Faonin's Tinder profile | Tinder improvement log

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Faonin
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Name: Anton
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Age: 23
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Sat Dec 11, 2021 8:34 pm

Ait bois, it is time for me to step out from the shadows and actually start to take things more serious. I have finally put some pictures on my Tinder profile and some feedback would be greatly appreciated.

Currently the bio states "I'm worth 88 camels, so I'm a steal" ish. Will probably change this soon.
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There are somethings I already would like to change, I haven't used a DSLR, I'm to far away in the third photo, and the lighting is mediocre in picture 2 and 4. The plan is to continually updating this thread when I capture some better photo.

Best regards Faonin
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Faonin
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Name: Anton
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Thu Dec 16, 2021 2:04 am

Quick update. Getting a lot more matches not than ever before. Found an auto camera app that does not just screenshot the preview windows so now I'm getting some better pictures. Just updated the gym picture with one that is higher resolution and added a BDSM picture for some spice.
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Life goals
Get my own place ✅
Finish university

Lifting goals
Lean bulk to 75kg while staying under 15% bodyfat (current 72 ish kg @ 18%)
Reach 1/2/3/4 for reps | Be able to do a front lever
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pancakemouse
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Thu Dec 16, 2021 2:02 pm

Faonin wrote:
Thu Dec 16, 2021 2:04 am
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I think this photo is actually worse than the other one, because there's less context. At first glance, it doesn't look like you're in the gym at all - it looks like you're wearing some sort of dress.
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Faonin
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Thu Dec 16, 2021 11:07 pm

pancakemouse wrote:
Thu Dec 16, 2021 2:02 pm
I think this photo is actually worse than the other one, because there's less context. At first glance, it doesn't look like you're in the gym at all - it looks like you're wearing some sort of dress.
So 1000 pictures in higher resolution and I still failed failed to produce a better picture, that is almost impressive. Thanks for the input will probably change it back.
Dating life goals
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Life goals
Get my own place ✅
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Lean bulk to 75kg while staying under 15% bodyfat (current 72 ish kg @ 18%)
Reach 1/2/3/4 for reps | Be able to do a front lever
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Faonin
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Name: Anton
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Tue Dec 28, 2021 2:02 pm

Replaced the couch picture with a new.
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Did also have my first Tinder date. Matched with this thicc tattooed girl, used Andy's template got her snap and setup the date. Reminder was set to the day before the planned date so sent the confirmation text the day before and we ended up rescheduling the date... Meet up in town, hugged drank coffee chatted about life, plans, family, tattoos, and sex. She was telling me stories about converting girls to bi by having a threesome in the forest and I'm just sitting here like the virgin that I'm.

It was quite awkward and we sat in silent about 15% of the entire hour, after going on a walk and taking her to the buss we hugged, I did pussy out on kissing her, and said goodbye. She did remove me on snap so there wont a second date. A little bummed out but somewhat expected of a beginner.

Time to keep on trucking.
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Get my own place ✅
Finish university

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Lean bulk to 75kg while staying under 15% bodyfat (current 72 ish kg @ 18%)
Reach 1/2/3/4 for reps | Be able to do a front lever
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pancakemouse
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Tue Dec 28, 2021 4:26 pm

I like that photo. Still gives a little bit the vibe of "this guy took it himself with a tripod", but the pose is nice and you look good.

Why was 15% of the date in silence? Was it because you weren't able to drive the conversation forward?

Why didn't you try to pull?

