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chado
Posts: 254 | Thanks: 137
Joined: Thu Jul 02, 2020 2:32 am
Name: Chad
Goal: Have a 3some
Age: 27
Motto: Think of the solution not the problem.
Location: USA Deep South

Sat Jul 11, 2020 5:05 am

coconutwater wrote:
Fri Jul 10, 2020 8:07 pm
Hello all :D

I, coconutwater, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Welcome to the crew, what are your first steps to improving something? Looks/money/etc?
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todd96
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sat Jul 11, 2020 11:16 am
Goal: Get respect
Age: 25

Sat Jul 11, 2020 12:07 pm

Hello people

I, todd, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

My goals are:
Being a man people respect
I want to get female attention from strangers
I want to be able to for get relationship related stuff to focus other parts of my life
I want women's desire to just have sex with me, no other intrests involved
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Hyunckel
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Sat Jul 11, 2020 2:42 pm
Goal: Get a girlfriend
Age: 33

Sat Jul 11, 2020 2:51 pm

I, Hyunckel, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

33 from France.
I want to get a girlfriend (sounds cliche but that's about the only thing I need right now)
Currently using dating apps cause I find it kinda hard to meet people with masks in bars and whatnot.

Current short term goals:
- drop to 68 kg (I'm at 71 kg) IE: lower my body fat % (I should be around 14 ish % atm)
- make some better pics since I don't have many matches with them
- get some dates and see what I can achieve from them (lays and experience at least)
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chado
Posts: 254 | Thanks: 137
Joined: Thu Jul 02, 2020 2:32 am
Name: Chad
Goal: Have a 3some
Age: 27
Motto: Think of the solution not the problem.
Location: USA Deep South

Sat Jul 11, 2020 3:15 pm

@Hyunckel Welcome to the forum. Why do you "need" a girlfriend?
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Hyunckel
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Joined: Sat Jul 11, 2020 2:42 pm
Goal: Get a girlfriend
Age: 33

Sat Jul 11, 2020 3:35 pm

chado wrote:
Sat Jul 11, 2020 3:15 pm
@Hyunckel Welcome to the forum. Why do you "need" a girlfriend?
I used the wrong term, it's not a need per se, but the last thing I'm technically missing in my life atm.

I used to ignore it altogether, focusing on my job and friends, getting a driver's licence and a car...

Now that all of that has been taken care of, I can (even though admittedly I shouldn't have postponed it till now) focus on this matter with my full forces ;)

I didn't have that much trouble during my twenties when I worked at a MacDonald's and had plenty of college friends, nowadays I don't have many job-related opportunies to encounter girls and online dating is 95% looks and 5% banter it seems now (I've just come to realise it recently).

I guess I need to work on my looks and/or pictures. I shall take a glimpse at people's opinions later on once I'm done reading somes articles here.
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Megacrab
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sat Jul 11, 2020 8:41 pm
Name: Jake
Goal: Build a better life
Age: 20
Motto: The obstacle to the way becomes the way
Location: United States

Sat Jul 11, 2020 9:34 pm

I, Jake, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
tell us what your goals are, what you want to achieve, and make a commitment to improving yourself
In the short term (next 6 months), I'm mostly just looking to get back in shape and start dating. I've always had a bit of a complex about never being good enough, so I always tried to procrastinate on starting dating because maybe I would be good enough in a few years. Well, I'm done pushing it off. I'm not good enough, and I never will be. I'm not in very good shape, but I'm back on a consistent workout routine that I'll re-evaluate in a month or two, and I'm taking a look at my diet to start getting leaner. I'm mostly concerned with establishing healthy habits at the moment, as well as establishing a presence on Tinder as well as some kind of Social Media presence on Instagram or Facebook.
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coconutwater
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Fri Jun 26, 2020 10:22 pm
Goal: Get paid
Age: 27

Sat Jul 11, 2020 10:11 pm

chado wrote:
Sat Jul 11, 2020 5:05 am

Welcome to the crew, what are your first steps to improving something? Looks/money/etc?
Thanks focusing on money + gym
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Murchyman
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sat Jul 11, 2020 11:22 pm
Name: Mitchell
Goal: Get GF
Age: 18

Sat Jul 11, 2020 11:26 pm

Hi I'm Mitchell I recently lost a lot of weight (40kg) and am trying to get laid and am looking for a supportive community
"I, Mitchell, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
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skankhunt42
Posts: 29 | Thanks: 22
Joined: Wed Jul 08, 2020 4:26 am
Goal: Getting laid
Age: 35

Sat Jul 11, 2020 11:34 pm

Hyunckel wrote:
Sat Jul 11, 2020 3:35 pm


it's not a need per se, but the last thing I'm technically missing in my life atm.
Hi Hyunckel, great to see another baldy! You've probably already had this thought, but make sure you don't just settle for any female just because you want a girlfriend. Make sure you take your time and shop around for the right one.
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tenzinf92
Posts: 49 | Thanks: 32
Joined: Sun Jul 12, 2020 5:45 pm
Name: Tenzin
Goal: Get 2 overlapping fbs
Age: 28
Motto: Take responsibility. Yes, for that too!

