-get laid like a warlord
-do at least 1 cold approach/day
-no sugar in 2021
-gain 10 more lbs (currently at 171 lbs)

I'll start a journal and write more details there.
GregGreg
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Joined: Fri Jan 01, 2021 12:52 pm
Goal: Max OLD efficiency
Age: 27

Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:00 pm

Hi all

I'm 27 and my primary goal is to try and maximize efficiency with online dating photos

I, GregGreg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Cheers
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Radical
Posts: 971 | Thanks: 550
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Goal: Build Blog
Age: 27
Motto: Take drastic action
Contact:

Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:45 pm

@GregGreg

Hey dude, welcome to the forums

As per our rules you need to edit your first post to include

'I, GregGreg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.'

Any account not following the entry rules will be deleted in 3 days
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DeathToBoyfriendMaterial
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Dec 31, 2020 1:39 pm
Name: Evan
Goal: Get >2 fuckbuddies
Age: 33

Fri Jan 01, 2021 5:14 pm

Hi

I'm Evan, 33M. I just found KYIL and then GLL in the past 2 weeks. I've always put off handling my sex life because I used the "I'll get everything else in my life handled and sex will take care of itself after I have everything fixed" line of reasoning instead of admitting I have anxiety and insecurities around being a sexual man. I've read plenty of PUA stuff in the past, could never get any success with it and always felt stupid doing it. I've had 2 relationships in my life, each only lasting 3-4 months, and 4 other sporadic women throughout my life that I've had sex with since I was 18 (always women who are very forward with their interest in me, never women that I approach and initiate interactions with).

I am committing to accomplishing my goals and taking this seriously. I will really need accountability help.

So, my goals are:
ultimate goal- be able to get sex ANY time I want it, preferably from having multiple fuckbuddies, but also to be able to go on Tinder or cold approach and have a woman THAT night.

get AA handled-I'm doing the GLL AA program

get rid of my Nice Guy/"Boyfriend Material" vibe

have 2-3 fuckbuddies at any given time

Have a great social life. I'm new in my town, been here for 4 months, haven't really made any friends. I also have trouble maintaining ANY relationships, not just sexual ones. I haven't really had anybody I consider a very close friend or best friend since I was a kid. I have signed up for Meetup.com to begin addressing this goal.
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Adam
Posts: 76 | Thanks: 42
Joined: Tue Jan 05, 2021 3:53 pm
Name: Adam
Goal: Lose Fat
Age: 33

Tue Jan 05, 2021 9:47 pm

"I, Adam, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I'm 33 and live on the east coast of the US.

Goals for the next year or so:

- Lose fat. Get down to a 31 inch waist. Currently at 33.5 inches.
- Put on Muscle
- Have more adventures
- Get good with girls (what that means quantitatively to be determined later once it becomes my main priority).

Current Short-Term Goals:
- I WILL lose 2lbs this month (172.0 lbs)
- I WILL take a snowboarding lesson this month. Something I've never done before.
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Steven_v_d
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Joined: Sun Jan 10, 2021 9:49 pm
Name: Steven
Goal: GET LAID!
Age: 22
Motto: No think, only do!

Sun Jan 10, 2021 10:03 pm

Hallo,

I’m Steven, 22 years old. I’m Dutch and study physics at a university in the Netherlands.

Strong doubts about my own appearance and attractiveness towards women / ability to attract women have been a burden I carry for many years starting from my teens.
In the past years I have been improving a lot in this field, having had my first lays with 4 women now.
Still, this area of my life is a big source of dissatisfaction.
The last two years I’ve been gaining a lot of momentum. Together with a great friend I have been conquering my anxieties (that are still not completely gone) for talking to women. We have used the current lockdown to our benefit and got a shit ton more buff through bodyweight training.
Seeing a psychologist for a bit more then half a year now, I have been able to go from a place of depression and huge continuous negative thinking to a better place with more frequent moments of joy, happiness and calmness. Looking back at the prior years, there is almost a sense of grievance for all the pain, negative thinking, self-hatred and foremost continuous anxiety that was my life experience.

Leaving all that drama behind, here are my goals in specific areas of my life.

What I am currently doing to keep me in a good place and have to continue:
- Regular workout (without excuses) 5x a week
- Not numbing myself with weed, alcohol or social media AT ALL
- No caffeine and daily meditation to reduce anxiety
- No masturbation (40 days now) to recover from porn addiction / drive my sexual development
- Cold exposure

Mentality:
- Commit fully to getting laid
- Become more assertive, present, alpha, manly (and lose the ever present “nice guy”)
- Get more edgy (feel like boyfriend material as fuck)
- Stop procrastinating

Mental health:
- Build a more positive self-image
- Lose anxiety, through meditation and habit
- No drugs (weed, mdma, xtc, …), No alcohol, No masturbation

Appearance:
- Lose 15 kg of body fat trough intermittent fasting (20 hours). I came from 100 kg and am currently 97 kg. My goal is 85 kg.
- Clear up my skin
- Develop a fashion sense and act on it. Dare to ware something different and edgy.

I feel strong, confident and more manly, knowing I can and will achieve these goals.

I, Steven, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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mmccann12
Posts: 1 | Thanks:
Joined: Tue Jan 12, 2021 4:35 am
Name: Mike
Goal: Improving myself
Age: 31
Motto: One percent better

Tue Jan 12, 2021 4:46 am

I, Mike, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
kalamity
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Wed Jan 13, 2021 4:58 pm
Goal: Get some pussy
Age: 18
Motto: Necessity is what impels men to take action

Wed Jan 13, 2021 5:21 pm

What's good guys.

I, kalamity, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
18, from the UK.
I am a beginner, having done only a single cold approach and I have not made a tinder account, which I aim to do.

My goals are:
1. to get girls from both, and to improve my social skills in general
2. stay consistent with my lifting (I bought weights even though gyms in the UK are currently closed)
3. get girls again
4. figure out ways to make money
5. remove the limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns

Honestly I don't even want a relationship rn, just plenty of lays... And by plenty I mean a lot. :P
It's time to move onto the next stage of life.

Much love
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