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afrojax
Posts: 3 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun Sep 20, 2020 3:58 am
Name: Seth
Goal: Get laid
Age: 28
Motto: Creator of circumstance

Sun Sep 20, 2020 4:15 am

I, Seth, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 28 years old, just finished a long term relationship and am ready to get back into meeting and having sex with new women.

Goals:
Have sex with 10 women by the end of 2020
DJ at this specific bar in my city
Meditation every day
Finish at least 26 miles at an Ultra marathon I'm running next month
Finish 6 books by the end of the year
Improve my fashion style
Improve my physique
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KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 784 | Thanks: 609
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Writing full-time.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
Contact:

Thu Sep 24, 2020 7:31 am

@LAKE - Hey mate, please upload an avatar of yourself + edit your post and add this line:
"I, Lake, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Both of those are a requirement to use these forums. Otherwise your account will be deleted in 2 days.

Cheers mate.
-Andy
Andy / Australia
Podcast: The Inner Winner Show

140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
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KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 784 | Thanks: 609
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Writing full-time.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
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Thu Sep 24, 2020 7:35 am

LAKE wrote:
Thu Sep 24, 2020 7:34 am
I need to upload actual, real picture of myself? I guess I just don't feel comfortable enough to do that on public forum.
Yep. Account deleted. (Send me a PM if you want your account reinstated and are willing to upload a pic).
Andy / Australia
Podcast: The Inner Winner Show

140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
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MrNiceBoss
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Sep 24, 2020 8:46 pm
Goal: Better Tinder
Age: 22
Motto: Another Day Another Dollar

Thu Sep 24, 2020 8:56 pm

Hi, I’m MrNiceBoss. I’m early 20’s. 6’0. I mr.niceboss commit to taking myself seriously and working on my goals.

My goal is to have an awesome tinder and make friends with like minded guys.

Please message me. Thanks.
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Brogrammer
Posts: 32 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Thu Sep 24, 2020 10:13 pm
Goal: Beat AA
Age: 23
Motto: Fear is the mind-killer

Thu Sep 24, 2020 11:20 pm

Hi, I'm Brogrammer. Being somewhat shy has been something I've always dealt with, but I've slowly been able to get better at it over the years. I'm still not at the point where I'm able to easily approach girls though. There was a time in high school where I thought I might never lose my virginity because I didn't know how to talk to people. Things started going better for me in college, and I ended up getting into a relationship for 2 years with the first girl I had ever dated. Since that relationship has ended, I've been dealing with long dry spells because I'm still not good at meeting women.

My main goal is to get as far as possible through the AA program. I've already gotten started and done the first two days of drills.

I also want to get lean and get better photos for tinder. I recently achieved my goal of getting a 1000 pound powerlifting total after bulking for a long time. I'm at 17% body fat right now and would like to get down to 11%.

I, Brogrammer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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joe_ronimo
Posts: 153 | Thanks: 25
Joined: Wed Sep 16, 2020 12:29 am
Name: Joe
Goal: Nomad $$$/Bang Puss
Age: 28
Motto: Live is meant to be enjoyed, not just survived.
Location: Austin, TX/World
Contact:

Fri Sep 25, 2020 3:33 am

@Brogrammer given your handle I have a feeling you're going to fit in perfectly ;) Welcome.
GOAL 1) Nomad $
a Pay bills on time
• Finish this app
• Pay off credit before due
• No loans w/o plan

b Get iOS Dev job
• Apply 1 job+/dy
• Conn. w/ 3 recruiters on L.I.
• Post 365 prog on L.I.

GOAL 2) Bang Puss
a Get abs
• Count Calories
• Exercise 5 day/wk

b Swipe on apps

c Approach 2 Girls - convo w 3 others

d Get better photos
• Buy Canon EOS RP & lens adapter
• Buy iPhone 12 Pro


GOAL 3) Misc.
a Read 20 Pages
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Giles
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Tue Sep 29, 2020 4:00 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 23
Motto: Who Dares Wins
Location: Netherlands

Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:42 pm

Hey all, I'm a Belgian guy, 23 yo, who just moved to the Netherlands. I'm an engineer by study and just got my dream job as a trader. Have been working on self-improvement for a couple of years now and have already had some success. Banged just under 15 girls, had one girlfriend, managed to get a quite social status at university (fraternity president). Have been trying to get laid but had a long dry streak (+- 6 months) which only recently got solved. During the lockdown, I realized I had trouble meeting girls if I didn't have the ability to go to parties... Hence, the reason which brought me back to this self-improvement stuff. Mainly interested in beating AA, but thinking about taking the online stuff a bit more serious


Goals (from short-term to long-term) :
- Get my weight to around 85-90 kg (10-13% body fat), currently approx 95 kg ( 15-20% body fat)
- AA program
- Get laid from online dating
- MFF threesome
- Hot, intelligent girlfriend (quite specific about the type of person I want to invest more time with)


I, Giles, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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Massive
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun Sep 27, 2020 10:35 pm
Name: Mickey
Goal: Save myself
Age: 25
Motto: There's no rules

Tue Sep 29, 2020 9:03 pm

Massie here
I, Massive, commit to working on my goals and taking my life seriously.

25, born and living in Eastern Europe
1. Bang as much girls as I can get my hands on - day game and social circle is focus, not online game
2. Making money
3. Gym goals
4. Mental health goals

Current main goals:

1. Daily approaches
2. Studying
3. Sticking with diet
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MaxPred_
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Thu Oct 01, 2020 12:40 pm
Name: Ainars
Goal: Be mre confident
Age: 30
Motto: Never settle

Thu Oct 01, 2020 12:57 pm

Hey, my name is Max. I am 30 and live in Riga, Latvia.
I want to get more confident, cause I truly believe that is the only reason, being single my count is just 7 and I want to change that.

I, Max, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals:
Be more confident in my own skin (Get more stylish new clothes, work even more or my body etc.)
Get my girl count in double digits this year, despite all the shit what is happening
Start developing my hobby project app
Keep on learning Guitar
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ZoobyLord
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sat Oct 03, 2020 7:51 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 21
Motto: (1.01)^365 = 37.8

Sat Oct 03, 2020 9:29 am

Hello, name's ZoobyLord, a 21 yr old middle eastern white boy, currently working as a programmer.
I've been working on myself on and off for about a year now and wanna get serious.

I, ZoobyLord, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Long term goals:
Be confident in public (not only in my own head).
Get toned.
Get laid.

Short term goals:
Lose the stubborn belly fat I have left - Currently at ~17% body fat, aiming for a sustainable 13 at least.
Upgrade my Tinder/OKC with better pics.
Be more professional at my job and meet with decision makers in the company.
Talk to as many girls as I can to increase confidence.
AA if I feel I need it.
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Reservoir
Posts: 34 | Thanks: 5
Joined: Sun Oct 04, 2020 8:02 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29

Sun Oct 04, 2020 9:50 pm

I, Dimitri, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I was on the GLL forums for a little bit. Had gone up to day 10 on the AA program but then put it on hold in june due to work stress + being a bitch.

Since then, I've dropped 7kg of fat, have grown my hair to get a fuckboy haircut, and have upgraded my wardrobe.

Main goal is to get laid. Here's the plan:
-move out of my parents' house and get a studio in Paris
-reach 10% bodyfat (probably 1 or 2kgs to go)
-create tinder profile with good pics
-go on my first date ever
-bring a girl back to my place

I'll go back to approaching at some point, but one step at a time... I've never even been on a date in my whole life. Lost my virginity at 24 with a hooker, then only got laid with one girl because she made the first move.

I'd say I already look better than average; what I'm insecure about are my social skills. I'm introverted, neurotic, awkward, and afraid of the pain of rejection. INTJ in the mbti if that matters.

Btw I thought Radical's pic looked cool so I did a low budget version, with abs :)
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Sequential Objectives:

  • Gather photography equipment
  • Rent my own place in Paris <-- Current one
  • Take 3 dope pics for tinder <-- Current one
  • Set up profile & Get 10 matches on Tinder
  • Go on my first date ever
  • Bring a first girl back home

Background Objectives:
  • Reach ~10% bodyfat (or 65.5kg according to 7-day moving average)
  • Treat weird smell on my dick

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p6867
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun Oct 04, 2020 10:00 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 30
Motto: Didn't use to be so hard; it used to be impossible

Sun Oct 04, 2020 10:24 pm

I, Patrick, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I've actually never really had trouble with women, but I've always been a boyfriend. Always back to back LTRs with girls who basically made the first move.

