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- Gabi
- Posts: 54 | Thanks: 36
- Joined: Thu Dec 31, 2020 11:55 pm
- Name: Gabi
- Goal: learn investment
- Age: 24
- Motto: Dn't need to be good all the time,just when needed
- Location: France
Hi, i'm french, so excuse my poor english.
I, Gabi, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously !
My big goal :
- Getting laid, at least, 52 time.
I want to achieve my first goal trought online dating and aproch
I started to read the tinder guide a around month ago and started to prepare my self (clothing, dslr, hairstyle, bodylanguage) at the same time.
All i need now is to take some good pics (1~2 out of 6) and setup my tinder account !
Peace
I, Gabi, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously !
My big goal :
- Getting laid, at least, 52 time.
I want to achieve my first goal trought online dating and aproch
I started to read the tinder guide a around month ago and started to prepare my self (clothing, dslr, hairstyle, bodylanguage) at the same time.
All i need now is to take some good pics (1~2 out of 6) and setup my tinder account !
Peace
First finish my studies. [Done]
Then my own place. [Done]
Finally my best sexlife ! [Ongoing !!!]
Then my own place. [Done]
Finally my best sexlife ! [Ongoing !!!]
- OnTheFly
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:07 am
- Name: sdf
- Goal: Get laid like a warlord
- Age: 32
- Motto: Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life.
What's up guys,
I, OnTheFly, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
-get laid like a warlord
-do at least 1 cold approach/day
-no sugar in 2021
-gain 10 more lbs (currently at 171 lbs)
I'll start a journal and write more details there.
I, OnTheFly, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
-get laid like a warlord
-do at least 1 cold approach/day
-no sugar in 2021
-gain 10 more lbs (currently at 171 lbs)
I'll start a journal and write more details there.
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- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Fri Jan 01, 2021 12:52 pm
- Goal: Max OLD efficiency
- Age: 27
Hi all
I'm 27 and my primary goal is to try and maximize efficiency with online dating photos
I, GregGreg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Cheers
I'm 27 and my primary goal is to try and maximize efficiency with online dating photos
I, GregGreg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
Cheers
Last edited by GregGreg on Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:47 pm, edited 1 time in total.
- Radical
- Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1441
- Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
- Name: Cam
- Goal: Funnel/Product Building
- Age: 29
- Motto: Take drastic action
@GregGreg
Hey dude, welcome to the forums
As per our rules you need to edit your first post to include
'I, GregGreg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.'
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Hey dude, welcome to the forums
As per our rules you need to edit your first post to include
'I, GregGreg, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.'
Any account not following the entry rules will be deleted in 3 days
- DeathToBoyfriendMaterial
- Posts: 1 | Thanks: 1
- Joined: Thu Dec 31, 2020 1:39 pm
- Name: Evan
- Goal: Get >2 fuckbuddies
- Age: 33
Hi
I'm Evan, 33M. I just found KYIL and then GLL in the past 2 weeks. I've always put off handling my sex life because I used the "I'll get everything else in my life handled and sex will take care of itself after I have everything fixed" line of reasoning instead of admitting I have anxiety and insecurities around being a sexual man. I've read plenty of PUA stuff in the past, could never get any success with it and always felt stupid doing it. I've had 2 relationships in my life, each only lasting 3-4 months, and 4 other sporadic women throughout my life that I've had sex with since I was 18 (always women who are very forward with their interest in me, never women that I approach and initiate interactions with).
I am committing to accomplishing my goals and taking this seriously. I will really need accountability help.
So, my goals are:
ultimate goal- be able to get sex ANY time I want it, preferably from having multiple fuckbuddies, but also to be able to go on Tinder or cold approach and have a woman THAT night.
get AA handled-I'm doing the GLL AA program
get rid of my Nice Guy/"Boyfriend Material" vibe
have 2-3 fuckbuddies at any given time
Have a great social life. I'm new in my town, been here for 4 months, haven't really made any friends. I also have trouble maintaining ANY relationships, not just sexual ones. I haven't really had anybody I consider a very close friend or best friend since I was a kid. I have signed up for Meetup.com to begin addressing this goal.
