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crithitloo
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Joined: Tue Mar 15, 2022 5:47 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 28

Tue Mar 15, 2022 6:08 pm

28 from Toronto.

I, crithitloo, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Goals:
- get laid from cold approach
- switch careers
Markus1993
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Joined: Wed Mar 16, 2022 10:15 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 28

Wed Mar 16, 2022 10:34 pm

I, Markus, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I’m 28 living in USA. I pretty much have my shit together when it comes to finances, career, traveled extensively, etc. But I’ve never prioritized my dating/sex life. I definitely think I give off nice guy vibes right now.

Goals:
- Cut to 15% bodyfat (then bulk after)
Started cutting ~2 weeks ago down to 178lbs, ~20%BF from ~185lbs, 23% body fat. Over this past year I started learning to lift and bulked up too fast from 155lbs, so added some muscle and fat. Definitely worried about being to skinny when I reach 15% at my height right now (6ft1), but we’ll see.

- Reach 180lbs bench press for 5+ reps (currently 155lbs)

- Improve style
I’ve been to the mall a few times to try to find some better clothes, but still haven’t made much progress yet.

- Get 10 lays off apps
I’ve gotten laid twice off Bumble in the past, but these interactions were largely led by the girls. Also gotten laid a dozen or so times when absolutely hammered lol. I’ve started messaging using the templates on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and OKCupid, but don’t get very many matches right now.
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 4130 | Thanks: 4864
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 32
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Wed Mar 16, 2022 11:02 pm

Welcome!
-Your friend, Ravi

Consistent Performance Coach, Admin of WinnerWithin, and Seeker of Human Potential

My FB Group for Consistent Performance & Goal Achievement
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ironwilltribe
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Pmb
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun Dec 26, 2021 1:27 am
Name: Phillip
Goal: Get laid
Age: 21

Thu Mar 17, 2022 6:24 pm

I, Phillip, commit to my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goal is to start getting laid on tinder. Broke up with my ex about 4 months ago and its been as dry as a desert since. I also have a goal of going from 185lb to 170lb.
I have a friend who helps with photos and allows me to come in with him to the gym every night and so far its been going well.
Compwizar
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Joined: Fri Mar 18, 2022 12:04 am
Name: Ali
Goal: Get laid
Age: 20
Motto: Jv

Fri Mar 18, 2022 12:27 am

I, Ali aka Zee, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

20 from Sweden.
48 lays at the time of writing



Goals:

-have fun
-get rich
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Radical
Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1439
Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
Name: Cam
Goal: Funnel/Product Building
Age: 29
Motto: Take drastic action

Fri Mar 18, 2022 12:41 am

@Compwizar yo dude you need an avatar of yourself to post here

Fix asap please
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Fvrthebrave
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Joined: Fri Mar 18, 2022 4:18 am
Name: Collin
Goal: Improve Looks
Age: 31

Fri Mar 18, 2022 4:24 am

Hey,

I'm Collin.

Goals this year:
Keep improving application development.
Put on some weight. Get back in gym after surgery.

I, Collin, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Gunner
Posts: 10 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Fri Mar 18, 2022 4:18 pm
Goal: Online dating
Age: 28
Motto: Virtus tentamine gaudet
Location: USA

Fri Mar 18, 2022 4:41 pm

Howdy!

Goals:
Date very sexy women: I've dated cute girls but never anyone who really blew me away. Most of the girls in my social circle (music and artsy types) aren't my type, physically; I have very conventional tastes in women (read: I like what Hollywood likes), and the girls I meet through friends I generally don't find that hot, though they are often fun and interesting.

Better bantering: I love a good conversation, especially a fun one where my interlocutor and I banter. This is fun for its own sake but it also helps with verbal game. I want to get better at it and be more natural and at ease in conversations more generally.

I, Gunner, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Looking forward to improving on these things with y'all!
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King Approach
Posts: 35 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Fri Mar 18, 2022 10:54 pm
Name: John
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 32

Fri Mar 18, 2022 11:59 pm

Sup.

I'm looking to fuck hot chicks through cold-approach. I've done many cold approaches and have had some close calls, but I have yet to get laid from it. I live in So. Cal. in an area that has challenging logistics. I believe this is the biggest challenge for me to overcome. I work a decent job, but I don't want to pay for an expensive apartment that has better logistics.