I'm making a lot of changes in my life, and I'm realizing that even though I've essentially gotten laid constantly since I was 18, I'm actually pretty dissatisfied with how my sex life has gone. I've never just been able to fuck someone for fun and move on; it's always come with commitment. Sometimes abusive relationships. I want to have sex without commitment, and I want to up my "number" to make up for lost time. Andy's story resonates a lot with me, and if I could get to his level or close to it I would be very happy in life.

My insecurities:
• I'm 30. Almost 31. I know there's examples of guys slaying in their 30s, but I'm still insecure about my age. I don't especially need/want to go for younger (under 25) women, just casually DTF ones. My fear is that women my age or close to it will all be looking to "settle down" and I'll just totally strike out. My hope is if I get hot/fit enough I'll be able to find the ones that are and it'll be no problem, but I'm not confident in that yet. Right now it feels like the window for casual sex has slammed shut for me and it's very demoralizing.

• My hair is thinning pretty badly. It might not be super apparent in photos, but I think in the next few years I'll have to commit to shaving my head. I tried treatments but couldn't handle the side effects.

• I'm kind of financially set for life (thanks bitcoin) but I don't have a career really. I work a chill job at a store, but I'm insecure when people ask me "what do you do?" Eventually I would like to go to grad school to become a therapist, but I have some recovery work of my own to do before I'm ready for that. I estimate I will do that in 2022.

I guess I list these because examples of dudes in my position or with my issues who end up killing it really reassure and inspire me, so if anybody can pile them on that'd be awesome. Bald guys who slay, "older" guys who slay, etc. Real life examples, that I can compare myself to, really do a lot for me.

My goals:
• 30 lifetime lays (13 so far)
• Have at least one ONS with a decently attractive woman
• Shred down to lean enough bodyfat % to see abs and jawline
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KillYourInnerLoser
Posts: 784 | Thanks: 609
Joined: Fri May 29, 2020 7:03 am
Name: Andy
Goal: Writing full-time.
Age: 33
Motto: "You sure as hell can too."
Location: Australia
Contact:

Sun Oct 04, 2020 10:51 pm

p6867 wrote:
Sun Oct 04, 2020 10:24 pm
I'm still insecure about my age
https://killyourinnerloser.com/age-doesnt-matter/

Obviously me just telling you "age doesn't matter!" isn't going to make you feel much better. The only thing that'll get you over your insecurities/doubts are to work on yourself, talk to a shitload of women, and get laid.

Taking action fixes everything.
Andy / Australia
Podcast: The Inner Winner Show

140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
Must-have Stuff I Recommend
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p6867
Posts: 2 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Sun Oct 04, 2020 10:00 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 30
Motto: Didn't use to be so hard; it used to be impossible

Sun Oct 04, 2020 11:01 pm

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Sun Oct 04, 2020 10:51 pm
Obviously me just telling you "age doesn't matter!" isn't going to make you feel much better. The only thing that'll get you over your insecurities/doubts are to work on yourself, talk to a shitload of women, and get laid.

Taking action fixes everything.
Nah, it actually helps me a lot. Gives me a realistic picture of what *is* possible, and something to aim at with taking my action. But I agree that what's going to actually give me the confidence is going out and doing it. I'm ready to go crush it.
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s_aint
Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
Joined: Wed Oct 07, 2020 3:16 am
Goal: Getting 6-pack abs
Age: 23
Motto: Seek and Destroy

Wed Oct 07, 2020 4:01 am

Hi all, I am s_aint, I am 23 and tired of living a second rate life all because of the stupid voice in my head that has kept me from getting what I want.

My goals in their order of importance are
1) getting abs
2) Progress in my career to earn in 6 figures
3) getting comfortable talking to people especially women
4) losing my V card

What I am going to do to achieve these goals

for abs:
-Learn to cook and cut out eating outside entirely
-Exercise 1st thing in the morning after waking up for at least 20 minutes
-Log everything I eat

for my career:
-learn something relevant every day for at least 2 hours
-interview prep each week
-start posting articles online about personal projects

for my social skills:
<I have no fucking clue, help me out guys>


I, s_aint, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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