I'm Evan, 33M. I just found KYIL and then GLL in the past 2 weeks. I've always put off handling my sex life because I used the "I'll get everything else in my life handled and sex will take care of itself after I have everything fixed" line of reasoning instead of admitting I have anxiety and insecurities around being a sexual man. I've read plenty of PUA stuff in the past, could never get any success with it and always felt stupid doing it. I've had 2 relationships in my life, each only lasting 3-4 months, and 4 other sporadic women throughout my life that I've had sex with since I was 18 (always women who are very forward with their interest in me, never women that I approach and initiate interactions with).
I am committing to accomplishing my goals and taking this seriously. I will really need accountability help.
So, my goals are:
ultimate goal- be able to get sex ANY time I want it, preferably from having multiple fuckbuddies, but also to be able to go on Tinder or cold approach and have a woman THAT night.
get AA handled-I'm doing the GLL AA program
get rid of my Nice Guy/"Boyfriend Material" vibe
have 2-3 fuckbuddies at any given time
Have a great social life. I'm new in my town, been here for 4 months, haven't really made any friends. I also have trouble maintaining ANY relationships, not just sexual ones. I haven't really had anybody I consider a very close friend or best friend since I was a kid. I have signed up for Meetup.com to begin addressing this goal.
- Adam
- Posts: 393 | Thanks: 255
- Joined: Tue Jan 05, 2021 3:53 pm
- Name: Adam
- Goal: Lose Fat
- Age: 34
- Motto: Become someone you admire
"I, Adam, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
I'm 33 and live on the east coast of the US.
Goals for the next year or so:
- Lose fat. Get down to a 31 inch waist. Currently at 33.5 inches.
- Put on Muscle
- Have more adventures
- Get good with girls (what that means quantitatively to be determined later once it becomes my main priority).
Current Short-Term Goals:
- I WILL lose 2lbs this month (172.0 lbs)
- I WILL take a snowboarding lesson this month. Something I've never done before.
I'm 33 and live on the east coast of the US.
Goals for the next year or so:
- Lose fat. Get down to a 31 inch waist. Currently at 33.5 inches.
- Put on Muscle
- Have more adventures
- Get good with girls (what that means quantitatively to be determined later once it becomes my main priority).
Current Short-Term Goals:
- I WILL lose 2lbs this month (172.0 lbs)
- I WILL take a snowboarding lesson this month. Something I've never done before.
2022 Goals:
(1) Get Abs
(2) Get to 15 lifetime lays (currently at 10)
(3) Move to a new city with lots of single girls - DONE 6/12
(1) Get Abs
(2) Get to 15 lifetime lays (currently at 10)
(3) Move to a new city with lots of single girls - DONE 6/12
- Steven_v_d
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Sun Jan 10, 2021 9:49 pm
- Name: Steven
- Goal: GET LAID!
- Age: 22
- Motto: No think, only do!
Hallo,
I’m Steven, 22 years old. I’m Dutch and study physics at a university in the Netherlands.
Strong doubts about my own appearance and attractiveness towards women / ability to attract women have been a burden I carry for many years starting from my teens.
In the past years I have been improving a lot in this field, having had my first lays with 4 women now.
Still, this area of my life is a big source of dissatisfaction.
The last two years I’ve been gaining a lot of momentum. Together with a great friend I have been conquering my anxieties (that are still not completely gone) for talking to women. We have used the current lockdown to our benefit and got a shit ton more buff through bodyweight training.
Seeing a psychologist for a bit more then half a year now, I have been able to go from a place of depression and huge continuous negative thinking to a better place with more frequent moments of joy, happiness and calmness. Looking back at the prior years, there is almost a sense of grievance for all the pain, negative thinking, self-hatred and foremost continuous anxiety that was my life experience.
Leaving all that drama behind, here are my goals in specific areas of my life.
