Help Nerdy Brown Guy Get More Dates - Rate My Pictures

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wave
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Sat Sep 17, 2022 10:18 pm

Hey everyone.

I've been working on my profile for OLD and wanted to get some feedback so I could take it to the next level. I liked the way @RussianSlimGuy structured his feedback post so going to steal that format.

Current Tinder (9/17/22):
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Pictures in Order:
1.
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2.
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3.
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4.
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5.
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6.
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Candidates I Skipped:
B1.
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B2.
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B3.
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B4.
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Appreciate any thoughts you guys have, thanks!
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pancakemouse
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Sun Sep 18, 2022 12:46 am

My god, you're a Chadpreet.

1. Make sure to crop your first photo so that the date isn't visible. Looks like you may have done this.

2. Men holding cats are not viewed as attractive.

3. Replace with B4.

4. Remove. Bad facial expression.

5. Meh. A bit gay.

6. Doesn't add much.

Replace 5 or 6 with B2 and/or B3.
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Sun Sep 18, 2022 2:28 am

pancakemouse wrote:
Sun Sep 18, 2022 12:46 am
My god, you're a Chadpreet.

1. Make sure to crop your first photo so that the date isn't visible. Looks like you may have done this.

2. Men holding cats are not viewed as attractive.

3. Replace with B4.

4. Remove. Bad facial expression.

5. Meh. A bit gay.

6. Doesn't add much.

Replace 5 or 6 with B2 and/or B3.

Really helpful - thanks for the review. I’ll test it out, here’s the difference in profiles:
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I kept the camera photo since it shows a hobby but can replace once I get something better.
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Sun Sep 18, 2022 8:46 am

Gotta say yes, a truckload of potential here

i would roll with these 5 ( although I would also add the one where you party with your friends instead of just girls and re shoot a "male" hobby one like lifting or kayaking but with a better facial expression or someone take a shot of you while looking focused and challanged
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Mon Sep 19, 2022 10:03 pm

I would remove B3 with the one of you with your friends in swimsuit. Women often don't like photos of men with only one lady, they won't assume the potential competition (eager to have your minds on it mates). The swimsuit photo show one of your hobbies or at least that you try different things and have an active life, so it adds some point.

You have a lot of potential overall, I bet you'll have some nice results !
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Tue Sep 20, 2022 12:50 am

I think B2 is a pretty dope picture personally
Jealous of the jawline
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Mon Sep 26, 2022 12:43 am

Took @AskTheDom’s advice - replaced camera photo with gym pic below:
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Mon Nov 07, 2022 5:28 pm

Thinking about replacing the last gym pic with one of these two photos. What do y’all think - should I replace the photo? Which option is better?

Option 1:
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Option 2:
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Mon Nov 07, 2022 9:00 pm

wave wrote:
Mon Nov 07, 2022 5:28 pm
Thinking about replacing the last gym pic with one of these two photos. What do y’all think - should I replace the photo? Which option is better?

Option 1:
A70D105F-DEA8-4FCF-BAFA-0B107C835465.jpeg

Option 2:
D358C173-10B3-4DA3-BB77-39A33FEAB60D.jpeg
Great idea but I wouldn’t use these.

1) I think you look a lot better on your other pics

2) Dog pics inside don’t perform nearly as good as dog pics outside
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Mon Nov 07, 2022 11:10 pm

Yeah I wouldn’t use those dog pics.
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Tue Nov 08, 2022 2:46 am

@kratjeuh @Paid Renegade thank you both for the feedback, will keep the profile as is. Also didn’t know that about dog pics taken inside,
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Tue Nov 08, 2022 2:47 am

I honestly think you look better without a beard - the beard is hiding your jaw.
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Tue Nov 08, 2022 4:15 am

pancakemouse wrote:
Tue Nov 08, 2022 2:47 am
I honestly think you look better without a beard - the beard is hiding your jaw.
Damn that’s tough to hear, I kinda like having the beard. Reception has been good from girls who’ve seen me without it, but people do often say I have a good jawline so I can see why the clean shaven look could be better. I feel I look really young with no beard, so having it gives me a little confidence boost.
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Tue Nov 08, 2022 5:20 am

wave wrote:
Tue Nov 08, 2022 4:15 am
pancakemouse wrote:
Tue Nov 08, 2022 2:47 am
I honestly think you look better without a beard - the beard is hiding your jaw.
Damn that’s tough to hear, I kinda like having the beard. Reception has been good from girls who’ve seen me without it, but people do often say I have a good jawline so I can see why the clean shaven look could be better. I feel I look really young with no beard, so having it gives me a little confidence boost.
Yeah, this could be male gaze vs. female gaze. I told a brown friend the same thing recently, and he said he agreed but simply found that women just loved the beard because it conveyed masculinity, even though it looked "worse".
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Fri Nov 25, 2022 5:40 pm

I don't have much to add to the feedback others gave but I wanted to come in and say you're a great example for others here to look up to. Obviously photography is a hobby of yours so you've put work into your profile. Over time you can get good photos... good inspiration for people who aren't getting good photos yet.

Heck I fucking sucked at first, but got much much better over time. @Ed_ said this to me (I've taken photos for him for 2 years so far) and @KillYourInnerLoser said this on a podcast a while ago.

Just keep it up and you'll get results.
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