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Jpoker02
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Joined: Sun Jun 19, 2022 11:27 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 23
Motto: I am indeed king because I know how to rule myself

Fri Jun 24, 2022 11:19 pm

I, Jpoker02, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 22 (turning 23 in July), university student from Central Europe. Struggled with girls for most of my teenage years, mainly due to low self-confidence. Changed massively in the past two years or so and started taking dating a lot more seriously. Have been on 10+ dates in the past year through Tinder. Four lays in total (1 through Tinder).

My dating goals for the second half of the year:
  • 30 dates & 5 lays by the end of September
    Finish AA program by the end of September
    Cut down to 76kg / 10% BF while keeping (increasing) my current strength levels
    Update my style (have a set budget)
    Get new photos taken by 2.7.
Had to push myself a bit to even post here, but the community seems so great here. Hope to contribute to others eventually as well :)
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dumpling
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Joined: Sat Jun 25, 2022 11:53 am
Goal: Becom better version
Age: 25

Sat Jun 25, 2022 12:18 pm

Hello guys!
I'm dumpling, 25, currently doing a master's degree in IT and I'm in Europe.
I've always been kinda socially awkward and haven't been successful with girls/dating in general. One of my biggest issue, is my lack of having a group of good friends for a long time in my life. My current and long-term goals are(the first 3 are my main priority atm):
  • getting a part-time job besides my study -> get work experience and earn some money
  • build a group of friends and generally broaden my social circle to be less awkward
  • lose weight- I'm 170cm(5’7") and currently about 71 kg. My goal is cut down to about 63 kg with a low BF percentage through running(I actually enjoy cardio ) and bodyweight exercises
  • Become good or at least decent at dating/talking to girls and get some lays later as well
  • Starting some kind of social media presence ( probably YT) to have a side hustle
It's already a bit out of my comfort zone to post here, but the posts I saw before, seemed alright to me and not like some PUA stuff.
Nice to meet you :)
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Ocean
Posts: 9 | Thanks: 7
Joined: Sat Jun 25, 2022 7:51 pm
Goal: Online dating matches
Age: 32
Motto: Let's go for it

Sat Jun 25, 2022 8:01 pm

Hi guys,
I, Ocean commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm a shy guy from Argentina, I was the first half of my 20s only focusing on my studies/work and with almost no social life, so there was a lot I needed to change.
I made some progress in terms of girls but for sure I have to keep going.

My goals:
-I'm working mostly on my physique, trying to gain a bit of weight.
-Improving my online dating results, as I get some matches here and there, but not much and I'm not really attracted to them.
-Better sex life, as I struggled with ED for some time. This issue did get a bit better, but there is still room to improve.
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wilson
Posts: 8 | Thanks: 2
Joined: Sat Jun 25, 2022 8:45 pm
Name: Ali
Goal: Lose fat
Age: 29

Sat Jun 25, 2022 8:57 pm

Hi all,

I, Ali, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I spent a lot of my 20s focused on work/school, and have been successful with it in terms of degrees/finances. I've had two LTRs, and I'm pretty good at talking to girls or anyone once I'm in a one-to-one setting, or in "natural" group situations, but cold approach of any sort has always been something that scares the shit out of me, and so which I've only attempted a handful of times, and never in a sustained manner.

I've lost 25 lbs in the last six months, and I'd like to lose 25-35 more. That's my main focus for now, but after it's done, and maybe before it's done, my next immediate focus will specifically be dating/approaching.
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Antonio44
Posts: 294 | Thanks: 97
Joined: Sun Jun 26, 2022 12:38 am
Goal: Improve dating quality
Age: 30

Sun Jun 26, 2022 1:17 am

Good evening everyone.

I, antonio44, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Recently out of long term relationship, so a bit rusty. Working between europe and South America at present, loving it.


Had decent results when i was single, am now getting good results again but would like to improve. I get good results but i think most of this is only because I'm an interesting/high value guy, i'd like to try to improve skills. Right now all i do is meet women in clubs or online, talk casually with them about stuff i find interesting, tease them a bit, then take them home. It works often enough (closing about 70% of first dates)but I'm sure with a few tweaks i would improve.

Can be a bit lazy sometimes with women/ get bored if they don't want to come home immediately. Also sometimes get aa but not too bad.

Was a bit of a workoholic starting a business about 5 years ago, really starting to see the payoff now but want to keep growing and not get comfortable. And also keep enjoying the journey!

Goals:

Short term:
  • Improve online dating results, optimize profile

    Get more comfortable/successful closing women in clubs

    Figure out how to text women, i often ignore them for days/weeks because i don't enjoy texting/am busy, this often upsets them enough to block me (especially latinas). I don't care if one does, but there is a pattern and it's not efficient.

    Maintain a few cool women to date and have fun with, do adventures i like with them to interesting places.

    Learn spanish to b2 level (about a2 at present but progressing fast).

    Learn to dance (enough to get compliments from latinas)

    Launch 2 more products for business (hardware)

    Spend my time more efficiently in life - Think how to optimize - e.g get cleaner/ avoid doing low value tasks that can be outsourced.