Sun Jul 12, 2020 6:06 pm

Hi guys,

Love the blog. Most practical and down-to-earth I've seen. Lots of retarded blogs around on the internet. Thank God I found this one.

I'm a RADAR engineer working in Edinburgh, Scotland. Currently I like certain aspects of my job but on the whole I dislike it because I have to stifle myself in a corporate environment doing computer programming using complex maths all day. Little do I get to communicate with others and deal with social pressure. Concise and effective communication is a passion of mine so I'm trying to develop my role to implement more communication skills. My masters degree in physics and astronomy has provided my this current technical skillset and it gives me the money I need for now to pay for coaching and suchlike so I'm happy enough with my lot for the meantime.

The lockdown affected my dating life, duh. So I got a pro photographer to get some photos. Now I'm trying to pick the right ones and write a good bio. I want to get laid a lot, and I hate having sporadic results. I just want this area sorted, there are other things I want to focus on.

Lockdown has also given me the opportunity to pay for personal training, specifically aimed at improving the aesthetic appearance of my pectus excavatum - a breast bone deformity causing rib flare. I'm fit anyway, but this will be a big push to improve my aesthetics and become the most ripped I've been.

Summary of Goals:
Get a consistent stream of girls from Tinder.
Get ripped enough to take some good body pics.
Develop my career role to something more communication-focused.

I, Tenzin Rinpoche, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Peace guys!
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chado
Posts: 254 | Thanks: 137
Joined: Thu Jul 02, 2020 2:32 am
Name: Chad
Goal: Have a 3some
Age: 27
Motto: Think of the solution not the problem.
Location: USA Deep South

Sun Jul 12, 2020 9:44 pm

@tenzinf92 Welcome to the party. Sounds like you have a plan and some goals, I suggest making a log to help you follow through. Also what is this pectus excavatum thing you are talking about?
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skankhunt42
Posts: 29 | Thanks: 22
Joined: Wed Jul 08, 2020 4:26 am
Goal: Getting laid
Age: 35

Sun Jul 12, 2020 11:31 pm

tenzinf92 wrote:
Sun Jul 12, 2020 6:06 pm
My masters degree in physics and astronomy
damn bro I wish I was this smart :lol:

regarding your chest condition, don't let it hold you back, I had a flatmate years ago with the same condition, he was just a normal build and didn't go to the gym at all and yet he managed to bring girls back home from the club at least once every two-three weeks. He had a girlfriend for about a year before I moved out and she was fit af.
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Wildibeast
Posts: 5 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun Jul 12, 2020 11:41 pm
Name: Dan
Goal: Get laid
Age: 33

Sun Jul 12, 2020 11:46 pm

33 from England

• Lower bodyfat so i can see my abs
• Taking better pictures for tinder etc. Not getting many matches atm
•Build confidence to chat up girls.

I, wildibeast. Commit to my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Blitz
Posts: 4 | Thanks: 4
Joined: Fri Jun 19, 2020 1:02 am
Goal: Build a business
Age: 25
Location: NZ

Mon Jul 13, 2020 10:40 am

I, Blitz, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously

Andy, one of your posts from reddit drew me here from a while ago. I sometimes gave feedback to people on their online dating profiles and saw one of your posts and thought this guy knows what he's doing. Far too many clowns on reddit give advice on what to fix without having achieved any success themselves! One post they're asking for feedback on how to get matches, and then a day or two later they're giving advice to other people on how to get more matches. You were probably the only guy on these threads who was real and is rightfully in a position to give advice.

Anyway, after checking out some of your posts, I really appreciate your genuine desire to uplift, empower and mentor young men, who wish to achieve success in their lives and not just with women. I thought that I want to join the crew and do even greater things with a bunch of motivated men.

Some of my goals for this year:

- Achieve and sustain 10-12% bodyfat - currently hovering around 15%
- I work as a consultant in the energy industry - I want to generate leads of up to USD $300,000 before the end of this year
- Lock in with a girl that is at least an 8 for the long term - currently have a harem of 3 girls - all are around a 7/7.5.
This one isn't a must though, I'm still in a relatively good position.
- Do some kind of community work - I'm trying to think of a way where I can contribute to my local community here in New Zealand
whilst utilising my skillset

Will add/revise as the year progresses
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KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 706 | Thanks: 508
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Writing full-time.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
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Mon Jul 13, 2020 10:57 am

Hey man, glad to have you here. NZ as in a kiwi? Man we gotta get some (friendly) kiwi-aussie rivalry going ;)
Andy / Australia
Podcast: The Inner Winner Show

140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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