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[Readytokillthebeta01]

-Quit porn, then limit fapping to once a week (if i dont see a girl)

Never gonna happen, it's all or nothing unfortunately. If you do actually want to quit though, check this out:
viewtopic.php?f=37&t=227

[w4z]

-Quit porn, then limit fapping to once a week (if i dont see a girl)

Never gonna happen, it's all or nothing unfortunately. If you do actually want to quit though, check this out:
viewtopic.php?f=37&t=227

Ive read that. Even knowing to says to not look, I succumb to my old ways sometimes. Starting to recognize the patterns that make me want a session, and stopping it from there.

[Genre]

I, Genre, commit to working in my goals and taking myself seriously.

Really enjoy the articles on this site. Got up to Day 53 AA program back in 2015 as a virgin. Started doing real approaches after meeting someone more experienced that gave me that push. Grinded cold approaches until I met my now ex-gf. Ended my 4 year abusive relationship just about a year ago and ready to move on and meet girls again. Slept with 2 girls off tinder after the first few months and a lot of go no where dates. (Had 2 different girls at my place on the first date and I’d just end up with a make out but once I start reaching for their clothes it’s a no “I’m not that type of girl” type thing then immediately ghosted afterwards) I understand the reasons now in hindsight but doesn’t matter at this point in time. Don’t have much AA anymore I’m still able to hit on a girl with the “your pretty cute. Are you single?” when I’m just going about my day buying groceries or running errands. No results from it yet. Still need some work on that.

Goals currently is to hit the gym/diet after I fully recover from the car accident I was in.

Grow a beard. Just started using minoxidil.

Start being able to approach any girl that I’m into as if I’ve done it a thousand times and get laid from it.

Finish my degree

Take better pics for HINGE

Gnna post the pics I use for tinder OLD profile critique later. I have better pics now than last year when I was actually getting likes idgi. Would appreciate any honest feedback.

[Apeth]

Hey,

I, Pete, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm a very late bloomer was always too shy to talk with women growing up and I guess it stuck with me. Had 3 or 4 Gfs over the years but nothing that I really enjoyed. Less than 10 lays lifetime - Feel like I have some serious catching up to do.

About me:
- I am 32 years old
- Work as an IT Manager.
- Live In the UK.

Long term goal:
- Get laid more and experience a better sex life.

Short term goals:
- Loose Weight so am in classified in healthy range (currently 120KG)
- Improve Confidence

[Mr_Cambridge]

About me

- 31 years old, 6"2, 175 lbs
- Born and raised in California, US
- Worked as a Male Model in LA
- Lived a devoted religious/monastic lifestyle until 28
- ~3 lays
- Does photography



6 month goal:

- Re-defining healthy sexuality for me
- Able to generate 1 lay a week
- Bring weight up another 10-15 lbs
- Find crowd into energy-play/tantra



12 month goal

- Build a beautiful photography blog around the girls I lay
- Generate 30 new clients for my Advertisement Agency



NOTE: My very first lay was at 26 and they got preg. I had the act begrudgingly, and the result was devastating to me. Nothing resulted from the incident, but I have some stuff I'm working through because of that; that said, I'm ready to move past it and the fears/risks surrounding sex.

I, Mr_Cambridge, have and will continue to commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

[Mr_Cambridge]

Hey mate, welcome. Remember to add this line (just edit your post)...

GOT IT. Thanks for the heads up~

PS - photography blog sounds cool as hell. You'll find girls are absolutely down for it, and love the idea of being "a tiny bit famous".

That's a great point that hadn't occurred to me. Of course they would, and of course you already know that. Haha. Cheers

[SIGMA_1234]

Yep - I tell girls before we meet that I want to do photoshoots of them. Most BEG me for it - literally beg.

Andy, you're seriously tempting me to pick up photography down the line (can't right now because goals). Have you done any nude photography and placed it somewhere like Flickr? Or you just keep it to yourself?

[Mr_Cambridge]

Yep - I tell girls before we meet that I want to do photoshoots of them. Most BEG me for it - literally beg. Especially when I show them past photos I've done.

When specifically do you present that in the message template phase? And wtf do you even say?

[fervazquez]

"I, FerVazquez, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

My goals are:
- Get over my ex girlfriend: she is a super hot girl and we were together for 2 years and a half. She left me for apparently no reason because I was afraid of taking some decision such as moving in together. She probably just lose attraction.

- Improve my body: I am hitting the gym since 2 years but without being constant. I want to lose some body fat even if I am pretty skinny. I also want to improve my chest since I find it not so good.

- Getting laid: I want to get laid with quality girl just to demonstrate myself I can get another girl as hot as my ex-girlfriend. Possibly without using Instagram because I always fought a personal battle against social network and I don't wanna be incoherent, however sometimes I feel lonely as fuck.

- Moving out my parents home: I work since a year and I finally want to move out. It hurts as fuck because I was about to do that with my GF but that's life. I have to do that to improve my skills, I am 25 years old by the way.

[rev1405]

I, Patrick, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

About me:
- 22 years old
- Live in Denmark
- Computer Science student (Just started my Master).

My short term goals are:
- Get laid and find FWBs.
- Get fit.
- Fix my diet (Trouble eating even maintenance without unhealthy snacks).
- Get my slightly crooked teeth fixed. (+ teeth whitening can't hurt either.)
- Get a hairstylist to get a better haircut (I have low volume on my front scalp so a ton of hairstyles don't work - seems to have gotten better after quitting porn a few months ago)
- Get more clothing that looks good on me.
- Quit school and get a job in software development.
- Move to bigger apartment.

Long term:
- Improve my photography. (Maybe become part-time photographer).
- Maybe try out some modelling - when I get better looking.
- Learn Japanese.
- Learn to play the piano and sing.
- Get a closed triad relationship (MFF).
- Start my own business.

[reduction122]

Hi,
Im 23 and a electrical engineering student in Ottawa.
I want to continue working out for a solid year straight.
Be proactive with my classes in my next semester.
Amass a body count of 50 with girls that I am actually into.
Join a club at my university that will help my job search in the future.

I, Reduction commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

[Ris]

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[creepo]

I,Ariel,commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
My goals:
- Lost my V-Card
- Put on some muscle with calisthenics since I'm broke
- Launch my web development business website

[Rustrike]

I, Rus, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 28, from Estonia (ethnically Russian) living in London, UK. I'm working on three main goals at the moment:
1) Build a body that puts me in the top 20% of dudes in a gym.
2) Succeed at selling on Amazon Marketplace and then setup own Shopify store.
3) Form a band and start touring the world.

[Lionel]

Hi everyone.

I'm Linus, 22 from Ontario, Canada. I'm in university for one last year before I move to the big *city. Here's my goals.
a. Figure out this Tinder/Hinge/Bumble stuff with all your help (I'm already so grateful for the gigantic 6 part guide) so that I'm finally getting constant matches (lets say 3 a day without gold/boosts).
b. Land a kickass job this year in corporate finance (with a company, not the bank), ideally in natural resources since that's the only thing Canada's globally competitive in. I'll define kickass as either a position in a company that's quickly expanding (>40% y/y revenue growth) or a huge player (market cap > 15B).

Finally, I, Linus, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. Thanks and welcome to my journey