I would also like to be able to pee in public (lool). I struggle with being able to urinate in public toilets with people around and I would like to get over it.

I, John, commit to to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Javi
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Sat Mar 19, 2022 5:57 am
Name: Jay
Goal: Lose fat, get laid
Age: 21
Motto: End goal to achieve my best self
Location: New Jersey

Sat Mar 19, 2022 8:10 am

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Tue Jun 02, 2020 10:32 am
1. Reply this this post with your goals, what you want to achieve, as well as this line:

Make sure you include this sentence: "I, [your name], commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

2. Add a photo of yourself as an avatar.

If you do not do these 2 steps, your account will be deleted within 3 days.

Why?

This forum is all about commitment and actually getting shit done. No theorising, no sitting around wasting time - we're here to actually get shit done. We take our self-improvement seriously.

As for mandatory avatars - it's hard for anyone to give you self-improvement and getting-laid advice if we don't know what you look like. (Plus all the reasons listed here).

If you don't want to show your face, crop it out/blur it out.

Think of this as you giving a promise that you'll actually work towards achieving your goals; we aren't interested in anyone who wants to half-ass this shit.

When you've done that, go read the Forum Rules.

Oh, and welcome. If you're here, we have no doubt you're gonna kick some serious ass and live an epic life. We'll do everything we can to help you hit your goals.
-Andy
I, Jeremiah, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
My goals is to lose weight and get laid
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pooopdickk
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sat Mar 19, 2022 5:50 pm
Name: Blake
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 31

Sat Mar 19, 2022 6:00 pm

Hi everybody, my name is Blake and I live in Wisconsin.

Here are my goals, straight from my Google Keep:

=> Become a social juggernaut: be able to talk to anyone, cold approach anyone, and make friends wherever I go.
• Get some friends and hobbies
• Improve appearance and Tinder profile

I, Blake, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Monotonic
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Joined: Sat Mar 19, 2022 5:47 pm
Goal: ----
Age: 25
Motto: The only way out is through

Sat Mar 19, 2022 7:29 pm

My name's Danny!

I, Danny, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

The goals in question:
- Eliminate social anxiety
- Be fully authentic and honest
- Stop caring what others think of me
- Develop a playfulness mindset
- Stop feeling like I don't deserve to fuck hot girls
- Improve style & looks
- Improve online dating profiles
- Fuck hot girls
Lou
Posts: 9 | Thanks: 5
Joined: Sun Mar 20, 2022 9:37 am
Goal: Date Girls
Age: 39
Motto: Keep Going!
Location: Melbourne - Australia

Sun Mar 20, 2022 9:49 am

Hello Everyone!

This is Lou (Luis). I am based in Melbourne - Australia.

I was in a happy relationship until 2 years ago which did not survive the first Covid lockdown. For the last 2 years I spend half of each year under lockdown and spent most of my time focused in other life goals which I have pretty much achieved.

I did not care much about girls/relationships for a while after my breakup but now I have got the need to start meeting and dating girls. I have done OK before but basically because I got lucky with girls approaching me/girls making it really obvious that they were keen or being introduced by common friends. These last 2 years have affected me and, I am not going to lie, I am anxious as I type these words but I can only keep moving forward.

As a secondary goal I am also going to focus on keeping improving as a musician and release more videos on my (currently small) Youtube channel.

Cheers,
Lou
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dnx
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Joined: Sat Mar 19, 2022 9:55 pm
Goal: Build a side hustle
Age: 26

Sun Mar 20, 2022 10:14 am

I, dnx, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi everyone, discovered this place from one thread in Good looking loser forum. Seems like a lot of good advice here.

Goals:
  • Go on a date at least once a week
  • Eliminate unnecessary self doubt
  • Weight train in gym consistently
  • Accumulate enough funds for flat/house downpayment
  • Build consistent success with my side hustle
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Jhoe11
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Sun Mar 20, 2022 5:52 pm
Goal: Gente laid
Age: 26

Sun Mar 20, 2022 5:59 pm

"I, *Jhoe, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Right now, my goals are getting more dates as I'm pretty inexperienced on that area and to increase my social freedom as well as my looks.


I'm working on each of them everyday but decided it is the best if I found people with similar ideals as myself.

I almost lost my virginity by the end of the last year but then I had performance anxiety which troubled my erection. After that, I had 3 dates but it only led to kissing and heavy petting.
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