    Spend more quality time with the people most important to me


Long term:
  • Find suitable partner to have children with

    Get more land and forest it

    Scale business further

    Get houses on two continents
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dabaws
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Joined: Sun Jun 26, 2022 11:52 pm
Goal: lose my gut
Age: 22

Mon Jun 27, 2022 12:13 am

By the end of the year I want to cut my gut in half.

I, da baws commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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virtually_simple
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Joined: Mon Jun 27, 2022 7:52 am
Goal: Build a new lifestyle
Age: 29
Motto: Audentes Fortuna Iuuat
Location: Atlanta, GA

Mon Jun 27, 2022 8:30 am

What’s up everyone.

I’m 29, just got out a hellhole depression for all of my 20’s. I missed out on a lot of shit and want to make up for it in my 30’s.

I, Jonah, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

Goals (Tentative)
*start a log*
1. Get a job
2. Get a new body
3. Update wardrobe
4. Get a new vehicle (Motorcycle)
5. Get a new place
6. 25 lays by this time next year.
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oneder
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Joined: Mon Jun 27, 2022 1:25 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 35

Mon Jun 27, 2022 1:54 pm

What's up everyone
I, oneder, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 35 years old living in Miami, FL

Goals:
- Drop to about 12-13% body fat
- Then put on about 20 lbs of muscle
- Take my style to the next level
- Get some 9's and 10's
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Crisis_Overcomer
Posts: 1017 | Thanks: 720
Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:25 pm
Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Mon Jun 27, 2022 4:14 pm

virtually_simple wrote:
Mon Jun 27, 2022 8:30 am
6. Sleep with 25 hoes by this time next year.
Let's call them "girls" or "hotties", you're not on Reddit ;)
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msmoleres
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Joined: Tue Jun 28, 2022 10:55 pm
Goal: Get laid
Age: 23
Motto: Rather die living a life worth living

Tue Jun 28, 2022 11:00 pm

Hello everyone.
I, Matt, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I am 23 years old from the US. Just looking to always improve myself and want constructive criticism where it can be given.
Like to get drinks
Avid outdoorsman
Like to have fun when it’s time to have fun
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7FigureBrian
Posts: 12 | Thanks: 3
Joined: Thu Jun 30, 2022 9:52 pm
Name: Brian
Goal: Strong Ripped Body
Age: 36
Motto: Always Be Fucking Improving
Location: Jacksonville, FL

Fri Jul 01, 2022 5:25 am

Hello gentlemen, first off...

"I, Brian Nussbaum, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

I came here initially because I want to fix my social life and have an amazing, kinky sex life and emotional/social freedom after 15 years of breadcrumbs - BUT - after being very sick for the past 2.5 years, it's more pragmatic to focus on my physical health and my money.

I am taking care of the finances currently with my day trading skills I've developed when laying in bed was all I could do and am about to get funded $100k in capital, so that leaves me with my HEALTH and PHYSIQUE (and still have a ways to go to regain normal health - still shaky)

Circa 2019 I had gotten very lean and was on a fantastic path (not even by choice, I could only afford to eat 1x a day, which ended up being beneficial. My Avatar is what I looked like AT MY BEST, and I want to first get back to that and then BUILD my physique. I have a specific goal : to build a chest so nice that I can confidently put a huge tribal tat that covers the left pec/shoulder/upper arm.

I will be going on keto with a twist. I've been on an all fruit diet to heal my body and so I will do "fruit til 4" and then steak, chicken, or salmon for dinner with a green salad. I am just starting to work out at home with a set of resistance bands and a dumbell.

So these are my MUSTS goals:

1) Get my money absolutely on point. $2,000+ per week via forex trading.

2) Balance deep cellular health and multisystem optimization while starting to BUILD my physique better than ever. To a place I've never gone before. KILLER BODY, a FUCKABLE, TOUCHABLE body. One I stare at in the mirror and say "you sexy fucking stud"

3) Fix my pathetic social life and learn how to become desirable, confident and get lots of cute 18-25 year olds (I'm 36 now). I feel I have a LOT to unpack within my pshyce. I'm NOT a virgin, but I 'm basically a recluse.

4) I haven't had a vehicle in over 10 years when my VW jetta crapped out. I am GOING to go out as soon as my finances and health allow and lease a brand new FULLY LOADED Jeep Sahara. Sexy ass ride. It will be the first of many on my way to earning 7 figures ;)

5) Then women. I'm not goona even type a bunch cause it'll be too long. All I will say is I will have an adorable girl next door kitten type (maybe 19 -25) who will call me "daddy" and adore me as I will her. She will be my main squeeze. And we will explore the shit out of what there is to enjoy. I STILL have hang ups about my parents saying "oh thats too young and blah blah blah" but it's honestly the only way I get turned on. And yes, I want to eventually have 3somes, etc. But for now I just want to feel and smell the warmth of a tight female body again.