What I am currently doing to keep me in a good place and have to continue:
- Regular workout (without excuses) 5x a week
- Not numbing myself with weed, alcohol or social media AT ALL
- No caffeine and daily meditation to reduce anxiety
- No masturbation (40 days now) to recover from porn addiction / drive my sexual development
- Cold exposure
Mentality:
- Commit fully to getting laid
- Become more assertive, present, alpha, manly (and lose the ever present “nice guy”)
- Get more edgy (feel like boyfriend material as fuck)
- Stop procrastinating
Mental health:
- Build a more positive self-image
- Lose anxiety, through meditation and habit
- No drugs (weed, mdma, xtc, …), No alcohol, No masturbation
Appearance:
- Lose 15 kg of body fat trough intermittent fasting (20 hours). I came from 100 kg and am currently 97 kg. My goal is 85 kg.
- Clear up my skin
- Develop a fashion sense and act on it. Dare to ware something different and edgy.
I feel strong, confident and more manly, knowing I can and will achieve these goals.
I, Steven, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I’m Steven, 22 years old. I’m Dutch and study physics at a university in the Netherlands.
Strong doubts about my own appearance and attractiveness towards women / ability to attract women have been a burden I carry for many years starting from my teens.
In the past years I have been improving a lot in this field, having had my first lays with 4 women now.
Still, this area of my life is a big source of dissatisfaction.
The last two years I’ve been gaining a lot of momentum. Together with a great friend I have been conquering my anxieties (that are still not completely gone) for talking to women. We have used the current lockdown to our benefit and got a shit ton more buff through bodyweight training.
Seeing a psychologist for a bit more then half a year now, I have been able to go from a place of depression and huge continuous negative thinking to a better place with more frequent moments of joy, happiness and calmness. Looking back at the prior years, there is almost a sense of grievance for all the pain, negative thinking, self-hatred and foremost continuous anxiety that was my life experience.
Leaving all that drama behind, here are my goals in specific areas of my life.
What I am currently doing to keep me in a good place and have to continue:
- Regular workout (without excuses) 5x a week
- Not numbing myself with weed, alcohol or social media AT ALL
- No caffeine and daily meditation to reduce anxiety
- No masturbation (40 days now) to recover from porn addiction / drive my sexual development
- Cold exposure
Mentality:
- Commit fully to getting laid
- Become more assertive, present, alpha, manly (and lose the ever present “nice guy”)
- Get more edgy (feel like boyfriend material as fuck)
- Stop procrastinating
Mental health:
- Build a more positive self-image
- Lose anxiety, through meditation and habit
- No drugs (weed, mdma, xtc, …), No alcohol, No masturbation
Appearance:
- Lose 15 kg of body fat trough intermittent fasting (20 hours). I came from 100 kg and am currently 97 kg. My goal is 85 kg.
- Clear up my skin
- Develop a fashion sense and act on it. Dare to ware something different and edgy.
I feel strong, confident and more manly, knowing I can and will achieve these goals.
I, Steven, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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- Posts: 3 | Thanks: 3
- Joined: Wed Jan 13, 2021 4:58 pm
- Goal: Get some pussy
- Age: 18
- Motto: Necessity is what impels men to take action
What's good guys.
I, kalamity, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
18, from the UK.
I am a beginner, having done only a single cold approach and I have not made a tinder account, which I aim to do.
My goals are:
1. to get girls from both, and to improve my social skills in general
2. stay consistent with my lifting (I bought weights even though gyms in the UK are currently closed)
3. get girls again
4. figure out ways to make money
5. remove the limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns
Honestly I don't even want a relationship rn, just plenty of lays... And by plenty I mean a lot.
It's time to move onto the next stage of life.
Much love
I, kalamity, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
18, from the UK.
I am a beginner, having done only a single cold approach and I have not made a tinder account, which I aim to do.
My goals are:
1. to get girls from both, and to improve my social skills in general
2. stay consistent with my lifting (I bought weights even though gyms in the UK are currently closed)
3. get girls again
4. figure out ways to make money
5. remove the limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns
Honestly I don't even want a relationship rn, just plenty of lays... And by plenty I mean a lot.