What do you think you could do better, concretely, for next time?
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Faonin
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Tue Dec 28, 2021 6:02 pm

pancakemouse wrote:
Tue Dec 28, 2021 4:26 pm
I like that photo. Still gives a little bit the vibe of "this guy took it himself with a tripod", but the pose is nice and you look good.
It probably gives of that vibe because it is true, but good to know it is an improvement.
pancakemouse wrote:
Tue Dec 28, 2021 4:26 pm
Why was 15% of the date in silence? Was it because you weren't able to drive the conversation forward?
Honestly, mostly social anxiety. There were multiple times I had something in mind to continue on the current topic but stopped myself to just utter the words.
pancakemouse wrote:
Tue Dec 28, 2021 4:26 pm
Why didn't you try to pull?
Probably also related to the last point. I do also feel like I used the excuse that I don't have my own place to avoid pulling the trigger. Thinking back just probing to see if her place was available could have resulted in a different outcome, even if it wasn't sex it would have bumped up the chances for a second date.
pancakemouse wrote:
Tue Dec 28, 2021 4:26 pm
What do you think you could do better, concretely, for next time?
Have a better plan for example have a place ready and a few conversation topics in mind. Social anxiety it a little bit more of a hurdle to fix for the next time, mere exposure will surely have an effect, considering using a bit of alcohol as a crutch but will have to sleep on that.
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Get laid ✅
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Life goals
Get my own place ✅
Finish university

Lifting goals
Lean bulk to 75kg while staying under 15% bodyfat (current 72 ish kg @ 18%)
Reach 1/2/3/4 for reps | Be able to do a front lever
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Faonin
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Wed Feb 16, 2022 8:37 pm

Hello fellow humans, I'm still alive despite my silence. Life has been busy with school and work but has finally slowed down again so I can focus on getting a good tinder up and running alongside getting laid.

My tinder has been racking in a few matches here and there and I have tried to schedule a few dates but they all have cancelled on me last minute. When my date for today did not fall though I went out and took a few new photos that hopefully have some more edge to them. Please be brutally honest, save your pity for the weak.


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Dating life goals
Get laid ✅
Start a multiple FWB relationship

Life goals
Get my own place ✅
Finish university

Lifting goals
Lean bulk to 75kg while staying under 15% bodyfat (current 72 ish kg @ 18%)
Reach 1/2/3/4 for reps | Be able to do a front lever
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iwillbebetter
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Wed Feb 16, 2022 8:43 pm

I would improve my looks first tbh

my tips:

-you look very skinny, need to build muscles and fill your frame
-get rid of your glasses
-get a good haircut
-not sure about this one but try sunbathing a bit to get a tan
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-Face: Average or little above average (5,5/10)
-Body: 190cm, skinny build
-Dick: 6.3 x 4.5
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pancakemouse
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Thu Feb 17, 2022 12:46 am

Faonin wrote:
Wed Feb 16, 2022 8:37 pm
Hello fellow humans, I'm still alive despite my silence. Life has been busy with school and work but has finally slowed down again so I can focus on getting a good tinder up and running alongside getting laid.

My tinder has been racking in a few matches here and there and I have tried to schedule a few dates but they all have cancelled on me last minute. When my date for today did not fall though I went out and took a few new photos that hopefully have some more edge to them. Please be brutally honest, save your pity for the weak.


https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/ ... sp=sharing
True dominant subcommunication is difficult to fake. These photos are a good example. What's happening is you're trying to emulate a model's grimace, but instead are coming off as glum.

Your facial expression continues to look best in the gym photo.

I would lose the Amsterdam photo entirely, the exposure is off.

I like the outfit in the snow photo, but you're way too close to the camera and the pose is odd.

The context of all of these photos is strange. Girls will be able to tell you're just taking them of yourself in some rural area outside your house... which I'm guessing is what you're doing.
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Faonin
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Thu Feb 17, 2022 6:45 am

iwillbebetter wrote:
Wed Feb 16, 2022 8:43 pm
I would improve my looks first tbh

my tips:

-you look very skinny, need to build muscles and fill your frame
-get rid of your glasses
-get a good haircut
-not sure about this one but try sunbathing a bit to get a tan
It is in the works, but don't feel like using my looks as an excuse not to try to get laid. Hitting the gym regularly and have some ok numbers (200lbs bench, 260 squat, and 330 dead), I was on the edge of being overweight a few months ago but this mornings weight in I landed at 12.5% bf so it is just about time to start lean bulking and start refilling my frame. As for glasses I have a savings account for laser surgery to get it fixed permanently and I have been discussing haircuts with my barber but my hair is a mess so my options a very limited, considering shaving it. As for a tan I'm not so sure, live in Sweden and have barely seen the sun for a few months so I feel like it might be a bit out of place but will have to think on it. Thanks for sharing good advice.
Dating life goals
Get laid ✅
Start a multiple FWB relationship

Life goals
Get my own place ✅
Finish university

Lifting goals
Lean bulk to 75kg while staying under 15% bodyfat (current 72 ish kg @ 18%)
Reach 1/2/3/4 for reps | Be able to do a front lever
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Faonin
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Joined: Mon Dec 06, 2021 2:10 am
Name: Anton
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Thu Feb 17, 2022 7:35 am

pancakemouse wrote:
Thu Feb 17, 2022 12:46 am
True dominant subcommunication is difficult to fake. These photos are a good example. What's happening is you're trying to emulate a model's grimace, but instead are coming off as glum.

Your facial expression continues to look best in the gym photo.
I find this very interesting because I feel the opposite way, I found the gym picture the worst. I suspect I did a lost worse of a job filtering the 900 pictures I took as a result, probably selecting for a more glum look. I brought all the photos I could back from the trash, if my theory is correct I'm guessing you might find one of these photos better perhaps? I suspect most are unusable as expected when you take this many pictures.

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pancakemouse wrote:
Thu Feb 17, 2022 12:46 am
I would lose the Amsterdam photo entirely, the exposure is off.
It is removed.
pancakemouse wrote:
Thu Feb 17, 2022 12:46 am
I like the outfit in the snow photo, but you're way too close to the camera and the pose is odd.
It is a good outfit, will be taking it for a new photo shoot when I find a better location.
pancakemouse wrote:
Thu Feb 17, 2022 12:46 am
The context of all of these photos is strange. Girls will be able to tell you're just taking them of yourself in some rural area outside your house... which I'm guessing is what you're doing.
True for 2 of them, went on a drive for a few hours trying to find a better photo shooting location yesterday but just found some castle ruins for picture 2. I will take the next photoshoot to a more urbanised area, are there any other good areas to shoot in? Also I guessing blurring the background might help a bit?
Dating life goals
Get laid ✅
Start a multiple FWB relationship

Life goals
Get my own place ✅
Finish university

Lifting goals
Lean bulk to 75kg while staying under 15% bodyfat (current 72 ish kg @ 18%)
Reach 1/2/3/4 for reps | Be able to do a front lever
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Aspire2Greatness
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Sat Feb 19, 2022 9:43 am

Agree with pancakemouse and iwillbebetter.

My 2 cents:

- Get a decent haircut and style it a bit, right now it looks like you simply rolled out of bed before going out.
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Faonin
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Sat Feb 19, 2022 3:13 pm

Hard2Focus wrote:
Sat Feb 19, 2022 9:43 am
Agree with pancakemouse and iwillbebetter.

My 2 cents:

- Get a decent haircut and style it a bit, right now it looks like you simply rolled out of bed before going out.
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Get laid ✅
Start a multiple FWB relationship

Life goals
Get my own place ✅
Finish university

Lifting goals
Lean bulk to 75kg while staying under 15% bodyfat (current 72 ish kg @ 18%)
Reach 1/2/3/4 for reps | Be able to do a front lever
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Aspire2Greatness
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Sat Feb 19, 2022 4:48 pm

Love that you're taking action right away!
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Aka: I quit my dream job of 10 years and moved to the big city

Main goal: sleep with 10 women within the end of the year 7/10.


Previous main goal: Move to a bigger city
Jobs applied for in total: 5
09/20/22: Job landed
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