I was placed on this planet to FEEL, to EXPERIENCE, to SHARE and BUILD. And I Am going to do that. Cheers, gents!
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mcamo
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Joined: Fri Jul 01, 2022 9:42 am
Name: Matt
Goal: 10k month
Age: 30

Fri Jul 01, 2022 10:07 am

I, mcamo, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hello lads, I'm Matt, 30yo from Aus. Have been on a big self improvement journey for 3 years so far. Focusing hard right now on achieving financial independence, and making my dating life a whole lot easier.

Goals:
- 10k month
- Build 90kg aesthetic body frame
- Build a healthy rotation
- Have first threesome
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MeetNShake
Posts: 31 | Thanks: 17
Joined: Fri Jul 01, 2022 1:46 pm
Name: Nik
Goal: Build my ideal life
Age: 24

Fri Jul 01, 2022 1:51 pm

**I, Nik, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.**

I’m a 24 YO guy in London, studying medicine and working as a tutor. I’ve been making strides in my journey of personal development and improvement and want to take things to the next level.

From my late teens, I struggled a lot with depression and social anxiety. I have made improvements to my productivity, social skills, confidence, looks and style. I feel like I am finally starting to taste the fruits of my labour. However, I want to continue this to live an even better life, both for myself and my loved ones.

Goals:

- Romantic: I have a GF of two years that I love deeply. I want to further strengthen our relationship and improve our lives together. I want to spend many many years with her and continue to enjoy the time we have
- Social: I’ve become a much more socially adept person and have developed a pretty good social life. However, I’d like to work on my overall social confidence, charisma and continue to enjoy many fun, new experiences. I have lots of new friendships forming and I’d like to develop them further, whilst also meeting a like-minded tribe of people invested in self improvement
- Physical: I want to hit 1/2/3/4 on my compound lifts. I want to have a solid six pack. I’d love to take up a new sport (resonating with basketball atm). I also want to complete a nofap challenge of 90 days and conquer my pornography addiction.
- Vocational/Educational: I want to smash through medical school and enjoy as many professional opportunities as I can. I did excellently in my first year and have passed my second year quite well. I’d like to do even better in the next two years (the ones that really count), as well as develop my portfolio to be competitive, whether I decide to stay in medicine or not. I’m also running an online private tutoring website. I’ve made £1.7K last month, smashing through my 1.5K goal. My next step is to hit £2K in a month and eventually make a full time income working part time alongside medical school (and maybe expanding further if I do reach that level)
- Hobbies and other goals
- I want to learn Hindi
- I want to learn programming
- I want to get back into drawing and painting again
- I want to make enough money to be able to move out of my parents for at least a year
- I want to do more travelling in Europe with friends, my girlfriend or maybe solo
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Rez
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Joined: Sat Jul 02, 2022 5:26 am
Name: Reza
Goal: Get laid
Age: 37
Motto: *

Sat Jul 02, 2022 5:57 am

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Tue Jun 02, 2020 10:32 am
1. Reply this this post with your goals, what you want to achieve, as well as this line:

Make sure you include this sentence: "I, [your name], commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously."

2. Add a photo of yourself as an avatar.

If you do not do these 2 steps, your account will be deleted within 3 days.

Why?

This forum is all about commitment and actually getting shit done. No theorising, no sitting around wasting time - we're here to actually get shit done. We take our self-improvement seriously.

As for mandatory avatars - it's hard for anyone to give you self-improvement and getting-laid advice if we don't know what you look like. (Plus all the reasons listed here).

If you don't want to show your face, crop it out/blur it out.

Think of this as you giving a promise that you'll actually work towards achieving your goals; we aren't interested in anyone who wants to half-ass this shit.

When you've done that, go read the Forum Rules.

Oh, and welcome. If you're here, we have no doubt you're gonna kick some serious ass and live an epic life. We'll do everything we can to help you hit your goals.
-Andy
Hi all this is Reza from Sydney. My goal is to improve online dating and my self confidence

I, Reza, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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twonightstander
Posts: 87 | Thanks: 76
Joined: Sat Jul 02, 2022 12:53 pm
Goal: Become "that guy"
Age: 31
Motto: The only easy day was yesterday

Sat Jul 02, 2022 4:40 pm

I, twonightstander, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Sup everyone, I'm Toni, 30M from Spain who just recently decided to quit my almost 6 year old job as an engineer to take a 2-3 year period to focus on fixing and perfecting my sex life.

After underperforming and wasting most of my 20s, I have decided that I have had enough of my excuses and decided to move away from all the distractions and time wasters by moving to a new country so I can go all in on this. It will be basically a make it or break it for me.

All my goals and subgoals that I have in mind will be directly tied to this, and will range from beating AA, maximizing my looks (gym + style), beating my performance anxiety & ED issues, perfecting online dating (both dating apps + social media apps), meeting cool social circles/connections in town, etc.

For the remaining of 2022, I will set the following short-term goals that I will complete by eoy (unless specified otherwise):
  • I will complete the AA program
  • I will approach 2500+ girls
  • I will beat ED
  • I will get 20+ new lays from cold approach/online dating
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Goals completed (2022)
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