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1prctbetterdaily
Posts: 6 | Thanks: 11
Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2023 9:50 pm
Name: Bradley
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 21
Location: Orlando, Florida, USA

Sat Jan 07, 2023 3:17 am

I am 21, 6'1, 187 lbs, live in Orlando, FL, and pay for Tinder Platinum. I currently average 1-3 matches a day, but there are many days that I get none. I am skinny fat and store a lot of fat in the stomach, but I try to conceal that w/ my pictures. My goal is to lose 15-20 more lbs and be more consistent in the gym in order to improve my looks, but is there anything I can do w/ my profile now to optimize my success? I used to be 286 lbs and have already lost a lot of weight, and I am surprised that I am still a virgin despite the success.
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kratjeuh
Posts: 743 | Thanks: 349
Joined: Sun Aug 21, 2022 8:18 pm
Goal: ...lskd
Age: 94

Sat Jan 07, 2023 7:55 pm

This profile is not strong enough in the current online dating market.

I suggest you follow your goal of losing your skinny fat, building some muscle and then try again with better style and a better lifestyle shown in pics.
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klondike
Posts: 298 | Thanks: 118
Joined: Mon Aug 22, 2022 12:58 am
Goal: Drop to 205lbs
Age: 35

Sat Jan 07, 2023 11:20 pm

You’re definitely attractive enough, but you need to figure out how to take pics properly because you’re coming off a little stiff. Just get a cam and take a million pics of yourself, then you’ll improve over time

First photo can be great, just crop it so only your upper body and face are showing
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pancakemouse
Posts: 1825 | Thanks: 1090
Joined: Sun Nov 14, 2021 4:14 pm
Goal: Master cold approach
Age: 33

Sun Jan 08, 2023 2:02 am

Style upgrade: leather jacket needs to be replaced with a contemporary version, you need new (clean) shoes, like Air Force 1s. Jeans need to be slimmer fitting.
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Adrizzle
Posts: 513 | Thanks: 182
Joined: Wed Nov 24, 2021 2:41 am
Goal: Take Action
Age: 32

Sun Jan 08, 2023 4:21 am

This is going to be rough, nearly every single one of your outfits has a bad colour combination.

1 and 2 are decent photos still. I don’t understand why you would use 4. Can you explain why you chose that photo?

Radicals style guide. TLDR no more than 3 colours in one outfit. No more light pants with dark jackets
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1prctbetterdaily
Posts: 6 | Thanks: 11
Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2023 9:50 pm
Name: Bradley
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 21
Location: Orlando, Florida, USA

Mon Jan 09, 2023 10:33 pm

kratjeuh wrote:
Sat Jan 07, 2023 7:55 pm
This profile is not strong enough in the current online dating market.

I suggest you follow your goal of losing your skinny fat, building some muscle and then try again with better style and a better lifestyle shown in pics.
My goal weight is 170, but I worry that I'll be too skinny if I lose any more weight beyond that. I'm tall and don't want to be walking around at 165 lbs if possible. My lifts aren't going up, but either staying the same or going down, but I'm focusing on lifting to maintain as much muscle as I can. I don't know what my BF % is now, so I can't determine what it will be when I reach 170. What would be my BF be?
"My happiness is not the means to any end. It is the end. It is its own goal. It is its own purpose."-Ayn Rand, Anthem
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Mr Privacy
Posts: 20 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Tue Oct 11, 2022 10:06 pm
Goal: Be Happy
Age: 20
Motto: Never be Average
Location: Chicago

Tue Jan 10, 2023 12:13 am

1prctbetterdaily wrote:
Mon Jan 09, 2023 10:33 pm
kratjeuh wrote:
Sat Jan 07, 2023 7:55 pm
This profile is not strong enough in the current online dating market.

I suggest you follow your goal of losing your skinny fat, building some muscle and then try again with better style and a better lifestyle shown in pics.
My goal weight is 170, but I worry that I'll be too skinny if I lose any more weight beyond that. I'm tall and don't want to be walking around at 165 lbs if possible. My lifts aren't going up, but either staying the same or going down, but I'm focusing on lifting to maintain as much muscle as I can. I don't know what my BF % is now, so I can't determine what it will be when I reach 170. What would be my BF be?
If you consistently lift weights and track macros (eat a lot of protein), you will not lose much muscle. Maybe try doing a body recomposition, or you can do a cut and then a lean bulk. Are you tracking your workout reps and sets with a journal or app?
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