It's time to move onto the next stage of life.
Much love
- MoeZart
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Fri Jan 15, 2021 12:44 am
- Goal: Become more successful
- Age: 24
Hey i'm Hassan and I commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
I'm 24 and live in central europe.
Goals for the next year:
- Put on Muscle since i'm currently underweight and have been my whole life
- Start to a good job after finishing uni
- and be more comfortable around girls
Nice to meet you all.
I'm 24 and live in central europe.
Goals for the next year:
- Put on Muscle since i'm currently underweight and have been my whole life
- Start to a good job after finishing uni
- and be more comfortable around girls
Nice to meet you all.
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- Posts: 15 | Thanks: 4
- Joined: Fri Jan 15, 2021 5:34 pm
- Goal: Get 6 great pics
- Age: 99
- Radical
- Posts: 1726 | Thanks: 1441
- Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 12:02 pm
- Name: Cam
- Goal: Funnel/Product Building
- Age: 29
- Motto: Take drastic action
@thegreatroast hey dude welcome
As per our rules its a requirement of this forum that you post an avatar of yourself (it can be cropped or blurred)
If you dont do this then we will ban the account in 3 days
As per our rules its a requirement of this forum that you post an avatar of yourself (it can be cropped or blurred)
If you dont do this then we will ban the account in 3 days
- Salsasurgeon
- Posts: 6 | Thanks: 3
- Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 7:25 am
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 38
Hey Andy and everyone,
So happy to have found this forum and we'll get through this as we're soldiers in the same struggle.
I, Omar, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
My Goals:
-Receive better quality matches on dating apps (ie: Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel)
-Enjoy some casual relationships
-Eventually find the one
-Continue growing throughout the process as I always have been
Ready to do this and feel free to ask me any questions as I'll do my best to offer my perspective from my end and anything I can do to help.
So happy to have found this forum and we'll get through this as we're soldiers in the same struggle.
I, Omar, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
My Goals:
-Receive better quality matches on dating apps (ie: Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel)
-Enjoy some casual relationships
-Eventually find the one
-Continue growing throughout the process as I always have been
Ready to do this and feel free to ask me any questions as I'll do my best to offer my perspective from my end and anything I can do to help.
- Sapere_aude
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Thu Jan 21, 2021 3:06 am
- Name: Ty
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 31
Hey guys,
Goals: Defeat my depression, become more confident/less anxious, start learning the game, lead a more fulfilled life (find a better career, become better at my hobbies), and meet lots of girls for the betterment of myself and, hopefully, them.
Achieve: Have sex with at least 100 women in the next 10 years.
"I, Ty, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
I'll likely edit this as my goals become more defined. Let's get it, boys.
Goals: Defeat my depression, become more confident/less anxious, start learning the game, lead a more fulfilled life (find a better career, become better at my hobbies), and meet lots of girls for the betterment of myself and, hopefully, them.
Achieve: Have sex with at least 100 women in the next 10 years.
"I, Ty, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
I'll likely edit this as my goals become more defined. Let's get it, boys.
- GinStone
- Posts: 1 | Thanks:
- Joined: Wed Jan 20, 2021 11:10 pm
- Goal: Get Laid
- Age: 22
- Motto: Enjoy the ride
- Location: Italy
Hello everyone,
"I, GinStone, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
22 y-old guy from Italy. Doing fairly decent well with girls and getting laid, but I want to take it to the NEXT LEVEL.
Goals for 2021:
- Having sex with 20-30 different girls;
-Getting better at sex;
-Gaining 5-6 kgs of LEAN muscles;
-Improve in every other aspect of my life
Cheers!
"I, GinStone, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."
22 y-old guy from Italy. Doing fairly decent well with girls and getting laid, but I want to take it to the NEXT LEVEL.
Goals for 2021:
- Having sex with 20-30 different girls;
-Getting better at sex;
-Gaining 5-6 kgs of LEAN muscles;
-Improve in every other aspect of my life
Cheers!